Girls- Getting sexually frusterated?

Dang! If you gals could channel even 1% of those hormones and send them my wife's direction then I'd be a happy man! It's the polar opposite around my house :sad:

My ex was ALWAYS too tired...not interested...could care less. It's not that he was getting it elsewhere, it just was't a priority for him. And honestly it didn't matter what I did, he just wasn't interested in sex. My husband now....he is 44, works 60-80hrs a week and has NEVER been too tired or not interested. We have been together 7 years and still it's almost every night.

He's a lucky guy to have a wife that is on the same page with him in enjoying it that frequently. I'm married and I'm not even sure who the President was last time I got any.... :brokenheart:

Like someone else said earlier, it's like glue to a relationship. Without it...stuff just falls apart all around you.

Thank God for those massaging shower heads...

Care to explain......hahahaa

Show and tell?

I call your bluff...haha

Did you miss the part about the boyfriend with time for nothing but studying?

Or the part about taking care of yourself and letting him watch?

... cuz sweetie, there's a lot of business to be taken care of here

Yeah as mine has gotten into the mid 40 range he's started to worry...about keeping up!

I just hope that if my situation ever improves that because I'm SO well preserved, that my window of availability, so to speak, will be open a lot later into life. :laugh:

Dam so sorry. . . . I guess Im lucky :happy:

high five im with you...altho im the more tired one cause of the 19 month old .. my husband could be snoring and all i have to do is give him a nudge, whip out a boob, and game on..

Dam so sorry. . . . I guess Im lucky :happy:

high five im with you...altho im the more tired one cause of the 19 month old .. my husband could be snoring and all i have to do is give him a nudge, whip out a boob, and game on..

Love it!

I just have to say, for those that are rolling in the sweat, bravo to you! Kisses!!! I am a champ at those times but respectfully- I'd like to say, stop it? When we are talking about being overweight for example you don't see a whole crowd of size 2's rolling in saying OMFG JUST EAT ONE CRACKER A DAY...LIKE DUH!!
Get it?

No, I don't get it ???

I am enjoying reading the posts, especially from the female view.

WOW\ Gaming or spend time with the GF\Wife---- ?? Are you serious?

I have a Xbox360 but even I know when it's time to put down the controller

Dang! If you gals could channel even 1% of those hormones and send them my wife's direction then I'd be a happy man! It's the polar opposite around my house :sad:

I'm right there with you. I think in the 3 years I've been with my wife, I could count on both hands the number of times she initiated. When things started to cool down, she would constantly laugh at me and toy with me (put lightly, but something I didn't care for at all), so I have slowed down initializing as well. We now average 2 times a month and decreasing.

My ex was ALWAYS too tired...not interested...could care less. It's not that he was getting it elsewhere, it just was't a priority for him. And honestly it didn't matter what I did, he just wasn't interested in sex. My husband now....he is 44, works 60-80hrs a week and has NEVER been too tired or not interested. We have been together 7 years and still it's almost every night.

That's how it is with my fiance....we've been together 7 1/2 years and have 2 kids. Even in the beginning it was about once every 1-2 weeks, and then maybe twice every 1-2 months.....now it's.....I can't even remember -- i think something like 3 times since August. He never initiates, wants me to -- but I can't tell you how many times he has turned me down flat no matter what I did. Now, I just can't initiate anymore -- it's too dejecting. We've been over and over, and around and around about this. He'd rather watch porn on his pc and *kitten* in the shower. Whatever.......not sure how long I'll be able to stay in this sexless "marriage."