"You can eat whaver you want, as long as you eat at a deficit" is true, but it's garbage advice.

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  • jetsman37
    jetsman37 Posts: 11 Member
    I believe the one thing being overlooked here is macros. Yes, you can eat whatever you want and lose weight provided you are at a calorie deficit. However, what you eat matters as well. For instance if you are trying to lose weight and maintain muscle mass you need to eat a certain amount of protein per day to preserve lean muscle mass while shedding fat. This means a good portion of your calories need to go towards protein leaving less room for eating junk. I perosnally want to lose weight but I want to maintain my muscle mass. This means I need to cut my calories while also maintaining my protein intake. Also, the types of carbs you eat (and amount) can influence insulin sensitivity which can make your body store excess carbs as fat which makes your overall weight loss and body composition not match up. Final thought on this is that healthy food makes you more able to excercise effectively. Now don't get me wrong, I love my nightly chocolate but I make sure to hit my macro targets before indulging. A great plan that I follow is called If It Fits Your Macros (ITFYM). If you are not familiar give it a quick Google search.
  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,646 Member
    WinoGelato wrote: »
    dfwesq wrote: »
    We actually have those links, and they get pointed to all the time. Unsurprisingly, they don't seem to get read that much ;)
    OK, but you can point them out again. I'm giving you the newbie's point of view on this, btw. :) The brand new newbie has not seen your earlier posts about the stickies, and may not know how to find them or even that they exist. I understand it's tiresome to be complete each time, but it's really really helpful. Some newbies may ignore it, but others will pay attention and go on to success. :)

    Speaking of which, is there a link that answers the question of whether "eat whatever you want..." is good advice? (Serious question.) If it was posted earlier, I didn't notice it.

    It sounds like you are saying the newbie has no responsibility to find these things themselves. We are supposed to link the stickies, and address unanswered questions, and provide disclaimers that may or may not be needed, in order to spoon feed the noobs every possible piece of information they can possibly absorb, in every single thread?

    Also, those links probably weren't posted in this thread because the OP wasn't asking for help. He was just telling the rest of us how our advice is garbage.

    Should probably start charging.
  • leanjogreen18
    leanjogreen18 Posts: 2,492 Member
    WinoGelato wrote: »
    dfwesq wrote: »
    We actually have those links, and they get pointed to all the time. Unsurprisingly, they don't seem to get read that much ;)
    OK, but you can point them out again. I'm giving you the newbie's point of view on this, btw. :) The brand new newbie has not seen your earlier posts about the stickies, and may not know how to find them or even that they exist. I understand it's tiresome to be complete each time, but it's really really helpful. Some newbies may ignore it, but others will pay attention and go on to success. :)

    Speaking of which, is there a link that answers the question of whether "eat whatever you want..." is good advice? (Serious question.) If it was posted earlier, I didn't notice it.

    It sounds like you are saying the newbie has no responsibility to find these things themselves. We are supposed to link the stickies, and address unanswered questions, and provide disclaimers that may or may not be needed, in order to spoon feed the noobs every possible piece of information they can possibly absorb, in every single thread?

    Also, those links probably weren't posted in this thread because the OP wasn't asking for help. He was just telling the rest of us how our advice is garbage.

    Should probably start charging.

    And cooking for me Chef:).
  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,646 Member
    WinoGelato wrote: »
    dfwesq wrote: »
    We actually have those links, and they get pointed to all the time. Unsurprisingly, they don't seem to get read that much ;)
    OK, but you can point them out again. I'm giving you the newbie's point of view on this, btw. :) The brand new newbie has not seen your earlier posts about the stickies, and may not know how to find them or even that they exist. I understand it's tiresome to be complete each time, but it's really really helpful. Some newbies may ignore it, but others will pay attention and go on to success. :)

    Speaking of which, is there a link that answers the question of whether "eat whatever you want..." is good advice? (Serious question.) If it was posted earlier, I didn't notice it.

    It sounds like you are saying the newbie has no responsibility to find these things themselves. We are supposed to link the stickies, and address unanswered questions, and provide disclaimers that may or may not be needed, in order to spoon feed the noobs every possible piece of information they can possibly absorb, in every single thread?

    Also, those links probably weren't posted in this thread because the OP wasn't asking for help. He was just telling the rest of us how our advice is garbage.

    Should probably start charging.

    And cooking for me Chef:).

    I got you! :)
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    dfwesq wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    But what I don't think is that ANYONE, anyone at ALL, thinks that these strawmen diets "only donuts" or "only Whoppers plus lots of fries and milkshakes, no veg" or whatever it is are good, healthy, balanced diets, and they also will realize the calorie issue as soon as they start counting. People know they shouldn't eat tons and tons of junk food -- no one who eats mostly junk food claims they are doing it for health. People also know they should eat vegetables. With the exception of some in the XTreme Keto community ("carnivores"), who would consider themselves educated and don't want my advice, I've yet to come across someone on MFP, even the least informed newby, who doesn't know she should be eating vegetables. They may need to figure out how, but they know they should. Saying they might think that only cake is a reasonable diet is not a real thing, sorry.
    I agree with you that, if you asked them, people would say they agree with this. But in practice people are not completely rational, and some are a lot less rational than others. A lot of people are or were looking for some gimmick that will allow them to lose weight and eat anything at all. That's why people keep falling for gimmick diets. In their heads they know a diet of mostly junk food is a bad idea, but they still allow themselves to believe they've found some loophole when they hear it.

    From the point of view of veterans, your advice is absolutely clear. From the point of someone who is new to this board, I wanted to say that a lot of the "eat whatever you want" advice can sound different than it's intended.

    I actually don't think people think they can do an only junk food diet. Usually, even when they hear it's possible (as with an explanation about the teacher who did the Twinkie diet -- not recommending, of course -- they struggle with disbelief). The fact is they COULD, hypothetically, but of course they would probably be hungry and not be able to sustain it, and they SHOULDN'T because it's not healthy, and they DO know this. They aren't going to try it because I say "no, you can eat bread, eat what you like within your calories" even if I didn't ALSO say "of course what you eat will affect hunger and nutrition, so that you CAN theoretically lose on anything you will want to pay attention to those things." However, I do always say those things, and so do most others who respond. That's why I don't get why you keep telling us our advice is incomplete for not saying things we do say.

    I don't think you need to apologize for being new or not agreeing, but I do think you are simply wrong or arguing against a strawman with this "if you don't tell people food choice affects satiety and nutrition they will be too ignorant to figure it out" thing, because people do tell them that (and they know it anyway).

    I totally agree that people are often not totally rational and often people are looking to be told what they want to hear: one week on a juice detox and your issues with food will be magically gone and you'll be 20 lbs down, for example. But people who want to eat only junk aren't going to decide to do it or not because I let them in on the truth that they can lose weight doing it if they stick to it (which might be hard).

    Also, again, WHY assume that eat what you want within your calories means only (or mostly) junk. I don't assume other people don't want to eat a healthy balanced diet. I do want to. I assume they are adults and can make the choice about nutrition and what satisfies them for themselves.

    I wonder if this is in part a male/female thing as sometimes men here (not all, many, many exceptions, but I've noticed it some from some newbies) seem to think people are pretty ignorant about nutrition and likely to do something nuts like eat only cookies or only McD's, and women seem more likely to assume you MUST cut out 87 different foods and go super low cal or do a special diet with complicated food pairing, and all that stuff that women get told all the time from lots of different sources. (Could be totally wrong here, though, and I have seen exceptions on both sides, of coruse.)
  • lemurcat12
    lemurcat12 Posts: 30,886 Member
    dfwesq wrote: »
    lemurcat12 wrote: »
    But what I don't think is that ANYONE, anyone at ALL, thinks that these strawmen diets "only donuts" or "only Whoppers plus lots of fries and milkshakes, no veg" or whatever it is are good, healthy, balanced diets, and they also will realize the calorie issue as soon as they start counting. People know they shouldn't eat tons and tons of junk food -- no one who eats mostly junk food claims they are doing it for health. People also know they should eat vegetables. With the exception of some in the XTreme Keto community ("carnivores"), who would consider themselves educated and don't want my advice, I've yet to come across someone on MFP, even the least informed newby, who doesn't know she should be eating vegetables. They may need to figure out how, but they know they should. Saying they might think that only cake is a reasonable diet is not a real thing, sorry.
    I agree with you that, if you asked them, people would say they agree with this. But in practice people are not completely rational, and some are a lot less rational than others. A lot of people are or were looking for some gimmick that will allow them to lose weight and eat anything at all. That's why people keep falling for gimmick diets. In their heads they know a diet of mostly junk food is a bad idea, but they still allow themselves to believe they've found some loophole when they hear it.

    From the point of view of veterans, your advice is absolutely clear. From the point of someone who is new to this board, I wanted to say that a lot of the "eat whatever you want" advice can sound different than it's intended.

    That has nothing to do with the advice. If people are going to hear what they want to hear, then they are not ready. Period.

    Also this.
  • Chef_Barbell
    Chef_Barbell Posts: 6,646 Member
    kimny72 wrote: »
    dfwesq wrote: »
    We actually have those links, and they get pointed to all the time. Unsurprisingly, they don't seem to get read that much ;)
    OK, but you can point them out again. I'm giving you the newbie's point of view on this, btw. :) The brand new newbie has not seen your earlier posts about the stickies, and may not know how to find them or even that they exist. I understand it's tiresome to be complete each time, but it's really really helpful. Some newbies may ignore it, but others will pay attention and go on to success. :)

    Speaking of which, is there a link that answers the question of whether "eat whatever you want..." is good advice? (Serious question.) If it was posted earlier, I didn't notice it.

    You realize none of us are moderators, right? Maybe I'm misreading. But it sounds like you are saying that if I don't feel like addressing every possible variable every time I post, I really should just point them to the stickies and stay out of it?

    This is a public forum for a reason. It's not a FAQ.

    There is so much value here and so much experience to be learned from and you really just bummed me out.

    It feels like that is implied all too often. Some days I wonder why do I even bother?
  • prattiger65
    prattiger65 Posts: 1,657 Member
    kimny72 wrote: »
    kimny72 wrote: »
    dfwesq wrote: »
    We actually have those links, and they get pointed to all the time. Unsurprisingly, they don't seem to get read that much ;)
    OK, but you can point them out again. I'm giving you the newbie's point of view on this, btw. :) The brand new newbie has not seen your earlier posts about the stickies, and may not know how to find them or even that they exist. I understand it's tiresome to be complete each time, but it's really really helpful. Some newbies may ignore it, but others will pay attention and go on to success. :)

    Speaking of which, is there a link that answers the question of whether "eat whatever you want..." is good advice? (Serious question.) If it was posted earlier, I didn't notice it.

    You realize none of us are moderators, right? Maybe I'm misreading. But it sounds like you are saying that if I don't feel like addressing every possible variable every time I post, I really should just point them to the stickies and stay out of it?

    This is a public forum for a reason. It's not a FAQ.

    There is so much value here and so much experience to be learned from and you really just bummed me out.

    It feels like that is implied all too often. Some days I wonder why do I even bother?

    IKR? Luckily I do often get thank yous, sometimes in thread and sometimes a PM. But yeah, I understand why some people who used to donate a lot if time here have disappeared.

    Consigned
  • WinoGelato
    WinoGelato Posts: 13,454 Member
    kimny72 wrote: »
    kimny72 wrote: »
    dfwesq wrote: »
    We actually have those links, and they get pointed to all the time. Unsurprisingly, they don't seem to get read that much ;)
    OK, but you can point them out again. I'm giving you the newbie's point of view on this, btw. :) The brand new newbie has not seen your earlier posts about the stickies, and may not know how to find them or even that they exist. I understand it's tiresome to be complete each time, but it's really really helpful. Some newbies may ignore it, but others will pay attention and go on to success. :)

    Speaking of which, is there a link that answers the question of whether "eat whatever you want..." is good advice? (Serious question.) If it was posted earlier, I didn't notice it.

    You realize none of us are moderators, right? Maybe I'm misreading. But it sounds like you are saying that if I don't feel like addressing every possible variable every time I post, I really should just point them to the stickies and stay out of it?

    This is a public forum for a reason. It's not a FAQ.

    There is so much value here and so much experience to be learned from and you really just bummed me out.

    It feels like that is implied all too often. Some days I wonder why do I even bother?

    IKR? Luckily I do often get thank yous, sometimes in thread and sometimes a PM. But yeah, I understand why some people who used to donate a lot if time here have disappeared.

    Seriously. I am glad I was here when people who are now banned were here and freely gave out awesome advice as blunt and direct as it could possibly be.

    x1000.
  • dfwesq
    dfwesq Posts: 592 Member
    edited March 2017
    dfwesq wrote: »
    We actually have those links, and they get pointed to all the time. Unsurprisingly, they don't seem to get read that much ;)
    OK, but you can point them out again. I'm giving you the newbie's point of view on this, btw. :) The brand new newbie has not seen your earlier posts about the stickies, and may not know how to find them or even that they exist. I understand it's tiresome to be complete each time, but it's really really helpful. Some newbies may ignore it, but others will pay attention and go on to success. :)

    Speaking of which, is there a link that answers the question of whether "eat whatever you want..." is good advice? (Serious question.) If it was posted earlier, I didn't notice it.

    In this very section there's this:

    http://community.myfitnesspal.com/en/discussion/10300319/most-helpful-posts-general-diet-and-weight-loss-help-must-reads#latest

    Thank you. I did look at those when I joined, but I didn't see any that addressed the "eat whatever you want..." idea. Are there any that you know of? (Serious question.)
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