'No, I don't date BIG girls'
Courtney_0402
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Who really says that nowadays?
It really bothers me when some, and I repeat, some guys think 'big girls' are nasty, stinky, lazy, and whatever other degrading adjective comes to mind. Seriously, those kind of guys need to get over that thought because it makes them look like a cocky, dumb, *kitten*.
What are your feelings about that?
It really bothers me when some, and I repeat, some guys think 'big girls' are nasty, stinky, lazy, and whatever other degrading adjective comes to mind. Seriously, those kind of guys need to get over that thought because it makes them look like a cocky, dumb, *kitten*.
What are your feelings about that?
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I think everybody has preferences and deal breakers, period.0
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F the haters babes there's always someone better just around the corner ;-)0
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F the haters babes there's always someone better just around the corner ;-)0
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Anyone who makes such blanket statements isn't worth your time anyway.0
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I think everybody has preferences and deal breakers, period.
Everyone is entitled to their preferences. I'm not going to deny that to a person, but there's still no reason to be an a-hole about it.0 -
I think it's an offensive thing to say and I think you're right that anyone who assumes 'big' girls are lazy, stinky, etc. are just idiots.
However, I also think it's fine for people to have preferences. I'm not attracted to big men (whether it be "fat" or even if they're "big" as in "super ripped"). That doesn't mean it's wrong to be a big man, it just means I, personally, am not attracted to them. I probably will never date a big man, because even if I loved his personality, there would be no attraction there for me. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.0 -
I think everybody has preferences and deal breakers, period.
Everyone is entitled to their preferences. I'm not going to deny that to a person, but there's still no reason to be an a-hole about it.
True, but it sure does make it easier to weed out the asssholes when they show their true colors. And if they are not being an *kitten* about it, than it goes back to simple preferences.0 -
I think people have a right to preferences regarding who they date.0
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I see it the same as when I used to say "no, I don't date blondes." everyone has their personal preference. If you are attracted to something aesthetically you are...if not.....you're not.0
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Hey... I'm afraid my husband will leave me for a chubby girl when I reach my goal!!! LOL
There's someone for everyone.
Don't worry you'll find your great match.
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well, he didn't say Fat... that would be a-hole.0
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Well. he said Big, he didn't say Fat. Just accept it, you are what you are. But I agree I cant care less when people voice their preferences. Also, it is shallow. And then it is fun watching people falling in love with what they thought they don't like.0
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I think everyone has their types for example I can't get mad at a girl if she's not attracted to black guys lol just saying0
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I think everyone has their types for example I can't get mad at a girl if she's not attracted to black guys lol just saying
I like me a black guy though. LOL.0 -
I love me a black guy ;-)0
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Some guys have gone through life looking "normal" or "average", some have even grown up as very attractive boys and men, and they've had the chance to be choosy about the type of woman that they date, they're picky, because they can be.
Some guys, like the chubby ones had to cultivate a personality as they grew up, they had to be NICE for people to treat them the same as the pretty ones. That's why you have the disconnect, nice guys more often than not have more humility and more compassion than pretty ones.
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This is also true
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I think everyone has their types for example I can't get mad at a girl if she's not attracted to black guys lol just saying
I like me a black guy though. LOL.0 -
i agree with what others have said...u can't hate on someone preferences...i think maybe u don't like how they may say it? that can be hurtful...but in the end, it's that person's tastes...0
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I love me a black guy ;-)0
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I have preferences too, but I'd never say them out loud, I just dated guys who I was physically attracted to. I think people who make those kinds of statements are secretly attracted to that very type of person, but are too cowardly to pursue such due to their own insecurities or fear of pubic perceptions.0
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