40+ Club: Fall Fitness Fanatics

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  • kbefit
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    Thanks so much for the great welcome. Have tried to read every single post in this thread but am at work and running out of time :laugh: I will say though that you are all very motivating and I'm glad I found this spot here on MFP. I am going to weigh myself for the first time on Monday and am very nervous. I can exercise like a fiend and eat very little but the scale is so slow to move for me. I am so determined to do this...I can not spend one more year feeling like a do. I've been overweight most of my life but oddly enough have never pictured myself that way when I would think about myself (if that makes sense) Somewhere in my young life I just took a wrong turn. I keep trying to turn back but I feel like I'm in one of those corn mazes at the pumpkin farm and just haven't been able to find my way. Right now I'd say my biggest hurdle is when I socialize with friends. I know I can do this, I just need to figure it out. No more looking back! Looking forward to this journey.
  • cmw9696
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    thanks all for the warm welcome!

    Stiring, a duathlon is just running and biking in 3 segments. An example would be 1-3 mile run followed by a 15-35 mile bike, and again followed by another 1-3 mile run. I am not a swimmer of any kind, so that is totally out! I have never run a 5k or ridden in a road race either...but I'm willing to put in the effort to get there! Once it gets warmer outside...who only knows when that will be in Iowa?!?! , I plan on getting outdoors for some "real" training. For now, I am content increasing my bike mileage on the bike trainer and increasing the total endurance on the treadmill. Also, I don't have a duathlon picked out yet, but I am looking around July-September. There is a Warrior Dash in Illinois that I am planning on doing in June with my BIL & SIL...totally awesome looking! Oh yeah, the Trainer thing...I would much rather at 40 go to a gym and have a 40+ trainer than some 20-something who has no clue about the struggles of the 40-something body/diet/hormones, etc!

    Took last night off of working out...legs were extremely sluggish/achy from the 2 previous days of aerobics that I was not accustomed to I suppose? I was feeling like I may be coming down with some cold/sinus thing too...still feel that way this AM...its been a year, so I guess I'm due, especially when everyone in my work-place seems to be "sharing" their germs freely! I'm going to fight it still! Maybe a sit in the dry sauna would sweat it out? May do that in the AM, as we have the neighors over tonight for steaks and cocktails! I LOVE my neighbors! We have two great couples on two sides of us! Anyway, if I get home soon enough, I may jump on the elliptical trainer to see if I cannot burn a few extra calories for cocktails!?!

    Kbefit - I too am at work! It has been really slow the last couple of days...argghh...I would much rather be swamped with paperwork!

    Have a great weekend everyone!
    christine
  • kbefit
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    Believe it or not i would kill for all the snow everyone is getting. I suppose that's sounds crazy since Chicago had so much of it for the last two years, but I figure if it snows, then maybe that's another opportunity for exercise. Going to Florida at the end of March and need all of the help I can get! :glasses:

    I also agree about the personal trainer thing...would much rather be with someone who remembers the 80's....not someone who was born in them! :wink:
  • cardigirl
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    Morning 40+ crew!!!

    Thanks for the welcome back!

    Just wanted to jump in and say that I have been working with a personal trainer for over 2 years now, and I wouldn't trade him for the world. He's 26, and he has taken me from a couch potato to a pretty fit 55 year old. I really don't think age has much to do with the effectiveness of a trainer as much as their capability of understanding their clients. A great trainer will start with you where you are and work with you to get you to your goals.

    I know that I feel exceptionally lucky to have found a trainer to work with that I have a good relationship with. And yeah, he was born in the 80s but we still find a lot of things in common to talk about, like football! Although I am not quite on board with Jersey Shore yet. :laugh:

    However, the main think I would look for in a trainer is whether or not they themselves are fit, and Stiring is so fit I definitely would feel confident that she understands and knows what works. I think certifying as a Personal Trainer would be a great thing, Stiring!!! I definitely would want to work with you!!!!

    mrsward and kbefit, welcome!!! This is a wonderful group of people here and we are all very supportive of each other.

    kbefit, concerning your statement that you exercise a lot and consume a little you might want to read this link:

    http://www.myfitnesspal.com/topics/show/3047-700-calories-a-day-and-not-losing

    I found it really interesting and informative. And it fit me to a T! I had been underconsuming for years!


    Sing, glad to hear you are seeing the results of eating more nutritiously over just consuming less calories! It is amazing to me how much I CAN eat, if it's the right kind of food! Keep up the good work.

    Alf, of course I came back! Too many great people here not to! I hope the new workout regimen works for you, although, seriously, teaching Zumba 4 days a week seems like plenty!!! You look great!

    Texassipian, it's funny how much work those trainers can get us to do, isn't it? I'm very envious of you and the triathalon. Have you read anything about Tough Mudders? http://www.toughmudder.com You should go for that next!!! :wink:

    Tomorrow is the first boot camp class of the new year. We've been off for 2 weeks, so I'm looking forward to/dreading it. Hopefully he'll take into account we've been loafing for two weeks.

    Did lots of sparring in my training session yesterday and have the feeling that in a ring with an opponent I would be knocked out in seconds! :laugh: Finding the ducking and weaving part difficult to master. Guess I'll have to work on the running away part. :bigsmile:

    Catch y'all next week!!!!
  • StiringWendel
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    mrsward (aka christine), thanks for the info on the duathlon. Getting outside for training is exactly why I don't think I'll be ready for the DC half-marathon in March. I guess I'm a fair weather runner! :laugh: I think it was wise for you to take a day off exercise if your legs were feeling really heavy. It's okay to workout when you are a little tight and sore, but that heavy feeling is a sign of perhaps over-doing it a bit. In addition, if you are getting sick, it's best to ease off a bit as well. Hope you are feeling better. Thanks for the encouragement in becoming a trainer!

    kbefit, thanks for your support on the trainer issue as well. I agree, I'd definitely prefer to workout with somebody who at least knows life before a cell phone. I totally understand what you're saying about not picturing yourself overweight. I never did either. And then I had a good long look at some photos that were taken, and I kept trying to tell myself that it was the camera or whatever that had me looking so....pudgy. But the logical side of me kept saying 'Then why does everybody around you look normal?' I had to admit to myself that I had a weight problem because I did. I was probably a good 50 pounds heavier than I am now when I made that realization. I refused to weigh myself because I just didn't want to know. Instead of weighing, I just started losing weight. I estimate that I dropped about 25lbs before I had the nerve to get on the scale again. Then, of course, I promptly gained back 10 of those. And it was then I decided that I had had enough of struggling with my weight and it was my lifestyle that was going to change. That was two years ago, and I feel SO much better and am SO much happier with who I am. I know what it feels like to be in that maze, so please, ask any questions you've got. Socializing can be scary at first, and it took me quite some time to realize that I could socialize and still be healthy. The people you are socializing with should be supportive of you if you explain what you are doing and why. Go in with a plan and STICK WITH IT!! And if your friends aren't supportive.....well, that's their problem and not yours. I know that sounds harsh, but don't let somebody badger you into eating/drinking something you don't want. Walk your own path. You're taking some great steps now, and be proud of that.
  • alf1163
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    Good morning!!! Friday check in!! Well, I have no idea how much I weigh. :laugh: I really dont want to know. :tongue: I know I am a little heavier than I was back in Oct...my clothes tell me that and the way I feel. What I hate the most is that I gain first in the belly and that truly bothers me...any suggestions of fast but healthy way to get rid of belly fat? I am eating better :drinker: and I am going to schedule my workouts today starting tomorrow!!! I can't wait!!!! :drinker:

    Stirring, you HAVE to become a personal trainer!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! All the exercises you recommended my PT had recommended, well except for the kickbacks, but only because of my posture and how I tend to bring my shoulders in. During our last meeting we discussed all the exercises I could do, etc. It was right before the Holidays so I didnt do much but I am ready to start. He also suggested light weights. So I want to do 2 days of upper body and 2 days of lower body alternating and for cardio just the Zumba for now. I want to take one day off a week but that might be a little hard cause I teach Mon-Thu and on weekends I have more time to focus on the weight trng. Suggestions?

    Cardi, You are very lucky to have a really good trainer who is young. I am sure he is one of those who are truly commited to their careers. Is he only certified as a personal trainer or does he also have a degree in fitness, health? I have seen so many young trainers in the gyms that are always looking at the girls instead of focusing on their clients. :angry: and others who have their clients do some really crazy stuff. I would definitely choose an older one myself who is more experienced with life in general and aging but that is just me. Like with anything people have to be very selective and "shop" around for a good trainer. Glad to hear you are doing so well....knock'em hardd!!! :laugh:

    kbefit, welcome!!! I am also curious about your calorie intake...dont go below 1200 especially if you are exercising, you have to eat enough in order to lose weight in a healthy way.

    mrsward, welcome!!! And congrats on your weight loss!!!!! :drinker:

    Ok, gotta go...at work.

    Have a wonderful weekend!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :flowerforyou: :flowerforyou:
  • singfree
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    This is off-topic, but here goes. I am just by inspired by the feel-good story about the gentleman from Cleveland, OH, by the name of Ted Williams. He's the homeless man with the wonderful speaking voice who by chance (or by grace) was filmed by the local news as he panhandled for money. To be honest, I've had the attitude that if I gave money to these people, they would just spend it on liquor or drugs. After watching his interview on TV, I must admit that I paint certain groups of individuals with a broad brush. It's true: You really can't judge a book by its cover. His story of redemption has taught me a good lesson.
  • darman
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    newbie to this forum sound pretty cool though so let me give you my details

    48 year old male from beautiful Lake City, SC - married to my best friend - we have 5 children from 24 down to 15
    started getting back in shape about 18 months ago when i got on the scales to see 192 pounds:noway: so because i have a pretty fair vain streak in me i started at the gym at work - started very slowy and gradually increased
    i am now down to 175 (umm yeah it was 172 before the holidays :cry: )
    I enjoy working out and have picked up running - something i never said i would do but now i am hooked - i don't consider myself a "runner" but rather someone who runs - i put in about 15 miles a week
    my goal weight is 170 and i am having the hardest time getting there - before Christmas i was maintaining 172 pretty well but could not seem to get rid of those last 2 pounds but I do love my sweets and don't plan on giving them up entirely so i will just deal with the 2 pounds as a trade off
    Anywho..............this is a great post - thanks for putting it out there
  • darman
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    This is off-topic, but here goes. I am just by inspired by the feel-good story about the gentleman from Cleveland, OH, by the name of Ted Williams. He's the homeless man with the wonderful speaking voice who by chance (or by grace) was filmed by the local news as he panhandled for money. To be honest, I've had the attitude that if I gave money to these people, they would just spend it on liquor or drugs. After watching his interview on TV, I must admit that I paint certain groups of individuals with a broad brush. It's true: You really can't judge a book by its cover. His story of redemption has taught me a good lesson.
    a lesson we all need to learn over and over again - i heard someone once say not to judge anyone until you have "sat where they sit"
  • alf1163
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    Darman, Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :drinker: :drinker: :drinker: With your determination, I am sure you will be at 170 before spring comes. How tall are you? My husband is in need to do what you have done!!! I dont know how else to put it to him. I have just stopped giving him advice. He has gained a lot of weight but refuses to exercise consistently. He can cut out processed foods, saturated fats and the "bad" stuff very well but I dont think he is eating enough and the way he should plus he truly needs to be more consistent with exercise. Welcome to this thread!

    Sing, I too saw him on TV. I just pray that he doesnt turn back to drugs and alcohol now that he is going to have money. I hope he doesnt blow this great opportunity he has.
  • singfree
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    Darman, welcome! I see that you from Salt Lake City. I just returned from helping my BIL and his wife move to Washington, UT (St. George area). Great people in UT!! They are thrilled to be there after many years in Los Angeles. We can't wait to visit them in a few months.
  • kbefit
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    Cardigirl...thanks for the article. I will definitely read it. I have learned my lesson about under eating. About 2 years ago I lost about 30 pounds. The pic of my profile was at that time....I still had 30 to go. The only reason I use that pic is because I'd had computer issues and when I joined, it was the only one on my system. I should probably post a better "before" picture. Anyway, at that time I was exercising like a fiend. I have actually found what I love to do and so I did it for at least an hour everyday and wasn't really that hungry. After losing 30 pounds, my body just stopped losing. My doctor said that my body was probably going into starvation mode and refused to lose. But once I slowed down on the exercise my weight crept up and here I am again. I have yo-yo dieted all of my life and have to say I've probably only been thin about 4 times in my life....and for very short times. But when I was thin, I knew that's how I was supposed to be. And for me, I'm realizing that it's all about the food. It's not even what I put in my mouth because while I love sugar and junk as much as the next person, you'd be surprised at how healthfully I eat. For me I believe, it's the portion control. Even healthy food can become a detriment when eaten in mass quantities. I guess I need to listen to those signals. I admit it - I love good food and good wine. I also love to cook and like to eat what I cook. But guess what? I love pants with zippers too....and the beach....and tank tops....and the pool...and not shying away from the camera....and so on and so on. So I guess that those are the things I need to focus on. This journey WILL be exciting and I can still love what I love, but maybe just in smaller quantities :wink:

    You're right alf...I need to follow the rules this time. It's getting to a point where food almost becomes scary to me and that's not the way it's supposed to be. Stirring thanks for your advice too...I do have supportive friends and I'm not afraid to tell them what I need. It was the same when I quit smoking years ago because you're right, this is my life, and I want to be around to live it!!!
  • cardigirl
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    kbefit, I did that too. I would lose 30lbs and then start to gain it all back plus another 10. Frustrating. And all on very low calorie intake. I must have done it at least 5 times since my 20s. I love food too, but I will tell you, that since I've started looking at food as fuel for optimum performance for my body, I feel the best I have ever felt! So much more energy and I look much better too!

    I'm glad you found us! This journey is so worth taking and it really helps to have lots of support along the way! :flowerforyou:
  • StiringWendel
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    cardigirl, you posted while I was posting! Thanks for the article. Nutrition is key, that's for sure. I'm glad you like your trainer and I totally agree that it is about finding the right person.

    singfree, I find this current story kind of interesting too. I saw he and his mother on the Today Show this morning, and his mother is so deperate for him to turn his life around. I hope this is his time and he takes it.

    darman, welcome! I'm with alf...I would like to know what you've done to lose the weight. My husband keeps saying he wants to lose weight, but he just won't listen to me. He'd rather read David Zinczenko that listen to what I say. Now, Zinczenko knows what he's talking about, but I feed my husband and it hurts me when he will say things like "I need to start eating better so I'm going to read Abs Diet". Granted, I only feed my husband when he is home, but it still annoys me because if he would just pay attention to what I've serving him (or what I'm eating when he is around), he'd know what 'eating better' is. Oh, well. Enough of that rant. Congratulations on your weight loss. Those last few pounds are tough. The thing that worked for me in losing it was intense exercise including strength training. You indicate you're running 15 miles a week. That's great, but is that your only exercise? If so, you might be able to shock your body into losing that little bit if you add a little more variety to the program.

    alf, I'm so glad to hear I wasn't steering you in the wrong direction with exercises!! And I'm glad you talked to your PT about it as well. It sounds to me like you want to work out six days a week but have eight days worth of exercise, right? Can you fit in shorter workouts on the days you're doing Zumba at all? I'm just curious because if you can, then on one day you can do a 20-30 minute upper body and on another maybe one of the shorter premixes from Butts and Guts (since you'd mentioned doing that). On one day during the weekend, you can do a longer leg workout (like the entire Butts and Guts) and on Friday, you can do a longer upper body routine. The only important thing to remember, as you know, is to not do your upper or lower body workouts on consecutive days. To keep your upper body workout shorter, focus on the larger muscle groups (chest/back) if that's the only time you've got. Working these muscles burns more calories AND you also work many of the smaller muscle groups as well (note: you can hit the biceps doing back if you perform a bent-over row with an underhand grip). As far as the belly fat, it is all about the diet (or at least mostly about the diet). There is no quick way of getting rid of it. You just have to watch what you eat, avoid sodium, alcohol and processed foods, and drink plenty of water. Sadly, the place we add fat first is usually the place it comes off last. For me.....its my thighs. :grumble:

    kbefit, I completely echo what cardigirl just wrote about looking at food as fuel. Once you start seeing it that way (and paying attention to how poorly junk food makes you feel) it will turn your life around. As she said, this is a journey well worth taking!
  • cardigirl
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    I am very lucky to have a trainer who is as enthusiastic about his work as mine is. And although he's only 26, he is a former Marine, and has some world experience that way, having served in Iraq. Plus, he does MMA and runs, so he practices what he preaches and I find that more important to me than his age. He seems to care about the progress his clients make, which makes him a good trainer. He listens to me, but he also challenges me to try things that I might not have tried otherwise. Burpees and boxing come to mind. :wink:

    I was just suggesting that ageism can run both ways, and just because someone is young, doesn't mean that they would be a bad personal trainer. Nor would someone in their 40s or 50s be bad either. Jack LaLanne is still going strong.

    It does pay though, to research and interview trainers before committing significant funds or time with them.

    I think that Stiring is going to make an EXCELLENT trainer, because she is dedicated and thorough and smart!! And FIT!!! :flowerforyou:
  • StiringWendel
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    Thanks cardigirl. :blushing: :flowerforyou: And I totally agree with you and the whole 'ageism' issue....as well as what you said about trainers.
  • altushe
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    Hi, kadetr recommended that I check out this thread as I too am a 40+ fitness fanatic looking for maintenance support. Thanks for the recommendation, kadetr - great group!

    Quick question - how do you bookmark a topic or is the assumption simply that the last pages in the post are the most recent? Some of the MFP threads are not sequential and it seems you need to scroll through to read recent posts (although I do find even the older ones helpful in searching for advice/key words on various topics).

    As for me, I am a 5'2" 47 year-old NY'er working to maintain a 40+ pound weight loss. I have been working out my whole life - even at my heaviest and througout my pregnancy; however I have never been in as good shape as now - toned, really low body fat, energetic, etc. I workout at a gym every weekday morning at 5:30AM and on the weekends and while I would love to run a marathon - I have never run for more than 60 minutes - usually do the stairmaster or treadmill. Maybe now that I achieved the weight loss, I will focus on fitness goals.

    Right now just struggling with maintenance trying to figure out calories needed not to lose - but not to gain. It's harder than the weight loss ever was. Initially I lost more than I intended in trying to transition to maintenance and still not 100% sure I have found the right balance. I eat all my maintenance calories (1540 according to MFP) plus estimated exercise calories. Do all of you track exercise in MFP? I just go over by about 500 everyday as that is my estimation of my exercise calories. Never though I could eat 2000 calories a day and still struggle not to lose weight.

    Anyway, thanks for letting me join your group and look forward to sharing experiences. For those who are further on this path, any advice is MUCH appreciated. Thanks!
  • kbefit
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    Totally agree about the fuel thing. That is why we never have "junk" in the house and HFCS isn't in our house either. Like I said we eat pretty healthfully, and we treat ourselves from time to time. We just need to watch those amounts. I have three active kids but I can see that sadly my 8 yr. old could follow in my footsteps and so we talk about health a lot. I am so glad I found this thread. You guys are all very knowledgeable and I know that I can learn a lot from you. What a great place!

    Altushe I agree too that the message boards are slightly hard to follow. I'll get there though! :laugh:
  • alf1163
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    Good morning!! Happy Saturday!!!! I went to bed late last night taking down Christmas decorations. Not 100% finished but took care of most of it. Soon I will do a lower body workout. I am looking forward to it!!! Thank you for the suggestions Stiring!!! I might start with the following schedule: Su Upper M Zumba T Zumba W Lower (am) Z (pm) Th Upper (am) Z (pm) F rest Sat Lower I truly like a rest day during the week and Friday is the only day I dont teach. Besides, I tend to eat more on weekends so I need to burn some extra calories. :laugh: If that is working out for me I might add a couple more alternating days during the week (M L and T U along with Zumba in the evening). How does that sound Trainer Stiring? :wink:

    Altushe, welcome!!!! :drinker: :drinker: The easiest way to find a thread for me is to post and when I log in I click on my topics. This thread is usually the first one on the list since it is so active. :drinker: CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR WEIGHT LOSS!!!!! :drinker: Now the fun really begins. :laugh: :noway: But you can do it!!!! The good thing about you is that you like to exercise, kudos!!! How about training for a half marathon? You said you have run for about an hr? Then you can do a half marathon easily. There are some websites that help you train for it but I would just say get out there every other day and increase the mileage slowly until you can do 13 miles or more. I participated in 2 half marathons among other races in 2009. I would suggest to look for one in 4 to 5 months and sign up for it. That way you will be motivated to train. :happy: As far as maintenance calories it might take some time to figure out exactly how much you need but it seems to that your are doing it right. If you continue to lose perhaps eat a little more, it is trial and error. You are at the same height Stiring is at so she can help you out figuring it out. How much do you weigh? Some of us are not weighing anymore and are trying to just go by how we look and feel. I dont track my calories anymore. I did that for about 2 yrs (been a member for 3), I pretty much eat the same everyday (except on weekends), drink a lot of water (about a gallon), eat every 2-3 hrs mini meals, now it is not that perfect all the time but most of the time. :tongue:

    kbefit, WTG for not keeping junk food in the house. That works for us really well. Out of sight out of mind!!!! :laugh: My little problem is that I can be a carboholic and when I want something sweet and carbs and luckily there isnt much around I grab a cereal box and sometimes I eat too much of it in one seating, dry, out of the box!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! BAD GIRL!!! :noway: :laugh: So I have to really control that.

    Have a wonderful weekend!!!! :flowerforyou:
  • kbefit
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    Good morning everyone!

    I have a question. Last night I just zero'd out my calories because I was going out to dinner and didn't know what the calorie count was at the restaurant. I ordered grilled vege fajitas...no meat...no cheese so I don't think it was a high calorie meal but you never know how it was prepared. Anyway, at the end of my diary it said if I continue to eat like this, I would be 3 pounds heavier then what it said the day before when I didn't eat back all of my exercise calories. If eating back your exercise calories can alter your outcome by that much...why would anyone do that? I understand about the under eating thing and your body going into starvation mode, but at the same time the same time, especially since I am in my 40's...wouldn't I want to do the maximum amount of weight loss since my metabolism is so slow and it's harder to get that weight off. I suppose logically I get it...but 3 pounds? That's a lot!