Women... Do's n Don'ts of men approaching you!
bigbarnold
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What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?
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"Hello, I'm _____"0
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Is that the best way or the worst? :laugh:"Hello, I'm _____"0 -
Is that the best way or the worst? :laugh:"Hello, I'm _____"
The best.
Why would it be the worst?0 -
Best: make an obscure reference to a funny movie I like. Instant inside joke sort of thing. Geeky humor.
Worst: Any variation on "Hey, girl/baby/woman." And elevator eyes. Sleazy.0 -
Hello is a great start. Cheesy pick up lines are very hit and miss so I wouldn't try it...If you get one worded/painfully polite responses, abort, because she just wants to be left alone.0
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Worst: Approach me and complement random body part.
Best: Talk to me like I'm a person. Mutual interests are good.0 -
What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?
That depends, do we have chemistry?
The worst way would probably be while holding a roll of duct tape and a pill bottle.
Edited to add: just walk up, offer your hand and your name, and be a gentlemen. It's hot when men are gentlemen. I had more than one man win me over without even trying by just being himself and doing his thing. And by his thing I mean was a BAMF without being a cocky jerk that thought none of us were worthy. Nothing about their walk, talk, or aura was even the least bit cocky- but they were the Alpha male in the room. Hook. Line. And sinker.0 -
Best: Introduces self, expresses interest in some topic of relevance....for example, if I'm looking at a game, "Oh, I like that game." Or something, idk.
Worst: Making any kind of statement about my appearance, be it positive or negative. I just get weirded out, tbh.0 -
I could see that being a bad way! To funny! :laugh:What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?
That depends, do we have chemistry?
The worst way would probably be while holding a roll of duct tape and a pill bottle.0 -
Worst: Approach me and complement random body part.
Best: Talk to me like I'm a person. Mutual interests are good.
^This!0 -
Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:0
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best: talk about aliens
worst:compliment my lipstick I dont give a fvck what you think of my lipstick, call me a pet name baby/sweetie/pretty lady whatever0 -
I could see that being a bad way! To funny! :laugh:What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?
That depends, do we have chemistry?
The worst way would probably be while holding a roll of duct tape and a pill bottle.
Conversely a shotgun and a bottle of bourbon screams good time.0 -
Hmmm. What about an AK 47 and a margarita? :laugh:
I could see that being a bad way! To funny! :laugh:What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?
That depends, do we have chemistry?
The worst way would probably be while holding a roll of duct tape and a pill bottle.
Conversely a shotgun and a bottle of bourbon screams good time.0 -
"Does this rag smell like chloroform?"0
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Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:
Sorry.
I'll stop.0 -
best: something of mutual interest.
worst: calling me baby girl or something weird and just staring at my body like a piece of filler mignon lol0 -
Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:
I did this to a friend the other day at a red light and before she turned I could already hear the string of obscenities and reprimands leaving her lips directed towards whoever had the audacity to do something so rude. Then she saw it was me, blushed the pretties shade of crimson and bought me coffee to make up for calling me something like "Rude, river roach @#@&$^$*#*(@*^@#&(@#$^*$(#@!#$#@($@(&$#%&@!%&^!@##^$^*#&!" Moral of the story you might ask?
One could assume it is Honk For Free Coffee, really it is don't be a ****!0 -
Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:
I did this to a friend the other day at a red light and before she turned I could already hear the string of obscenities and reprimands leaving her lips directed towards whoever had the audacity to do something so rude. Then she saw it was me, blushed the pretties shade of crimson and bought me coffee to make up for calling me something like "Rude, river roach @#@&$^$*#*(@*^@#&(@#$^*$(#@!#$#@($@(&$#%&@!%&^!@##^$^*#&!" Moral of the story you might ask?
One could assume it is Honk For Free Coffee, really it is don't be a ****!
:laugh: I'd have yelled at you, too, and then probably bought you coffee, as well. or Lunch. Or a beer.0 -
"Does this rag smell like chloroform?"
ICON!
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Hmmm. What about an AK 47 and a margarita? :laugh:
I could see that being a bad way! To funny! :laugh:What is one best or worst way for a man to approach you to start a conversation?
That depends, do we have chemistry?
The worst way would probably be while holding a roll of duct tape and a pill bottle.
Conversely a shotgun and a bottle of bourbon screams good time.
:smokin:
Edited to add: and that, sir, is how to break the ice in one easy step. Ask a girl the best way to do it. If there's chemistry, it'll work.0 -
Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:
I did this to a friend the other day at a red light and before she turned I could already hear the string of obscenities and reprimands leaving her lips directed towards whoever had the audacity to do something so rude. Then she saw it was me, blushed the pretties shade of crimson and bought me coffee to make up for calling me something like "Rude, river roach @#@&$^$*#*(@*^@#&(@#$^*$(#@!#$#@($@(&$#%&@!%&^!@##^$^*#&!" Moral of the story you might ask?
One could assume it is Honk For Free Coffee, really it is don't be a ****!
:laugh: I'd have yelled at you, too, and then probably bought you coffee, as well. or Lunch. Or a beer.
:laugh: :laugh: I'm all about the free coffee! You and I would get along just peachy!0 -
Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:
I did this to a friend the other day at a red light and before she turned I could already hear the string of obscenities and reprimands leaving her lips directed towards whoever had the audacity to do something so rude. Then she saw it was me, blushed the pretties shade of crimson and bought me coffee to make up for calling me something like "Rude, river roach @#@&$^$*#*(@*^@#&(@#$^*$(#@!#$#@($@(&$#%&@!%&^!@##^$^*#&!" Moral of the story you might ask?
One could assume it is Honk For Free Coffee, really it is don't be a ****!
:laugh: I'd have yelled at you, too, and then probably bought you coffee, as well. or Lunch. Or a beer.
:laugh: :laugh: I'm all about the free coffee! You and I would get along just peachy!
:drinker: Coffee is the only reason I look forward to getting up most mornings!0 -
I hate it when the man comes up and ask me what i do for a living? then when i tell him im a truck driver, localy, he then asked me "have you ever thought of other ways to make extra money? " and I'm like no... not really as right now my job keeps me SUPER busy! and no time for non of those mlm things etc... the then proceeds to give me his biz card... and i say thank you...but confused... like oh lord and i thought he was gonna say something sweet and possibly ask me out? lol
but instead... he does this?
lol
I guess the best way would be to be a gentleman, and of course don't make comments about my body or rude comments about parts of my body etc. and who's like hey whats up baby? out of the blue when they don't even know me? lol
just rude i believe.0 -
Me showing up to work after my morning dose of caffeine
Me showing up to work after having forgotten to purchase more coffee.....
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Agreed. Not only is it rude, but very irritating.Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:0 -
Agreed. Not only is it rude, but very irritating.Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:
Had a guy pick me up for a date one time at my house and he honked the horn to try to get me to come outside, instead of walking to the door.
Also rude0 -
Should have made his *kitten* wait!! >.< lol
Agreed. Not only is it rude, but very irritating.Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:
Had a guy pick me up for a date one time at my house and he honked the horn to try to get me to come outside, instead of walking to the door.
Also rude0 -
BEEEEEEEEEEEEP!! BEEEEEEEEEEEEEP!!0
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Should have made his *kitten* wait!! >.< lol
Agreed. Not only is it rude, but very irritating.Worst: honking a car horn or yelling "hey!" from afar. :noway:
Had a guy pick me up for a date one time at my house and he honked the horn to try to get me to come outside, instead of walking to the door.
Also rude
Agree, 100%. If someone is too lazy to walk to the damn door it's showing disrespect on so many levels. To you, it's saying your not worth the ten seconds it would take.. to your neighbors it's saying that there is an *kitten* parked outside. I wouldn't have come out and probably wouldn't have answered the door when they eventually came a'knockin0
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