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Guys/Girls: What is your real opinion on..
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For some reason I thought this was “body” and not face related. I get it now.2
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For some reason I thought this was “body” and not face related. I get it now.Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
I was going to come in here all waxing philosophy about hip to waist and shoulder to waist and the golden ratio and greek architecture and art....
And then I realized the same 🤷🏽♂️
imagine if the guy or girl had wings and could fly anywhere or maybe had the power to shapeshift OR had built in defense mechanisms like fangs or super strength4 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »
imagine if the guy or girl had wings and could fly anywhere or maybe had the power to shapeshift OR had built in defense mechanisms like fangs or super strength
It's like Tinker bell *kitten* a Bellatrix and had a love child... 🤷🏽♂️😍😂
I'm in... 😏
So in... 😏
Okay I'll stop now... 😂1 -
Guys- would you prefer a lady who is emotional (all pros and cons...does things for you, expresses her feelings, thoughful) or someone emotionally unavailable (all pros and cons...a challenge, never know what's shes thinking, maybe she'll hang out maybe she wont)3
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys- would you prefer a lady who is emotional (all pros and cons...does things for you, expresses her feelings, thoughful) or someone emotionally unavailable (all pros and cons...a challenge, never know what's shes thinking, maybe she'll hang out maybe she wont)
Which one’s quieter hotter2 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys- would you prefer a lady who is emotional (all pros and cons...does things for you, expresses her feelings, thoughful) or someone emotionally unavailable (all pros and cons...a challenge, never know what's shes thinking, maybe she'll hang out maybe she wont)
if she isn't willing to say "haha want me to call you a wambulance??" when i express myself emotionally then i don't want it3 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys- would you prefer a lady who is emotional (all pros and cons...does things for you, expresses her feelings, thoughful) or someone emotionally unavailable (all pros and cons...a challenge, never know what's shes thinking, maybe she'll hang out maybe she wont)
Why do I feel attacked? 🤪
I prefer to call this being chill 😭4 -
correct answer...i really do think this plays into most of these scenarios
Let's say equal in looks department1 -
I say chill some people say dead inside🤷♀️
if she isn't willing to say "haha want me to call you a wambulance??" when i express myself emotionally then i don't want it
They should at least laugh...otherwise why even bother expressing your feelings2 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys- would you prefer a lady who is emotional (all pros and cons...does things for you, expresses her feelings, thoughful) or someone emotionally unavailable (all pros and cons...a challenge, never know what's shes thinking, maybe she'll hang out maybe she wont)
also how do guys feel about a lady who is very emotional but expresses it in weird ways so u probably dont know what she’s thinking anyways, asking for a friend3 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »
also how do guys feel about a lady who is very emotional but expresses it in weird ways so u probably dont know what she’s thinking anyways, asking for a friend
will she berate me when i fail to read her mind? if so i am ABOUT it4 -
will she berate me when i fail to read her mind? if so i am ABOUT it
no i’m sorry, the current model only has the capability to get moody and sad when u don’t understand her unsaid motivations
now if u upgrade her overconfidence package with a self-importance add-on, berating is included
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Also... Which ones better in bed? 😬2 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys- would you prefer a lady who is emotional (all pros and cons...does things for you, expresses her feelings, thoughful) or someone emotionally unavailable (all pros and cons...a challenge, never know what's shes thinking, maybe she'll hang out maybe she wont)
But to seriously answer, assuming they are equally as good in uhm.... Bed 🤷🏽♂️
Neither really sounds particularly appealing...
Emotional- Just sounds like I'm opening myself up to too much... Like she's probably going to be pretty helpless in most cases and I'm constantly going to be having to carry her through life... I wouldn't want someone who has all these emotional needs and needs to be coddled... Omg I can't... Maybe I'm wrong but these are the assumptions I would make and may just not be able to let go of... I guess it's not you it's me 🤷🏽♂️...
Emotionless- Sounds boring, sounds like she won't get excited over much, I gotta have some fire, some passion... Sounds like they just aren't going to be able to go on much of adventure, sounds like they aren't going to be much other than just there...
I'd prefer someone who is just normal and no when's to turn it on and off 😂3 -
Mr_Healthy_Habits wrote: »
But to seriously answer, assuming they are equally as good in uhm.... Bed 🤷🏽♂️
Neither really sounds particularly appealing...
Emotional- Just sounds like I'm opening myself up to too much... Like she's probably going to be pretty helpless in most cases and I'm constantly going to be having to carry her through life... I wouldn't want someone who has all these emotional needs and needs to be coddled... Omg I can't... Maybe I'm wrong but these are the assumptions I would make and may just not be able to let go of... I guess it's not you it's me 🤷🏽♂️...
Emotionless- Sounds boring, sounds like she won't get excited over much, I gotta have some fire, some passion... Sounds like they just aren't going to be able to go on much of adventure, sounds like they aren't going to be much other than just there...
I'd prefer someone who is just normal and no when's to turn it on and off 😂
You’re evading the question. You have to pick. That’s the rules. We had to pick between a needy guy and an unavailable guy one time. We all want the perfect mix.3 -
You’re evading the question. You have to pick. That’s the rules. We had to pick between a needy guy and an unavailable guy one time. We all want the perfect mix.
True...
Well then let's go with Emotional 🤷🏽♂️...
I can learn to shrug things off...
And I calculate a higher probability that she's going to be a Rockstar in bed 😂...4 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Guys- would you prefer a lady who is emotional (all pros and cons...does things for you, expresses her feelings, thoughful) or someone emotionally unavailable (all pros and cons...a challenge, never know what's shes thinking, maybe she'll hang out maybe she wont)
I choose emotional2 -
You could always go with the emotionless chick and then gaslight her. Chicks really dig that.5
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GymGoddessGoals wrote: »You could always go with the emotionless chick and then gaslight her. Chicks really dig that.
that's just crazy to think a man could or would ever do that to any woman though don't you think6 -
that's just crazy to think a man could or would ever do that to any woman though don't you think
I used to make collages about men like this when I was a teenager... so dreamy 😍😍
As a matter of fact, they’re still my favorite kind of man!6 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »You could always go with the emotionless chick and then gaslight her In the bedroom. Chicks really dig that.
FIFE 🥰🥰🥰
#winning 🙌🏼3 -
that's just crazy to think a man could or would ever do that to any woman though don't you think
Look I'm just saying you can make her into an emotional hot mess pretty easily.4 -
Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.2 -
Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.
the one who thinks she has flaws is better6 -
the one who thinks she has flaws is better
I literally lol. 😂2 -
Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.
i have major insecurity in how i look and sometimes even hate my body and have been told like * a lot * that its a major turn off and i can def see why bc confident people are more attractive. i basically have just learned to fake confidence sometimes but that *kitten* wears me out so mostly i avoid it all6 -
sweet_ermengarde wrote: »
i have major insecurity in how i look and sometimes even hate my body and have been told like * a lot * that its a major turn off and i can def see why bc confident people are more attractive. i basically have just learned to fake confidence sometimes but that *kitten* wears me out so mostly i avoid it all
The older I get the less insecurity I have. Who has the energy for all of that? I have stretch marks, acne, scars, deflated boobs and cellulite just like everyone else. Absolutely next to nothing I can do about all of that. What I have less time for is anyone who would look at those things and fault me for them.
You are an absolutely gorgeous woman with a larger than life personality. Don't waste another moment caught up in the cycle of insecurity.5 -
Guys....what’s your real opinion on confidence in women? Like, I hear that if she’s super confident in her body it can “make up” for what some might think of as flaws.
To simplify it for some of you.....same woman, same body, same in bed...they are identical in every way. Except one is insecure about her “flaws” and it shows. The other one has a huge idgaf attitude over the same “flaws” and doesn’t care what anyone thinks about them. She still thinks she’s sexy as hell. And it shows. How much does that change the way you see her?
Again....one is not PHYSICALLY hotter than the other. They are exactly the same in bed.
I have a lot of "flaws" but figured out at a young age its probably better to not draw people's attention to them, like don't say "I hate my *kitten*", then other people may look at your *kitten* any think " she's right, her *kitten* sucks". Dosen't mean I'm confident tho.
Learned this from hearing my friends critiquing themselves, like I never payed attention to Kelly's big thighs or Angie's nose especially, until they pointed it out.3 -
GymGoddessGoals wrote: »
The older I get the less insecurity I have. Who has the energy for all of that? I have stretch marks, acne, scars, deflated boobs and cellulite just like everyone else. Absolutely next to nothing I can do about all of that. What I have less time for is anyone who would look at those things and fault me for them.
You are an absolutely gorgeous woman with a larger than life personality. Don't waste another moment caught up in the cycle of insecurity.
^^ This. All of it.
If you've been welcomed to my bed and/or I've agreed to enter your space, you had better be grateful to whichever higher power you communicate with that the opportunity to share our bodies and energy has presented itself.
Everyone has flaws as much as everyone has strengths.5
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