The New Singles Hangout...Come & Mingle
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Nacho_Daddy wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »Also we should jump on the married thread 🤷♀️cause they jump on our single thread all the time
What am I missing in here? Singles Jumping Married folk & vice versa?
That's how this should be done (provided of course, that everyone is logging their calories)
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Definitely a roll coaster. Took me 3 maybe 4 years before I felt like me and healed.
Yeah, its not a quick kinda thing, so many raw emotions. Im glad you got ahead of it. Took me about 4 years to get past the anger and negative feels. There came a day when I realised it was the best thing that could have happened.😬2 -
PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Definitely a roll coaster. Took me 3 maybe 4 years before I felt like me and healed.slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Such an emotional time. But the compliments of strangers definitely help.3 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Definitely a roll coaster. Took me 3 maybe 4 years before I felt like me and healed.
Yeah, its not a quick kinda thing, so many raw emotions. Im glad you got ahead of it. Took me about 4 years to get past the anger and negative feels. There came a day when I realised it was the best thing that could have happened.😬
Yes definitely all this...im almost to the 5 year mark and finally making healthy decisions for me...boundaries were a huge issue for me. Ive finally quit trying to convince him im a good person.PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Definitely a roll coaster. Took me 3 maybe 4 years before I felt like me and healed.slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Such an emotional time. But the compliments of strangers definitely help.
Compliments help. Alone time helps. Self care.2 -
Aww, I just popped in here, and happened to see all these messages of support around divorce ❤️ It is definitely a difficult/painful ordeal. Still screws my head up sometimes.
@jcrav77 @PlentyofProtein00 @slimgirljo15 and @J_NY_Z it’s really nice to hear your stories. It’s been almost 2 years since my split, and I’m slowly starting to feel like myself again but older, wiser, stronger 💪 (and still learning). Covid made things doubly hard, since I couldn’t really surround myself with friends/support (there were SO many days where I just wanted a damn hug 😭) but also gave me time to reflect and focus on myself, and what I want/need out of future relationships. It’s been a pretty interesting, transformative experience for me, both mentally and emotionally. Almost out of the trenches! 😊
Anyway, just wanted to say thanks! You guys are awesome ❤️❤️❤️3 -
terrordawg wrote: »Aww, I just popped in here, and happened to see all these messages of support around divorce ❤️ It is definitely a difficult/painful ordeal. Still screws my head up sometimes.
@jcrav77 @PlentyofProtein00 @slimgirljo15 and @J_NY_Z it’s really nice to hear your stories. It’s been almost 2 years since my split, and I’m slowly starting to feel like myself again but older, wiser, stronger 💪 (and still learning). Covid made things doubly hard, since I couldn’t really surround myself with friends/support (there were SO many days where I just wanted a damn hug 😭) but also gave me time to reflect and focus on myself, and what I want/need out of future relationships. It’s been a pretty interesting, transformative experience for me, both mentally and emotionally. Almost out of the trenches! 😊
Anyway, just wanted to say thanks! You guys are awesome ❤️❤️❤️
All of this, but, to echo @slimgirljo15 a little, there is a good life on the other side of divorce. Mine is ~21 years in the past and I can tell ya that I'm not missing any of that mess or the lifestyle that was going on before we made the smart decision to divorce in the first place.
Hang-in & hang-on; it does get better. So many more opportunities exist.2 -
Hiyaaaaaa1
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PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Definitely a roll coaster. Took me 3 maybe 4 years before I felt like me and healed.slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Such an emotional time. But the compliments of strangers definitely help.
Actually it was a huge boost for me. My ex continually told me nobody would want a mum of 4 littlies. My first big night out with some gf's was amazing. I know they were just guys looking for a quick hook up.. but the compliments reassured me that I was at least date worthy. 😃 it was a much needed ego boost.1 -
hueritahsarinana wrote: »Hiyaaaaaa
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Nacho_Daddy wrote: »terrordawg wrote: »Aww, I just popped in here, and happened to see all these messages of support around divorce ❤️ It is definitely a difficult/painful ordeal. Still screws my head up sometimes.
@jcrav77 @PlentyofProtein00 @slimgirljo15 and @J_NY_Z it’s really nice to hear your stories. It’s been almost 2 years since my split, and I’m slowly starting to feel like myself again but older, wiser, stronger 💪 (and still learning). Covid made things doubly hard, since I couldn’t really surround myself with friends/support (there were SO many days where I just wanted a damn hug 😭) but also gave me time to reflect and focus on myself, and what I want/need out of future relationships. It’s been a pretty interesting, transformative experience for me, both mentally and emotionally. Almost out of the trenches! 😊
Anyway, just wanted to say thanks! You guys are awesome ❤️❤️❤️
All of this, but, to echo @slimgirljo15 a little, there is a good life on the other side of divorce. Mine is ~21 years in the past and I can tell ya that I'm not missing any of that mess or the lifestyle that was going on before we made the smart decision to divorce in the first place.
Hang-in & hang-on; it does get better. So many more opportunities exist.
Exactly .. 🙂
Good morning Stan 🤗0 -
Nacho_Daddy wrote: »hueritahsarinana wrote: »Hiyaaaaaa
I’m doing okay just at work and you?0 -
hueritahsarinana wrote: »Nacho_Daddy wrote: »hueritahsarinana wrote: »Hiyaaaaaa
I’m doing okay just at work and you?
All good here as well. Good t'see ya still around the joint.
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slimgirljo15 wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Definitely a roll coaster. Took me 3 maybe 4 years before I felt like me and healed.slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Such an emotional time. But the compliments of strangers definitely help.
Actually it was a huge boost for me. My ex continually told me nobody would want a mum of 4 littlies. My first big night out with some gf's was amazing. I know they were just guys looking for a quick hook up.. but the compliments reassured me that I was at least date worthy. 😃 it was a much needed ego boost.
Your ex sounds like a peach.0 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Definitely a roll coaster. Took me 3 maybe 4 years before I felt like me and healed.slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Such an emotional time. But the compliments of strangers definitely help.
Actually it was a huge boost for me. My ex continually told me nobody would want a mum of 4 littlies. My first big night out with some gf's was amazing. I know they were just guys looking for a quick hook up.. but the compliments reassured me that I was at least date worthy. 😃 it was a much needed ego boost.
Your ex sounds like a peach.
Oh it got better.. he met a new woman and she fell pregnant. His way of telling my kids was so kind and thoughtful.
He proceeded to tell them they'd never amount to much because they have too much of me in them and that he was starting another family, a better family.
Of course, the fact that 3 of the 4 chose not to speak to him these past many years is obviously my fault 🙄
Oh.. he was a peach alright. 😒
Sorry, tmi 😬 the one thing that can still rile me is what he put my kids through. 😠5 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Definitely a roll coaster. Took me 3 maybe 4 years before I felt like me and healed.slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Such an emotional time. But the compliments of strangers definitely help.
Actually it was a huge boost for me. My ex continually told me nobody would want a mum of 4 littlies. My first big night out with some gf's was amazing. I know they were just guys looking for a quick hook up.. but the compliments reassured me that I was at least date worthy. 😃 it was a much needed ego boost.
Your ex sounds like a peach.
Oh it got better.. he met a new woman and she fell pregnant. His way of telling my kids was so kind and thoughtful.
He proceeded to tell them they'd never amount to much because they have too much of me in them and that he was starting another family, a better family.
Of course, the fact that 3 of the 4 chose not to speak to him these past many years is obviously my fault 🙄
Oh.. he was a peach alright. 😒
Sorry, tmi 😬 the one thing that can still rile me is what he put my kids through. 😠
Its stories like these that make me thankful that my ex wife and I are such good friends. I'm so sorry Jo. People can be so thoughtless and cruel. If I'm ever in Australia I'll pay him a visit.1 -
slimgirljo15 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »PlentyofProtein00 wrote: »slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Definitely a roll coaster. Took me 3 maybe 4 years before I felt like me and healed.slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Such an emotional time. But the compliments of strangers definitely help.
Actually it was a huge boost for me. My ex continually told me nobody would want a mum of 4 littlies. My first big night out with some gf's was amazing. I know they were just guys looking for a quick hook up.. but the compliments reassured me that I was at least date worthy. 😃 it was a much needed ego boost.
Your ex sounds like a peach.
Oh it got better.. he met a new woman and she fell pregnant. His way of telling my kids was so kind and thoughtful.
He proceeded to tell them they'd never amount to much because they have too much of me in them and that he was starting another family, a better family.
Of course, the fact that 3 of the 4 chose not to speak to him these past many years is obviously my fault 🙄
Oh.. he was a peach alright. 😒
Sorry, tmi 😬 the one thing that can still rile me is what he put my kids through. 😠
Its stories like these that make me thankful that my ex wife and I are such good friends. I'm so sorry Jo. People can be so thoughtless and cruel. If I'm ever in Australia I'll pay him a visit.
Thank you.. its all good though, he's someone else's problem 😆
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slimgirljo15 wrote: »
Thank you 😊 your always so sweet.0 -
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