40 year old women and older who has lost 40 or more lbs - HOW THE HECK DID YOU DO IT???

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  • agbmom556
    agbmom556 Posts: 694 Member
    Thank you for the encouraging weight loss testimonies. I am in my early 40s and started taking my health seriously last year when my mom was diagnosed with breast cancer. She is in remission and I am still working on my health. 20 pounds down and 25 more to go.
  • TBeverly49
    TBeverly49 Posts: 322 Member
    Where have you all been hiding? Zichab: I have a site on garmin called Walkers from Washington. You more that welcome to join us.
  • PatriciaAnneDavies
    PatriciaAnneDavies Posts: 10 Member
    edited October 2015
    I was 48/49 and my weight was going up and up. I went from 11 stone to over 13 stone and it was rising. Nothing I did would stop the weight gain and I thought it was my age and hormonal. Then I got a salivary gland stone and a bad infection in the gland and eating became very painful so I lived on soup and soft things for a month until it settled down. I lost 14lb that month and realised that I COULD lose weight. I kept up that diet and started to excercise and got down to 9 stone 12lb.
    I had to have the gland out so that problem will never recur...but it was that which sparked it off.
    I am 53 now and putting it back on again and have to watch it so I have joined this group...I am really glad to have found it.
  • vicky1947mfp
    vicky1947mfp Posts: 1,523 Member
    I was 48/49 and my weight was going up and up. I went from 11 stone to over 13 stone and it was rising. Nothing I did would stop the weight gain and I thought it was my age and hormonal. Then I got a salivary gland stone and a bad infection in the gland and eating became very painful so I lived on soup and soft things for a month until it settled down. I lost 14lb that month and realised that I COULD lose weight. I kept up that diet and started to excercise and got down to 9 stone 12lb.
    I had to have the gland out so that problem will never recur...but it was that which sparked it off.
    I am 53 now and putting it back on again and have to watch it so I have joined this group...I am really glad to have found it.

    Good luck here Patricia. You will find such good support. Just find some of the great supportive groups and log in every day. You will do it if you want it.
  • LaceyBirds
    LaceyBirds Posts: 451 Member
    LaceyBirds wrote: »
    I started reading the Success Stories thread every single morning, and now have several other threads that I find motivational bookmarked and read those too . . . I'm down a total of 51 pounds, 30 of those since starting MFP. I have 44 pounds left to my goal . . .

    My own quote from 9-26 above. I just wanted to add that this has now become one of my inspirational threads that I read every morning, so thanks to the ladies who continue to add their stories to it. As of yesterday, I'm down 55 pounds with 40 left to go. :smiley:

  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
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  • skinnygirldc
    skinnygirldc Posts: 30 Member
    I'm 44 and have found Weight Watchers really helpful. It is much harder for me to lose weight than it used to be, and I have to track my food intake religiously, but with WW I've been able to do it. I just couldn't seem to take off the last 10 lbs through MFP and calorie counting alone. I think having the weekly weigh-in in a public place really helps.
  • 2manyhats
    2manyhats Posts: 1,190 Member
    Loving this thread. You are all amazing!
  • FitOldMomma
    FitOldMomma Posts: 790 Member
    STLBADGIRL wrote: »
    Please tell me you story and feel free to add before and after pictures or suggest good meal ideas.

    But I want to know how the heck did you do it. Was it following fit people on instagram, believing in yourself, tired of yourself, a personal trainer, what (LOL). I keep losing and gaining the same 4lbs and I get inspired by others successful stories. But I want to know what clicked for you and "how you did it"!

    I'm almost 59 and I've lost 89 pounds in 18 months. The way I've done this is just to make small changes until they became a habit and kept adding to my list of small changes. My very best habit is logging EVERY bite of food in my food diary. The second best change was to make it a goal to be active every single day.

    I have a small group of dedicated MFP friends. I sought out those who'd been here for quite awhile and were being successful in both losing weight and keeping it off. They have been a HUGE part of my success.
  • FitOldMomma
    FitOldMomma Posts: 790 Member
    You all have been so successful and I too believe calories in/calories out is the key along with moving more.

    I'm just curious how many of you determined your daily calorie budget? There seems to be so many formulas. I once had a doctor tell me that the best formula is to multiple you goal weight by 10 and that should be your daily budget, MFP gives me 400-cals less, another 200-less. I know I can play around to see what works but was curious how others have determined their budget.

    I've heard that formula too, but it really depends on your activity level. If I ate at 10 x my weight I'd just maintain my current weight. I've used the MFP formula the entire time, with the exception of the exercise calories they allot- often they seem extremely too high. I rely on my Fitbit for exercise calories.
  • mamadon
    mamadon Posts: 1,422 Member
    You all have been so successful and I too believe calories in/calories out is the key along with moving more.

    I'm just curious how many of you determined your daily calorie budget? There seems to be so many formulas. I once had a doctor tell me that the best formula is to multiple you goal weight by 10 and that should be your daily budget, MFP gives me 400-cals less, another 200-less. I know I can play around to see what works but was curious how others have determined their budget.

    I've heard that formula too, but it really depends on your activity level. If I ate at 10 x my weight I'd just maintain my current weight. I've used the MFP formula the entire time, with the exception of the exercise calories they allot- often they seem extremely too high. I rely on my Fitbit for exercise calories.

    I had to play around with my calories for awhile, but ultimately it was pretty close to the calories that my fitbit gives me.
  • tomatoey
    tomatoey Posts: 5,446 Member
    leecha2014 wrote: »
    Hi there. I'm 43 and have lost 68 lbs and still going. First, I never focus or think about my age. Don't let that be a barrier.

    I'm not yet 40, but it's coming, and I'm not 100% ok with it. I would love to know how to get it out of your head.
  • kymbeez
    kymbeez Posts: 21 Member
    I started out doing paleo, my family lost 60# as a whole...but I wanted more so I switched us to whole 30. Not only have I lost 31 pounds, but being a diabetic that was on pills and insulin, I'm know off my medications! This is huge for me....it's hard for me to lose weight, always has been but this works for me,
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    kymbeez wrote: »
    I started out doing paleo, my family lost 60# as a whole...but I wanted more so I switched us to whole 30. Not only have I lost 31 pounds, but being a diabetic that was on pills and insulin, I'm know off my medications! This is huge for me....it's hard for me to lose weight, always has been but this works for me,
    Wow. Totally amazing.
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  • AnnPT77
    AnnPT77 Posts: 34,226 Member
    tomatoey wrote: »

    I'm not yet 40, but it's coming, and I'm not 100% ok with it. I would love to know how to get it out of your head.

    I'll be 60 in a couple of weeks, and am very happy that that's so.

    Without meaning to be at all snarky (just honest), the way I got age anxiety out of my head was accidental: I became first a cancer widow (he was 45, I was 42), then a cancer survivor (of stage III, i.e., quite advanced, breast cancer at 44).

    Some of the "side effects" of aging kinda stink, but I'm happy and grateful for every birthday. Without modern medicine (surgery, chemotherapy, radiation) I'd be dead by now, I'm convinced. Alive is a better start on the rest of my day.

    But I don't recommend my strategy for being happy with aging to others!

    Potentially more generally useful: I have some friends who are older than I (i.e., in their 80s), who are active and vibrant. I admire them. I want to be just like them when I grow up.
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    I know metabolism slows down with menopause (I remember reading something like 100 calories per decade) but I think my experience has been that I was just kidding myself about my food intake, . . . .
    (more snipped)

    I've been reading that the menopausal/aging slowdown may be at least partly related to loss of muscle loss, a factor that is partially under our control, assuming we are otherwise at least somewhat healthy and able to move.
  • gummibear64
    gummibear64 Posts: 26 Member
    Very inspiring!
  • viperbrick
    viperbrick Posts: 9 Member
    I'm 44 and I've lost 58 lbs since May. I saw an obesity doctor, he recommended 1200 calories a day for me (I was 5'6", 258 lbs), I found a great boot camp that I enjoy attending. No food is off limits, there are no tricks to metabolism or what time of day I eat - I just practice CICO, it simply and honestly works. Just take a leap of faith and try it - don't worry about your age or menopause or anything - just log everything and be honest with yourself. Congratulations and best wishes, your life is about to change.
  • STLBADGIRL
    STLBADGIRL Posts: 1,693 Member
    You all have inspired me so that I have tightened up and really started calculated CICO along with my workouts. The scale is finally my friend again. I was telling myself that I wasn't losing because I was lifting. That was so much BS! Yes, that can occur but it the weight will not stall for long periods of time! I'm down to 178 coming from 192 lbs. I'm doing my happy dance. I cannot wait to see what the future holds!!!!

    Please continue to post your stories. YOu have no idea of the others that you are freeing.... because boy, do I feel free!!!!
  • lilyrunner
    lilyrunner Posts: 36 Member
    Hi I am 58, and I have lost almost 80 pounds. Patience. Lol. It has taken me three years to get healthy. I do think it is tougher for women over 40, 50 and more to lose weight. But it can be done. Be active and embrace a healthy lifestyle.
  • Carnhot
    Carnhot Posts: 367 Member
    I am 52. Since the beginning of March I have lost 55 lb through tracking what I eat and making sure I stay in deficit. I walk a lot, do lots of cardio at the gym and see a PT weekl for strength/resistance/ core work. Now I am trying to maintain, I am changing my strength / cardio balance. Be honest, trust the process and it will happen.
  • christyprunner
    christyprunner Posts: 70 Member
    edited November 2015
    Went to dr yesterday.
    Working on getting some sleep... I can't stay asleep at night. I have restless legs and other. No sleep could be contributing to no weight loss. So keeping on logging here and now working on sleep.
  • dcresider
    dcresider Posts: 1,272 Member
    Great job everyone. You guys are inspiring. I'm 45 and feeling a bit frustrated as I gained some weight last year and don't want it to happen again this Winter. I lost quite a bit 5 years ago but it seems something has slowed the weight loss down. I'm fairly active but my diet is all over the place even when I follow my macros. My motivation is to lose about 5-10 lbs. by mid-January since I have a Hawaii trip planned.
  • medicrenee
    medicrenee Posts: 58 Member


    Stay motivated Hawaii trip is planned for 2017. hope to loose 30 by then and be shaped up toned..
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