Cuddling when sleeping....

blueboxgeek
blueboxgeek Posts: 574 Member
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Surely I cannot be the only one who cannot do the whole cudding to sleep thing?

I really do LOVE a good cuddle / snuggle when in bed with my hubby, but I just cannot fall asleep like that. My hubby always says to me "I would love you to fall asleep in my arms, snuggled against my chest" but I just can't. I can't even have his arm around me, to be able to fall asleep I have to be on my own in my half of the bed.

Maybe it's because I am such a light sleeper??? Anyway, surely I cannot be the only woman like this. Anyone else the same?? (hoping I am not just a weirdo LOL).
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  • miss_jessiejane
    miss_jessiejane Posts: 2,819 Member
    I like cuddling to fall asleep.


    The strangers on the train...they don't like it so well.
  • sissiluv
    sissiluv Posts: 2,205 Member
    My old cat and I would often try to cuddle to sleep. No go.

    I'm sorry, I'm just too much of a wriggler. The future wife/hubby is probably gonna end up sleeping in a separate bed lol
  • bd0027
    bd0027 Posts: 1,053 Member
    I can't either. I need the dude to scoot over so I can sprawl out.
  • WillLift4Tats
    WillLift4Tats Posts: 1,699 Member
    Nope, not a weirdo. I can't fall asleep while cuddling either. I guess I'd like to be able to, but it's just too uncomfortable to drift off.
  • Chrystine71
    Chrystine71 Posts: 224
    All for it :yawn:
  • Keepcalmanddontblink
    Keepcalmanddontblink Posts: 718 Member
    LOL, I am the same way. I love to cuddle for a bit than my arm seems to fall asleep and I get restless and just want my side of the bed.
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  • msbunnie68
    msbunnie68 Posts: 1,894 Member
    I am serious skin to skin cuddler.

    spooner...

    contact.
    so warm and mmmmmmm
  • MandyH1991
    MandyH1991 Posts: 65 Member
    I cannot!!!! fall asleep like that. I feel trapped. I also sleep on my belly though.
  • shak29
    shak29 Posts: 114 Member
    Not alone, I cannot do it either. I am more of a hug and roll kind of gal.
  • RoxyDisaster
    RoxyDisaster Posts: 112 Member
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    Just cant do it!
  • EddieHaskell97
    EddieHaskell97 Posts: 2,227 Member
    Wife hates it, says that I generate too much heat. However, the viciously cold winter nights change that story PDQ! By that time though, she's literally made her own bed and can freeze for all I care. Muhahahah!
  • Muldactus
    Muldactus Posts: 6,972 Member
    I am serious skin to skin cuddler.

    spooner...

    contact.
    so warm and mmmmmmm

    ^^ This.
  • ValerieMartini2Olives
    ValerieMartini2Olives Posts: 3,024 Member
    I do sometimes. I don't sometimes. I like to cuddle with my cats while I'm sleeping. My man is not much of a sleep cuddler so we tend not to do it that often.
  • blueboxgeek
    blueboxgeek Posts: 574 Member
    Soooooo glad it's not just me. I really love the idea of it and try it many times. half hour later I am getting fidgety and uncomfortable and just have to roll to my side.
  • TheRoadDog
    TheRoadDog Posts: 11,788 Member
    My wife is always wanting to "spoon". I'm more of a "forker".
  • shrcpr
    shrcpr Posts: 885 Member
    No, no, and NO! Not while I sleep, and I don't love it a ton while I'm awake either.
  • blueboxgeek
    blueboxgeek Posts: 574 Member
    I like cuddling to fall asleep.


    The strangers on the train...they don't like it so well.

    LOL, love this reply :)
  • shrcpr
    shrcpr Posts: 885 Member
    I like cuddling to fall asleep.


    The strangers on the train...they don't like it so well.

    LOL, love this reply :)

    Oh, I missed that one! That is funny. :laugh:
  • KatieLouWho19
    KatieLouWho19 Posts: 776 Member
    I am a cuddler with my little ones. And when they aren't in the bed I try to cuddle with my fiance... He can't fall asleep with me on his chest or him cuddling to me, but if I am cuddled behind him - he can. All of them sweat the instant they fall asleep though so it doesn't last too long before I am shoving the covers in between their bodies and mine. RAUNCHY BOYS. :grumble: :laugh:
  • asdowe13
    asdowe13 Posts: 1,951 Member
    Nope - there are two sides to a bed for a reason


    Eta - fat finger spelling corrections
  • climbing_trees
    climbing_trees Posts: 726 Member
    I love to fall asleep cuddling. ^_^
    However, as soon as I am asleep, I become a volatile ball of energy and am always wiggling and squirming.
    Fall asleep cute nestled together, wake up with blankets braided in my arms and legs and upside down on the bed, my boyfriend far away.
    Haha
  • tquill
    tquill Posts: 300 Member
    Screw that. My wife and I purposely chose a king sized bed for this reason. When it's time to sleep after the extra curricular activities, we need our own space.
  • micheleld73
    micheleld73 Posts: 914 Member
    We tried it once...didn't get a lick of decent sleep. We cuddle on the couch before bed - we also like to cuddle on the those mornings we don't have to get up early and go to work.
  • Ardeonaig
    Ardeonaig Posts: 3
    Oh I am definitely the same! I have to have my own space in the bed to sleep. I love a cuddle before it's time to nod off, but when I'm sleeping I do not like to have hands and arms on me. Thankfully my fella is exactly the same, so we have a cuddle and a goodnight kiss then both roll over and go to sleep :laugh: :flowerforyou:
  • BigT555
    BigT555 Posts: 2,067 Member
    I love to fall asleep cuddling. ^_^
    However, as soon as I am asleep, I become a volatile ball of energy and am always wiggling and squirming.
    Fall asleep cute nestled together, wake up with blankets braided in my arms and legs and upside down on the bed, my boyfriend far away.
    Haha
    pretty much this
  • ew_david
    ew_david Posts: 3,473 Member
    I like cuddling to fall asleep.


    The strangers on the train...they don't like it so well.

    I enjoyed it thoroughly.

    I can fall asleep as the little spoon, but then I get too hot and have to move away.
  • starznholes
    starznholes Posts: 170 Member
    I'm all about cuddling on the couch, watching a movie or even cuddling to fall asleep. But once i'm sleeping, I need my own space. I cant even share my bed with a cat or dog because I end up getting frustrated and kicking them off at like 3am.
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  • Myhaloslipped
    Myhaloslipped Posts: 4,317 Member
    My wife is always wanting to "spoon". I'm more of a "forker".

    :laugh:
  • oregonzoo
    oregonzoo Posts: 4,251 Member
    If we are cuddling that means he is getting atleast 25% of the bed.
    That is 15% more than what I allow him


    So no.

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