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True Confessions - Don't Judge

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  • Posts: 269,456 Member
    rps67 wrote: »
    I confess that I have been pissed at my spouse all day long because Sunday I did the triathlon I've spent the last 6 months training for and I crossed the finish line to see...NO ONE. My spouse has been unable to get the kids to any of my races to see me cross the finish line. I didn't care so much when it was just a 5K or the 10K (when it was freezing cold) but I cared in November when they weren't there to see me finish the half marathon. I really wanted them to be there when I finished the tri. He didn't even have a good reason why they didn't make it.

    I confess that in retaliation I not only bought new foundation but I threw in a $38 lip gloss at the Armani counter tonight.

    I confess that when he told me the lip gloss looks awesome and that I'm so sexy, I only didn't throat punch him because he was driving. Our sex life is dead because of him so his saying he thinks I'm sexy is like a slap in the face.

    I so wish we'd known where and when you were doing this ..nobody deserves to be made to feel that something they consider a big *kitten* deal is insignificant and of no consequence ..especially by your spouse who should be your biggest supporter.....I know lots here and myself included would have cheered you on ..
    Congratulations on your tri and for not killing spouse ..personally I'd be washing the spade off and spreading the rumour he'd gone on holidays..nobody deserves the disrespect he's shown you ..
    You have my best wishes ..and an alibi should you ever need one :)
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  • Posts: 516 Member
    synchkat wrote: »

    I confess reading this made me giggle a little

    #synchkat - are you giggling guiltily about something to do with what might be termed golden showers?
    #beachgal - I tell you what did work; makeup "toner" stuff which ladies sometimes spray on themselves to cool down etc. Worked a treat! But thank you for your advice too!
  • Posts: 269,456 Member
    I confess my youngest baby starts kindergarten today and I might cry. I didn't cry for his two big brothers or his two big sisters because they were so excited and I was happy and excited for them to start their grand adventure. He is excited and happy...but its different with him being my youngest.

    Aww I feel your pain .. :'(
  • Posts: 37,368 Member
    G085H173 wrote: »

    #synchkat - are you giggling guiltily about something to do with what might be termed golden showers?
    #beachgal - I tell you what did work; makeup "toner" stuff which ladies sometimes spray on themselves to cool down etc. Worked a treat! But thank you for your advice too!

    I giggled at the fact you figured out its not your thing. Gotta try things once eh
  • Posts: 516 Member
    synchkat wrote: »

    I giggled at the fact you figured out its not your thing. Gotta try things once eh

    YOUR reply is slightly evasive
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  • Posts: 269,456 Member
    I confess I didn't cry :)

    Yayy great to hear .. :)
  • Posts: 37,368 Member
    I confess I got some healthy bar thingie to eat and just spit out the second bite after gagging down the first bite. I'm sorry when you say cocoa delight there should be more chocolate than weird stuff and I missed on the label cashews which always make me want to vomit
  • Posts: 22,834 Member
    With all the BS in my life, I don't think I will ever be right again, but age definitely gives you experience to better deal with it.
  • Posts: 272 Member
    Timshel_ wrote: »
    With all the BS in my life, I don't think I will ever be right again, but age definitely gives you experience to better deal with it.

    Same....and I'm mostly OK with that...
  • Posts: 22,834 Member
    tashantx wrote: »

    Same....and I'm mostly OK with that...

    I think at the moment, that is the kicker for me. I am just OK in the deepest parts of me, though I live and feel somewhat blessed. The blessing is more that I can keep myself OK and not that I feel overly blessed.

    I mean, it comes and goes I guess...

    I dunno...
  • Posts: 272 Member
    edited August 2016
    Timshel_ wrote: »

    I think at the moment, that is the kicker for me. I am just OK in the deepest parts of me, though I live and feel somewhat blessed. The blessing is more that I can keep myself OK and not that I feel overly blessed.

    I mean, it comes and goes I guess...

    I dunno...

    I am glad to be just mostly ok. I've seen many times of feeling much worse. Do I want better? Meh, yeah but I'm ok. That's OK right now. OK? Lol
    :smiley:
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    rps67 wrote: »
    I confess that I have been pissed at my spouse all day long because Sunday I did the triathlon I've spent the last 6 months training for and I crossed the finish line to see...NO ONE. My spouse has been unable to get the kids to any of my races to see me cross the finish line. I didn't care so much when it was just a 5K or the 10K (when it was freezing cold) but I cared in November when they weren't there to see me finish the half marathon. I really wanted them to be there when I finished the tri. He didn't even have a good reason why they didn't make it.

    I confess that in retaliation I not only bought new foundation but I threw in a $38 lip gloss at the Armani counter tonight.

    I confess that when he told me the lip gloss looks awesome and that I'm so sexy, I only didn't throat punch him because he was driving. Our sex life is dead because of him so his saying he thinks I'm sexy is like a slap in the face.

    Oh I know that was so hurtful :( I'm sorry that happened. People don't think sometimes.
  • Posts: 22 Member
    I confess I am much more vain than I should be.
  • Posts: 37,368 Member
    I'm on a Pokewalk while the boy is at camp and kinda bought some shoes. Oops
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    edited August 2016
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    rps67 wrote: »
    I confess that I have been pissed at my spouse all day long because Sunday I did the triathlon I've spent the last 6 months training for and I crossed the finish line to see...NO ONE. My spouse has been unable to get the kids to any of my races to see me cross the finish line. I didn't care so much when it was just a 5K or the 10K (when it was freezing cold) but I cared in November when they weren't there to see me finish the half marathon. I really wanted them to be there when I finished the tri. He didn't even have a good reason why they didn't make it.

    I confess that in retaliation I not only bought new foundation but I threw in a $38 lip gloss at the Armani counter tonight.

    I confess that when he told me the lip gloss looks awesome and that I'm so sexy, I only didn't throat punch him because he was driving. Our sex life is dead because of him so his saying he thinks I'm sexy is like a slap in the face.

    Preach it sister. I ran my first half in nov 2015...I have done 2 more since then. DH has not shown up to a single one....not even the one he could have, literally, walked to from our house. Not only that, but i also have to find childcare during my races because "its too much" for him to watch the children he fathered for a few hours, apparently.

    Dont get me wrong...he has some good traits...but being supportive and emotionally connected it not on the list.

    Im running another in september and have mentioned (a few times) wanting them there....but I keep getting a look of incredulity like Im the crazy one for requesting him to come... and I only want him there for the finish.

    Im blessed in so many ways....but having a supportive husband is not one of them.
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    mkakids wrote: »

    Preach it sister. I ran my first half in nov 2015...I have done 2 more since then. DH has not shown up to a single one....not even the one he could have, literally, walked to from our house. Not only that, but i also have to find childcare during my races because "its too much" for him to watch the children he fathered for a few hours, apparently.

    Dont get me wrong...he has some good traits...but being supportive and emotionally connected it not on the list.

    Im running another in september and have mentioned (a few times) wanting them there....but I keep getting a look of incredulity like Im the crazy one for requesting him to come... and I only want him there for the finish.

    Im blessed in so many ways....but having a supportive husband is not one of them.

    hmmmmm, think of something you do for him, not a chore, something else .......then don't do it any more.
  • Posts: 37,368 Member
    I need to shower but I'm too lazy to go upstairs

    and I'm worried the guy I'm skating with tonight will fail. :( He has a perfect pass record since I've worked with him I don't want to break that
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  • Posts: 37,368 Member
    I confess I have eaten donuts today. More than one freaking donut. And i also confess it may have something to do with hormones. So, perhaps you should throw me some chocolate, tell me i look pretty and wave. And I confess I like tattoos, muscles and a bit of scruff. I can't help it.

    I was so close to buying donuts today but then remembered I have to wear a skating dress in a few hours. :( I REALLY want a donut now
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  • Posts: 37,368 Member
    I didn't see any cream filled ones at the store I love those.
    I might indulge in a donut tomorrow
  • Posts: 821 Member
    I confess I've had 3 donuts in the past week, plus a day where I just ate nothing but sweets. I've still managed to drop 1lb since Saturday.
  • Posts: 4,696 Member
    I can't remember the last time I had a donut but now I want one!
  • Posts: 821 Member
    I havn't had donuts in months, but the wife decided to go to Duck Donuts where they let you make your own, and I wanted to try her concoctions. Half a donut each day for a week. That was the week I weighed myself and found I lost 2lbs since I last weighed in. :lol:

    @synchkat
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