True confessions! No judgement!

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  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    I confess that today was a hard day. Today my husband who passed away would have been 37 years old. Life is lonely, but I am making changes to rediscover who I am as an individual, since I was a part of a couple for so long. I like what I am discovering about myself. Through immense sorrow I have been able to find joy in helping others. Joy by being the best mom that I can be. I have entered the workforce again after being out of it for over 7 years. I am stronger than I ever realized. Today was a bad day, but tomorrow is a new day.

    I can't even imagine such sorrow. Many hugs my sweet friend.
  • brandivestal
    brandivestal Posts: 2,637 Member
    I confess I'm in a real need of kissing lol

    Girl it feels like it has been ages... I miss cuddling, kissing... all that...
  • brandivestal
    brandivestal Posts: 2,637 Member
    I confess it's been a while for me too! :(

    *hugs* I'm sorry
  • slinkybinkydog
    slinkybinkydog Posts: 38,959 Member
    I confess I'm in a real need of kissing lol

    Girl it feels like it has been ages... I miss cuddling, kissing... all that...

    Amen sister
  • brandivestal
    brandivestal Posts: 2,637 Member
    I confess that today was a hard day. Today my husband who passed away would have been 37 years old. Life is lonely, but I am making changes to rediscover who I am as an individual, since I was a part of a couple for so long. I like what I am discovering about myself. Through immense sorrow I have been able to find joy in helping others. Joy by being the best mom that I can be. I have entered the workforce again after being out of it for over 7 years. I am stronger than I ever realized. Today was a bad day, but tomorrow is a new day.

    I can't even imagine such sorrow. Many hugs my sweet friend.

    Thank you honey. Most days I'm pretty okay :-)
  • Dutchy_77
    Dutchy_77 Posts: 1,695 Member
    I confess that today was a hard day. Today my husband who passed away would have been 37 years old. Life is lonely, but I am making changes to rediscover who I am as an individual, since I was a part of a couple for so long. I like what I am discovering about myself. Through immense sorrow I have been able to find joy in helping others. Joy by being the best mom that I can be. I have entered the workforce again after being out of it for over 7 years. I am stronger than I ever realized. Today was a bad day, but tomorrow is a new day.

    got no words for that. sorry for you. XOXO
  • brandivestal
    brandivestal Posts: 2,637 Member
    Dutchy_77 wrote: »
    I confess that today was a hard day. Today my husband who passed away would have been 37 years old. Life is lonely, but I am making changes to rediscover who I am as an individual, since I was a part of a couple for so long. I like what I am discovering about myself. Through immense sorrow I have been able to find joy in helping others. Joy by being the best mom that I can be. I have entered the workforce again after being out of it for over 7 years. I am stronger than I ever realized. Today was a bad day, but tomorrow is a new day.

    got no words for that. sorry for you. XOXO

    Thank you. All of you are incredibly kind. Today is a new day!
  • StillBreathingFitness
    StillBreathingFitness Posts: 1,916 Member
    I confess that guys really do my head in. And that I am no good at playing it cool or hard to get. I do care too much too fast sometimes. But if I like someone, I wanna spend time with them. Is that really so bad??! Ugh, I hate dating....

    Change all the guys to girls and that's me...
  • StillBreathingFitness
    StillBreathingFitness Posts: 1,916 Member
    I confess I get pretty darn lonely sometimes

    Me too a lot of times

    Daily
  • StillBreathingFitness
    StillBreathingFitness Posts: 1,916 Member
    I confess that today was a hard day. Today my husband who passed away would have been 37 years old. Life is lonely, but I am making changes to rediscover who I am as an individual, since I was a part of a couple for so long. I like what I am discovering about myself. Through immense sorrow I have been able to find joy in helping others. Joy by being the best mom that I can be. I have entered the workforce again after being out of it for over 7 years. I am stronger than I ever realized. Today was a bad day, but tomorrow is a new day.

    No words, just hugs. :'(
  • StillBreathingFitness
    StillBreathingFitness Posts: 1,916 Member
    I confess I'm in a real need of kissing lol

    My favorite thing to do and it's been waaaaayyy too long!
  • MichelleNicole93
    MichelleNicole93 Posts: 89 Member
    no matter how much weight i lose I never feel pretty and worthy enough
  • StillBreathingFitness
    StillBreathingFitness Posts: 1,916 Member
    I confess I'm through being insecure about my looks. I have way more to offer than that. And the interesting thing I realized this evening is that good guys will always be good guys, but looks can change. So give me a bit, I'll be a good guy AND what folk call hot. ;)
  • slinkybinkydog
    slinkybinkydog Posts: 38,959 Member
    I confess I'm through being insecure about my looks. I have way more to offer than that. And the interesting thing I realized this evening is that good guys will always be good guys, but looks can change. So give me a bit, I'll be a good guy AND what folk call hot. ;)

    Good for you!
  • Sayban
    Sayban Posts: 100 Member
    I drink and Dive
  • candiinprogress
    candiinprogress Posts: 7,883 Member
    I confess I'm through being insecure about my looks. I have way more to offer than that. And the interesting thing I realized this evening is that good guys will always be good guys, but looks can change. So give me a bit, I'll be a good guy AND what folk call hot. ;)

    I'm on the same bus buddy. We got this :)
  • candiinprogress
    candiinprogress Posts: 7,883 Member
    I confess that guys really do my head in. And that I am no good at playing it cool or hard to get. I do care too much too fast sometimes. But if I like someone, I wanna spend time with them. Is that really so bad??! Ugh, I hate dating....

    Change all the guys to girls and that's me...

    It sucks so bad. Everyone out there is just interested in hooking up and not building something real. I'm too much of a romantic for this *kitten*.
  • slinkybinkydog
    slinkybinkydog Posts: 38,959 Member
    Doopy dooo! I confess I'm soooooo bored!!! :)
  • ArmyMedic2016
    ArmyMedic2016 Posts: 180 Member
    I feel like giving up
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  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,145 Member
    maeld51 wrote: »
    I confess I am alone so much that I may be becoming a recluse.

    I confess being divorced and lonely has made me a miserable whiner.

    I confess I have whole days that I waste crying and feeling sorry for myself.

    I confess I don't know what to do with my life now.

    whiney right? :#

    I know the feeling too...after my divorce I felt the same way...the only thing worse is being with someone and having those same feelings...
  • gcibsthom
    gcibsthom Posts: 30,145 Member
    .I sometimes get jealous of the younger, shirtless, 6-pack ab guys who have all the ladies fawning all over them....
  • FairhavenDS
    FairhavenDS Posts: 1,046 Member
    I've been so all or nothing lately, and I'm frustrated with myself about it. I can't seem to accept that just because I have temporary limitations shouldn't mean I stop doing all of the things I should be doing. But I'm not frustrated enough to change anything.
  • slinkybinkydog
    slinkybinkydog Posts: 38,959 Member
    I'm still not comfortable with my new body. I still see the old me.
  • slimgirljo15
    slimgirljo15 Posts: 269,456 Member
    Kasner1975 wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    .I sometimes get jealous of the younger, shirtless, 6-pack ab guys who have all the ladies fawning all over them....

    As always, I agree with you Gary. It stings and sometimes it's hard to let go.... however, remember that when these younger dudes with abs were still getting their butts wiped by mommy, you were taking bullets and shrapnel for your country. If I was a woman, I'd take badass bravery over a couple extra muscles any day of the week. You're the man Gary.

    Agree totally ..
  • Chrisjuvers
    Chrisjuvers Posts: 2,692 Member
    Kasner1975 wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    .I sometimes get jealous of the younger, shirtless, 6-pack ab guys who have all the ladies fawning all over them....

    As always, I agree with you Gary. It stings and sometimes it's hard to let go.... however, remember that when these younger dudes with abs were still getting their butts wiped by mommy, you were taking bullets and shrapnel for your country. If I was a woman, I'd take badass bravery over a couple extra muscles any day of the week. You're the man Gary.

    I'd take badass bravery over muscles too. Look are only great for the night but personality is forever. I think that's why a lot of great looking people are single....us women feel the same way. Keeps it up.
  • Dutchy_77
    Dutchy_77 Posts: 1,695 Member
    I confess that guys really do my head in. And that I am no good at playing it cool or hard to get. I do care too much too fast sometimes. But if I like someone, I wanna spend time with them. Is that really so bad??! Ugh, I hate dating....

    Change all the guys to girls and that's me...

    It sucks so bad. Everyone out there is just interested in hooking up and not building something real. I'm too much of a romantic for this *kitten*.

    Not true some are im just as romantic
  • candiinprogress
    candiinprogress Posts: 7,883 Member
    Kasner1975 wrote: »
    gcibsthom wrote: »
    .I sometimes get jealous of the younger, shirtless, 6-pack ab guys who have all the ladies fawning all over them....

    As always, I agree with you Gary. It stings and sometimes it's hard to let go.... however, remember that when these younger dudes with abs were still getting their butts wiped by mommy, you were taking bullets and shrapnel for your country. If I was a woman, I'd take badass bravery over a couple extra muscles any day of the week. You're the man Gary.

    I agree too. Those boys are nice to look at, but I'd take badass bravery and personality for the long haul :)
  • RavenLibra
    RavenLibra Posts: 1,737 Member
    I had a co-worker whistle at my Butt as she followed me down the hall last week... WHAT is that all about?