WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR APRIL 2018
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Tere - Thank you so much for the kind words. I do hope that the book will help people.
I would love you to say that very thing on the Amazon review when you have finished it.
Love Heather UK XXXXXX4 -
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On the train, last ride of the season, going to put her to bed after today7 -
I need support to lose the 10 frustrating pournds I can’t eliminate! Started a yoga membership. Need support for that too!6
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terewilliams wrote: »Happy Friday Ladies!
I am so looking forward to sleeping in tomorrow morning. The clock is set to go off at 4:30 on workdays but tomorrow I will get to sleep until 7:30!!!!!I have a beauty salon appointment at 8:30. I cut my dreadlocks off back in January and I’ve been in a hair style fight ever since. I even had a Mohawk for a couple of weeks. I also decided not to dye my hair anymore so now it’s pretty white at the roots. DH is not particularly happy about the no more dye decision but I feel freedom from the dye your hair ritual. DH thinks that gray hair makes you look old. What the heck! We had this intense conversation at least once every 2 days. This is the “cougar” mental picture I painted for him…..Me in Onederland, driving his 650i convertible BMW with the top down, silver hair in a snappy short style, golden hoop earrings, skinny leg jeans, high heels, meeting my girlfriends for lunch. Then I told him I thought that the hair dye might be the cause of his hair thinning out on top. I haven’t heard a word since.
Anyway, I am pleased with my food intake and exercising this week. I am especially happy with my water intake everyday. Sometimes drinking water is a challenge for me as I’d rather have anything else. Another thing is that I am back on steroids which usually cause me to pack on 7-10 pounds. My working out at the gym has become wonderful. I am working up a great sweat and feel an increased energy level. I’ve also been sleeping better probably because I’m exhausted. I can hardly wait for weigh-in Sunday morning.
Thanks to each of you that welcomed me back.
Lisa – You are in my thoughts often, always with a smile and encouraging me to be adventurous.
Heather – I bought the Kindle version of your book and started reading yesterday. Your memories brought back so many of my own memories that it’s been intense reading thus far. I already know that I am going to keep this book in my heart.
Pip – I always love seeing the pups. I wondered how long they let Kirby hold those treats up in front of them without jumping him.
So those are my thoughts for the day! Have a great day and weekend everyone.
Tere in RVA
They will sit there as long as it takes. However they will start to drool on the carpet
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Good morning from cold NJ. Is there room for one more 50+ here? I've done MFP off and on for many years...reached my goal weight at Weight Watchers a few weeks ago, but for me calorie counting is a bit more effective at this weight. Still going to WW and will be at Lifetime, but calorie counter (along with beans) at heart.
ps. I would only be here for four more years, having reached the fabulous age of 56!4 -
Good morning Ladies -
Machka - Hugs! Prayers continue for your peace of mind and for continued healing for your hub. Like the others have mentioned, I can't even imagine what you are dealing with and going through. I was just wondering this morning how you were doing with the panic attacks when I saw your post. I am glad you were able to return to your workplace but so very sorry that you are having to find a new normal that is so very different.
As suspected, my weight gain was water from flying, eating more sodium, etc. With this mornings weigh in I am actually .8 below the bottom of my threshold. While that doesn't overly worry me, it does give me a little pause. I am at the very lower end of a healthy BMI (not that BMI is the end all, but my Dr's office does still use it along with waist measurements). It would only take me dropping 4 more lbs to fall into the underweight category. The hubs is not going to make it home again this weekend so I won't be eating out again this weekend. I tend to hermit when he is gone and I'm sure I will this weekend as well. Yesterday I "did the lawn". Four hours on the riding mower and blowing off all the hard surfaces. I need to get out there and hose down/scrub all the outdoor furniture but I don't think the nasty yellow pollen is done yet. I will wait on that or I will just have to do it again in a couple/few weeks.
Rebecca - Hang in there on the cholesterol and triglycerides. Exercising and eating "right" most of the time may help. As Barbie said, if it is hereditary, they aren't going to go down much regardless of what you do. Keep doing what you are doing and focus on overall health. You've got this!
Heather - Glad you had a good time and your difficult friend wasn't too difficult. Safe travels.
Tink - I don't have a lot of recipe ideas for you, but I also did 1200ish calories for most of my weight loss. I am not terribly hungry in the mornings so my breakfast tends to be only yogurt (which I am eating now). My lunch during the week is almost always a huge green salad with turkey and red wine vinegar as my dressing. I have another serving of yogurt (toasted marshmallow while they have it and then caramel or vanilla with Jif peanut powder mixed in when the limited run of marshmallow goes away) and use it as a dip with apple slices for desert. Dinner is a 4 oz (usually) portion of protein (chicken breast, shrimp, pork, extra lean beef) and a bunch of veggies. I eat a daily banana to keep leg cramps away and often a fiber one bar of some kind because I love them. I also eat a 100 calorie portion of popcorn almost every evening as a snack. My hub eats whatever I cook for dinner, he just gets a bigger portion of protein than I do and often less veggies. I will also add cheese to a lot of his meals that I don't put cheese on. I will often make a frittata one night each week with one egg and the rest egg whites and tons of veggies, some feta cheese and whatever leftover meat I have from the week. This is normally Thursday nights dinner. We have zoodles (zucchini noodles) often also with marinara, veggies and whatever protein I throw in there. Another staple is fried "rice" made with cauliflower rice. Again, egg whites and whatever veg and protein I have. This is another one that I use up leftover protein in. We eat a lot of wilted spinach because we both love it. It also goes in the frittata and the pasta when I make them. I almost always have grilled chicken breast, smoked chicken breast, grilled shrimp, smoked shrimp and grilled sausage portioned and frozen ready to go. I grab a bag of protein and thaw it during the day to make dinner that night. Sorry to be so long winded.
I better get off my butt and get my miles in. Sitting in the recliner with my feet up is not closing my rings on my watch!
Okie in the TX Hill Country who is off to a VERY lazy start to the day4 -
It's Friday!
Machka - you are in my thoughts constantly. Throughout my life, I have wondered why bad things happen to good people (I read the book decades ago) and wondered about that worn out platitude "Everything happens for a reason."
When I was in the middle of dealing with my own DH's recoveries from illnesses and his fall from the roof and the labyrinth dealing with the ER & medical profession in general, I truly wondered what good would become of this, if anything. Well, I'm still not sure, other than if I ever have to be with him in the ER again and he needs extended care, they'll dance to my tune. I no longer am shy about speaking up and demanding the best quality care and aftercare.
Guess that's one of the main reasons I volunteered to be on the Area Agency on Aging Advisory Board. I'll have fast and direct access to the experts and support groups. OK, so maybe that is something good.... I love to share information like this with my community.
My new housecleaner has inspired me to attack the spots and stains on the carpets throughout the house. The great spot remover I found which handles coffee stains well on the living room rug doesn't do diddly for some of the stains cause by my DH spilling ??? wine maybe? Who knows? on the cream colored rug in the office (former third bedroom). So yesterday, I resorted to spraying pure hydrogen peroxide onto the stain (hey, I couldn't make it any worse!) and by golly, I think it's working.
The next challenge is buying a new vacuum. I am overwhelmed at the choices and after reading the Amazon reviews - good and bad - on the appealing ones, I need to shut down the computer and just leave it for a while. Won't have time today, but plan to hit the vacuum cleaner store next week and actually see some of these. Also have to take into consideration someone other than us will be using it a lot - and Collette the new housecleaner likely weighs 105 lbs soaking wet. She may well be mighty mouse tho.
Gotta get ready to hit the road-
Lanette
Sunny and chilly SW WA State7 -
Heather Kirkgate market pics are beautiful, even the ones without you. Victorian ironwork?
Welcome Tink! I've been a member since 2008 and while I've only lost 14 lbs in 10 YEARS, I don't consider myself unsuccessful as I'm eating healthier than I ever did before. While my activity level has decreased with retirement, age and recent plantars fasciitis, these gals inspire me to train with weights (Strong Women Stay Young) tho' I'm not quite ready for kettlebells. Speaking of PF, what's helped me is: BEFORE getting out of bed EVERY day, 10 times each: rotate feet in circles clockwise then counter; point left while flexing right, then reverse; and describe alphabet with big toe. Somedays print, some days cursiveTHEN when arising place food S L O O O W L Y on floor. After walking around a bit, stand on edge of bathroom scale on balls of feet and gently stretch first left, then right leg by lowering heel. repeat 5 times with semi straight leg, then again with flexed knees. While reading this thread, roll frozen water bottle with sole of foot. Finally threw away my flat slippers and only wear slippers/yoga sandals with support around the house. NEVER walk around barefoot or in socks only. Oh and compression socks seem to help too! If it gets bad, I have gel supports (thanks Heather) but so far haven't needed them.
It is important for caregivers to schedule self care time. Wisdom and compassion abound here, when all else fails, there is always pip's boot
Evelyn sounds like a brilliant solution. Trust your son will understand and accept.
Rebecca you are ROCKING that gym! Think the body makes cholesterol regardless of how much your food contains. Believe your exercise will help bring cholesterol down, I get my Vit D from lemon flavored Norwegian Cod Liver oil (preferring food sources), know you are limiting carbs so triglycerides will come down too. Truly sounds more like cha-cha forward. Is your middle son's wife's name Delilah?
Lanette "nice older couple 40's 50's" gosh! they sound YOUNGER to meLanette Thought the United Bretheren were a little more plain and simple in their attire. Easter Hats? Exciting!
Kim con VERY gratulations on paying off that loan!
Penny thanks so much for the blackbird sounds. Count me among the mystified.
Wendy "'difficult' people ...in our life for a reason" you are so right. "example... of what NOT to be like" resonated especially strongly... the beam in mine own eye... ;}
Machka Making "Yeah" sounds? Oh that DOES sound hopeful! Sometimes I wonder whatever is in the mind of God or if Got gets nightmares too. You and your husband both continue in my daily intentions.
Kay how scary, who knew an abscessed tooth could cause shaking all over. Wish oral surgeon could get it out sooner, you just know it is poisoning your Dad. Well done on the food choices and supplements amidst all the stress.
Lisa you are one admirable lady, to take on the ex's debt with your new husband and to so honorably discharge it. Brava!
Tere in RVA "...cause of his hair thinning on top" You made me snort my tea! Sauce for the goose...
pip "last ride of the season"? Isn't the weather getting nicer?
Okie your food tips weren't long winded but inspiring! A wonderful reminder of how planning and prepping can combine with flexibility for healthful variety. Thank YOU! And congrats for achieving that low edge of normal BMI. Wowser!
Welcome nbs_mom and allison from NJ. Allison 50 is just the lower age suggestion, many of us here are 60+ and a few are 70+.
Time to meditate, veg/fruit prep, then off to T'ai Chi and the shopping wars.
Love you all,Barbara, the Southern Oregon Coastie AHMOD.
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One more pic
The middle one is my difficult friend.
Heather UK XXXXXX
Another friend was taking the picture4 -
Tere: I think your natural hair color is going to be stunning and beautiful. I'll bet your DH will think so too, when you've got it all grown out.
nbs_mom: Yoga is a great choice. It has the power to transform your fitness and that makes a huge difference in health & happiness. It did that for me, but it took a little time. I've been taking yoga for several years now and feel better and stronger because of it. Welcome to a great group. :bigsmile:
alisonlane: Welcome! :flowerforyou:
We have a bright, sunshiney day here! Yay!!! I plan to go to yoga and then to see if I can find garlic chives. I'll need to taste one to see whether I want to grow them. More to the point, I need DH to taste one and see if he likes it.
Katla in beautiful NW Oregon
"It is not selfish to be happy. It is your highest purpose. Your joy is the greatest contribution you can make to life on the planet. A heart at peace with its owner blesses everyone it touches." ~ Alan Cohen
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Tere - so glad you're back! And yes, that sounds like me.
Machka - My husband's shattered wrist a year ago came with a nasty scrape on his temple, and it was only good luck (or grace, if you lean that way) that I didn't end up going through exactly what you are now. My too-vivid imagination drew for me exactly the journey you're now living through, and I am so terribly, horribly sorry that you or anyone must walk that path. Words are such weak things to express how much we think of you, and small comfort, I know. I hope that just being able to say what needs saying here is some help--we're here to listen, and will reach back. Being able to simply come on here and say that I suck as a nurse, and am too impatient to deal with someone who needed my patience so much really helped keep me from saying those same things to him. So glad to see you were able to go back to work, and that your work and school communities are helping you.
Regards,
Lisa
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Got home to find out that our buyer's buyer has pulled out.
Expletives.
Heather UK XXXXXX8 -
Ah, Heather, I'm sorry... so many fragile links in the chains there.
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Barbara (Oregon coastie) wrote: I get my Vit D from lemon flavored Norwegian Cod Liver oil (preferring food sources).
/Penny at the6 -
cityjaneLondon wrote: »Got home to find out that our buyer's buyer has pulled out.
Expletives.
Heather UK XXXXXX
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Some of us took a wildflower hike through the old growth forest on our campus -- off trail. Lots of fun and very beautiful. Sorry the images are so big and that the last flower is blurry.
Felicia, where it's finally spring in
Willamette Valley, Oregon
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cityjaneLondon wrote: »Got home to find out that our buyer's buyer has pulled out.
Expletives.
Heather UK XXXXXX
What a pain, so sorry, our house buying system in this country really sucks
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Barbara - Thank you for your kind words.
Heather - Oh no! I'm so sorry!!
Okie0 -
Some desert spring Flowers. The stick-looking one is called a cochilla and the daisy-looking one is supposed to be sage brush.
RV rita in New Mexico3
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