Girls wear certain clothes when they are looking

WouldNOTbang/10

Pls stop. You aren't even hot.

Maybe you're right, for all I know I'm not hot in the slightest.

According to these women, all men are disgusting and shouldn't even comment on what women look like anywho so, it's all good.

Commenting on your physical attractiveness, or lack thereof, was a bit of a low blow in my opinion. Kind'of like when people comment on what other people wear.

I haven't read a single comment from women on here, saying that men are disgusting. What's interesting is that I also haven't read comments from men slut shaming either.

Men in thread reporting in.

All I said was if you got it, flaunt it.

I like to see a nice booty in a tight pair of pants.

Maybe you're right, for all I know I'm not hot in the slightest.

According to these women, all men are disgusting and shouldn't even comment on what women look like anywho so, it's all good.


Commenting on your physical attractiveness, or lack thereof, was a bit of a low blow in my opinion. Kind'of like when people comment on what other people wear.

I haven't read a single comment from women on here, saying that men are disgusting. What's interesting is that I also haven't read comments from men slut shaming either.

You cannot choose what you look like. You can choose to cover yourself up in certain social situations.

Would you go to a job interview with hotpants?

If your opinion is clothing does not dictate titles such as "*kitten* and slut" then I am with you. If not, what I said above applies. Just wondering.

I have already said, no, you MAY not be a slut for wearing a certain outfit. I am saying people WILL think you are, hence, look 'like'. That's the harsh reality, people will judge, there's nothing we can do. It doesn't make it right, but it still happens.

I am not sure what the whole deal is... but if a girl is revealing too much leg, too much cleavage, stretchy clothing that absolutely reveals every curve... get over it and be prepared to be stared at by attracted men and admiring ladies. I don't get the idea that someone thinks they can wear whatever they want and get angry if dudes look.

I normally just wear a sign with my hourly rate on it? Isn't that what y'all do?

Nope, I had the rate stitched on to the butt of my jeans then shake it like a polaroid picture.

LMAO to both comments quoted above!

My preacher's wife is in her late 60s, shaves her legs and wears heels to church, I'm pretty sure she isn't looking to get some lol.

Wearing something that makes you feel pretty isn't necessarily the same thing as wearing something because you are trying to attract for sex, but for me, I wear things I want to look sexy for my man in private, and I like to wear things that make me look pretty in public, and I shave my legs because hairy is not my style.

I'll sum up this whole post for ya all...double standards are a bytch. Oh and zyzz gifs exsisted.

It's not the same thing. A job interview most likely requires professional attire. In my spare time, I wear whatever I want.

To be completely honest, you are entitled to your opinions about sex, about what constitutes too much sex, or too many partners. I won't judge you for choosing to say marry a virgin, and wear clothes that always cover up whatever you feel needs to be covered.

But why the name calling? Why call a woman a *kitten*, because she dresses a certain way, or because she's more sexually active?

But would you wear the same outfit for clubbing out on the street? Point is, there's a time and place for every outfit. Sometimes it just isn't appropriate to wear something on the street where there will be kids/people who would rather not see your body. People that do want to see your body, go for it, but in the privacy of your bedroom.

Just because you choose and are ok with something, doesn't mean it's right to do. People choose to do a lot of things that aren't ok, it doesn't make it ok for everyone.


A '*kitten*' by definition, is a woman that sleeps with a lot of men. I don't personally think behavior like that should be praised, so I won't accept it. If you do, that's your choice, but I'm never going to see it as normal to have more than one partner at a time. There is no need for it, and ultimately, nine times out of ten, you will feel worse for it later in life that you choose to give yourself so freely to so many different people. I would feel a lot better sleeping with people I choose that are interested in more than just meaningless sex night after night. Men will say it themselves, if you only want sex, you will only be treated as a sexual object, and if that's what you want, then it's great. But most men and women want to find someone they love and get on with, not just sleep around forever.

It's not the same thing. A job interview most likely requires professional attire. In my spare time, I wear whatever I want.

To be completely honest, you are entitled to your opinions about sex, about what constitutes too much sex, or too many partners. I won't judge you for choosing to say marry a virgin, and wear clothes that always cover up whatever you feel needs to be covered.

But why the name calling? Why call a woman a *kitten*, because she dresses a certain way, or because she's more sexually active?

But would you wear the same outfit for clubbing out on the street? Point is, there's a time and place for every outfit. Sometimes it just isn't appropriate to wear something on the street where there will be kids/people who would rather not see your body. People that do want to see your body, go for it, but in the privacy of your bedroom.

Just because you choose and are ok with something, doesn't mean it's right to do. People choose to do a lot of things that aren't ok, it doesn't make it ok for everyone.


A '*kitten*' by definition, is a woman that sleeps with a lot of men. I don't personally think behavior like that should be praised, so I won't accept it. If you do, that's your choice, but I'm never going to see it as normal to have more than one partner at a time. There is no need for it, and ultimately, nine times out of ten, you will feel worse for it later in life that you choose to give yourself so freely to so many different people. I would feel a lot better sleeping with people I choose that are interested in more than just meaningless sex night after night. Men will say it themselves, if you only want sex, you will only be treated as a sexual object, and if that's what you want, then it's great. But most men and women want to find someone they love and get on with, not just sleep around forever.

You might have valid points. Too bad you express them poorly and without regard for your audience...

It's not the same thing. A job interview most likely requires professional attire. In my spare time, I wear whatever I want.

To be completely honest, you are entitled to your opinions about sex, about what constitutes too much sex, or too many partners. I won't judge you for choosing to say marry a virgin, and wear clothes that always cover up whatever you feel needs to be covered.

But why the name calling? Why call a woman a *kitten*, because she dresses a certain way, or because she's more sexually active?

But would you wear the same outfit for clubbing out on the street? Point is, there's a time and place for every outfit. Sometimes it just isn't appropriate to wear something on the street where there will be kids/people who would rather not see your body. People that do want to see your body, go for it, but in the privacy of your bedroom.


A '*kitten*' by definition, is a woman that sleeps with a lot of men. I don't personally think behavior like that should be praised, so I won't accept it. If you do, that's your choice, but I'm never going to see it as normal to have more than one partner at a time. There is no need for it, and ultimately, nine times out of ten, you will feel worse for it later in life that you choose to give yourself so freely to so many different people.

We obviously have very different views of the world. To me having sex is not "giving yourself". It's just two people enjoying something they both want.
I was not asking you to praise or adopt such behavior for yourself. I was just saying that it's not your place to choose what's "normal" for other people, or to judge them for their choices. A woman who has slept with 25 guys is not less worthy than one who only had one partner.

If you were born in '93, like your name suggests, your "later in life" didn't happen yet.

We obviously have very different views of the world. To me having sex is not "giving yourself". It's just two people enjoying something they both want.
I was not asking you to praise or adopt such behavior for yourself. I was just saying that it's not your place to choose what's "normal" for other people, or to judge them for their choices. A woman who has slept with 25 guys is not less worthy than one who only had one partner.

If you were born in '93, like your name suggests, your "later in life" didn't happen yet.

Yes, and that's what is so great about society, not everyone has the same view on life. I never asked otherwise, rather, everyone else wants me to agree with their lifestyle.

I gave you my personal definition of normal, everyone has a different once, do I need to clarify it anymore? Why take everything as a personal attack?

No, but I assure you when it does, I can look back and say I treated myself fairly and regarded sex as a special thing. There's worse regrets to have than taking consideration for who you give yourself to, which is what sex essentially is, even if you call it something else. It's an important thing, but it has now been degraded to something common, because people take it so lightly as if it is nothing. In this society, you're looked down on for having respect for your sexuality. You just have to look around to know, even on this site, that women and men who have been sexually active for a long time with many, many people feel some sort of regret that they didn't settle down with one person, instead of being used for please. Surely there's more to life than using each other for sex????

maybe yall should watch this

www.youtube.com/watch?v=ktRTYNsLtGM&lc

^this.

I feel a bit sad that people actually think the whole womens rights struggle was based on sexuality alone..

Guess you don't want to work, vote, be counted as an equal in society, as long as you can sleep with whom you please.

I feel it's a bit sad that. . .that's what you got out of people saying that womens sexuality is a PART of feminism. Not nearly all. Or are you one of those people who likes to deliberately misconstrue what other people say because you like the drama?

^this.

I feel a bit sad that people actually think the whole womens rights struggle was based on sexuality alone..

Guess you don't want to work, vote, be counted as an equal in society, as long as you can sleep with whom you please.

I feel it's a bit sad that. . .that's what you got out of people saying that womens sexuality is a PART of feminism. Not nearly all. Or are you one of those people who likes to deliberately misconstrue what other people say because you like the drama?

No.

I'm simply saying women shouldn't be using it as an excuse to sleep around, nothing more or less.

use what as an excuse to sleep around? feminism? why shouldn't they?

the point is, a woman (or a man, for that matter) is in control of her own body. she has the right to have as much, or as little sex as she chooses, with as many or as few partners as she likes. as long as it's safe and consensual. the point is, a woman should not be shamed for what she chooses to do with her sex life. period.

^this.

I feel a bit sad that people actually think the whole womens rights struggle was based on sexuality alone..

Guess you don't want to work, vote, be counted as an equal in society, as long as you can sleep with whom you please.

I feel it's a bit sad that. . .that's what you got out of people saying that womens sexuality is a PART of feminism. Not nearly all. Or are you one of those people who likes to deliberately misconstrue what other people say because you like the drama?

No.

I'm simply saying women shouldn't be using it as an excuse to sleep around, nothing more or less.

use what as an excuse to sleep around? feminism? why shouldn't they?

Because its undermining something a lot more important than just getting sexual gratification, or at least it should be.

There are more important things in life than sexual pleasure.

Holding other people to your standards and belittling them for not meeting said standards, is where you're wrong. You talk about a society where you're looked down for having respect for your sexuality, yet you look down on those who choose a path different than yours when it comes to it.

Bingo!!