Calorie Goals
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Since people remember your attitude from the other threads you have created, there may come a time when you are truly ready to go about this in a healthy way and won't get any help and support that you are looking for because they will remember how you treated others in the past. It won't just be the ones you are being snotty to either. I'm sure that already there have been people who decided not to reply or even look at the thread after seeing that you are the OP.
Try to keep an open mind and be grateful that at this point there are still a few left that are willing to offer you any help at all.
Good luck.
Actually I started being that way towards the same ppl that started being rude to me. I never initiated it first.0 -
Ayanna,
You've started first in every one of your threads. You get advice based on fact and reality that you don't want to hear, then lash out every single time. After you lash out, you then accuse others of childish acts or not understanding when in every occasion everyone providing you advice turned out to be correct. When you're ready to listen, there is plenty of information already provided that you can learn from and move forward from. Until then, you are the only obstacle in the path to healthy weight loss.0 -
brianpperkins wrote: »ayannabayer,
Can you please put your child on the forum? I bet they are more willing to accept common sense guidance than you've proven to be so far.
Multiple people provided you with sense filled advice. You continue to rant against it in thread after thread. The irony that you complain about childish behavior while making the most childish posts in all of your threads eludes you.
How did I ever rant against any advice????? When did I do it? Did I do it in this feed???? Pretty sure I wasn't against anything anyome said.
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ayannabayer wrote: »
How did I ever rant against any advice????? When did I do it? Did I do it in this feed???? Pretty sure I wasn't against anything anyome said.
Yes, you have. People are trying to help you.0 -
ayannabayer wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »whereslisa wrote: »Not many people here can answer a question nicely huh? Before you all jump onto me, no, you don't have to deliberately be "mean" to sound mean. Geez, just answer her question. I'm not going to point fingers and I'm not suggesting everyone sounded rude but there were quite a few who did. One thing I dislike about MFP is a lot of people here who seem to have their panties in a wad all of the time.
To the OP, yes you need to meet your calorie goal for the day. You'll become quite unhealthy over time if you dont. You can eat more or switch one meal for another that has higher calories. I know what you mean about the low cal veggies, I can eat a meal of them for 200 calories and feel super full. I usually eat some apples/other fruits, some salads with something like chicken and so on to get to my calorie goal if I eat lots of veggies that day.
Omg I do the exact same thing!!! But even when I have chicken on my salad I gets soooo full. So I don't keep over eating. And thanks for understanding. I say the same thing. They all get on me about my other threads and then when I'm asking for normal advice they all want ro be English teachers. Its annoying but I usually just ignore them so they'll catch a hint.
Say what you mean, and the misunderstanding will be avoided. That's what language is for - communication. You communicated to others, on a site that is used to track calories, that veggies have no calories.
As has been stated, there ARE plenty of people who think there are veggies with negative calories, or who don't track veggies because they think the calories are so minimal they don't matter, or who think veggies are "free." Combine that with your previous posts and there you have it - when you said they "literally" have no calories, people took you to mean what you said. For those tracking calories, it's important to correct misinformation that can be impacting their logging and progress, so that's what people tried to do.
Also, you say now that you are asking for "normal advice." I hope that means you are leaving the quick fixes behind and will take the advice that has been offered in this thread.
Im pretty sure nobody was talking to you. I mean, I sure wasn't.
By posting, you are inviting anyone on this site to respond. You don't have to like what they say.
If you really want advice, you should reread all the posts, since nearly everyone has provided the same answer to your question - eat to your goal. If you don't really want advice, then there's no need to ask a question.
Actually you weren't giving advice. You were giving smart *kitten* comments as usual. And on the other post people jlwere just bitching about diet fads. So when I completely stop talking about those and on to things that you guys actually prefer you guys all wanna be "Mr/Mrs Told You So" which is really ugly of all you. You should be happy that I changed my mind. Not trying to throw it I'm my face bc IDC for that. I already read the comments on this specific post on what people are talking about I should do. So you're no longer needed here.
You may want to learn how to respond with grace to people who are only trying to provide sound advice in response to your questions, instead of coming across with such a childish attitude. It will get you farther in life.
I don'tremember your "advice". But I sure do remember your smart **** , rhetorical comments that I don't care for.-4 -
ayannabayer wrote: »Since people remember your attitude from the other threads you have created, there may come a time when you are truly ready to go about this in a healthy way and won't get any help and support that you are looking for because they will remember how you treated others in the past. It won't just be the ones you are being snotty to either. I'm sure that already there have been people who decided not to reply or even look at the thread after seeing that you are the OP.
Try to keep an open mind and be grateful that at this point there are still a few left that are willing to offer you any help at all.
Good luck.
Actually I started being that way towards the same ppl that started being rude to me. I never initiated it first.
Ayanna this is something my sister and I would say when we were kids!!!
"But but but SHE started it"!!
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Can't. Stop. Reading.0
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You saw everything as rude that did not support your position. That argument you just gave is the same thing a kid would say, do you not see that?ayannabayer wrote: »Since people remember your attitude from the other threads you have created, there may come a time when you are truly ready to go about this in a healthy way and won't get any help and support that you are looking for because they will remember how you treated others in the past. It won't just be the ones you are being snotty to either. I'm sure that already there have been people who decided not to reply or even look at the thread after seeing that you are the OP.
Try to keep an open mind and be grateful that at this point there are still a few left that are willing to offer you any help at all.
Good luck.
Actually I started being that way towards the same ppl that started being rude to me. I never initiated it first.
Actually no. I wasn't against everything. And no I didn't see everything as rude. I can tell what's rude and what's not. There are people giving good advice and I do take it into consideration. Some advice I ask more questions to get a better understanding. And for some, its "advice". Its the advice that brings up other threads I posted, that LITERALLY HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH THIS ONE UNTIL RUDE PEOPLE wanted to be Mr/Mrs I Told You So. Saying "oh I see you finally stopped that pudding fad blah blah blah *talks more about a different thread* but you should listen to the other threads" is not good advice to me.BC NONE OF THE OTHER THREADS ARE ABOUT THIS TOPIC.0 -
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christinev297 wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »Since people remember your attitude from the other threads you have created, there may come a time when you are truly ready to go about this in a healthy way and won't get any help and support that you are looking for because they will remember how you treated others in the past. It won't just be the ones you are being snotty to either. I'm sure that already there have been people who decided not to reply or even look at the thread after seeing that you are the OP.
Try to keep an open mind and be grateful that at this point there are still a few left that are willing to offer you any help at all.
Good luck.
Actually I started being that way towards the same ppl that started being rude to me. I never initiated it first.
Ayanna this is something my sister and I would say when we were kids!!!
"But but but SHE started it"!!
That's basically how the world works. If some hits you, are going to stand there and let them hit you again? Well, you probably would get your butt mopped down the street right now, while I'm happily defending myself 100%.-2 -
janejellyroll wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »
How did I ever rant against any advice????? When did I do it? Did I do it in this feed???? Pretty sure I wasn't against anything anyome said.
Yes, you have. People are trying to help you.
Where?????? Show me! Bc until that person started commenting and being a smart *kitten* everything was fine. I was taking in advice perfectly fine. I didn't have problem with anything. So you obviously didn't read enough when you decided to be nosey and see what the conversation was about so that you could your input in.
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Having a 19 year old try to tell anyone how the world works is laughable. It's even funnier when that 19 year old repeatedly fails to accept common sense advice. If you think you could mop anyone's butt down the street you are sadly mistaken ... I mean that in an intellectual and physical way.
Thank you for reminding me how mature my daughter is. Sometimes that comparative value is needed to appreciate things.-1 -
ayannabayer wrote: »
Where?????? Show me! Bc until that person started commenting and being a smart *kitten* everything was fine. I was taking in advice perfectly fine. I didn't have problem with anything. So you obviously didn't read enough when you decided to be nosey and see what the conversation was about so that you could your input in.
How is it nosy to read threads posted on a public forum? If you don't want people to read this, why did you post it?
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Perhaps I'll look foolish saying this, but I wish you'd take into account the advice (aka "smart *** comments) that people have given you.
That's coming from one 19 year old to another...except I'm the 19 year old that has osteoporosis as the result of a dangerously low calorie diet and disordered eating....
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brianpperkins wrote: »Having a 19 year old try to tell anyone how the world works is laughable. It's even funnier when that 19 year old repeatedly fails to accept common sense advice. If you think you could mop anyone's butt down the street you are sadly mistaken ... I mean that in an intellectual and physical way.
Thank you for reminding me how mature my daughter is. Sometimes that comparative value is needed to appreciate things.
I didn't say I was mopping anyone. I was saying in general, if you don't stick up for yourself people will just run over you.& actually I haven't failed I'm common sense. You keep saying all these things but you are honestly saying you're the only one with common sense. Bc people have pervious gave advice in THIS forum that made sense to me and that I liked and appreciated. You and that vegan whatever person Gave smart *kitten* advice that was unwanted, so of course I'm not going to take in consideration on anything you say. And you actually dont know me from Adam and Eve. You don't know where my studies are in college, you don't know my physical talents, you don't know what I've gone through in life. So for you to make those comments on me as a person is pointless & ignorant bc you are completely uninformed.-1 -
Perhaps I'll look foolish saying this, but I wish you'd take into account the advice (aka "smart *** comments) that people have given you.
That's coming from one 19 year old to another...except I'm the 19 year old that has osteoporosis as the result of a dangerously low calorie diet and disordered eating....
Like I pervious stated....by them saying "oh I see you got off those diet fads and finally got some common sense like everyone told you to get." IS NOT GOOD ADICE AND I DO NOT CARE FOR THOSE COMMENTA EITHER. Anyone who likes that must have special fetish bc its definitely not how I liked to be talked too.0 -
janejellyroll wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »
Where?????? Show me! Bc until that person started commenting and being a smart *kitten* everything was fine. I was taking in advice perfectly fine. I didn't have problem with anything. So you obviously didn't read enough when you decided to be nosey and see what the conversation was about so that you could your input in.
How is it nosy to read threads posted on a public forum? If you don't want people to read this, why did you post it?
You were being nosey by reading all the comments just so you could try to be someone's sidekick. Which you can if you want. IDC. I'm just also pointing out the fake that you took all that time out to read the rude stuff to comment on but not the part where there was no confrontation and where I was accepting the advice .0 -
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(I would do it myself, but there are too many that apply here and most of them can't be posted on MFP.)0 -
ayannabayer wrote: »
Like I pervious stated....by them saying "oh I see you got off those diet fads and finally got some common sense like everyone told you to get." IS NOT GOOD ADICE AND I DO NOT CARE FOR THOSE COMMENTA EITHER. Anyone who likes that must have special fetish bc its definitely not how I liked to be talked too.
Maybe you should think less about how you expect people to talk to you and more about being open to help.
Are you going to let your pride and pre-set expectations block you from advice that could help you?
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ayannabayer wrote: »janejellyroll wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »
Where?????? Show me! Bc until that person started commenting and being a smart *kitten* everything was fine. I was taking in advice perfectly fine. I didn't have problem with anything. So you obviously didn't read enough when you decided to be nosey and see what the conversation was about so that you could your input in.
How is it nosy to read threads posted on a public forum? If you don't want people to read this, why did you post it?
You were being nosey by reading all the comments just so you could try to be someone's sidekick. Which you can if you want. IDC. I'm just also pointing out the fake that you took all that time out to read the rude stuff to comment on but not the part where there was no confrontation and where I was accepting the advice .
Oh wait. There was barely any of that bc there was most rude comments and people becoming English teachers for me to get Amy advice.0 -
ayannabayer wrote: »brianpperkins wrote: »Having a 19 year old try to tell anyone how the world works is laughable. It's even funnier when that 19 year old repeatedly fails to accept common sense advice. If you think you could mop anyone's butt down the street you are sadly mistaken ... I mean that in an intellectual and physical way.
Thank you for reminding me how mature my daughter is. Sometimes that comparative value is needed to appreciate things.
I didn't say I was mopping anyone. I was saying in general, if you don't stick up for yourself people will just run over you.& actually I haven't failed I'm common sense. You keep saying all these things but you are honestly saying you're the only one with common sense. Bc people have pervious gave advice in THIS forum that made sense to me and that I liked and appreciated. You and that vegan whatever person Gave smart *kitten* advice that was unwanted, so of course I'm not going to take in consideration on anything you say. And you actually dont know me from Adam and Eve. You don't know where my studies are in college, you don't know my physical talents, you don't know what I've gone through in life. So for you to make those comments on me as a person is pointless & ignorant bc you are completely uninformed.
Telling you to eat to your goal is "smart *kitten* advice"? The more you post, the more you show your lack of maturity.
Based on your posting, it is obvious that your college studies are not in the arena of the written word.
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ayannabayer wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »janejellyroll wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »
Where?????? Show me! Bc until that person started commenting and being a smart *kitten* everything was fine. I was taking in advice perfectly fine. I didn't have problem with anything. So you obviously didn't read enough when you decided to be nosey and see what the conversation was about so that you could your input in.
How is it nosy to read threads posted on a public forum? If you don't want people to read this, why did you post it?
You were being nosey by reading all the comments just so you could try to be someone's sidekick. Which you can if you want. IDC. I'm just also pointing out the fake that you took all that time out to read the rude stuff to comment on but not the part where there was no confrontation and where I was accepting the advice .
Oh wait. There was barely any of that bc there was most rude comments and people becoming English teachers for me to get Amy advice.
You keep ranting that people are becoming "English teachers" but do so in a way that makes me question if you've ever met a professional educator in that field.0 -
ayannabayer wrote: »
You were being nosey by reading all the comments just so you could try to be someone's sidekick. Which you can if you want. IDC. I'm just also pointing out the fake that you took all that time out to read the rude stuff to comment on but not the part where there was no confrontation and where I was accepting the advice .
Well, next time you post a thread let us know at the beginning that you don't want anyone being nosy and actually reading it.
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Right, but these comments and replies are just the truth. Maybe they don't seem very friendly, but why sugar coat it? If you do not eat adequate calories and choose to ignore your health in that way, you will suffer from health complications. That's just the basic truth. It's one thing to under/overestimate calories without realizing it, but you've stated that your logging is correct, and you acknowledge that you're eating 900 calories. That's not safe.ayannabayer wrote: »Perhaps I'll look foolish saying this, but I wish you'd take into account the advice (aka "smart *** comments) that people have given you.
That's coming from one 19 year old to another...except I'm the 19 year old that has osteoporosis as the result of a dangerously low calorie diet and disordered eating....
Like I pervious stated....by them saying "oh I see you got off those diet fads and finally got some common sense like everyone told you to get." IS NOT GOOD ADICE AND I DO NOT CARE FOR THOSE COMMENTA EITHER. Anyone who likes that must have special fetish bc its definitely not how I liked to be talked too.
Also, lack of calories can sometimes mess up the system. If anything, eat to poop, yo.
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brianpperkins wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »brianpperkins wrote: »Having a 19 year old try to tell anyone how the world works is laughable. It's even funnier when that 19 year old repeatedly fails to accept common sense advice. If you think you could mop anyone's butt down the street you are sadly mistaken ... I mean that in an intellectual and physical way.
Thank you for reminding me how mature my daughter is. Sometimes that comparative value is needed to appreciate things.
I didn't say I was mopping anyone. I was saying in general, if you don't stick up for yourself people will just run over you.& actually I haven't failed I'm common sense. You keep saying all these things but you are honestly saying you're the only one with common sense. Bc people have pervious gave advice in THIS forum that made sense to me and that I liked and appreciated. You and that vegan whatever person Gave smart *kitten* advice that was unwanted, so of course I'm not going to take in consideration on anything you say. And you actually dont know me from Adam and Eve. You don't know where my studies are in college, you don't know my physical talents, you don't know what I've gone through in life. So for you to make those comments on me as a person is pointless & ignorant bc you are completely uninformed.
Telling you to eat to your goal is "smart *kitten* advice"? The more you post, the more you show your lack of maturity.
Based on your posting, it is obvious that your college studies are not in the arena of the written word.
Actually you said that ALONG with other smart *kitten* stuff. So you can stop acting like you haven't been insulting my intelligence since the first comment you placed. Why would anyone care about what you had to say when you have so much extra unnecessary things to say.-1 -
janejellyroll wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »
Like I pervious stated....by them saying "oh I see you got off those diet fads and finally got some common sense like everyone told you to get." IS NOT GOOD ADICE AND I DO NOT CARE FOR THOSE COMMENTA EITHER. Anyone who likes that must have special fetish bc its definitely not how I liked to be talked too.
Maybe you should think less about how you expect people to talk to you and more about being open to help.
Are you going to let your pride and pre-set expectations block you from advice that could help you?
If we're not encouraging her lemonade detoxes, detoxes that morph into smoothies replacing meals, or four puddings at specific times we are then mean, rude, and not supportive ... at least to her. Some people are not yet ready to face reality and take mature steps to lose weight in a sustainable manner.
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brianpperkins wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »janejellyroll wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »
Where?????? Show me! Bc until that person started commenting and being a smart *kitten* everything was fine. I was taking in advice perfectly fine. I didn't have problem with anything. So you obviously didn't read enough when you decided to be nosey and see what the conversation was about so that you could your input in.
How is it nosy to read threads posted on a public forum? If you don't want people to read this, why did you post it?
You were being nosey by reading all the comments just so you could try to be someone's sidekick. Which you can if you want. IDC. I'm just also pointing out the fake that you took all that time out to read the rude stuff to comment on but not the part where there was no confrontation and where I was accepting the advice .
Oh wait. There was barely any of that bc there was most rude comments and people becoming English teachers for me to get Amy advice.
You keep ranting that people are becoming "English teachers" but do so in a way that makes me question if you've ever met a professional educator in that field.
Yeah. I have. But okay. I'm done "ranting". You win. I'm so proud of you. You deserve a prize *gives you a cookie.*0 -
lcooper327 wrote: »There are no vegetables with "literally no calories".
That's what I was going to say.
If she thinks they have zero is She not logging them.
.....and I just skipped a head to the end of the thread where everyone is agro.
What happened?
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ayannabayer wrote: »brianpperkins wrote: »ayannabayer wrote: »brianpperkins wrote: »Having a 19 year old try to tell anyone how the world works is laughable. It's even funnier when that 19 year old repeatedly fails to accept common sense advice. If you think you could mop anyone's butt down the street you are sadly mistaken ... I mean that in an intellectual and physical way.
Thank you for reminding me how mature my daughter is. Sometimes that comparative value is needed to appreciate things.
I didn't say I was mopping anyone. I was saying in general, if you don't stick up for yourself people will just run over you.& actually I haven't failed I'm common sense. You keep saying all these things but you are honestly saying you're the only one with common sense. Bc people have pervious gave advice in THIS forum that made sense to me and that I liked and appreciated. You and that vegan whatever person Gave smart *kitten* advice that was unwanted, so of course I'm not going to take in consideration on anything you say. And you actually dont know me from Adam and Eve. You don't know where my studies are in college, you don't know my physical talents, you don't know what I've gone through in life. So for you to make those comments on me as a person is pointless & ignorant bc you are completely uninformed.
Telling you to eat to your goal is "smart *kitten* advice"? The more you post, the more you show your lack of maturity.
Based on your posting, it is obvious that your college studies are not in the arena of the written word.
Actually you said that ALONG with other smart *kitten* stuff. So you can stop acting like you haven't been insulting my intelligence since the first comment you placed. Why would anyone care about what you had to say when you have so much extra unnecessary things to say.
If you would listen when simple advice is provided, people wouldn't get upset with you and try to drill simple concepts home. Take responsibility ... it's an adult thing to do.0
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