Being noticed (attractiveness)

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  • Rachaelluvszipped
    Rachaelluvszipped Posts: 768 Member
    I was shy most of my younger, uncoordinated days..so if I did get noticed, I would get shy away from it...

    Now I welcome the attention, makes me feel all tingly inside...I'm no longer shy, love most attention brought my way..bring it!

    I think it also depends on how everyone perceives each other..self worth..with any changes to physical appearance, can bring out the person that was hiding within..to make the person even more attractive to the outside world
  • staceypunk
    staceypunk Posts: 924 Member
    I do get noticed a lot, and always have, but I also have an eyebrow ring and usually have crazy hair so that is expected because I do stand out. I get a kick out of both men and women doing that whole eye scan down the body then back up to your face thing. Sometimes, usually guys, their heads follow too so it's obvious but they don't even realize they are doing it. Something about my curves is just easy on the eyes.
  • migueltavares
    migueltavares Posts: 122
    Very often.
  • iclaudia_g
    iclaudia_g Posts: 148 Member
    I get stared at a lot because I live in Georgia and people can't figure out my race. But recently I was told by a female colleague that I am a sexy woman - she prefaced it with "this may seem weird"
  • thehka
    thehka Posts: 74 Member
    I was walking to class 2 days ago wearing a dress and some wedges because its finally warm without the cold breeze and while passing a guy he called me beautiful lady lol the last time a stranger showed any interest up front with no intention to pursue was about 3 years ago LOL I don't count my boyfriend of a year and a half cause he says he should need to say it because I should know he thinks I'm beautiful. Yeah....but it would still nice to hear it from the guy I'm head over heels for -____-
  • srey0701
    srey0701 Posts: 196 Member
    If they are noticing me, then I must be pretty oblivious because I haven't noticed :P

    Me, too, Cat. And you are gorgeous so that can't be true.

    Sometimes I notice people looking, but usually it's because I'm doing something stupid like falling down or something is in my teeth.

    Yes, this is the only way I get noticed.. lol
  • 37434958
    37434958 Posts: 457 Member
    Well I get some comments like, " You look great, " or " You have a rockin' body. " While I don't....But I thank them anyhow, lol.
  • MrsB123111
    MrsB123111 Posts: 535 Member
    I was actually noticed more when I was slightly heavier (I was also in college and single). At this weight, I don't get noticed AT ALL. Maybe it's because I have a big, beefy husband that scares all the men away!?
  • canadianvampyregurl
    canadianvampyregurl Posts: 231 Member
    I get noticed sometimes...but i dont really recognize it all that much..my bff says men look at me all the time but i dont see as much as she does apparently.

    I do find that no matter where i go, men NEVER talk to me. Nobody ever approaches me and it gets unsettling sometimes cuz i think, what is wrong with me?
  • 5n0wbal1
    5n0wbal1 Posts: 429 Member
    No, I don't think I am noticed. My husband tries to tell me that some of the men at the gym look at me, but if they have, I've never noticed it.

    This. ^^ My husband says men stare at me, but I've never really noticed at all. I guess because I'm happily married, I don't really pay attention to anyone else looking at me, because I'm not interested. Maybe I should start paying more attention....
  • LitaRose77
    LitaRose77 Posts: 124 Member
    My sister & niece tell me all the time, that guy was totally checking you out! I just laugh at them & say, "Yeah, sure they were". It wasn't until a guy friend brought it to my attention that I was like really? IDK, I've only noticed it once when I was in a deli getting sandwiches for my huband & I that the guy waiting on me went, "hey, nice jacket, you look great!"
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    MFP is very visually oriented for men and women both. If you aren't eye candy around here you seem to get shunned by those that are ...........whether they admit it or not lol

    This is oh so very true.
  • Bolton84
    Bolton84 Posts: 76 Member
    bumping
  • zyxst
    zyxst Posts: 9,149 Member
    I'm noticed for being fat and ugly, never for being attractive (even by fetishists).
  • cuterbee
    cuterbee Posts: 545
    People notice me because I have one of those faces no one ever seems to forget (plus...I smile a lot; I don't even notice that I'm doing it most of the time). Apparently I have a very expressive face. In a way this is bad because I'm terrible at names and NO ONE EVER FORGETS MINE.

    However, I've found that if I really tone those facial expressions down and smile faintly (instead of broadly), I can be "invisible"*. Since I'm somewhat shy, this is pretty darn cool...partly I think it's due to my age and my extra weight. I hope it continues when I'm thin.



    *No, not like magic, more like people just don't notice that I'm there.
  • Iron_Duchess
    Iron_Duchess Posts: 429 Member
    I never get noticed
  • SoDamnHungry
    SoDamnHungry Posts: 6,998 Member
    This is fascinating, and terrifying. I'm So happy i was born in the UK!

    We're not all gun toting nut jobs like the foreign media often portrays us. While there will always be people who want to carry a gun slung over their back, and always arguments about their desire to do so, many of us are normal, unarmed people. I had someone on another message board say he was afraid to visit the US. We're people with families and hobbies, and aren't all at the shooting range and hanging out in gun stores.
  • marathon64
    marathon64 Posts: 378 Member
    OK this is depressing but I have a theory that as women approach 50 they are no longer looked at as sexual beings and they become sort of invisible that way. It kinds of sucks.
  • zoober
    zoober Posts: 226 Member
    People notice me gradually. Whatever attractiveness I have seems to play out over time. Certain demographics, however, seem to be prone to developing a "fascination" with me, notably married women and basket cases. Ah well.
  • Wendysworld13
    Wendysworld13 Posts: 225 Member
    How about when we were walking down the mall yesterday - 3 women - and a guy handing out samples is going - psssst, pssst, and I finally asked him what, he says I want to give this to the pretty lady - one of the women I was with. The idiot was lucky I didn't hit him. What a freaking JERK!
  • kschoono
    kschoono Posts: 344 Member
    I am-- I have an awesome rack. Always have.

    Lol! This is also true for me... My boobies have opened more doors for me than I care to admit. I don't get noticed, my boobs do. When I was a teen it was kind of awkward, but once I accepted myself and my body I was 100% happier and more confident...

    PopCorn_Said , I was blessed w/ nice cleavage, but when I show it off or wear sexy shirts I get strange attention, so I try to keep covered because I want others to like me for my smile, hair or my personality.
  • DirtyTrickster
    DirtyTrickster Posts: 202 Member
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  • _Wonder_Woman_
    _Wonder_Woman_ Posts: 218
    As long as I'm attractive to my hubs that's all that matters. And If I'm not, TOOO DAMN BAD!!!! LOL
  • araromi2
    araromi2 Posts: 111 Member
    Whenever I am the only cocoa puff in a bowl of kix ;I am often noticed :) I don't know if it's because people find me to be attractive or because I do not look like everyone else. People tend to notice me (male and female) and I think it's because I am pretty warm and welcoming...sometimes people are attracted to the energy of another person.I am a sapiosexual so I notice intelligent people.
  • rodneyderrick
    rodneyderrick Posts: 483 Member
    Nobody every notices me like that.
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    MFP is very visually oriented for men and women both. If you aren't eye candy around here you seem to get shunned by those that are ...........whether they admit it or not lol

    This is oh so very true.

    I find this sad. Whoever shuns someone just for not being "eye candy" may be missing out on a potentially great friend. Their loss I say.
  • jbutterflye
    jbutterflye Posts: 1,914 Member
    Whenever I am the only cocoa puff in a bowl of kix ;I am often noticed.

    :laugh:
  • MyPsalm63
    MyPsalm63 Posts: 303
    I don't think I am very often. If I am....I'm oblivious to it.
  • bregalad5
    bregalad5 Posts: 3,965 Member
    MFP is very visually oriented for men and women both. If you aren't eye candy around here you seem to get shunned by those that are ...........whether they admit it or not lol

    This is oh so very true.

    I find this sad. Whoever shuns someone just for not being "eye candy" may be missing out on a potentially great friend. Their loss I say.

    Indeed. I'm an awesome person, and a great friend I think, but because I don't have the looks to back up the personality, it really doesn't matter how active I am - I will always be ignored in favor of the "hot people" (as I've dubbed them in my head). I know others who don't post on certain threads simply because of this. It's not even remotely like that in real life.

    Just my observation over the past couple years.
  • Joshsjen
    Joshsjen Posts: 121 Member
    I think it is all about confidence! Since dropping the weight i get noticed alot more now, i dont think its because im thinner, but because i feel sexier!

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