Nice guys vs Bad boys

Bad boys can be nice guys too. I mean, it really depends on what you mean by bad boys. I've never been interested in a man that didn't treat me the way I feel I deserve to be treated or one who doesn't treat me just as well as I treat him. I've always loved the nice guys, but the nice guys can have a naughty side

I think that any guy who refers to himself as a 'nice guy' most likely isn't.

I've seen too many girls be hurt by the "bad boy" type...but it depends on your definition of a bad boy.

In my mind, a bad boy is someone who has the persona of someone who is "dangerous" or...someone you don't take home to meet your mother.

I've met several of them and seen how they treat their girlfriends. I've also hugged those girlfriends when they cry because of how the guy treats them or stuff they get into.

I have never been attracted to someone who would hurt me-on purpose or not.

I've always been extremely attracted to the nice guy...and married one. Never dated a bad boy...by my definition.

Ermmmm for done reason I'm always attracted to bad boys. I think it's more of the thrill and excitement that goes with them but needless to say my husband was once a bad boy and has completely changed to a nice guy that CAN be naughty when he wants

I want a nice guy, a gentleman who will be loving and polite, but I usually end up realizing a couple months in that he's a total jerk and it ends quickly.

The bad boy that turns out to be a nice guy.. Fairytale maybe?

Actually not a fairy tale. I'm married to one. :-) He can definitely be an *kitten* to the world at large, but he treats me and the kids like we are the most important things in the world. He looks a bit rough, and he is distrustful of everyone, but I've never been treated better at any point by any other man in my life, except my dad.

Many girls, whether they want to admit it or not, go for the bad boy because it's "exciting" and "dangerous." It isn't until the first marriage falls apart and they have been treated like crap for years on end that they realize a bad boy is just going to mistreat them and use them, then walk away when they're done. I should know; I was married to one for eight years when I was younger. But he came across as a really nice, "aw shucks" kind of guy - no one believed just how bad it was between us, because you know, he was SUCH a nice guy. Or so it seemed.

Most of the time, girls are so caught up in trying to "reform" a bad boy, they don't notice the nice guy sitting on the sidelines just hoping for the chance to get the girl. Or the nice guy is firmly in the friend zone, so girls never give him a second look.

I disagree that guys who refer to themselves as "nice guys" usually are not. I've known several that couldn't gain ground with girls because they were perceived to be too nice.

The bad boy that turns out to be a nice guy.. Fairytale maybe?

Actually not a fairy tale. I'm married to one. :-) He can definitely be an *kitten* to the world at large, but he treats me and the kids like we are the most important things in the world. He looks a bit rough, and he is distrustful of everyone, but I've never been treated better at any point by any other man in my life, except my dad.

You lucky you...

I fell in love with a bad boy a while ago. Acted like a real *kitten*, dark, moody. I had a feeling that there was much more to him and he turned out to be the most amazing guy I had ever met. Fell for him like a ton of bricks, head over heels, like never before. BUT... at the end he turned out to be a real douche. He wasn't who he said he was. He was still angry at the world and was looking for something wrong with me so he could hate me too. He succeeded.

Sooo... I'm staying away from badboys for a while, although there is nothing sexier than a bad boy that has a good heart and treats you like a diamond.

Good guys who look like bad boys and play a mean guitar.

The "nice guys finish last" statement is something guys use when they are not getting laid, or when they have been put in the friend zone, and they stay around hoping that will change. That is all.

Bad boys can be nice guys too. I mean, it really depends on what you mean by bad boys. I've never been interested in a man that didn't treat me the way I feel I deserve to be treated or one who doesn't treat me just as well as I treat him. I've always loved the nice guys, but the nice guys can have a naughty side

Oh Really !!!! Lol

Not sure what qualifies for a "bad boy" anymore.

When I was younger it normally meant you had tattoos, had an attitude, and probbly been in the clink.

Now it seems to mean you are immature *kitten* that rides a crorch rocket, have a fohawk and a few cookie cutter tats or a wannabe thug.

Problem is that most women without daddy issues don't want a true bad boy, they want a guy that looks like a bad boy but is really a teddy bear.

I feel first in love with a loser bad boy that I've known since high school.... he just ended up cheating on me when I was pregnant and has been a homeless mess for the past 7 years. He's been getting by all these years by wooing other girls with sweet talk to take care of him until they get fed up with him and kick him to the curb.

I'm now madly in love with a nice boy. Smart, handsome, clean-cut, hard worker, and career oriented. Nice boys are the way to go!

I think it's so hard just to categorize by "good" or "bad", I don't think I could create a complete definition of one. A mix of the two is good for me =P

Bad boys are for fun and nice guys are for marriage (not that nice guys aren't fun too but bad boys are NOT for serious relationships/marriage, they like to play too much. HAHA!)

yeah, that's what "nice guys" want to hear:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ELRRQIVKHF8

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