do girls want the bad boyz or the nice guy

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  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    What's all this BS about bad boys (sigh stupid term) being good in bed? The best and most adventurous lovers I've ever had were the shy quiet nerdy types. They truly study your body...MMMMMMM
  • alsunrise
    alsunrise Posts: 386 Member
    I like em nice with that bad boy exterior.

    So, both.

    ^ that's my hubby, all hard on the outside and soft and cuddly on the inside.
  • Cliffslosinit
    Cliffslosinit Posts: 5,044 Member
    I just want a lady that excepts me for who I am.....
  • bluecrayonz
    bluecrayonz Posts: 459 Member
    90% of the time bad boy is just a nicer way of saying *kitten*
  • nice guy :)
  • Mainebikerchick
    Mainebikerchick Posts: 1,573 Member
    They want men. Men can be bad in the sense that they know what they want and will try and get it, even if its something the girl disapproves.

    Most of the "men" nowadays are boys who tip toe around everybody. They lack confidence in themselves. When you don't even believe in yourself, why should any women?

    Most (not all) girls like a nice guy. Just be confident enough to tell her that you won't always be a nice guy when the need for a tough person comes along.

    LOVE this, Taunto! :flowerforyou:
  • Ben2118
    Ben2118 Posts: 571 Member
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  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.
  • _Waffle_
    _Waffle_ Posts: 13,049 Member
    ♫ Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money. ♫
  • DainaLC
    DainaLC Posts: 18,937 Member
    What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.
    Glad you added that word "some"!
  • BinaryPulsar
    BinaryPulsar Posts: 8,927 Member
    What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.

    Agree!! My husband is nice and he has always been very adventurous and passionate sexually.
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.

    IDK either. Probably have always been with the "bad" ones and think it's the norm. They dont understand how the nice, quiet ones are always the deviant ones who will have you doing naked backflips.
  • 5ftnFun
    5ftnFun Posts: 948 Member
    What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.

    Agree!!

    Ditto
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    ♫ Girls don't like boys, girls like cars and money. ♫

    I hate my car. It takes away all of my money :grumble:
  • All women want a man to have a little bad, but when it comes to supporting a family and partner it's nice to know you have a good man. I would also say a lot of women are looking for a man " not a boy LOL" anyway what would I know I'm just a man.
  • Trechechus
    Trechechus Posts: 2,819 Member
    What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.

    Agree!!

    Ditto

    What woman told you that?
  • BenchPressingCats
    BenchPressingCats Posts: 1,826 Member
    What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.

    And this.
  • micheleld73
    micheleld73 Posts: 914 Member
    I like a reformed bad boy lol

    ^^THIS^^

    (I'm not necessarily looking for the nice guy - just a good man!!)
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.
    Glad you added that word "some"!

    Well I don't believe in the Female Hive Mind. :laugh:
  • ldrosophila
    ldrosophila Posts: 7,512 Member
    I'll say it again if she is a grown stable woman then she does not look for some "bad boy" Rebel Without a Clause cliche'. She looks for a man to be her partner in life, to love, to share, to laugh, to have a good debate, a good match in bed, to help her grow and evolve, along with helping him grow and evolve. She looks for a man (or woman) to share life both the good and the bad. This is is what a stable, grown woman looks for.
  • fluffywelshsheep
    fluffywelshsheep Posts: 26 Member
    The boy next door with a bad streak ;) ~~ I think i found it in my hubby
  • harvo
    harvo Posts: 4,676 Member
    I have fooled people in my day..I work for a Fortune 200 company wearing a shirt and tie during the day. I watch my p's and q's due to the HR policies. After hours people have said they had no idea.....
  • LoreleiEvil
    LoreleiEvil Posts: 65 Member
    None of the above. I have enough difficulty in my life! :)
  • Jesstruhan
    Jesstruhan Posts: 331 Member
    Both. :-) We want you to be good to us, but want to have a little fun, too. Too nice = boring. Too much a bad boy = jerk.
  • alliemarie77
    alliemarie77 Posts: 378 Member
    They want men. Men can be bad in the sense that they know what they want and will try and get it, even if its something the girl disapproves.

    Most of the "men" nowadays are boys who tip toe around everybody. They lack confidence in themselves. When you don't even believe in yourself, why should any women?

    Most (not all) girls like a nice guy. Just be confident enough to tell her that you won't always be a nice guy when the need for a tough person comes along.

    This is exactly what I was going to say....
  • Jesstruhan
    Jesstruhan Posts: 331 Member
    The boy next door with a bad streak ;)
    Yes. This.
  • HealthWoke0ish
    HealthWoke0ish Posts: 2,078 Member
    I'm pretty straight-laced but I used to look a little different, (kinda a wannabe thug e.g., cornrows, earrings, goatee, etc.). A couple girls were actually disappointed (I tell you...the look on their faces was absolute, crestfallen-crushed-hopes-and-dreams, disappointment) when they found out I am an attorney and work in an office. :) Weird.
  • CrankMeUp
    CrankMeUp Posts: 2,860 Member
    I want chemistry.
  • whierd
    whierd Posts: 14,025 Member
    What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.

    Agree!!

    Ditto

    What woman told you that?

    I can only.speak from my personal experiences, but whenever sex is brought up with female friends that have only seen my nice side, they are shocked and say things like "My sweet whierd...I'd have.never guessed!"
  • angelh1908
    angelh1908 Posts: 175 Member
    A nice guy who used to be a bad boy...:wink: