Nice guys vs Bad boys
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I used to think you could have the best of noth worlds, you can't. I don't think nice guys always finish last but if a bad boy is a true bad boy he knows what to say to get what he wants, so girls being blind/dumb sometimes fall for it. I know what I want and I would say I would much rather a nice guy but not a doormat.0
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I speak for just my self but I have realized after dating 'Bad Boys' that women don't generally know they are about to embark on a Bad Boy ride. Most bad boys tend to have more confidence, which is very attractive to women. A woman won't usually initiate a move and usually relies on a man to do so. And the chances of the bad boy making the first move, as opposed to the nice guy who is over-thinking his move waaaay too much are much higher. But once the woman finds out what the bad boy is all about, she'll go looking for that nice guy.
True. Bad boys generally tend to have more confidence (which could also be arrogance) that good boys. But a lot of good boys have confidence too and are able to make their moves on a women confidently and with great charm. However, and this is from my own personal experience, it tends to be the other way around. In other words, the moment she realises that she's with a good guy, she dumps him and before you know, she's traded him for a bad boy. I'm seriously not making this up. I've seen it happen so many times. From my own experience, it really does seem like for whatever mysterious reason, women, or at least most of them, are just not attracted to good boys. Obviously I'm probably wrong in more ways than one, but that's what I see a lot.0 -
A nice guy who's a bad boy in bed. :laugh:0
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I don't do bad boys. Nice guys all the way.
And not the ones who SAY they're nice guys but aren't.0 -
I speak for just my self but I have realized after dating 'Bad Boys' that women don't generally know they are about to embark on a Bad Boy ride. Most bad boys tend to have more confidence, which is very attractive to women. A woman won't usually initiate a move and usually relies on a man to do so. And the chances of the bad boy making the first move, as opposed to the nice guy who is over-thinking his move waaaay too much are much higher. But once the woman finds out what the bad boy is all about, she'll go looking for that nice guy.
Nice people are required to assert their desires and needs too. The difference is that nice people don't lie to get what they want. Someone who won't make a move when he or she wants to express interest in another person is cowardly, not nice.0 -
I speak for just my self but I have realized after dating 'Bad Boys' that women don't generally know they are about to embark on a Bad Boy ride. Most bad boys tend to have more confidence, which is very attractive to women. A woman won't usually initiate a move and usually relies on a man to do so. And the chances of the bad boy making the first move, as opposed to the nice guy who is over-thinking his move waaaay too much are much higher. But once the woman finds out what the bad boy is all about, she'll go looking for that nice guy.
Nice people are required to assert their desires and needs too. The difference is that nice people don't lie to get what they want. Someone who won't make a move when he or she wants to express interest in another person is cowardly, not nice.
Or maybe they're just super shy. My boyfriend (a naturally nice guy with a naughty edge) is also very shy. He doesn't feel comfortable in most social situations and doesn't like to take the risk of offending those he might be interested in, as he knows he's not the most socially adjusted person. As a result, I ended up being the one to make all the first moves in our relationship. As someone who has been painfully shy in the past and who still feels some discomfort in social situations (though no where near as bad as I used to), I knew where he was coming from. I didn't take his reticence as cowardly at all.0 -
The bad boy that turns out to be a nice guy..
this.0 -
bad boys aint no good
good boys aint no fun
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bad girls aint no good
good girls aint no fun0 -
How about neither? I like real men.0
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Oh I got this one!
Sit down boys, lemme tell you a story.
Being a "bad boy", and yelling sexually aggressive **** at me from across the parking lot make me RUN. **** is scary, Knock it off. Be sweet, shy smile from across the room. That's how it's done.
You are welcome0 -
Don't worry Nick Carter, some girls like nice guys.0
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Oh I got this one!
Sit down boys, lemme tell you a story.
Being a "bad boy", and yelling sexually aggressive **** at me from across the parking lot make me RUN. **** is scary, Knock it off. Be sweet, shy smile from across the room. That's how it's done.
You are welcome
hmmmmm
so i must have it all wrong then lol. I am not shy, i fail.0 -
Oh I got this one!
Sit down boys, lemme tell you a story.
Being a "bad boy", and yelling sexually aggressive **** at me from across the parking lot make me RUN. **** is scary, Knock it off. Be sweet, shy smile from across the room. That's how it's done.
You are welcome
hmmmmm
so i must have it all wrong then lol. I am not shy, i fail.
I can hardly see you chasing me down with a crazy face, saying crazy things.
or would you... Lol0 -
My Mr is my nice guy not over nice or a *kitten* been together 3 years so its weren't just in the 'honeymoon' period. Been out with *kitten* and super nice guys but just in the middle is perfect ...... I do like the 'bad boy' look but manly bad boy
Look not the guys who use more product than me :L0 -
Oh I got this one!
Sit down boys, lemme tell you a story.
Being a "bad boy", and yelling sexually aggressive **** at me from across the parking lot make me RUN. **** is scary, Knock it off. Be sweet, shy smile from across the room. That's how it's done.
You are welcome
hmmmmm
so i must have it all wrong then lol. I am not shy, i fail.
I can hardly see you chasing me down with a crazy face, saying crazy things.
or would you... Lol
you know me lol
depends on how much you made me drink0 -
A nice guy who's a bad boy in bed. :laugh:0
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You all are letting your brains get in front of your biology ...0
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I tried to be nice all of the time. Always got overlooked. I was always "like a brother". I started speaking my mind more and not worrying about trying to have everyone like me. I stopped trying to be "nice" all of the time. I was nice. Just not all of the time. I wasn't worried about offending anyone. The number of friends i had decreased but the quality of those that remained, increased dramatically.
Yeah i scared off more girls this way. The ones that stayed around were actually worth my time though so it worked out.0 -
I tend to find my self attracted to the guy who is rough & cold on the outside but on the inside is caring and sweet; you just got to work your way to break through the shell to get to know who he really is.0
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I find that a balance between the two is money in the bank. You know, the bad boy who throws off subtle hints that I might just be willing to change my naughty ways... for you.0
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I find that a balance between the two is money in the bank. You know, the bad boy who throws off subtle hints that I might just be willing to change my naughty ways... for you.0
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Interesting conversation...I have been called both.. And the comment about the crotch rocket..I got that to tried the Harley I got bored with it..as far as having to be in the clink (jail) been there to..but as an officer and that was body slamming the "bad boys" and now I am a cop and still doing the same And as well as being a Marine to seek out and destroy!
As far as a big teddy bear been called that to...To see a woman break down into tears is all it takes for me
Now ask my kids and they will tell you im the bad boy as I have chased many boys out of the back door of my house and they have yet to return..
I have one boy and 3 attitudes0 -
I've always liked bad boys but I cannot tell you why. It just always happened that way. When I was younger the excitement of it all was probably the key factor, as I hit mid 20's I thought "enough of this bad boy *kitten*" & about 7 months later I met a very nice guy who was the complete opposite to what I normally went for & for a few weeks I thought "he's too nice" but nearly 8 years later we are still together & I love the fact that he is a nice guy. He treats his family well, never has a bad word to say about anyone, doesn't get drunk every weekend with the blokes.
I think there comes a time when women work out what they really want & if its the bad boys then they are probably in for years of heartache & being treated like crap. I didn't want that & I wanted my future children to have a good role model.0 -
I find that a balance between the two is money in the bank. You know, the bad boy who throws off subtle hints that I might just be willing to change my naughty ways... for you.
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I like both, but you would bang the bad boy and marry the nice one0
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I find that a balance between the two is money in the bank. You know, the bad boy who throws off subtle hints that I might just be willing to change my naughty ways... for you.0
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I tend to find my self attracted to the guy who is rough & cold on the outside but on the inside is caring and sweet; you just got to work your way to break through the shell to get to know who he really is.
Same.0 -
I find that a balance between the two is money in the bank. You know, the bad boy who throws off subtle hints that I might just be willing to change my naughty ways... for you.
Bingo. What every woman wants.0 -
I speak for just my self but I have realized after dating 'Bad Boys' that women don't generally know they are about to embark on a Bad Boy ride. Most bad boys tend to have more confidence, which is very attractive to women. A woman won't usually initiate a move and usually relies on a man to do so. And the chances of the bad boy making the first move, as opposed to the nice guy who is over-thinking his move waaaay too much are much higher. But once the woman finds out what the bad boy is all about, she'll go looking for that nice guy.
Nice people are required to assert their desires and needs too. The difference is that nice people don't lie to get what they want. Someone who won't make a move when he or she wants to express interest in another person is cowardly, not nice.
I think you're confusing cowardice with shyness. Most guys or girls (mostly guys) who're reluctant to make a move on a person they're interested are usually reluctant because they're shy. Being shy doesn't make one a coward. A coward won't make a move, no matter how much they're pushed or how good an opportunity is because they're scared of being embarrassed or humiliated. A shy person is not necessarily scared but just needs the a push the right direction or just the right moment to get enough courage to make a move. A lot of bad boys are actually shy too. They just know how to overcome it when the moment is right.
In a nutshell, cowards have no courage at all. Shy people on the one hand do have the courage, they just need a bit of prodding to get it out.0 -
Definitely the good man, I married a bad boy the first time and knew it was over when he reassured me that it was ok because he was going to teach our baby how to take illicit drugs responsibly.:explode: :noway:
DP is a GOOD man, he works hard for our family and teaches our kids the right way. His family have taken on my oldest DS as their own, and so has he. doesn't hurt that he has just a touch of the bad boy in the right places!0
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