do girls want the bad boyz or the nice guy

What I never understood is why some women think that nice means sexually weak.

Frequently, the guys claiming to be "nice" are the ones who are bitter about being "friends-zoned" and talk a lot about how women don't want a guy who values them for more than sex. So really, it's those "nice guys" who are to blame. Those "nice guys" also tend to be the ones who honestly believe providing emotional support means they are going to get sex. When sex is denied they cry about their crappy luck with women.

My point is, don't blame women -- blame guys who downplay the importance of sex to get sex.

Did I.come off as whining? :huh:

:huh: I actually agree with everything you've written -- I just meant that I think the whole notion of a "nice guy" being sexually weak is a myth that dbags perpetuated in order to get laid.

ETA: NICE GUY'S FINISH LAST

Niceeeeeeeeeee Guy hands down!!!!!!!! After you've been through some things, a mature woman comes to appreciate a good man ))

Both I think...but what do I know

True story

Let's also not forget that "bad boy" is open to interpretation to me a bad boy is my SO and he's a great man. However to some a "bad boy" would be someone that beats their GF/wife/SO... so *shrugs*

I am kind of leaning towards the bad boy with a hint of sweetness..if that makes sense

Yes yes yes, THIS ^

In my experience "bad boys" get the girls because they'll approach and pursue a girl/woman while the good guy is *****ing to his friends about how girls never like him because he's nice.

I've always really appreciated my guy friends moaning about how girls never like them, when I've witnessed them go on and on about girls they'll never ask out because she's too hot/intimidating/out of their league or heard them (in detail) explain why the super sweet girl who is their dear friend isn't their "type" because she's a friend. [/sarcastic font]

They just want the guy they want to really want them. Doesn't matter if the guy was nice or bad.

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Aaaah you read my mind.

Why didn't anyone tell me that women are attracted to proper grammar and spelling?

I married a nice guy who has a tough side. He stands his ground and puts me in my place but on the other hand, if he's the one out of line, I put him in his place as well. It's a two way street and the nice but tough guy gets that! I don't like the term "bad boy" because to me it is just another way of saying "a**hole" and I don't want one of those!

i played with the bad boys, then 34 years ago i married a nice boy.

Most of the "bad boyz" I know (one of my kids included) tend to be the type that don't handle authority very well. And all the ones I know are in *kitten* jobs as a result.

The girls that want bad boys usually want to fix them. I don't have time for that.

They want men. Men can be bad in the sense that they know what they want and will try and get it, even if its something the girl disapproves.

Most of the "men" nowadays are boys who tip toe around everybody. They lack confidence in themselves. When you don't even believe in yourself, why should any women?

Most (not all) girls like a nice guy. Just be confident enough to tell her that you won't always be a nice guy when the need for a tough person comes along.

this...i want someone to tell me no every now and then, i don't want to walk all over you and then laugh when you tell me your feelings are hurt. stick up for yourself and have some self respect. that's bad @ss

Nice boys, that look like bad boys. But what do I know Super married! lol

Nice rules.

I prefer nice guys.

Not pushovers, who will do whatever you say. Have a backbone, stand up for yourself!

I just don't want an *kitten*, or a guy that gets himself into trouble all the time. I've never seen the appeal in guys like that, at any age.

Different women want different qualities in their mate. They are almost like people, that way.

They're people???????????? :noway:



Oh wait, I misread that. I see you said that they are almost like people.

Yes. You almost got carried away for a minute, there.