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Alinouveau2 wrote: »Yesterday I sent an application to volunteer with the cancer society driving people to appointments. When my dad was having cancer treatments he used this service and I felt like they needed more people to help out. They already got in touch with me for a phone interview Tuesday. I guess they're desperate... I think I'd be good driving people around
Hey good on you, you'll be taking away one less thing for these people to worry about during what is already the worst time of their lives. You'll also meet some kind and interesting people along the way.3 -
I see people upset about losing the free barcode scanner.
I agree, seems like a greedy loss.
Just pretend you never had it. 😮
I had to roll the car windows up and down,
manually lock the car doors,
find a payphone to make a call when I was out,
get up and walk to the tv to change the channel or volume,
for a while I had am, no fm,
black & white tv,
no cable tv,
played outside 90% of the time,
bought a pack of cigarettes for less than $1. while I was 13,
wrote letters to my friends that lived in other cities,
scrolled through a phonebook (white and yellow pages),
talked to a phone operator,
did the math myself,
if I needed to know something I got off my bum and did what I needed to do to find out.
Is it really that important to have a barcode scanner, really?
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Alinouveau2 wrote: »Yesterday I sent an application to volunteer with the cancer society driving people to appointments. When my dad was having cancer treatments he used this service and I felt like they needed more people to help out. They already got in touch with me for a phone interview Tuesday. I guess they're desperate... I think I'd be good driving people around
Hey good on you, you'll be taking away one less thing for these people to worry about during what is already the worst time of their lives. You'll also meet some kind and interesting people along the way.
I love meeting new people, I'm not he annoying person at a grocery store chatting to the check out person
It's been a long time since I had to do an interview or supply references. Hopefully they aren't too picky other than I can drive, my car is comfy and I have time to help1 -
honey_honey_12 wrote: »I see people upset about losing the free barcode scanner.
I agree, seems like a greedy loss.
Just pretend you never had it. 😮
I had to roll the car windows up and down,
manually lock the car doors,
find a payphone to make a call when I was out,
get up and walk to the tv to change the channel or volume,
for a while I had am, no fm,
black & white tv,
no cable tv,
played outside 90% of the time,
bought a pack of cigarettes for less than $1. while I was 13,
wrote letters to my friends that lived in other cities,
scrolled through a phonebook (white and yellow pages),
talked to a phone operator,
did the math myself,
if I needed to know something I got off my bum and did what I needed to do to find out.
Is it really that important to have a barcode scanner, really?
Did you have to walk 10 miles each way to school in the snow too? 😋3 -
Alinouveau2 wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Yesterday I sent an application to volunteer with the cancer society driving people to appointments. When my dad was having cancer treatments he used this service and I felt like they needed more people to help out. They already got in touch with me for a phone interview Tuesday. I guess they're desperate... I think I'd be good driving people around
Hey good on you, you'll be taking away one less thing for these people to worry about during what is already the worst time of their lives. You'll also meet some kind and interesting people along the way.
I love meeting new people, I'm not he annoying person at a grocery store chatting to the check out person
It's been a long time since I had to do an interview or supply references. Hopefully they aren't too picky other than I can drive, my car is comfy and I have time to help
I'm sure you have more to offer them than just being able to drive, the fact that you like talking to people is a massive plus, just be you - not all of the passengers will want to talk, but I've no doubt you'll be insightful enough to tell who would appreciate a chat and I think you'll be very good at putting them at ease.
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Alinouveau2 wrote: »Alinouveau2 wrote: »Yesterday I sent an application to volunteer with the cancer society driving people to appointments. When my dad was having cancer treatments he used this service and I felt like they needed more people to help out. They already got in touch with me for a phone interview Tuesday. I guess they're desperate... I think I'd be good driving people around
Hey good on you, you'll be taking away one less thing for these people to worry about during what is already the worst time of their lives. You'll also meet some kind and interesting people along the way.
I love meeting new people, I'm not he annoying person at a grocery store chatting to the check out person
It's been a long time since I had to do an interview or supply references. Hopefully they aren't too picky other than I can drive, my car is comfy and I have time to help
I'm sure you have more to offer them than just being able to drive, the fact that you like talking to people is a massive plus, just be you - not all of the passengers will want to talk, but I've no doubt you'll be insightful enough to tell who would appreciate a chat and I think you'll be very good at putting them at ease.
I can bring them treats haha.
My dad went through cancer treatments so if I have to take people to the hospital where he went it'll be super easy for me cause I know how it works....and I know where the good food court is! 😀1 -
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Who do I get o be references for my volunteering as a cancer society driver. I suggested my boy be one since I work for him as his chauffeur2
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
I'm here if you need/want to vent.
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
You’re going to be her rock and her safe place.❤️
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
Having been there, I can tell you that that child will light up your life. It's no tragedy, just the opposite. It's a gift. I cannot tell you how many people I know that are over 65 and want grandchildren desperately. Their children don't have partners, or won't have children---want to travel, be free, etc. You are lucky, my friend. Hug that daughter tight and give her all the support you can. You'll never regret it.5 -
snowflake954 wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
Having been there, I can tell you that that child will light up your life. It's no tragedy, just the opposite. It's a gift. I cannot tell you how many people I know that are over 65 and want grandchildren desperately. Their children don't have partners, or won't have children---want to travel, be free, etc. You are lucky, my friend. Hug that daughter tight and give her all the support you can. You'll never regret it.
So much this Rob @cowsfan12 .. I know its hard to get your head around ..I was in both positions.. your daughters and yours.. I never thought I'd be a grandparent at 36.
My first thoughts were not of disappointment but.. right.. it is what it is, how do we move forward. 12 years later.. I have a gd that lights up my life like I never thought possible, my daughter did further education and has a great job.
This is not the end of her life just a different direction to one you'd envisioned for her. With love and support she can still do great things 🙂
Rob.. the day you see that sweet little baby's face.. the day you meet your grandson or granddaughter will become one of the happiest moments of your life.. promise. 🤗💜
Anytime you wanna talk, Im here 🙂
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
I'm here if you need/want to vent.
HugsTwitchyMagee wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
You’re going to be her rock and her safe place.❤️snowflake954 wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
Having been there, I can tell you that that child will light up your life. It's no tragedy, just the opposite. It's a gift. I cannot tell you how many people I know that are over 65 and want grandchildren desperately. Their children don't have partners, or won't have children---want to travel, be free, etc. You are lucky, my friend. Hug that daughter tight and give her all the support you can. You'll never regret it.slimgirljo15 wrote: »snowflake954 wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
Having been there, I can tell you that that child will light up your life. It's no tragedy, just the opposite. It's a gift. I cannot tell you how many people I know that are over 65 and want grandchildren desperately. Their children don't have partners, or won't have children---want to travel, be free, etc. You are lucky, my friend. Hug that daughter tight and give her all the support you can. You'll never regret it.
So much this Rob @cowsfan12 .. I know its hard to get your head around ..I was in both positions.. your daughters and yours.. I never thought I'd be a grandparent at 36.
My first thoughts were not of disappointment but.. right.. it is what it is, how do we move forward
. 12 years later.. I have a gd that lights up my life
like I never thought possible, my daughter did
further education and has a great job.
This is not the end of her life just a different
direction to one you'd envisioned for her. With love and support she can still do great things 🙂
Rob.. the day you see that sweet little baby's face.. the day you meet your grandson or granddaughter will become one of the happiest moments of your life.. promise. 🤗💜
Anytime you wanna talk, Im here 🙂
Thanks friends - sometimes it easier to get chit out to a bunch of internet strangers ya know - I know all will be ok - and the kid is my blood so of course I’ll ride or die and love the hell outta him/her - but it is a shock indeed - bright side the kid will have a bada SS grandpa - dafaq - that’s already crazy to say -
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
aw i’m so sorry bc i’m sure you’re worried as hell about her future
hoping you get a chance to process everything and find some peace about it all 💛 you seem like a kitten amazing dad so she’s got that goin for her anyways2 -
Peachesnstuff wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
I'm here if you need/want to vent.
HugsTwitchyMagee wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
You’re going to be her rock and her safe place.❤️snowflake954 wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
Having been there, I can tell you that that child will light up your life. It's no tragedy, just the opposite. It's a gift. I cannot tell you how many people I know that are over 65 and want grandchildren desperately. Their children don't have partners, or won't have children---want to travel, be free, etc. You are lucky, my friend. Hug that daughter tight and give her all the support you can. You'll never regret it.slimgirljo15 wrote: »snowflake954 wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
Having been there, I can tell you that that child will light up your life. It's no tragedy, just the opposite. It's a gift. I cannot tell you how many people I know that are over 65 and want grandchildren desperately. Their children don't have partners, or won't have children---want to travel, be free, etc. You are lucky, my friend. Hug that daughter tight and give her all the support you can. You'll never regret it.
So much this Rob @cowsfan12 .. I know its hard to get your head around ..I was in both positions.. your daughters and yours.. I never thought I'd be a grandparent at 36.
My first thoughts were not of disappointment but.. right.. it is what it is, how do we move forward
. 12 years later.. I have a gd that lights up my life
like I never thought possible, my daughter did
further education and has a great job.
This is not the end of her life just a different
direction to one you'd envisioned for her. With love and support she can still do great things 🙂
Rob.. the day you see that sweet little baby's face.. the day you meet your grandson or granddaughter will become one of the happiest moments of your life.. promise. 🤗💜
Anytime you wanna talk, Im here 🙂
Thanks friends - sometimes it easier to get chit out to a bunch of internet strangers ya know - I know all will be ok - and the kid is my blood so of course I’ll ride or die and love the hell outta him/her - but it is a shock indeed - bright side the kid will have a bada SS grandpa - dafaq - that’s already crazy to say -
You'll make a fantastic grandpa 🤗 just think of all the things you'll be able to teach him/ her.. .. oh wait a minute, that could be good or bad 😂🤭2 -
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Why is this bruise on my wrist so nasty. Hurts like heck and looks grossTwitchyMagee wrote: »So that’s fun
I had to read that like 5 times to figure out how the light was related to the clot0 -
Should I just go to the rink early and have a muffin before skating? Or sit here and wait0
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TwitchyMagee wrote: »So that’s fun
Sounds exciting
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
I'm here if you need/want to vent.
HugsTwitchyMagee wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
You’re going to be her rock and her safe place.❤️snowflake954 wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
Having been there, I can tell you that that child will light up your life. It's no tragedy, just the opposite. It's a gift. I cannot tell you how many people I know that are over 65 and want grandchildren desperately. Their children don't have partners, or won't have children---want to travel, be free, etc. You are lucky, my friend. Hug that daughter tight and give her all the support you can. You'll never regret it.slimgirljo15 wrote: »snowflake954 wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
Having been there, I can tell you that that child will light up your life. It's no tragedy, just the opposite. It's a gift. I cannot tell you how many people I know that are over 65 and want grandchildren desperately. Their children don't have partners, or won't have children---want to travel, be free, etc. You are lucky, my friend. Hug that daughter tight and give her all the support you can. You'll never regret it.
So much this Rob @cowsfan12 .. I know its hard to get your head around ..I was in both positions.. your daughters and yours.. I never thought I'd be a grandparent at 36.
My first thoughts were not of disappointment but.. right.. it is what it is, how do we move forward
. 12 years later.. I have a gd that lights up my life
like I never thought possible, my daughter did
further education and has a great job.
This is not the end of her life just a different
direction to one you'd envisioned for her. With love and support she can still do great things 🙂
Rob.. the day you see that sweet little baby's face.. the day you meet your grandson or granddaughter will become one of the happiest moments of your life.. promise. 🤗💜
Anytime you wanna talk, Im here 🙂
Thanks friends - sometimes it easier to get chit out to a bunch of internet strangers ya know - I know all will be ok - and the kid is my blood so of course I’ll ride or die and love the hell outta him/her - but it is a shock indeed - bright side the kid will have a bada SS grandpa - dafaq - that’s already crazy to say -
I'm sorry I didn't have time to properly address this yesterday, my comments feel cold as I reflect back.
Even though your hopes and dreams of your daughter's future may now be gone, both of your futures will be different, but it doesn’t mean life will be worse. Life and people can often be surprising and becoming a grandpa will absolutely be one of your greatest joys in life.
As shocked and disappointed you must feel, imagine how scared she must be. You have the love to support her...and YOU.
Sending you both a supportive hug. ♥️3 -
TwitchyMagee wrote: »So that’s fun
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TwitchyMagee wrote: »TwitchyMagee wrote: »So that’s fun
My goodness our maintenance people are awesome. Less than an hour later it’s all fixed.
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@Peachesnstuff
Thank you - also I didn’t take your comment as cold at all - I know you 😉
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Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
Hey Rob. As the father of a daughter, this hit me hard. I can only imagine the gut punch this was for you. Obviously, a challenging situation, but I know this will turn out to be a blessing. I am sure your daughter is disappointed in herself and scared. She needs you, and I know you will be there.2 -
FeastRepeat wrote: »Peachesnstuff wrote: »
My oldest is pregnant- and I’m having a hard time processing it - she’s 18 - just started college - is still a kid herself - ive made it clear I love her no matter what and will support her however I can - but I’m just so disappointed- idk like I said I’m having a hard time processing -
Hey Rob. As the father of a daughter, this hit me hard. I can only imagine the gut punch this was for you. Obviously, a challenging situation, but I know this will turn out to be a blessing. I am sure your daughter is disappointed in herself and scared. She needs you, and I know you will be there.
I'm really happy you chimed in here with a Father's perspective. I didn't feel comfortable responding from a Mother's pov because I'm sure it hits differently.2 -
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