What's the pettiest reason that would make you stop dating someone?

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  • YogiJear
    YogiJear Posts: 118 Member
    Merlotmom16 wrote: »
    He was mean to my dog when he thought I was not looking

    Good riddance, that's a red flag for an abuser or a future domestic disturbance.
  • Crafty_camper123
    Crafty_camper123 Posts: 1,440 Member
    urloved33 wrote: »
    I don't stop seeing people for petty reasons. I have coping skills and don't like to treat people as if they are disposable.

    I think it's less about treating people like they are disposable things, and more about personal preferences that you can live with for a lifetime. A minor thing that bugs you in the beginning could turn into a major deal breaker 10 years down the road (IE not liking dogs). Or it's just a sign of incompatibility with personalities. That being said, when you quit dating someone because of (X, Y, Z) small thing you just can't get past I feel they should be let down easy and with dignity. As far as looks go, I'm all for overlooking flaws over a great personality, but being able to be sexually attracted to who you're with is very important in my book. There's a somebody for everybody.
  • dwrightlaw
    dwrightlaw Posts: 804 Member
    urloved33 wrote: »
    I don't stop seeing people for petty reasons. I have coping skills and don't like to treat people as if they are disposable.

    I thought this whole thread was facetious :#
  • Crafty_camper123
    Crafty_camper123 Posts: 1,440 Member
    @dwrightlaw
    I thought this whole thread was facetious

    I thought so too, lol. And to share petty reasons one may have had to quit dating someone.

  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,259 Member
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    If he has a name for his penis.
    If he refers to his balls as "the boys".
    and
    If he refers to his car as "she".

    What if I, I mean this guy called his breast "the twins?"
  • Just_J_Now
    Just_J_Now Posts: 9,551 Member
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    If he has a name for his penis.
    If he refers to his balls as "the boys".
    and
    If he refers to his car as "she".

    What if I, I mean this guy called his breast "the twins?"

    He’s out.
  • DWBalboa
    DWBalboa Posts: 37,259 Member
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    DWBalboa wrote: »
    Just_J_Now wrote: »
    If he has a name for his penis.
    If he refers to his balls as "the boys".
    and
    If he refers to his car as "she".

    What if I, I mean this guy called his breast "the twins?"

    He’s out.

    Good to know.
  • Vikka_V
    Vikka_V Posts: 9,563 Member
    laprimaJenny wrote: »
    To me this isn’t petty but it can be viewed as petty I’m assuming. Poor hygiene, such as long toe nails that look blackish.

    Not petty...truly revolting
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  • Emeraldreign
    Emeraldreign Posts: 56 Member
    _har_T_Swallow wrote: »
    ladies- what if your man treats you good, keeps his place clean, cooks for you, goes for walks, goes dancing, likes to make you laugh...but one day you come out of the bathroom and catch him taking $20 out of your purse. what would you do? asking for a friend

    Beat his *kitten*. Unless of course he put it there.
  • go_cubs
    go_cubs Posts: 1,183 Member
    If they drink to much soda

  • daloverlyme
    daloverlyme Posts: 583 Member
    If they smoke. It is a deal breaker!
  • moya_bleh
    moya_bleh Posts: 1,375 Member
    daloverlyme wrote: »
    If they smoke. It is a deal breaker!

    This!
  • grace173
    grace173 Posts: 180 Member
    Coldsores. I know they can't help them but I can't deal with coldsores
  • 5x5SL
    5x5SL Posts: 130 Member
    If they tell me Football is just a game
  • TRIX5884
    TRIX5884 Posts: 318 Member
    Their height....
  • moya_bleh
    moya_bleh Posts: 1,375 Member
    TRIX5884 wrote: »
    Their height....

    It's not petty, it's one of THE main dealbreakers in dating these days. I'm only 172cm (just shy of 5ft 8) and I've spent years being rejected by women even under 5'0"
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  • ComedicChrissy
    ComedicChrissy Posts: 3 Member
    If they have filthy socks on under expensive shoes. That stressed me out. Why would u have socks on that filthy? Why would you put them in expensive shoes? What else is. Dirty??
  • Presleykay22
    Presleykay22 Posts: 2,449 Member
    TRIX5884 wrote: »
    Their height....

    I have to agree with you on this....
  • MatheoHans
    MatheoHans Posts: 26 Member
    Too much makeup, smoking weed or cigarettes, drinking,short hair.
  • NYactor1
    NYactor1 Posts: 9,642 Member
    If she checks her phone every 5 mins...I’m out
  • positivepowers
    positivepowers Posts: 902 Member
    edited March 2018
    This one may have already been addressed but . . . horrible body odor.

    ETA: I once dated a guy who showered quite frequently but he still had the rankest BO. I couldn't stand it.
  • jaxxie
    jaxxie Posts: 576 Member
    Ugh. Misophinia in the worst way.
  • MJFSH
    MJFSH Posts: 7,252 Member
    Feeling i could be attracted to the person more than i really planned to?
  • UltraVegAthlete
    UltraVegAthlete Posts: 667 Member
    If they make me food. I don’t like eating anything I don’t make myself. Who knows what voodoo they put in that stuff!
  • bojack3
    bojack3 Posts: 1,483 Member
    If she uses text slang or refers to the urban dictionary for anything
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