Being noticed (attractiveness)

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  • salgalbp
    salgalbp Posts: 218 Member
    Agree with all the posters who said confidence! I recently went to a work wellness conference with 40 of my co-workers I've never met.

    I smile most of the time and I'm super friendly. My friends always said I could make friends anywhere anytime. (I get this from my Dad)

    I also tend to have rose colored glasses on 99% of the time and so when I look at someone or see someone for the very first time I immediately believe they are good people and and have amazing possibility.

    I am a coach in many ways and at this work conference we had partners and coaches. A lot of the women wanted me to coach them. The men laughed and smiled and coached with me. I set an intention to somehow greet or speak or acknowledge all 40 people in our group and it made a profoud impact on my two days with them for myself and based on the feedback that was freely given I have impacted the lives of others.

    It had nothing to do with my looks when I smile, I smile with my eyes as well and my intention is good. I believe folks are drawn to that within me and some want what I have and they are not intimated by me at all so they gravitate.

    I do the SAME THING male or female. If I see someone who smiles with their eyes as well as their entire face I'm drawn to them and will engaged them in conversation. Attractiveness is relative to your own preferences my preference is smile at me in earnesty/trust/integrity/love/confidence and we'll be friends.
  • rjwriter78
    rjwriter78 Posts: 205 Member
    Getting noticed use to be important to me but then i woke up and realized that i have to just be myself. People notice you more when your not noticing them. Attention comes with maturity and realizing that things will happen on its own, then will it be your time.

    PERFECTLY SAID!!!!
    Lol!! Thanks!!!
  • karylee44
    karylee44 Posts: 892
    not really ever noticed.. i try to hide in the background.. i do a nice job most of the time.
  • britttttx3
    britttttx3 Posts: 458
    I really don't notice if people notice me
  • Tarawitch2eyes
    Tarawitch2eyes Posts: 19 Member
    If I am, I shrug it off as I am not looking, although I do feel flattered;-)
  • amandapye78
    amandapye78 Posts: 820 Member
    I think I used to be noticed when I was younger but now I dont notice it. DH tells me guys are checking me out but I dont see it.
  • TrracyGirl
    TrracyGirl Posts: 32 Member
    Hmmms... I notice the occasional look and I have wondered "Is there a bat sneaking out of the bat cave?" (for those with no kids.. that translates to... Do i have a booger hanging out?) Then I check and smile because there wasn't one and my confidence was just boosted a little ~smiles~
  • JustAGirl0916
    JustAGirl0916 Posts: 1,020
    Sometimes
  • sidewinder76
    sidewinder76 Posts: 287
    I don't think people notice me, never really saw it anyway
  • Dr_Waffles
    Dr_Waffles Posts: 141 Member
    Pretty sure I get noticed, people still remember me from grade school.
  • lachesissss
    lachesissss Posts: 1,298 Member
    I sometimes find that my excessive use of camouflage paint hinders my ability to be noticed. But it's intentional. I like to hide in plain sight, they never see me coming.

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