What nobody tells you about losing weight
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That you would take more selfies! You want to dress nicer by buying fashionable clothes. Overall you take care of your body better. Catching my reflections in the mirror amd liking what you see.16
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Even when you buy the smaller size you check the tag repeatedly thinking it must be marked wrong.15
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Smaller pants have smaller pockets. Makes sense, but it's super inconvenient sometimes.17
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- That you will always be cold
- That you will actually care what you wear and that it fits nicely
- That your butt gets sore from sitting
- That you start to judge people for not trying to lose weight
- That you get tired of telling people that you're not sice
- That you can feel ashamed of what you weighed before
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Bentnotbroken130 wrote: »pinkpsyche wrote: »riffraff2112 wrote: »Lots of good stuff here.
I remember finding a few new 'friends' who all of a sudden would talk to me, or notice me, or remember my name next time I visited their establishment when I had been going there for years or had mutual friends etc....
Some people obviously let vanity cloud their judgement.
Or maybe I just had a better attitude after and was more approachable?
Nah..I was always jolly
Yes! To be honest though, those that couldn't give me the time of day as a heavier person really are not worth my time. It shows to me their true character. Maybe that sounds mean and I should be more forgiving?
Curious what others thought are. What does one say to a friend that hits on you After losing the weight. Wasn't negative or mean or anything prior just wanted to wait...
Hmm a part of me would feel a certain type of way.. I understand folks are attracted to what they are attracted to, but Man, I'd find it a bit hard to get past them waiting to find me good enough to hit on. Like no, no....if you couldn't like me then, then you can't even dream of the goodies now. Lol I can see it from both sides...
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louann_jude wrote: »That people will try to get you to stop losing weight before your ready to. I have had two people tell me already I don't need to lose 'much more'. I have lost 95 pounds. Even with that weight loss I still need to lose 39 more pounds to get to where I am no longer over weight. That is at the high end of a normal weight bmi.
I started this journey to go the distance. Not give up when everyone else thinks I should. I am doing this for me not them.
I got that recently from a stranger. I just said thank you but my back says otherwise
Some people, I doubt most say it to be mean in anyway but it's socially awkward and not appropriate to say to someone. 0 -
Yep. Me too. Less weight bearing down on them I think. Frankly I'll take any excuse to buy new ones.thisonetimeatthegym wrote: »Baggy....shoes?!
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yes my feet when down a size to a size and a half an's I still have 80 pounds to go!3
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My wife complains that my pelvic bone digs into her when we're...um...tickle fighting?
Fortunately, I can hold a plank for a long time now.
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Cave_Goose wrote: »My wife complains that my pelvic bone digs into her when we're...um...tickle fighting?
Fortunately, I can hold a plank for a long time now.
See? People who say planking for longer than 30 seconds is a waste don't know what they're talking about.
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My wife was complaining about that last night. She wasn't complaining about all the new positions though.Cave_Goose wrote: »My wife complains that my pelvic bone digs into her when we're...um...tickle fighting?
Fortunately, I can hold a plank for a long time now.
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Cave_Goose wrote: »My wife complains that my pelvic bone digs into her when we're...um...tickle fighting?
Fortunately, I can hold a plank for a long time now.
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columbus2015 wrote: »- That you will always be cold
- That you will actually care what you wear and that it fits nicely
- That your butt gets sore from sitting
- That you start to judge people for not trying to lose weight
- That you get tired of telling people that you're not sice
- That you can feel ashamed of what you weighed before
All true. Sometimes I look at heavier people and want to scream "YOU CAN DO IT!" and put a big smile on my face. Im nothing special. Im no better than you. Its completely doable. I know what works! Let me help you. But I think people looking at me just get depressed. And think "I cant do that." There must be some secret.:; You bet your *kitten* you can.19 -
that friends and colleagues keep offering me food and saying "oh one piece of candy or cake wont' hurt" incidentally, they should be all laying off it too.. catty remark I know.... meow.22
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That envious relatives who are well past their youth will ask you not to lose any more weight, as if their opinion of your body mattered. I'll stop when I feel like it. End of. The faux concern is cute, though.
Also, that it's okay to allow people to live their happy or unhappy lives without interference. That an overweight or obese person has the right to be unhealthy, the same as we have the right to be healthy and that perhaps maybe they don't want our unsolicited thoughts, opinions, and advice.33 -
rachellosesitall85 wrote: »That envious relatives who are well past their youth will ask you not to lose any more weight, as if their opinion of your body mattered. I'll stop when I feel like it. End of. The faux concern is cute, though.
Also, that it's okay to allow people to live their happy or unhappy lives without interference. That an overweight or obese person has the right to be unhealthy, the same as we have the right to be healthy and that perhaps maybe they don't want our unsolicited thoughts, opinions, and advice.
I appreciate that. My eyebrows raised when I hear formerly obese people admit to judging fat people. Did they forget they had to be "ready," before they made changes?
Would they have appreciated others making the comments they now say they think towards others?
It might be more of a projection of their feelings toward their former selves.
But thank you, again, for bringing that up.26 -
I have a low opinion of obese people who act like they don't care about their weight when they clearly do, but I had a low opinion of myself when I was obese also. I don't go around telling them that I have a low opinion of them, but the feeling is there. I agree that it is probably a projection of obese me.thisonetimeatthegym wrote: »rachellosesitall85 wrote: »That envious relatives who are well past their youth will ask you not to lose any more weight, as if their opinion of your body mattered. I'll stop when I feel like it. End of. The faux concern is cute, though.
Also, that it's okay to allow people to live their happy or unhappy lives without interference. That an overweight or obese person has the right to be unhealthy, the same as we have the right to be healthy and that perhaps maybe they don't want our unsolicited thoughts, opinions, and advice.
I appreciate that. My eyebrows raised when I hear formerly obese people admit to judging fat people. Did they forget they had to be "ready," before they made changes?
Would they have appreciated others making the comments they now say they think towards others?
It might be more of a projection of their feelings toward their former selves.
But thank you, again, for bringing that up.
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I have a low opinion of obese people who act like they don't care about their weight when they clearly do, but I had a low opinion of myself when I was obese also. I don't go around telling them that I have a low opinion of them, but the feeling is there. I agree that it is probably a projection of obese me.thisonetimeatthegym wrote: »rachellosesitall85 wrote: »That envious relatives who are well past their youth will ask you not to lose any more weight, as if their opinion of your body mattered. I'll stop when I feel like it. End of. The faux concern is cute, though.
Also, that it's okay to allow people to live their happy or unhappy lives without interference. That an overweight or obese person has the right to be unhealthy, the same as we have the right to be healthy and that perhaps maybe they don't want our unsolicited thoughts, opinions, and advice.
I appreciate that. My eyebrows raised when I hear formerly obese people admit to judging fat people. Did they forget they had to be "ready," before they made changes?
Would they have appreciated others making the comments they now say they think towards others?
It might be more of a projection of their feelings toward their former selves.
But thank you, again, for bringing that up.
1) What of those people who are obese, grinding every day at the gym? Why should they have a low opinion of themselves?
2) What of those people who are obese, but are great moms and dads, kids, friends, neighbors, or help those who are less fortunate? Are they supposed to feel depressed because they failed at weight management?
3) What of those people who are obese who have significant other skills and talents? Are they supposed to feel less than you because they have an area of weakness?
I reject the notion that people who haven't figured it all out in life are less worthy of my respect.
I teach my children to work on their weaknesses - while reminding them that we are ALL working on something.
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thisonetimeatthegym wrote: »rachellosesitall85 wrote: »That envious relatives who are well past their youth will ask you not to lose any more weight, as if their opinion of your body mattered. I'll stop when I feel like it. End of. The faux concern is cute, though.
Also, that it's okay to allow people to live their happy or unhappy lives without interference. That an overweight or obese person has the right to be unhealthy, the same as we have the right to be healthy and that perhaps maybe they don't want our unsolicited thoughts, opinions, and advice.
I appreciate that. My eyebrows raised when I hear formerly obese people admit to judging fat people. Did they forget they had to be "ready," before they made changes?
Would they have appreciated others making the comments they now say they think towards others?
It might be more of a projection of their feelings toward their former selves.
But thank you, again, for bringing that up.
I feel the same about formally obese people judging currently obese people. Easy to judge when you've got a nice new tool belt15
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