What Do WOMEN want for Valentines Day?!?!?!?!

That so sounds like a repeat I saw of Rules of Engagment...lol

Just to clarify.....

I don't need an excuse (valentine's day) to show her I love her.

I do it everyday.

If I haven't shown her how much I love her the other 364 days of the year, one day that florists made up won't help.

I feel sorry for your wife.

I don't. I think he means that we should treat our sweeties well throughout the year, not just on the one day.

I read it as he doesn't show her how much he cares ever so he's not gonna do it then either.

You read it wrong.

I also agree with 1concretegirl... I think smtillman2 read this wrong...

I'm pretty easy all I want is to go to dinner, maybe a movie and some sex.

I just want to spend time with my man. Maybe cook some dinner. Enjoy the sun (or the rain or whatever) sip some wine or hot chocolate, and be stupid together.

the most romantic thing I can think of, and its great for mothers day too, my husband comes into the room, and tells me that I can sleep in while he takes our baby to the park

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he bought me a Zelda book. love Zelda, so its cool. im making him a cake in shape of a xbox

I bought mine flowers and chocolates. And she's going to love them. If not, sucks.

Rachel! I'm allergic to flowers!!! :sad:

Eat the chocolates and cry.

Get her some flowers and maybe take her on a date somewhere. Can't go wrong with dinner and a movie

one year, my bf drew on the walls of the bedroom... a window with eiffel tower outside. He played french music, candle lit the room, got me flowers and chocolates..... told me he knew I wanted to go to paris but he couldnt' afford it so he brought paris to me.

My high school sweetheart once filled my entire bedroom with cut out paper hearts. There had to be thousands of them, even hanging from the ceiling, and the large ones all had little notes inside.

I found out later that he had enlisted his/our friends to help him and was subsequently teased about it for months. Poor kid.

Sweetest thing ever, though.

Two best answers on this thread. But you really have to know your girl. Some girls like to get stuff, others like a big gesture, and some women don't like Valentine's Day. For me, I would either want something special like the examples above, or just some flowers. I can do without a bunch of junk like jewelry and chocolate - they just make it seem like you're getting them because you have to get something (unless she's had her eye on some jewelry in particular, which falls under the "know your girl" rule).

I would guess she'd want the same thing she'd desire on any normal day.

The D?

no just me?

*got back in my box*

Just real quality time. Whatever you enjoy doing together, do it. Make a plan, make it special, make it heartfelt, but there's no reason to spend a lot of money (unless spending a lot of money on her IS your dynamic, haha). Personally, I'd stay a million miles away from the classics (roses, chocolates, teddy bears, etc) as they feel disingenuous, but you know your wife .

Offhand, my ideal involves a babysitter, a picnic basket, and camping.

Just stay in separate beds for the night

Foot massage and back rub! Draw a bubble bath for her and have lit candles by the tub. Some peace and quiet. nice glass of wine with good quality chocolate. Keep it simple. Don't buy into all the advertisements!

Better question: what do GUYS want for Valentine's Day? The Manflesh asked me the other day what I wanted, and I was so flummoxed, I couldn't think of anything at all. But now I wanna do something for him thats' special.

And guys, I already celebrate the Steak holiday next month, so that's not an answer :P (If you don't know, look it up! Just maybe not while you're at work)

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