WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR AUGUST 2018
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brennerjlb wrote: »Hi - found your post. Perfect for me - just hit the big 50 in June. I am getting back into MFP as I have my oldest daughter's wedding less than a year away! 49 weeks to be exact. It will be a summer wedding outside so I need to look great in a summer dress (: I have three kids - my youngest - my boy just finished high school. Not empty nester yet - he will live at home for a bit. But I had to get myself a dog - I have a 6 month old chocolate lab who is helping me get more active.
Goal by wedding -30 lbs. That will put me at a weight I have not been to for a long time. Could lose more per the BMI tables, but I will take it one step at a time. Look forward to getting to know you!
Lynn - WI
Hi there Lynn, you and I have a lot in common. I will be 50 next month. I also have a daughter getting married next summer, July 9th. I am an empty nester though, have been since 2009. I was aiming to lose 60 by next July when I started, I've managed to whittle it down to 40 now!
Tracey in Edmonton2 -
frankiesgirl21 wrote: »Pip, just lovely!
Rebecca- I can eat the same breakfast and lunch everyday for months! If it is healthy, pack and I don't have to waste time on the way to work. Trying to re-boot myself this year with a little IF so I have given up my egg and avocado breakfast at the moment. Just had my half a mini avocado as a snack though.... Dinner is always my variant....
NyKaren-(not in NY) Capetown... wow! We have friends who travel there and they love it!. Someday.... Next trip for us is back to San Francisco and Carmel in the fall....
Trying to be more mindful of things each day... what I eat and how I feel and how they relate.... Dinner out tonight, the DH's day off.... But I did cook healthy meals for us the last 3 nights in a row so I will count this day four of a really good streak as long as I behave tonight! I feel determined....
Tracey- Congratulations on hitting one of the milestones. That right now is my goal. If I look at the big picture, I will get depressed so instead just one step at a time...In relation to my post about CA in the fall, I don't think I will be all the way to the goal by then but on the way would be nice... At least in CA they like their healthy!!!!
Trying to find the best time to make MFP a priority, I know I need it....
Frankiesgirl- still raining in Pa... who cuts grass 2x a week in August????
Thanks, I am doing the same thing 10 pounds at a time and a day at a time. That is all I am able to do right now. I did the hurry up and exercise like crazy twice before and failed both times. I don't want that this time.
Tracey in Edmonton
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Well a day on the road yesterday left me so far behind again. I think I'm caught up!
Wendy - I just love the pics and the editing you are doing. Great work. My husband took multimedia years ago and I appreciate the work involved in completely changing pictures like you are doing.
Katla - The smoke is crazy here today, it has been our worse day yet. The picture below was taken out my office window at about 845 in the morning.
Lenora- I am on facebook quite regularly. I have my settings locked down so that people can't easily find me. My career has been managing people for over 20 years and I didn't want employees knowing about my personal life. As for the political rants and such I understand exactly what you mean. My DH and FIL have not spoken for close to two years now because of FB rants made by my FIL. It's a very sad situation. I still have him on my FB as it's the only way we have found out that my MIL was in the hospital twice now. Weird family dynamics.
Dana - I hear you, keeping caught up with this group is a part time job LOL
Rye - Sounds like a rough start to your trip except for the chocolate smell! Have a great trip and visit with your Dad.
Heather- I like your idea of Bonus calories, so you burn an extra 200 calories a day that you don't log? You earn about 800 calories in total through exercise a day? Am I reading that correctly? So sorry to hear about your hubby's anxiety and IBS flare up. Hopefully, once all is settled and you have the keys to the new place things will right itself. Do you have a much longer wait to know for sure? It sure seems different than buying in Canada. We put in an offer it was accepted within a couple hours and our closing date was only 3 weeks out.
Lisa - Hope you have a great road trip with the new manager. What a great way to know a new co-worker. I've been in that position a couple of times and made one lifelong friend out of it. The other, I knew wouldn't work out and I was right, he was gone within 6 months.
Pip - I admire your restraint with logging your losses. I am totally the opposite I log any loss more than 1/2 pound. I sometimes have long stretches waiting for another one. I love all of the pictures of you and Kirby, you have such a beautiful smile.
Barbie -How frustrating that the PT isn't working, hopefully they come up with a plan soon.
Allie - I love that you are still spending time with your DFIL - I have always told my husband if anything happened to us that I was keeping his parents. His Mother has told him she is keeping me too LOL
Tracey in Edmonton6 -
Yesterday was just a day of No's - We had three contracts cancel yesterday, two of them were only temporary so not a surprise but the third one was completely out of the blue. This leaves us with one 40 hour contract. So the branch now has 208 hours worth of Supervision/Management and only 40 hours of someone to supervise.
I called the VP who I report to directly to ask him what he wants me to do about staffing if I need to lay people off or not and he snapped at me "I want you to sell". I have been trying and then he has been making me give high quotes, so I really feel this is a no win situation. He told me that if I don't get business they will be closing the branch. I am not so concerned about myself, I will have EI and I already have something else in the works, but I feel awful knowing that I am responsible for 32 others livelihood. I told the VP in our first conversation when they contacted me about this position that I was not the person to help them build a branch and I was promised that I would have to manage it and they would do the building. I was told he would be here once a week to build relationships and get clients, he has not been here since the day he hired me in January. They hired the Business Development guy in early June and I was told he would be here weekly until we got business up and going. He has been here twice. It's an awful feeling being set up to fail and that is how I feel. I spoke to the Bus. Development guy on the way home yesterday and he told me to just sell or he figures there is only another 2-3 months they will keep the branch going. I'm not even sure what to do at this point except keep doing what I'm doing.
I had a bad vibe about this position from the day I accepted it, I am grateful for it as I needed the work, but when I was told by the Owner and VP on my first day my only objective was not to kill the cactus in the office I should have known it was not going to be successful.
A friend came last night to look at my stacking washer/dryer I bought used that wasn't working. It can't be fixed. So I spent $50.00 for nothing on that! I'll try to post it for free and hope that someone wants it for parts or something.
I ate like crap yesterday, I'm sure some of it was emotional eating. I very rarely do that so I'm not beating myself up over it. Today is a new day and I'll be on the right track again. I did have a couple of positives yesterday, for the first time in at least 6 years I have two bills 100% up to date! It was such a nice feeling opening the gas bill and paying it immediately! Only about 3 more to get caught up! Hopefully I don't just get them caught up and end up right behind again because I'm out of work.
Today is going to be great, I get to see the Grands for the first time in 2 Weeks! I have a little gift for each of them, I can't wait to see them.
Tracey in Edmonton5 -
Yo peeps
I finally lowered my weight on my profile 1-1/2lbs. I still can’t get myself to lower it what it really is even tho I have been at this weight for more than 2 weeks. It’s really should b 5lbs lower
You crack me up!! Most of us would go the other direction if anything, like on a driver license. Lol. Big hug to you!!
Janetr OKC2 -
Tracey - yikes! yesterday was a rough one. Sounds like VP is a jerk. You are NOT responsible for the 32 others. It is good to have empathy, but don't take their stress on. Easier said then done I know. What do you sell? I am guessing you are not the only one responsible for selling. Maybe it is time to be honest with rest of staff and maybe they will be more motivated to sell? Good luck!
Congrats on the weight loss so far and I hope you and I can become great weight loss buddies and show each other great pictures of next years weddings!
And your attitude about erasing tomorrows eating and doing right today is very important!0 -
Thanks for all your responses to what you eat, and I understand its normal to be eating my same foods every day. It does simplify things!
Well I finally pulled my 7 ft weed growing on the side of the house! It wasn't like any of the bushes near it so out it went. I am still wanting to trim the bushes around the front window, but when do you trim flowering bushes? I need to research this. Also I am not sure if my raspberries are overbearing or just once a year. I don't think anyone trimmed the old canes last year. I have some vines with pretty purple little flowers just choking a bush nearby! Craziness in my yard...
Husband is currently pruning a tree that's hanging over the fence onto our property. To keep this property decent will be a challenge, and as a rental, the owner should have forked out money for a landscaper!
Have a great day all!
Rebecca
Whidbey island
Washington
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I log my weight every Friday, up or down. When I was losing, I logged my weight every Monday and Friday.
Okie in the TX Hill Country0 -
Tracey - You are correct. I do 600 worth of exercise first thing in the morning on the three machines we have in the spare room. Actually I do 536 and the other 64 are done on the floor in my bedroom and with weights in my bedroom in front of a tv.
I do the machines with my DH and we listen to BBC Radio 4 while we are exercising. We often argue with the radio and we have our favourite programmes on different days of the week.
The bonus calories can be running, recumbent bike, or very occasionally, kettlebell swings. If I run I only do 500 morning calories as my run is 300.
I don't work at a regular job, so I have the time to exercise. I know I am lucky, but I also know that not many women of nearly 69 are doing what I am doing every day. I feel strong and fit and I like the way I look in clothes. (Not so much without them!)
I eat a lowish carb diet, with a lot of vegetables. Quite high protein and healthy fats. It suits me very well. I have recently discovered alcohol free drinks which has made a big difference to my consumption of alcohol and I feel better for it. I will have a drink tonight at the pub. It delights me not to be struggling with alcohol.
I decluttered some more workshop stuff today, but it was very instructive looking at my old teaching materials and all the helpful and inspiring quotes. I inspired myself!
Love Heather UK xxxxxxx who is off to the pub.8 -
Happy hump day all!
Okie- I was going to ask how often everyone logs weight... what about the rest of you gals?
Tracey, I so relate to how you feel. That work stress depression thing is a beast. My co worker and I were discussing that this morning. But not about the eating repercussions ' cause he's a guy...lol..
Janet, I love the post about clutter. I hate to deal with issues or baggage so it is easier to just chuck it somewhere and move on, literally and metaphorically....
Carol, Belated Birthday wishes! Sounds like a great celebration, fajitas and margaritas!
Lenora, oh my dear, please be careful! I know how frustrating this must be for you but please take care of yourself!!
Michele I know what you mean about the cars.... I have been in the business for 10 years now and it is never straight forward. Especially with todays vehicles!!!
Finally a no rain forecast for one day in central PA!
Frankiesgirl...
P.S. Made it through dinner with DH and stayed within allowances. Small wins!5 -
Snowflake1968 wrote: »Well a day on the road yesterday left me so far behind again. I think I'm caught up!
Wendy - I just love the pics and the editing you are doing. Great work. My husband took multimedia years ago and I appreciate the work involved in completely changing pictures like you are doing.
Katla - The smoke is crazy here today, it has been our worse day yet. The picture below was taken out my office window at about 845 in the morning.
Lenora- I am on facebook quite regularly. I have my settings locked down so that people can't easily find me. My career has been managing people for over 20 years and I didn't want employees knowing about my personal life. As for the political rants and such I understand exactly what you mean. My DH and FIL have not spoken for close to two years now because of FB rants made by my FIL. It's a very sad situation. I still have him on my FB as it's the only way we have found out that my MIL was in the hospital twice now. Weird family dynamics.
Dana - I hear you, keeping caught up with this group is a part time job LOL
Rye - Sounds like a rough start to your trip except for the chocolate smell! Have a great trip and visit with your Dad.
Heather- I like your idea of Bonus calories, so you burn an extra 200 calories a day that you don't log? You earn about 800 calories in total through exercise a day? Am I reading that correctly? So sorry to hear about your hubby's anxiety and IBS flare up. Hopefully, once all is settled and you have the keys to the new place things will right itself. Do you have a much longer wait to know for sure? It sure seems different than buying in Canada. We put in an offer it was accepted within a couple hours and our closing date was only 3 weeks out.
Lisa - Hope you have a great road trip with the new manager. What a great way to know a new co-worker. I've been in that position a couple of times and made one lifelong friend out of it. The other, I knew wouldn't work out and I was right, he was gone within 6 months.
Pip - I admire your restraint with logging your losses. I am totally the opposite I log any loss more than 1/2 pound. I sometimes have long stretches waiting for another one. I love all of the pictures of you and Kirby, you have such a beautiful smile.
Barbie -How frustrating that the PT isn't working, hopefully they come up with a plan soon.
Allie - I love that you are still spending time with your DFIL - I have always told my husband if anything happened to us that I was keeping his parents. His Mother has told him she is keeping me too LOL
Tracey in Edmonton
Thx 😃
Janetr- I keep thinking the weight loss is a fluke and it’s gonna go up any second1 -
brennerjlb wrote: »Tracey - yikes! yesterday was a rough one. Sounds like VP is a jerk. You are NOT responsible for the 32 others. It is good to have empathy, but don't take their stress on. Easier said then done I know. What do you sell? I am guessing you are not the only one responsible for selling. Maybe it is time to be honest with rest of staff and maybe they will be more motivated to sell? Good luck!
Congrats on the weight loss so far and I hope you and I can become great weight loss buddies and show each other great pictures of next years weddings!
And your attitude about erasing tomorrows eating and doing right today is very important!
There is only me and one other person in this branch. He is a security guard/scheduler. We are a security guard company so we provide security guards for Malls, events, for access control, etc. There are a lot of companies here doing the same thing and it's just hard to get a good reputation built up without the business to do it with. I have been in the industry for 20+ years but in administrative management and operations management roles. This would be awesome if I had a salesperson LOL1 -
coastalgosgal wrote: »Thanks for all your responses to what you eat, and I understand its normal to be eating my same foods every day. It does simplify things!
Well I finally pulled my 7 ft weed growing on the side of the house! It wasn't like any of the bushes near it so out it went. I am still wanting to trim the bushes around the front window, but when do you trim flowering bushes? I need to research this. Also I am not sure if my raspberries are overbearing or just once a year. I don't think anyone trimmed the old canes last year. I have some vines with pretty purple little flowers just choking a bush nearby! Craziness in my yard...
Husband is currently pruning a tree that's hanging over the fence onto our property. To keep this property decent will be a challenge, and as a rental, the owner should have forked out money for a landscaper!
Have a great day all!
Rebecca
Whidbey island
Washington
I don't eat the same thing each day, but my evening snack. If I don't have it I feel funny and keep looking for something to satisfy me. Not a good idea! I usually don't eat breakfast, have 2 or 3 different lunch ideas and supper is 95% of the time up to my hubby.
I am so not a gardener, landscaper. I don't envy you that task at all, you are correct your landlord should hire someone or at least give you a discount in rent if you are going to maintain it.
Tracey in Edmonton1 -
Tracey in Edmonton, I am frustrated about trying to get someone to clean the sun room ceiling windows and gutters. It has been in the hundreds, and we don't have that extra $ on hand. This year is kind of a trial period regarding us and owner. If I call the management company too much on this and that, the owner might label us difficult. So lying low during this time is smart. The downside of rental living I guess.
I am going to delegate a place in the forest as a place to put clippings, (probably will be used as a bed for the deer,). Then I won't have to try to fit it in the weekly garbage. If this was our own place I would research how to make a compost bin. But it would probably get destroyed by the deer!
Another good day planned eating wise.
💗 Rebecca0 -
Good days.
Rebecca3 -
wildhorsewendy wrote: »Hi Sisters, every morning I am grateful because I am another day closer to spring and another day closer to having a new baby foal to play with.
This morning I listened to Clarissa Pinkola Estes while I was doing my weights and I loved this quote of hers: "You can't fit a tiger into a matchbox." I am going to remember it as I go about trying to fit into what society deems normality. LOL. I just can't quite squeeze myself into the mold.
Here in NZ where prices tend to be high, I buy a one kg bag of turmeric at an Indian bulk foods store for $12 NZ. This lasts me for about a month as I take it and I also give it to my horses every day to keep their bodies young and healthy. I probably consume between a quarter tsp and half a tsp a day, which is what Dr. Michael Gregor also recommends in his book How Not To Die, based on what millions of Indians consume daily. LOL. If you have a queasy tummy or don't want to add it to your foods (I don't notice any taste in food at all, but it does flavour drinks a bit) you could always buy a bag of gel capsules, empty ones, and fill them at home and take it as a capsule. That might be a cheaper option. I am pretty sure it is Dr. Gregor who also recommends the whole spice rather than to just take an extract of curcurmen.
My youngest daughter just called to ask me to meet her for a meal later today. Nice to feel loved. Not so long ago she hated me and ran away from home when she was a month shy of 16 (right after I had bought a 'dream horse' for her. She went through a rebellious teen stage, dropped out of school, got into drugs and criminal boyfriend...Thank God that is all behind us and she survived and she loves me again. LOL She told me that she wants to keep the new foal that is due for herself. Maybe... She is 9 weeks pregnant herself and very happy, though quite nauseas.
Wendy
You’re right about the absorption of turmeric! It is better absorbed with the black pepper extract. Another option is to look for a turmeric supplement that uses a water dispersion technology to help it absorb even better.1 -
Snowflake1968 wrote: »Well a day on the road yesterday left me so far behind again. I think I'm caught up!
Wendy - I just love the pics and the editing you are doing. Great work. My husband took multimedia years ago and I appreciate the work involved in completely changing pictures like you are doing.
Tracey in Edmonton
Thanks. I think of it as play, not work. That makes all the difference in doing anything.
Does everyone see the Ghost Snowflake in this gorgeous orange sky photo? LOL
Wendy0 -
Kate UK1
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Hi Everyone...hope it's ok to still join this group. I'm 56 and about 15 pounds heavier than my profile pic. I'm obviously in denial about how much I'm eating (and drinking, lol), so back to tracking. I'm eating mostly plant-based and at least for now, low fat.
But I think I'm also eating/drinking out of boredom. I work from home and kids are grown and out, but no grand kids to chase after. So I'm looking for active and not-so-active hobbies and friends.
Also looking for fitness pals, so please connect if you think we have some commonalities.
Cheers,
Lisa2
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