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What is a MILF? Should I be offended or what?

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  • Posts: 836 Member
    It's only disrespectful if you believe that women aren't supposed to think about sex or like sex.

    I can't imagine that anyone in their right mind would rather be born a female in the US 100 years ago instead of being born a female in the US today.

    Only a person with a relatively low, to moderate intelligence level would come to that conclusion.
  • Posts: 1,650 Member
    If you called me a MILF, Would you be offended it I called you a mother f@cker ?
  • Posts: 1,098 Member
    He lied
  • Posts: 793 Member
    If you called me a MILF, Would you be offended it I called you a mother f@cker ?

    Excellent reply !!!!
  • Posts: 1,914 Member
    There may come a day when a woman was wishing someone still called her a MILF. I say, enjoy it while it lasts, ladies! :drinker:
  • Posts: 1,650 Member

    Excellent reply !!!!

    Well... It's a compliment right...... It's NOT.
  • Posts: 3,779 Member
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  • Posts: 3,046 Member
    I love them MILFS!!!! Beautiful women that are wonderful mothers...whats not to love. :bigsmile:

    MILF Fitness Pals!....get it MFP!:devil:
  • Posts: 17,857 Member

    Only a person with a relatively low, to moderate intelligence level would come to that conclusion.
    How stupid does someone have to be to not see the double standard implied by, "it's not ok to tell a woman she's sexy (but it's ok to tell a man he's sexy.)"
  • Posts: 1,258 Member
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  • Posts: 3,046 Member
    I love them MILFS!!!! Beautiful women that are wonderful mothers...whats not to love. :bigsmile:

    MILF Fitness Pals!....get it MFP!:devil:


    MILFS! MILFS MILFS MILFS MILFS!!!!!!!!!!!
  • Posts: 3,749 Member
    It means you're old.


    Ms. M.F.P 2013
    M.F.P. Hottest Person/M.F.P. Most awesome person
    Certified Relationship advice giver
    Never loses anything, ever

    So someone who's say 24, has a kid, and is called a MILF is old? Or are you just saying that those people in their 30's are?

    A MILF is a hot woman who has a child. A GILF is a hot woman who's a grandma
  • Posts: 793 Member

    Well... It's a compliment right...... It's NOT.

    Based on my prior posts I thought I was agreeing with you and your reply was brilliant
  • Posts: 3,046 Member

    So someone who's say 24, has a kid, and is called a MILF is old? Or are you just saying that those people in their 30's are?

    A MILF is a hot woman who has a child. A GILF is a hot woman who's a grandma


    YES INDEED!!!! A MILF ifs a hot woman who has a child!!!
  • Posts: 484 Member
    im 26 and have a 16 month old.... I don't think I'm too old there!
  • Posts: 5,156 Member

    I like it, too!

    Me three ;)
  • Posts: 1,297 Member
    im 26 and have a 16 month old.... I don't think I'm too old there!

    oh hello there
  • Posts: 793 Member

    Me three ;)
  • Posts: 1,914 Member
    Why this is an outrage!

    oh wait, nevermind...
  • Posts: 793 Member

    Me three ;)

    I guess we all read into things as for me. M for Mother - infers a married women. So those who believe it's a compliment or being called sexy, think it's ok for someone to intentially come on to a married woman ? I think you are being decieved by the intentions of the guy saying this to you . He is not saying you are sexy. He has no respect that you are married, and if you go along with it, what are you saying about your own marriage ?
  • Posts: 836 Member
    How stupid does someone have to be to not see the double standard implied by, "it's not ok to tell a woman she's sexy (but it's ok to tell a man he's sexy.)"

    What the hell are you talking about?

    You're working real hard to draw these links, you might be better served to use that energy for something productive.

    I'm betting your the kind of guy that would find evidence of sexism and oppression while reading the Cat In The Hat.

    BTW, thank you for reinforcing my previous point.
  • Posts: 17,857 Member

    What the hell are you talking about?

    You're working real hard to draw these links, you might be better served to use that energy for something productive.

    I'm betting your the kind of guy that would find evidence of sexism and oppression while reading the Cat In The Hat.

    BTW, thank you for reinforcing my previous point.
    You're the one finding disrespect in being called sexy. What the hell are you talking about?
  • Posts: 545 Member

    I guess we all read into things as for me. M for Mother - infers a married women. So those who believe it's a compliment or being called sexy, think it's ok for someone to intentially come on to a married woman ? I think you are being decieved by the intentions of the guy saying this to you . He is not saying you are sexy. He has no respect that you are married, and if you go along with it, what are you saying about your own marriage ?

    Good lord please tell me you are joking with what you just said. First off, not all mothers are married. And what you're saying is if a man says to a woman that she's a MILF and he thinks she's hot...and she takes it as a compliment..that her marriage is bad? I would say that if that woman took the compliment and then SLEPT with that guy..then THAT would say a lot of her marriage. But it's just a different way of saying someone is hot..that's all it is.
  • Posts: 3,779 Member
    You're the one finding disrespect in being called sexy. What the hell are you talking about?

    i'm just going to chime in, because no one is saying it is disrespectful to tell someone else they are sexy, regardless of gender.

    if you find a woman sexy, walk up to her and hump her leg - should she be okay with that because hey, that's just they way he lets her know he thinks she's sexy? the correct answer is "no."

    The point is not the message. It's the way the message is communicated that he finds disrespectful. You can tell someone you find them attractive by sending roses, or by walking up them and make grunting noises.
  • Posts: 1,914 Member
    Are those the only two options?
  • Posts: 793 Member

    Good lord please tell me you are joking with what you just said. First off, not all mothers are married. And what you're saying is if a man says to a woman that she's a MILF and he thinks she's hot...and she takes it as a compliment..that her marriage is bad? I would say that if that woman took the compliment and then SLEPT with that guy..then THAT would say a lot of her marriage. But it's just a different way of saying someone is hot..that's all it is.
  • Posts: 22,834 Member
    It is not a compliment, though some women respond to it. Basically it is a way for a guy say he wants to F**** you with no other interest. If that is your thing, cool.
  • Posts: 545 Member
    It's all contextual. Maybe we should aske the hubbies here if they would appreciate it if a guy came up to his wife and said he wants to *kitten* her. What if he came up to her and said what a lovely MILF you are and handed her a 20. What would hubby do. Yes not all moms are married, and its the context of the situation.

    I can't speak for other husbands, but I know my husband doesn't feel threatened by other people's opinions of his wife. I work my *kitten* off so my husband can be proud to show me off..if that makes me a terrible and shallow person, then so be it. And I don't know anyone that would walk up to someone and call them that. That doesn't happen here...where do you live ?! And if someone told me I was a milf and handed me 20 bucks..I'd go shopping
  • Posts: 793 Member

    I can't speak for other husbands, but I know my husband doesn't feel threatened by other people's opinions of his wife. I work my *kitten* off so my husband can be proud to show me off..if that makes me a terrible and shallow person, then so be it. And I don't know anyone that would walk up to someone and call them that. That doesn't happen here...where do you live ?! And if someone told me I was a milf and handed me 20 bucks..I'd go shopping

    I live at the North Pole given today's weather, which indicates why I'm spending too much time here. My point is that it's contextual and alot of times its a guys way to get sex by hoping you think its a compliment. If you believe it's a compliment so be it and have a nice day
  • Posts: 7,045 Member
    It is not a compliment, though some women respond to it. Basically it is a way for a guy say he wants to F**** you with no other interest. If that is your thing, cool.

    Thank you
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