Not tonight honey, a Friends re-run is on....
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So he seems adaptable... willing to keep trying.
Perhaps he needs to work a bit harder on the way he is working to convince her. Get her hot by appealing to what is between her EARS instead of just what's between her LEGS!
I think this request would actually be granted to you. You are freaking gorgeous! That was unrelated, but I just had to say that. Carry on everyone!0 -
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I smell a BS fake story generated for the sole purpose of "going viral" to generate traffic to various new blurby sites that offer no real content of their own and hook people in with stupid headlines like "You literally won't believe what this husband did and his wife's response was crazier!!!!!."
Morgan Freeman is eating cotton candy, your response is invalid...0 -
I might be the minority here that says sex isn't all the happiness in life. Honestly, there was one year where I could have counted the times we hand sex on my hands. No one ever cheated and this year is our 10th anniversary. We're far happier than most people we know.
(and yes I have more sex now before you ask -_-)
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also "witholding sex" as if the man is entitled to it? Really? so we are back to woman is propertie of man?0 -
I always send meeting requests through google calendar to schedule sex with my SO. Then I take meeting notes and email them to her later for review.
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I don't like either the wife or the husband. He acted passive-aggressive, whiny and hurtful, and she showed him that he can't trust her to keep their marriage between them when she aired their dirty laundry with the entire world.
I was going to say I hope they break up, but I don't. I'd hate to wish either of them on someone else.0 -
Here's something to understand.
Getting turned down for sex because a rerun of Friends is on hurts. Because that show sucks and has been off the air for 10 years.
Exactly! This is why I thought it was funny that he made a point to write " rerun" next to that excuse. It would hurt even more if they had a DVR that could record shows.
Tell me no because there's a new episode of Always Sunny! At least have good taste!
No
Hundred Dollar Baby is on.0 -
I have heard this on the radio several times the last week and it cracks me up. I have to say that he was not wrong, why would she hold back so often? On the radio station I listen to they have a sex therapist and she basically says that when you wed and make your vows, you are also vowing to satisfy the needs of your SO. IDK If I believe that 100% but this story brought that to my mind haha.0
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I always send meeting requests through google calendar to schedule sex with my SO. Then I take meeting notes and email them to her later for review.
Best response.
And FWIW, we schedule it too.
Life is busy.
We have very full, packed, crammed days.
So we make it a priority and schedule it.
Rarely, usually in the event of a medical condition or extreme pain and exhaustion for the day and workouts, does it get skipped.
We would never skip it to watch FRIENDS re-runs.
In fact, that might be grounds for breaking up.0 -
Does anyone else find it funny that he kept a "spread" sheet to track a lack of sex?0
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I smell a BS fake story generated for the sole purpose of "going viral" to generate traffic to various new blurby sites that offer no real content of their own and hook people in with stupid headlines like "You literally won't believe what this husband did and his wife's response was crazier!!!!!."
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That's where it originated. Daily Mail is full of what you are talking about though..0 -
Just think, this dude asked her for sex every night. EVERY night for a month :laugh:
I wonder if she was saying NO (just to be a d*ck) cause he kept asking.0 -
if the husband had tried to talk to the wife and got nuthing..then perhaps the spreadsheet was a way for him to show her, in black and white, exactly the issues..
I say utter shame on the wife..I couldnt imagine posting something like that online....what a DB.
unless youve been turned down..I dont think you can realize the hurt it causes..0 -
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Here's something to understand.
Getting turned down for sex because a rerun of Friends is on hurts. Because that show sucks and has been off the air for 10 years.
Exactly! This is why I thought it was funny that he made a point to write " rerun" next to that excuse. It would hurt even more if they had a DVR that could record shows.
Tell me no because there's a new episode of Always Sunny! At least have good taste!
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Hundred Dollar Baby is on.
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its funny whenthe guy is passive aggressive and does something it is wrong....
but when the women does it ...."you deserve to be happy"
good for the guy ....send her *kitten* packing
There are definitely plenty of single ladies out who can appreciate a man who can make a spread sheet, and know how to be a good partner!0 -
From what I saw on the news last night - they are both 25 and have been married for about 2 years. Something seems a bit off. And I think the husband IS trying to communicate that he sees an issue. Maybe it would have been better if there was his side of the data in the spreadsheet... but seriously, her going public with it makes her the jerk in this equation.
Also, I'm with Brett on this one. SO glad I'm not married.
Ok... to all the guys out there that are using this as fuel for their "never settle down" fire...
I swear not all women are like this!
This woman is a horrible wife, and soon hopefully be a horrible divorcee...0 -
This is going to be long winded and angry because quite frankly the responses in this thread have me annoyed as all freaking get out.
1. Women are NOT always the one who turns the partner down. This is a myth that has to die. NOW. I know plenty of women who happen to feel like the turned down party. Women who are beautiful, women who try things. Women who are HURT by this.
And what's more hurtful is threads like this where every idiot man and woman is coming to the consensus that it's always this way.
How do you think the often turned down woman feels when she is told by society that men ALWAYS want it and women ALWAYS turn it down . They wonder why they aren't wanted.
2. Relationships have ebbs and flows. From what I have gathered in recent experience the more you bring up the fact that it's not happening between the sheets, the more the partner not putting out refuses. Constantly bringing it up doesn't help. Spreadsheets won't help. All it's going to do is make you feel like you are married to an insensitive man/woman.
3. The man not getting attention = memes about men not getting any and cheating? Let's reverse this. A woman only gets it four times a month makes a spreadsheet then cheats or leaves .Chances are a lot more excuses will be made for the man and a lot of people will call the woman dirty things.
4. Relationships are supposed to be a good thing. But sex is NOT an obligation. A woman should not feel "lucky" her partner wants her. A m,an should not feel "lucky" that his partner wants him. The two should feel fortunate to have a wonderful partnership that sometimes leads to some hot banging.0 -
From what I saw on the news last night - they are both 25 and have been married for about 2 years. Something seems a bit off. And I think the husband IS trying to communicate that he sees an issue. Maybe it would have been better if there was his side of the data in the spreadsheet... but seriously, her going public with it makes her the jerk in this equation.
Also, I'm with Brett on this one. SO glad I'm not married.
Ok... to all the guys out there that are using this as fuel for their "never settle down" fire...
I swear not all women are like this!
This woman is a horrible wife, and soon hopefully be a horrible divorcee...
That seems like a pretty large leap.
Sex is important but it's not the only important thing. And not wanting it doesn't make one a horrible person. There could be tons of reasons why she isn't willing more often.0 -
Just remember when he's back on the market that a women he spent 5 years with chooses being too lazy shower and a good Friends marathon to sex with this guy...and this is not even getting into the deeper reasons she does not feel like he is worth her effort to be intimate...
In all honesty, they're probably both too selfish in their relationship to see past themselves.0 -
Also he should have let her watch the whole episode and THEN asked her b/c
My girlfriend loves Friends. I hit her with this line every now and again and i swear it immediately leads to some form of playful flirting or intimate actions.0 -
I always send meeting requests through google calendar to schedule sex with my SO. Then I take meeting notes and email them to her later for review.
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Just remember when he's back on the market that a women he spent 5 years with chooses being too lazy shower and a good Friends marathon to sex with this guy...and this is not even getting into the deeper reasons she does not feel like he is worth her effort to be intimate...
In all honesty, they're probably both too selfish in their relationship to see past themselves.
Well the sad thing, John, is that he chose to be with a woman that is too lazy to shower and would prefer a Friends marathon to having sex with him. Oh, and that she would rather publicize their problems in an attempt to garner support than address the fact that there are serious problems in their relationship that need actual effort.
Odds are, he will attract another woman just like her because he also would rather lay blame than put in any actual effort in their relationship.0 -
I think he was right for recording it. It could have been used to help shed light on something she may not have fully realized. She was completely wrong for making it public. How would that help their marriage? They need to make physical validation a priority in their marriage.0
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This is going to be long winded and angry because quite frankly the responses in this thread have me annoyed as all freaking get out.
1. Women are NOT always the one who turns the partner down. This is a myth that has to die. NOW. I know plenty of women who happen to feel like the turned down party. Women who are beautiful, women who try things. Women who are HURT by this.
And what's more hurtful is threads like this where every idiot man and woman is coming to the consensus that it's always this way.
How do you think the often turned down woman feels when she is told by society that men ALWAYS want it and women ALWAYS turn it down . They wonder why they aren't wanted.
2. Relationships have ebbs and flows. From what I have gathered in recent experience the more you bring up the fact that it's not happening between the sheets, the more the partner not putting out refuses. Constantly bringing it up doesn't help. Spreadsheets won't help. All it's going to do is make you feel like you are married to an insensitive man/woman.
3. The man not getting attention = memes about men not getting any and cheating? Let's reverse this. A woman only gets it four times a month makes a spreadsheet then cheats or leaves .Chances are a lot more excuses will be made for the man and a lot of people will call the woman dirty things.
4. Relationships are supposed to be a good thing. But sex is NOT an obligation. A woman should not feel "lucky" her partner wants her. A m,an should not feel "lucky" that his partner wants him. The two should feel fortunate to have a wonderful partnership that sometimes leads to some hot banging.
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Sad. I try to do whatever I can to make my man feel like a man. If I don't, someone else will.
Very true.
Deny sex on a regular basis and you are forcing your partner to live an unfulfilled life. That's mean and cruel.
Sex is a base need to some people, just like eating and drinking. If you don't want to look after me than I'm going to go elsewhere. However, I don't agree with cheating. Dump the person.0 -
Some things you said are valid. But...2. Relationships have ebbs and flows. From what I have gathered in recent experience the more you bring up the fact that it's not happening between the sheets, the more the partner not putting out refuses. Constantly bringing it up doesn't help. Spreadsheets won't help. All it's going to do is make you feel like you are married to an insensitive man/woman.
That's a load of crap. If it is a big enough issue to be brought up that often, then being more inclined to refuse BECUASE of it being brought up is simply being immature and spiteful.3. The man not getting attention = memes about men not getting any and cheating? Let's reverse this. A woman only gets it four times a month makes a spreadsheet then cheats or leaves .Chances are a lot more excuses will be made for the man and a lot of people will call the woman dirty things.
From my experience with threads on here, that is not the case. If the womans needs aren't being met in any way for any reason, the guy is an incensitive jerk who doesn't deserve her. Here is a case where they mans needs were not being met. He communicated that fact using emperical data to prove his case, and that it is not an exageration. And there are plenty of women in this very thread delusional enough to say that is insensitive. Bull. Crap. At least he is communicating. Let the roles be reversed, and these same women would be jumping on the bandwagon about how insensitive he is for making her feel unwanted and not meeting her needs.4. Relationships are supposed to be a good thing. But sex is NOT an obligation. A woman should not feel "lucky" her partner wants her. A m,an should not feel "lucky" that his partner wants him. The two should feel fortunate to have a wonderful partnership that sometimes leads to some hot banging.
Sex IS an obligation in marriage. Period. Yes, there are going to be times when either partner is not in the mood for whatever reason. But when that is the norm rather than the exception, that partner is not upholding part of their end of the relationship. And if that partner is going to continue to withold, they should feel damn lucky their spouse continues to show interest in it.
As commedian once said: "I married you. You are it. It's not like I can run down the street and say 'Ms. Johnson, I'm not getting any p***y. Can I have some of yours?' "0 -
Just think, this dude asked her for sex every night. EVERY night for a month :laugh:
I wonder if she was saying NO (just to be a d*ck) cause he kept asking.
That seems very healthy to me. If she would have accepted most of the time, they would probably be much more happily married.0 -
Just remember when he's back on the market that a women he spent 5 years with chooses being too lazy shower and a good Friends marathon to sex with this guy...and this is not even getting into the deeper reasons she does not feel like he is worth her effort to be intimate...
In all honesty, they're probably both too selfish in their relationship to see past themselves.
Well the sad thing, John, is that he chose to be with a woman that is too lazy to shower and would prefer a Friends marathon to having sex with him. Oh, and that she would rather publicize their problems in an attempt to garner support than address the fact that there are serious problems in their relationship that need actual effort.
Odds are, he will attract another woman just like her because he also would rather lay blame than put in any actual effort in their relationship.
So this..0 -
From what I saw on the news last night - they are both 25 and have been married for about 2 years. Something seems a bit off. And I think the husband IS trying to communicate that he sees an issue. Maybe it would have been better if there was his side of the data in the spreadsheet... but seriously, her going public with it makes her the jerk in this equation.
Also, I'm with Brett on this one. SO glad I'm not married.
Ok... to all the guys out there that are using this as fuel for their "never settle down" fire...
I swear not all women are like this!
This woman is a horrible wife, and soon hopefully be a horrible divorcee...
That seems like a pretty large leap.
Sex is important but it's not the only important thing. And not wanting it doesn't make one a horrible person. There could be tons of reasons why she isn't willing more often.
Possibly, but now that I'm 30 and single, I've got a pool of single 30-something's to chose from %99.9 of whom refuse to ever re-marry because either
A) Their previous marriage was just like this or worse
or
All their buddies marriages (or previous marriages) are just like this or worse
None of them believe me that not all women are like this, they've been burned too hard in the past.
In the event that the list is real, and that she had a serious medical issue every single night, but he recorded it as re-runs, than yes, that is a stretch.
If she's is truly saying no for these silly excuses, than I do believe she is a horrible wife.
I mean, if it was really sore, she could do it another way FFS
She seems to be completely neglecting his needs, to me.
So selfish.
And he'll be in my 30's single's pool again going "Nope, never, ever, ever, ever again."0
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