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    What's the pettiest reason that would make you stop dating someone?

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    • Posts: 7,074 Member
      DWBalboa wrote: »
      Because she's a scrub! Always talkin' about what she wants and just sits on her broke *kitten*!
      No, I don't want no scrub!

      Awesome, the TLC philosophy. :wink:
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      edited February 2018
      81Katz wrote: »
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      Awesome, the TLC philosophy. :wink:

      They knew what they were talkin about. And it's been a good rule of thumb for me. That is when I was smart enough to heed their warning.

      RIP Lisa "Left Eye" Lopes. We miss you.
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      DWBalboa wrote: »
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      They knew what they were talkin about. And it's been a good rule of thumb for me. That is when I was smart enough to heed their warning.

      You're wise grasshopper. I learned how to not go chasing waterfalls. When I nearly drowned for the 6th time, the 7th time stuck. :wink:
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      81Katz wrote: »
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      You're wise grasshopper. I learned how to not go chasing waterfalls. When I nearly drowned for the 6th time, the 7th time stuck. :wink:

      It took me awhile as well to learn to stick to the rivers and the lakes that I was used to. It was difficult because I had a natural obsession for temptation. :wink:
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      If they’re rude to service people who are just trying to do their job. If they spend more time looking at their phone than me. If they don’t like animals. If they try to sabotage my fitness goals because they’re not interested in fitness.
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      If they are on their cell phone during the date.
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      DWBalboa wrote: »
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      It took me awhile as well to learn to stick to the rivers and the lakes that I was used to. It was difficult because I had a natural obsession for temptation. :wink:

      Had to head out quickly this morning but I just wanted to say you're hilarious! :smiley:
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      81Katz wrote: »
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      Had to head out quickly this morning but I just wanted to say you're hilarious! :smiley:

      Thank you, you're pretty funny too. And I don't mean funny like I'm a clown. :lol:
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      DWBalboa wrote: »
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      Thank you, you're pretty funny too. And I don't mean funny like I'm a clown. :lol:

      TLC songs were playing in my head most of the morning. I was going stop, stop, stop! :lol:
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      Continually getting me with this...







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      laprimaJenny wrote: »
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      Haha thanks but it’s a pure example of a petty reason hence the reason of the thread. Hence my comment is truly irrelevant but ultimately I got defensive because I see how much it effects his self esteem. So I can’t help but feel for men in similar situations. If only I could be as coy and cold as others on here.

      Wow, I haven't really been in here in since my original comment, for the record I was extremely young when that scenario took place. I have grown since then. I answered the original question. "Pettiest thing you have done". No, I do not think excess chest hair is something someone should be ashamed of nor does it have anything to do with how manly/unmanly they are and I would shave it if he ever asked me to.

      Honestly shaving him would be nothing compared to the things I have had to do for my husband in the past few years. Once you have to clean and dress gaping holes from pins screwed into his hips, peel decaying black skin from his balls that are the size of grapefruits or wipe his *kitten* daily for him due to a horrific work accident in which his pelvis was crushed by an excavator, shaving a little chest/back hair is nothing. You get over being "cold and coy" once you see and do things for your spouse you never in a million years thought you would have to do. Also, for the record I would shave a woman's chest/back hair if she asked me to as well. ;)
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      relynne wrote: »
      His hands were too soft.

      I am recently divorced and dating. I have lots of petty reasons not to date guys, but I ALWAYS check out the hands and decide if I want him to touch me based on how they look. Guys have to have man hands.
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      Because I'm on MFP at 10:21 pm EST on St. Valentine's Day....
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      Some of these are
    • Posts: 387 Member
      edited February 2018
      canary_girl wrote: »
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      I am recently divorced and dating. I have lots of petty reasons not to date guys, but I ALWAYS check out the hands and decide if I want him to touch me based on how they look. Guys have to have man hands.

      Right?!? It was creepy. My hands are manlier than his. :D
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    • Posts: 78 Member
      About the best answer I’ve seen is, “If she’s on her phone while on a date.” Now that answer makes sense.

      All the rest are way too petty.
    • Posts: 4,571 Member
      If he showed up one day with a goattee.
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      dnm1207 wrote: »
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      Valid reason indeed. But my question for you both is this: Would you TELL the guy that's why you didn't want to see him anymore? "Sorry dude. Your hands are not manly enough."

      I didn't tell him that was why. Would you want to know if it was you?
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    • Posts: 9,563 Member
      Is it petty to stop dating someone because you want to be in control of the "stopping", like I'm gonna dump you before you dump me
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      dnm1207 wrote: »
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      I would. I always want to know why. Not knowing drives me nuts.

      I gave him a reason, it just wasn't the real one. I think the hands reason makes me sound a little crazy. :'(
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      Rough, dirty looking elbows...gross, take a *kitten* loofah or a chore boy to those *kitten*
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      His mom is too involved
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      His daughter is my age
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