Married and heavy flirting good or bad

Horrible. My brother in-law does it and doesn't think anything bad about it. My sister absolutely hates it and has confront him about it, but he tries to justify it but it's not something worth justifying. My brother in-law also thinks that cheating on your wife after being married to them for a few years is okay. (They've been married for 13 months, and as far as we know, he hasn't cheated on her.) Good luck to him if he cheats on her and my dad and brother find out. Idiot.

STUPID NONSENSICAL QUESTION.

AMEN!

If all parties are ok with it, I don't see a problem. My husband and his buddies know I'm a flirt and we all know that nothing is going to happen. My being fat and plain also help.

How you doin'? :flowerforyou:

When faced with a question like this... I tend to want to know, what does God say about this? I mean, you want the average Joe to give you their opinion.,.. why not ask THE ONE? The One who made you? The One who you pray to when things go wrong or you are in a jam? Or The One you may just beg to get you out of the sticky mess that online flirting will almost certainly lead you into. I know, because I myself have done that in the past, and guess what... a divorce, and custody battle later, here I sit... encouraging you, my dear friend, to not ask us average Joes.. but ask God what HE thinks of it? GREAT NEWS! We just so happen to have a written document where God addresses the topic of thinking of other women: check out Matthew 5:28.
I get that this is not the answer you want to hear. I get it. DUDE. I GET IT. But you know what... that woman you are married to.... she loves you, and you made a VOW TO HER, and she to you. PERIOD. A man doesnt back down on his word. EVER.

Now you have to ask yourself, am I the guy that does the thing that "feels good" and is temporary? Or am I a MAN that does the RIGHT thing because I am a Man of God and I will stand for what is right in a world of wrong. I will choose to love and honor the woman I made a vow to before God. I will choose to love and honor my family with my commitments to myself and my home. I will choose to be faithful and not a louse!

Truth can be painful. I know... but man, do I wish someone had loved ME enough to give me that kind of dose of truth about 80,000 dollars ago and before I lost custody of both of my children for getting involved in internet garbage. SAVE YOURSELF. LOVE YOUR MARRIAGE, SERVE YOUR GOD.

Now go give that wife of yours a hug!

Have a great day!

PS: grab a copy of the book: Every Man's Battle... SO GOOD!

NEVER EVER!

auranda wrote: »

STUPID NONSENSICAL QUESTION.

Absolutely. I'm in a committed relationship, but I'm not blind, and I ain't dead and I know where I'm sleeping. 'Nuff said.

yusaku02 wrote: »

Peter_Brady wrote: »

With a failed meme at that. What a joke.

kshama2001 wrote: »

Did anyone ever post descriptions of heavy vs light flirting?

that would be before you reach your goal weight = heavy flirting.

kshama2001 wrote: »

Tomk652015 wrote: »

kshama2001 wrote: »

Did anyone ever post descriptions of heavy vs light flirting?

that would be before you reach your goal weight = heavy flirting.

Well, all my flirting is heavy then. I am a bad, bad girl.

*spank*

had to make a choice mid swing so i went heavy cuz i figured thats what you wanted.

Tomk652015 wrote: »

had to make a choice mid swing so i went heavy cuz i figured thats what you wanted.

brittanybock wrote: »

Absolutely 100% bad and unacceptable. There is little respect to you. I just went through my live in boyfriend/high school sweetheart of 10 years cheating on me and I've read the book "Surviving an Affair". VERY good book even if you haven't gone through an affair. It just outlines ways and "laws" to avoid an affair and this is one of them. This opens the door to very bad things.

I flirt very heavy in real life and around here. Everybody knows my marital status. I have restraint. I have respect. I have boundaries. Never had an affair and don't think I ever will. My wife sees it in real life, most times with her extremely attractive coworkers and just rolls her eyes or tells them how bad I am in bed after I leave so that they don't think they're missing anything. Alls I'm saying is, it's not 100% bad. Ever!