WOMEN AGES 50+ FOR DECEMBER 2021
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Kate UK ❤️0
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Machka - Your situation is so hard. No wonder you are tired.
If DH can get hold of some double cream today I might make the chocolate roulade for Christmas. I'm going to cut it in half and keep one half for guests. There was NO cream at all in the very local shop on Saturday.
Plus the tree is nagging at me. It's still in the bag in the utility room. I might investigate the outside lights first. You can see I'm not at all enthusiastic.
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Mary- I think your (is it sister?) has a right to know if she has been exposed. She will be angry that she wasn't told; but she will get over that. I had this happen to me a week or so ago. Exposed when my DOS tested positive and did not tell me (but texted my husband; who did not tell me) and came into my home, unmasked, to pick up some bins of Christmas deco. He brought his also exposed, (though tested negative) girlfriend with whom I had a lengthy face to face conversation with. *sigh* I have forgiven them all, but told them that I need to know! I need to know that if I become symptomatic, it COULD be C-19 and not a cold. I need to know so that I can go back to masking with my children at all times until I know for sure! I don't worry about me getting it, as much as I would feel awful knowing that I gave it to someone whose immune system can't handle it. I have multiple families with live in family members who are elderly or have zero immune system due to cancer/special abilities. If they won't tell her; you should, just so that she KNOWS to be on the lookout for symptoms.
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Local schools are closed today due to "threats". The Oxford school shooting has spurred a series of "copycats". Last week two districts closed bc of threats made on social media to specific schools. *sigh*. I am not sure why people think they can make these threats on social media. They can be easily tracked and prosecuted. Anyway, Monday is usually my only "quiet" day (I only have 5 on most Mondays). Back up to 8 due to school aged kiddos. I didn't put my gingerbread house up this weekend. I knew I would have a couple of "planned" days with older kids here, this week. They tend to be perfectionists with their art projects and I figured they wouldn't react well to two year olds just coloring, gluing, and painting randomly on a gingerbread house. So...that will go up next week so that the little ones have a whole week to themselves to do what they want to the house.
Made banana muffins for the kids breakfast and also have dinner already made and in the fridge; ready to go into the oven. Two less meals to cook today! Yea!
ttfn xoxoxo KJ (Kelly)1 -
My DSIL (the one I'm going to see on Friday) emailed me to say she has donated my present money to a breast cancer charity 🙂 😀 😊
I asked them to do that.
I then donated the same amount to Facing the World, who operate on children with facial deformities in Vietnam.
Very happy about this.
Love Heather UK xxxxxx6 -
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It is 6:30 am here and 28 degrees. Cold start for the desert 🌵! Off to another week of mischievous 8 &9 year olds.
I think my DH has TBI from boxing in his early years too.
RvRita in Roswell NM3 -
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Karen - not sure where or when I saw it, but I remembered the first few lines of that poem and loved it. This is the first time I've seen the whole of it, though. Thank you!
Terri - so glad your procedure's done and you got through it with flying colors, it sounds like!
Heather - right there with you on the Christmas decorations... Last year, we had the kids here for Thanksgiving and did a mini-Christmas afterward, including a mini-tree that I could put on a table and out of reach of Levi. When it was over, I put the tree, decorations and all, wrapped in plastic to keep it from getting schmutzy, and put it in the back closet. Our daughter and grands are supposed to be here the afternoon of the 23rd, so I'll probably pull it back out on the 22nd.
Please note, I'm not a complete Grinch, just mildly Grinchy. I love the fact that other people do the whole shebang, lights, music etc. I just don't feel the need to do so.
Machka - your drive to understand your husband's changes since the TBI is so strong that you probably know more on that subject than half the doctors you've seen since his accident. The silence, though, that's hard. I'm glad you're able to share with us what's happening. Your strength has been hard-won.
Kelly - ditto your 21st year as a chaotic maelstrom; mine was the year I turned 19. My then-boyfriend broke my nose in Albuquerque, I convinced my abusive father to wire me enough money to get back to East Texas on the bus, ended up hiding in the women's room at the Dallas Greyhound station to hide from the druggies and the pimps that roamed the place. Finally made it to my mother's house and prepared to go into the military just a few months later. Every time I've written that down, it holds less grief for me, less pain. I hope it works that way for you, dear heart. Many hugs...
Got my sandwich rolls made this weekend, and they turned out as I wanted them this time. The last batch had been dense and heavy, and I finally realized I'd left out the eggs on that set. This time, I added two eggs to the mix and they turned out well.
My own health continues to get better. It's incremental, and I am not patient ordinarily, but I feel more like myself each day.
Later y'all,
Lisa in AR
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Morning ladies
Well i must be fighting something because I slept until 8:30 this morning..
I have no plans today.. so honestly ..right now im filling my pill pod for the week and hanging with Alfie..im slugging down the fluids and will keep up with the Emergen-C
I am really not into the Christmas spirit ,I have my little tree,but I am listening to traditional Christmas music which I enjoy..
I'll put this question out there what is or was your favorite Holiday song when you where growing up.or as an adult or both..
Mine I think are Sleigh Ride... and White Christmas
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I am so happy to be in touch again. I have not had an easy time connecting with this wonderful group. DH & I travelled to Virginia to meet our new grandson and had a wonderful time there. We were self quarantined in a hotel for a few days before our son was able to pick us up in Richmond. We enjoyed our visit, and our 2 grandsons—a three year old and a newborn.
Our return trip home was an easy one.
Katla in NW Oregon0 -
Allie - Favorite Christmas Songs—Rudolph The Red Nosed Reindeer, What Child is This, and White Christmas. 🎄❤️🎄❤️🎄.
Katla0 -
Allie - Mary Did You Know. A number of singers/bands have recorded it, but Pentatonix is my favorite:
https://youtu.be/ifCWN5pJGIE
Just a note - while I am irreligious at best, music is one of the few things that helps me understand why others are religious.
Lisa in AR6 -
Lisa - We got the tree up. Not decorated yet, just up.
Yesterday I was watching a video about the idea of making a Bingo card with all the squares filled out with the things that usually trigger you at Christmas, like Uncle Ben's racist remarks, or grandpa drinking too much. Then when it happens you cross it off and tell your friend(s) when you've got a full house! I was talking to DH about it in bed.
Just as we were unravelling the Christmas lights for the tree, we got in a snit with each other. I complained he was making it worse etc and he stomped off. Then I shouted after him, "BINGO! We could put on our cards 'arguing about untangling the lights'". He laughed and we were fine again.
I found my big baubles and arranged them in the fireplace with lights and the LED candles have gone up on the mantlepiece. Apart from finishing the tree for the kids, that's it. More than I thought I would do!
It was pouring down this afternoon, so no outdoor lights went up.
Tomorrow is our Bea pickup day, but a named storm is coming in from the West and due to be overhead at pickup time. I texted my son she would be better off in the warm car with him while Edie is at her cello lesson. 60 mph winds and bucketing rain. He agreed.
I've booked a hair trim for next Wednesday. You have to give a deposit these days. :-•
Love Heather UK xxxxxxxx
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I like Mary Did You Know also and I like Hallelujah!
Carol in GA0 -
My Granddaughter playing basketball. She's like the Energizer Bunny bouncing all over the place. LOL
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Our DDIL put up three artificial Christmas trees in her home. One of them was tall enough to nearly reach the second floor ceiling. It was spectacular with its lights and ornaments. She had two additional trees in the TV room and dining room. Each was beautifully decorated. Decorating for Christmas is one of her talents and pleasures. We have been home for a week and have done no holiday decorating so far.😳 I need to get busy!
Katla2 -
Carol - She looks fantastic! Go girl!
Heather UK xxxxxx0 -
DH got out for a late walk when the rain stopped.
Heather UK xxxxxx2 -
Heather beautiful picture 💞0
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Well my middles sons babysitter got another job, so my daughter in law called her Mom to come help. I think they have a bunch of interviews for new babysitters that needs to happen, plus some cleaning days left on the old apartment. So while I am waiting for my daughter in law to send me pics of our time there, ( mostly just the baking day, because Athena isn't one that likes pics taken), they have a baking day, and her Momma posts pics on Facebook. Ack! Well, that's the second grandmas life for you, in a nutshell. I am a wee bit annoyed, but I am happy she at least used my apron.💖👍😁
She's a good little helper!
(Of course she smiled in the photos for me).
Rebecca
Whidbey
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Machka, I will do that too! I normally just get 2 or three now and then. I don't add any more either, so I will play the numbers game too.👍😁
Rebecca
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I have been struggling to get into the December thread. I hope this lets me in.3
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I just turned 50 on Dec 1 and am feeling my age, which is still young in my book, so I need to turn this ship around! Look forward to meeting you all.
Jennifer in Ohio5 -
DH and I travelled from our home in Oregon to visit our son’s family in Virginia. We had a wonderful time there. We flew into VA at the Richmond Airport and spent 3 nights in Richmond. We had a couple of dinners out in two restaurants that were in walking distance to our hotel. Both restaurants were excellent. Our son came and drove us to his home on a military base. We enjoyed our time with his family. We had a day together in Colonial Williamsburg. It was delightful. Our biggest treat was spending time with our almost four year old grandson & his new baby brother. I enjoyed the trip and I’m happy to be home.
Katla1 -
Drew is eating again. The medicine Vet wanted to give her just made her throw up and refuse to eat. Turns out it coats everything and can bind up her insides. I saw no evidence of blood so I think an ulcer is not her problem. Just got her to start eating so I will give her the parasitic medicine because parasites can cause anemia. We do have coyote is the neighborhood and their droppings can spread parasites. We did have some in our yard and I finished off the pick up with boiling water.
Still keeping her quiet and not making trips to son's house with her. I try to make sure she is warm too because anemia can make it you feel cold. Unfortuately we are having a super cold day and windy so I just take her out quickly and try to get her to walk a block and then warm her up when we get inside. I have a highschool girl walk her on Mondays. I will need to call her to let her know no walk tonight. I got a wool sweater for her online and when it is this cold it is part of the layers I put on her.
Loving my new magnified screening out blue light glasses.
Reading Set Boundaries Find Peace by Nedra Tawwae. I had to wait quite a while to get it on the e-book library sight. I am finding it interresting. I have gained an insight that DH and my father both react the same way when I am hurting. It makes me realize why I isolate myself when sick and why I have such a hard time asking for help.
I am also learning there is more to self care than just saying NO! Self care involves making time for yourself and sticking to this. Self care involves making your requests for what you need clear. Just because you made the request does not mean the other person can honor your request. It is good to ask. Self care involves respecting your own space, how you use your time, and how you react to a situation. It involves being kind to yourself however you react to a negative situation. Change perspective and view it as a learning opportunity. I find it easy to get caught up trying to do too much and then frustrated because I am late, overwhelmed, overshare, or overconsume.
I grew up in a home where boundaries were not honored. It does not mean I have to stay stuck.
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Kim--Sounds interesting. I am not sure I would even know where to start a project like that.Good luck.
Sue WA--Glad you found it before they charged more and the credit card company is working with you. I need to watch my cards closer. Thanks for the reminder.
Julie--When I got my 2nd shot I got the hot spot and sore arm swelled up. I went to our employee nurse and she said it is called Hot Spot and it should go away in about a week, maybe 2. So I just put ice on it and it did go away. But was painful while it was there.
Carol--So handsome and they grow up so fast.
Katiebug--So cute.
Flea--HUGS!!
Rebecca-- I sent a message for your address. I would like to send my calendars. So much better than just throwing them away.
Allie--Pray you are feeling better, and if not you are getting checked out. Glad it checked out and you are home resting. Good for you! Tom can just live with the money each week. What an a**.I agree with Michele that he is nuts and only out for himself. He owes you and he needs to pay for a long long time.Don't fall for any kind of sob story he tries to tell you.
favorite Christmas songs. Mary did you know? What child is this? and of course Hallelujah. That is my ring tone for my call on my phone. I love most all Christmas music. Lisa-I enjoy listening to about anything Pentatonix sing.
Well I had a very productive weekend. Got cookies made and bagged up for the neighbors and DH has the job of delivering them. Then at church yesterday, my friend that passed away her husband wore the christmas shirt I got her and we had our picture taken together. We both had a few tears.
Went to our Christain motorcyce group Christmas party. It was fun, but DH got really tired so we left early. Which is okay, just pray he feels better soon.
Tonight is our women's Christmas party at church. Have my table (I am hostess at one table) at set and when I get off will go home and finish what I am taking. Also tonight is my dept Christmas party at work. I will drop off my food and then go to the church. I did not realize they are on the same night and time. Oh well, do what we can.
Blessings, Vicki GRAND ISLAND, NE3 -
Allie- Add me to a long list of friends who don’t trust Tom. Be well & happy, and get good legal help for advice when/if he starts trying to cheat you. 😘❤️0
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