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I love you, Amy Pond.
Shhh don't let Rory hear you...;)0 -
I think it's kinda hot when a woman is upfront! Just be confident and say you'd like to hang out sometime, simple and to the point without being overly desperate0
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I'm just blunt... And I'd say it...
But I understand where you're at.
If you had his sister ask, she'd have to ask a round about way.. Like "you and xxx would make a cute couple" and see his reply.
so you think I should ask her??? maybe?
If I weren't going to flat out say "I like you, so ***** you're mine..." Then yes, that's how id do it.
If he blushes or agrees with her, then ask him out or maybe he'll ask you out. Or she can say "I think she likes you" if he says he likes you.
You think I should ask her in front of him?0 -
Okay guys, how about this. I ask his sister whom I know very well if she told him. If she did, I'll ask her what he said. If he said he was interested in me, then I would approach him. Sound like a plan?
If his sister told him you're interested and he didn't make a move, wouldn't that mean he isn't interested?
not if he is not sure if he's ready, or I'm ready. We are both still in school, maybe he doesn't want to start anything till we graduate from College? And I don't know if I could wait that long to know how he feels.
Yeaaaaaah. Guys tend not to overcomplicate things like that.
Maybe he's rather secretive... and shy?
I am shy as well. If I know a girl I like likes me back, even I'd go for it. And yes, I do like when a girl lets me know she's interested before I pursue anything.
Okay, so do you approve of my plan? :laugh:
To ask his sister? No. I think that is usual girl game playing and things are best when direct.
Ok, Wheird, then I nominate you to write my speech :P0 -
I prefer this approach0
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I'm just blunt... And I'd say it...
But I understand where you're at.
If you had his sister ask, she'd have to ask a round about way.. Like "you and xxx would make a cute couple" and see his reply.
so you think I should ask her??? maybe?
If I weren't going to flat out say "I like you, so ***** you're mine..." Then yes, that's how id do it.
If he blushes or agrees with her, then ask him out or maybe he'll ask you out. Or she can say "I think she likes you" if he says he likes you.
You think I should ask her in front of him?
No in private0 -
Okay guys, how about this. I ask his sister whom I know very well if she told him. If she did, I'll ask her what he said. If he said he was interested in me, then I would approach him. Sound like a plan?
If his sister told him you're interested and he didn't make a move, wouldn't that mean he isn't interested?
not if he is not sure if he's ready, or I'm ready. We are both still in school, maybe he doesn't want to start anything till we graduate from College? And I don't know if I could wait that long to know how he feels.
Yeaaaaaah. Guys tend not to overcomplicate things like that.
Maybe he's rather secretive... and shy?
I am shy as well. If I know a girl I like likes me back, even I'd go for it. And yes, I do like when a girl lets me know she's interested before I pursue anything.
Okay, so do you approve of my plan? :laugh:
To ask his sister? No. I think that is usual girl game playing and things are best when direct.
Ok, Wheird, then I nominate you to write my speech :P
Your speech to him?0 -
I prefer this approach
See, and that approach is perfect. Leaves no guesswork.0 -
Okay guys, how about this. I ask his sister whom I know very well if she told him. If she did, I'll ask her what he said. If he said he was interested in me, then I would approach him. Sound like a plan?
If his sister told him you're interested and he didn't make a move, wouldn't that mean he isn't interested?
not if he is not sure if he's ready, or I'm ready. We are both still in school, maybe he doesn't want to start anything till we graduate from College? And I don't know if I could wait that long to know how he feels.
Yeaaaaaah. Guys tend not to overcomplicate things like that.
Maybe he's rather secretive... and shy?
I am shy as well. If I know a girl I like likes me back, even I'd go for it. And yes, I do like when a girl lets me know she's interested before I pursue anything.
Okay, so do you approve of my plan? :laugh:
To ask his sister? No. I think that is usual girl game playing and things are best when direct.
Ok, Wheird, then I nominate you to write my speech :P
Your speech to him?
haha yes. What should I say? Never did this before. (BTW I was joking about the "speech"... not that long winded)0 -
I prefer this approach
See, and that approach is perfect. Leaves no guesswork.
I dunno it either indicates my arousal
OR
I have worms0 -
I prefer this approach
See, and that approach is perfect. Leaves no guesswork.
I dunno it either indicates my arousal
OR
I have worms0 -
haha yes. What should I say? Never did this before. (BTW I was joking about the "speech"... not that long winded)
As I said before, ask him to grab a bite or to come over your place and watch a movie, just the two of you. Make sure he knows you'll be alone. Then have some drinks, admit your crush on him, cuddle up, start making out, then make babies.0 -
I prefer this approach
See, and that approach is perfect. Leaves no guesswork.
I dunno it either indicates my arousal
OR
I have worms
Well you do have dogs...0 -
haha yes. What should I say? Never did this before. (BTW I was joking about the "speech"... not that long winded)
As I said before, ask him to grab a bite or to come over your place and watch a movie, just the two of you. Make sure he knows you'll be alone. Then have some drinks, admit your crush on him, cuddle up, start making out, then make babies.0 -
haha yes. What should I say? Never did this before. (BTW I was joking about the "speech"... not that long winded)
As I said before, ask him to grab a bite or to come over your place and watch a movie, just the two of you. Make sure he knows you'll be alone. Then have some drinks, admit your crush on him, cuddle up, start making out, then make babies.
BOOOOOM
that's the master right there OP take notes
eta: OP is there a reason other than fear of rejection that you are so nervous to tell this guy how you feel? are you experienced when it comes to relationships? just wondering, people may be able to help you better (although the advice has been good) if they know exactly what the hold up is.0 -
I've tried talking to him about crushes before. I actually asked him if he was into this one girl. he got all nervous and weird and kept on asking me to repeat myself.... I think he was highly uncomfortable.0
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I've tried talking to him about crushes before. I actually asked him if he was into this one girl. he got all nervous and weird and kept on asking me to repeat myself.... I think he was highly uncomfortable.
Maybe he's gay.0 -
I've tried talking to him about crushes before. I actually asked him if he was into this one girl. he got all nervous and weird and kept on asking me to repeat myself.... I think he was highly uncomfortable.
Maybe he's gay.0 -
I've tried talking to him about crushes before. I actually asked him if he was into this one girl. he got all nervous and weird and kept on asking me to repeat myself.... I think he was highly uncomfortable.
Maybe he's gay.
Erm, did he start dating her? Have you known him to actually date anyone?0 -
I've tried talking to him about crushes before. I actually asked him if he was into this one girl. he got all nervous and weird and kept on asking me to repeat myself.... I think he was highly uncomfortable.
Maybe he's gay.
that generally doesn't mean anything. my gays love boobs and a lot of them (my friends) are liquid heterosexuals. they had crushes on a lot of girls in high school but that was before they came out.0
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