Serial Starters

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  • LanaCabana537
    LanaCabana537 Posts: 4,137 Member
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    *** May 29 ***

    Good morning all~~

    Welcome Diana 🙋🏼‍♀️

    Just getting us started.

    ⛱️waving at Cabana Boy for more black coffee 🌴

    Lana

    263.0 today

  • mkculs
    mkculs Posts: 363 Member

    Good morning!

    I had a big slice of cheese pizza last night b/c I still had a lot of calories left. I enjoyed it!

    I'm using my Apple watch to make sure I move every hour I'm awake. With my blood clotting disorder, I figure I'd better get in the habit now. My parents, once retired and living in FL (both over 75 by then) just sat for hours and hours. I have the same tendency. I used to sit so long I would hurt from it. I had already gotten better about that, but now I need to be even more careful. And I've decided to add a few minutes of exercise to round out my "one minute of moving" that comes with the watch's "command" to "move a little." Simple things like wall push ups—at least for now, that's what I've added. I'm looking for ideas and doing some googling. My core and back need strengthening as well as my arms, but I want to be upright. So it will probably be squats, lunges, stuff like that, modified for my knees until I can do them normally. Maybe arm circles, standing yoga poses, too. Once I get back to jogging, I'll do more stretching and planks, etc, on the floor, but that's in the future still.

    All these big plans! Let's see how long they last. 😁

    Day 5 of wet and gloomy. Please let it be sunny on Saturday!

    Have a great day.

    Maureen

  • Crochetluvr
    Crochetluvr Posts: 3,575 Member
    edited May 29

    Good barely Afternoon, All!

    Welcome back to MFP, Diana! Glad to see you made it through to the other side of your life…it must have been awful! Good luck with getting back that life you missed as well as your weight loss!

    I have my Endocrinologist appointment in about an hour. I left the bandage off my carcinoma because I know she will want to see it and the bandages are expensive...insurance doesn't pay for those. I'll put one on when I get home.

    Baseball game tonight. Grey weather but no rain is expected, so it should be fun. Taking food in with me so I don't eat the ballpark stuff. And the weight is going back down!

    Have a lovely day, everyone!

    Sandy

    TMW - 169.8

  • Rh1aB1a
    Rh1aB1a Posts: 319 Member

    Starting over for the 50 millionth time, but this is THE time. I'm the biggest I've ever been and we just bought a house with a pool and I cannot even enjoy getting it ready without cringing at the thought of being in a swimming suit.

    SW- 160.4

    GW- 135.0

  • Lyztelk
    Lyztelk Posts: 17 Member

    Hey there,

    Thanks for welcome!
    5 days now and still going strong!
    Im sticking to my meal plan but so hard!!! I cant eat that much and i dont want any snacks!

    Thing is….everything what i love is not good for snacking - cheese, carbs, salami, olives!!!

    I dont have a sweet tooth so even fruit is not that appealing at the moment!

    🤦🏼‍♀️

  • Stef212025
    Stef212025 Posts: 16 Member

    Has anyone had the problem of writing on here and then it closing out and getting rid of what you wrote?

    It happened to me last night and again this morning. Its so frustrating when you have so much written out and then it goes away!!

    I'll try again this evening:) Have a great day!

  • Lyztelk
    Lyztelk Posts: 17 Member

    its been ok for me. Try updating the app or just write it, copy it and if it disappears, you can keep pasting it until it happens 👍🏻

  • LanaCabana537
    LanaCabana537 Posts: 4,137 Member
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    *** May 30 ***

    Happy Friday everyone~~

    I wonder if the sun will be able to come out and stay out soon. I miss it.

    Sara - send up a flare when you have a chance. Are you OK?

    Waves to all who stop by today 🌴

    Lana

    264.6 today

  • mkculs
    mkculs Posts: 363 Member

    Good afternoon, all.

    Stef, the message I just wrote didn't post!

    I overdid it on my walk today and sadly, that meant I walked 2.5 miles at a 27 mph pace—pathetic in the pre-knee replacement days! I know I'll do better, and I did recover quickly, but it seemed so hard. I was aiming for 2 miles and that last half mile felt like I was crawling.

    I aimed to eat at maintenance yesterday. It had been 10 days and I had met my deficit goal each day and I didn't want to jinx myself. And somehow, I still showed a 5 week loss if I "ate like that every day," you know, how it tells you that when you close out logging for the day. I was surprised. Not much of a loss; just over 3 lbs. But still. That was nice to see. I felt like I ate a lot.

    It hasn't been hard to get right back at it today, either. And it doesn't hurt that my house cleaners came today and my sons are away so my house looks so good and will stay that way while it's just me for the next few days. I'm trying to think of some things to add to my grocery list to vary my diet some more with things I know I've used in the past but have not eaten lately. Ooh, like black beans with cheese and taco sauce!

    TTFN

    Maureen

  • LanaCabana537
    LanaCabana537 Posts: 4,137 Member
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    *** May 31 ***

    Good morning all~

    It is so dark and gloomy today AGAIN! Too many of these days lately. Everything hurts.

    Maureen - enjoy that tidy house!

    BBL

    Lana

    264.0 today

  • mkculs
    mkculs Posts: 363 Member

    Lana, my house is so nice! I'm even taking the dogs in and out through the back yard so they don't mess up the other rooms (they don't have access to the front rooms, typically.) It's finally sunny here-cool and breezy too, so maybe you will get that soon.

    I had another slightly-beyond-target walk, but I really baby myself when I realize I've gone over. And today, it was just such a pleasure to be out in the nice weather.

    It's nearly 10:30 and I haven't had 2nd breakfast! I will be hard pushed to fit it in before elevensies. (If you get the reference, please let me know.)

    If it stays this nice all day and doesn't rain tomorrow morning, I'll be tempted to try a hike tomorrow afternoon. Nothing fancy, just a mile or two in the woods somewhere quiet.

    TTFN

    Maureen

  • Crochetluvr
    Crochetluvr Posts: 3,575 Member

    Good Afternoon!

    I forgot to hit "Post Reply" to my post yesterday...grrrrr.

    Maureen, smartwatches are great! Your plan to move every hour is too. I tend to sit too much at times...the watch helps keep you honest.

    @Rh1aB1a , welcome back! And I envy you your pool. You'll get back into that swimsuit body....good luck with your efforts!

    Diana, I DO have a sweet tooth, but I do like crackers and cheese too....especially cottage cheese. And 5 days in....WTG!

    @Stef212025 , if you use the "Save Draft" button under the comment window, your text will be saved and you can come back to it later.

    Had a bad night....panic attacks again. I feel like I am still sleepy. 😑

    Still a bit gloomy out, but its supposed to be better tomorrow. The Phils lost the game I attended on Thursday night, but we all got a cool retro cap giveaway. Picked up a new prescription yesterday.…extended realease metformin. Its already having an effect on my stomach, but the Endo said to give it a chance so I will. Today I want to clean the aquarium...it needs a water change.

    Have a pleasant day, everyone!

    Sandy

    TMW - 170.6

  • mkculs
    mkculs Posts: 363 Member

    Hey, I created a Group so if you want to introduce yourself, folks can go there to find out more about you. Your introduction here will soon be lost. Click on Group above, then find "Serial Starters," then start a new "Discussion," and put your Username as the Subject. B/c it's in Discussion format, you can update your bio by adding to the discussion.

  • mkculs
    mkculs Posts: 363 Member

    Sandy, sorry to hear about the panic attacks. They suck. BTDT for most of my 30s. Better living through pharmacology—Paxil has made the past 26 years so peaceful. SO peaceful.

  • LSamara
    LSamara Posts: 23 Member

    Hello everyone. My name is Lorna, and I am a serial starter. I went through lung cancer in 2013/14 and was placed on steroids to manage pain. That resulted in significant weight gain. I began going to the gym after I finished chemo and was doing ok for a while and then faced a series of surgeries and after each one, I became less motivated to go to the gym. I ended up have gastric sleeve surgery in May 2024 and I've been disappointed with the results. I went from 224lbs to 185lbs and back up to 190lbs. I do go to Karate twice a week with my son/grandson (we adopted him when he was an infant). This week I have made it back to the gym. I'm sore, but down 2lbs and feel good.

    Sandy: Sorry about your panic attacks. I have dealt with panic/anxiety disorder and depression for that past couple of decades. I wouldn't wish it on anyone. Be strong, deep breaths. ❤️

    Lorna from Maine.

  • Stef212025
    Stef212025 Posts: 16 Member

    I'm going to try this again!

    Diana you are so brave to leave a bad situation. It takes a lot of courage to do this. You will do everything you once loved and more! I have an 18 and 20 year old, life has been quite different without kids to take care of. Even tho I do it in a different way now. You can still snack on some of your favorites, just do smaller servings. That's something I have had to teach myself this time. I weigh everything!! With the bad food like chips, cheese and cheese sauce i eat half a serving and it usually helps the cravings:)

    On the 29th i hit my big goal of 195lb. 194.6 is what i hit, which is 40 lbs lost! I leave to go camping today so that worries me a bit , this is my first camping trip this year but I have pre weighed snacks and cut a bunch of veggies and fruit so I should be ok. I'm also bringing my food scale. We will be camping at a golf club so at least I'll get lots of steps while I golf:)

    I have lots to do to get ready still. Have a great day everyone!!

  • mkculs
    mkculs Posts: 363 Member

    Stef, have a great trip.

    Lorna and Diana, welcome. Please consider copying/pasting/adding/editing your introduction in our Group Discussions as your own Discussion thread. See the link for Groups above.

    I've had an odd morning. Woke at 4:30 and went back to bed at 6:30. Up again at 9:30. Spilled my coffee at 5:30 am. Made a smoothie at 10 and started the blender without the top on :(

    I'm still tired after sleeping again. It's only noon and I only have 2 cals left. The whole day feels off. Just one of those. Maybe I should go to bed and try again tomorrow—except I'd feel worse for lying about all day, and my pets would miss me.

    I guess I'll try to get out later and just keep pushing through today. NBD if I go over on cals if I get hungry later; I'll still have a deficit b/c there's only healthy food in the house and I don't over eat that.

    TTFN.

  • Lyztelk
    Lyztelk Posts: 17 Member

    Hello ladies,

    What a weekend. Went away to see my brother and his family. Was so peaceful and nice, that for a moment i did not feel any hunger. Really used food as fuel only.
    because i track and log my meals, i was left with lots of spare calories, so….had a bit of a mischief 😏…. Warm evening on last day of spring i treated myself to some cocktails- white run n coke and an old fashioned 😁

    I dont usually drink, but it just felt right and app swallowed my spare calories quickly. Was able to complete the days diary! 📔

    Yet, came across another dilemma….could not switch my mind of when going to bed, insomnia full speed! Anyone tried any sleeping techniques?

    Got Elemis spray that does help, calming teas too, no phone, no tv, baths etc.

    I am not into medication, thats for me only as a last resort, so looking for any other ways that could help….even if its an old granny tale, its fine by me, ill try ;)


    thank you

  • Crochetluvr
    Crochetluvr Posts: 3,575 Member

    Good Evening, Peep.... and welcome June!

    Diana, I use Melatonin when I really can't fall asleep. It's not a drug and I only use it occasionally. But it works. And glad you got to enjoy a couple drinks. You have to splurge a little when you can.

    Maureen, thanks! Thankfully the panic attacks only last a couple nights. Anxiety is another story. But I deal. And I will check out your new group, too!

    Stef, oooooo....camping! I haven't done that in ages....enjoy!

    Hi Lorna.…WELCOME BACK! And thank you. You tell ME to be strong, but its obvious that YOU are strong! Glad you are on your way with your weight loss!

    Hey, Lana....stop flirting with that cabana boy. 😉

    Today was a good day! Got out with the SO this morning for breaky. Then we watched the Phillies lose and took a walk afterwards. Getting out really helps but it's not much fun going out alone and I don't have a circle of friends to hang out with like most people.

    I am feeling a little overwhelmed, though. Still have much organizing to do. And I still have to vacuum the aquarium. Hopefully tomorrow.

    Till then....

    Sandy

    TMW - 170

  • MissMerryBerry99
    MissMerryBerry99 Posts: 9 Member

    Hi, everyone.

    Let me kick things off with a quick (and slightly embarrassing) story.

    I’m 44, and like many of us, I’ve had my fair share of start-and-stop moments on this journey. But last October? I was there. I’d hit my goal weight and had been holding steady for months. It felt amazing—like I’d finally cracked the code. I could enjoy a cheeseburger here, a slice of pizza there, and… nothing. No weight gain. I felt pretty invincible, to be honest.

    Spoiler alert: I wasn’t.

    I wish I could go back and shake that version of me because somewhere along the way, that “every now and then” became more of a habit, and my weight crept up—fast. I gained about 15 pounds in what felt like the blink of an eye. Since then, I’ve been trying to chip away at it, but this has truly been the hardest it’s ever been to lose weight. The frustration is real.

    One of the main reasons I’m back here is because I’ve realized just how much I miss having a supportive community. Doing this alone is tough. I'm really hoping this space will give me the encouragement and accountability I’ve been struggling to find on my own.

    Thanks for letting me share—excited to connect with you all and cheer each other on!

    Mary

  • LanaCabana537
    LanaCabana537 Posts: 4,137 Member
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    *** June 2 ***

    Good morning all~

    I think that today is going to be a great day!

    Hello to all the new peeps who have stopped by 🙋🏼‍♀️

    I have to go back and read all the new stuff.

    Lana

    264.2 today

  • Crochetluvr
    Crochetluvr Posts: 3,575 Member

    Good day, Goddesses!

    @MissMerryBerry99 , Mary, hey there! WELCOME! Your story is a common one. I have a similar one....got to goal, was SO happy! But then I had a major life issue and it was all down hill from there. Add diabetes to that and its a whole new ball game. Now I am back to fix the physical, if I can't always fix the mental, even though they are linked. We are all here for each other! I am very glad I found this group. 🙂

    Today it's back to trying to get the apartment in shape. I am working on a few ideas to make more room...hope I can implement them. The SO volunteered to be my sous chef when I make meatballs this week. The chopping and the mincing are the things I like the least about cooking....I guess that why there are sous chefs in the first place. 😆

    Have a good one, y'all!

    Sandy

    TMW - 170.6

  • mkculs
    mkculs Posts: 363 Member

    @Rh1aB1a, @MissMerryBerry99, @Lyztelk, @Stef212025, @LSamara,

    Please go to "Groups" using the link in the blue banner above, go to the "Serial Starters" group, and start a new "Discussion, " using your user name as the Subject, to introduce yourself. I'm already confused as to who is who!

    My Intro is there, and Sandy (crochetluvr sp?) is there too now. Thanks, Sandy!

    This is the first day of week 3/end of week 2 for me, after about a dozen false starts recently. I lost 65, most of it during Covid. Regained 40 over the past 4 years. I'm down 8 lbs but most of that is a fluke. I lost a lot of swelling in my knee week 1 which probably accounts for most of the week. Lost 2 lbs in week 2. Feeling ok. I had terrible anemia as a result of my 2nd knee replacement surgery (4/14/25) and am still feeling weak a lot of the time.

    I am taking Qsymia, an appetite suppressant, and I think it is really helping. No cravings, no particular "appetite" vs. hunger. I learned to distinguish between the two a long time ago. Hunger comes from my stomach (as in, precursor to actual hunger pains). Appetite comes from higher up, somewhere between my throat and the back of my tongue or mouth—a sensation. That sensation has been absent.

    Being able to distinguish between the two wasn't much help before. Not having the appetite sensation helps a lot.

    Please enjoy this pic of my sweet grandbaby whose cruel mama just moved him away from me! hahaha.

    And have a great day.

    Maureen

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  • MissMerryBerry99
    MissMerryBerry99 Posts: 9 Member

    Lyztelk, I also struggle sleeping sometimes, esp after a few drinks. So, it sounds super silly, but I've started wearing a sleep mask. We had a few laying around from a recent flight and I was like, why not. It's not perfect, but I honestly think it has helped me. It's like I've zoned in more on the task at hand LOL!

  • LanaCabana537
    LanaCabana537 Posts: 4,137 Member
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    *** June 3 ***

    Good morning all~~

    The website ate my previous post today!

    I found the Group and posted there. Thanks Maureen~

    *⛱️ waving at Philippe for another cup of coffee 🌴

    Lana

    263.8 today

  • mkculs
    mkculs Posts: 363 Member

    Good morning. A lovely morning here in Charlotte. Finished my walk without discomfort or fatigue-that’s big. Will stick to 2 miles this week and start building mileage again next week.

    Dogs go to the vet in a bit for their annual. That’s always a joy. My Skye is so easy but Jem is leash reactive. I think I’ll take them in one at a time today.

    im seeing the scale drop .2-.4 lbs daily again, like last time. It will jump if I eat a processed food, but I’ll still show the weekly loss over a week if I stick to the calorie allotment. I had to check a BMI chart—I’m at 34. I need to hit 190 to drop from obese to overweight.

    I saw one chart and it didn’t even have weight for women over 170 lbs! I thought maybe it was 170 kg, but nope. Who could that be useful for, hobbits?

    Did anyone catch my LOTR reference in a previous post? 😄

    TTFN!

    Maureen

  • LanaCabana537
    LanaCabana537 Posts: 4,137 Member
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    *** June 4 ***

    Wednesday already? The week is half-way over….

    🤣 Maureen, I had to look up what LOTR meant!

    Thankfully the sun is out again, but more gloom is coming our way. Dang.

    I decided to try the Trader Joe's chicken thighs marinated in herbs. As I was cooking them this morning, right away they smelled strange to me. Not bad, but strange. Turns out one of the herbs is mint! Good grief! I am not accustomed to such heavy mint with chicken! They came out OK enough. I don't care for them though. Maybe I'll make a chicken salad with it. I'll stick to getting the schwarma chicken thighs from now on—they are excellent.

    Sara - where are you? I hope that you are not sick!

    Lana

    263.8 today

  • mkculs
    mkculs Posts: 363 Member

    Lana, I was wondering about Sara, too. Anyone have a contact number?

    I had my morning walk, oh so slowly. Sitting here with ice on my lower back, having already iced my hip. I think the hip needs more than 10 minutes. The back will get more than 10 b/c now I'm too tired to get up for a while. I get worn out easily still. And I'm a bit dehydrated.

    I had a massage yesterday. It felt so good. I booked for a massage followed by a facial. I do a facial about once every 5 years as a different form of massage. I tend to fall asleep and it gets spots regular massages don't.

    I'm using protein powder for shakes now to add protein to my diet; I just can't get enough b/c I really cannot force myself to eat more meat and I've given up trying. I've cut back on cheese and yogurt and increased fruits and vegetables b/c I've gone for a bigger calorie deficit this time—aiming for 2 lbs/week right now. I figure pretty soon that will start to be unrealistic b/c at my age, my BMR is already lower and I cannot (and don't really want to) exercise vigorously enough to burn many more cals. My walks are burning about 100/day right now, and that's just fine with me. Not many years from now, my daily caloric needs at maintenance will be between 1300-1500, so I may as well be eating at that range now. It's been quite easy, although I suspect that's due to the Qsymia.

    Take care, all.

    Maureen

  • Crochetluvr
    Crochetluvr Posts: 3,575 Member

    Good Wednesday!

    I forgot to log in yesterday....but I had some things on my mind.

    Maureen....a massage sounds heavenly! Sure hope your hip feels better after the ice! And your grandson is adorable! Of course you already know that. 😉 I wish my grandkids lived closer....I am the only grandmother they have left and they hardly know me.

    Lana, mint? Ugh. Nope...wouldn't be a fan. I used to go to TJ's when I lived down the street from one. I miss it.

    I had my dermatologist appointment yesterday. Good news all around....the tumor was pre cancerous. Because of that, the doctor was able to remove it right in the office. I am able to freely move my hand again. There is still some residual pain, but Advil handles that. I have to buy some Aquaphor to put on the wound and keep it covered. The tumor will be sent to a lab to make sure all the cells were removed. If not, she will have to take off more, which I am hoping isn't necessary. She also removed a suspicious mole on my back and that will be biopsies. So I am relieved on a few levels.

    Today is meatball day! Looking forward to dinner.

    To all who check in, hope your day is great!

    Sandy

    TMW - 170.2

  • LanaCabana537
    LanaCabana537 Posts: 4,137 Member
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    *** June 5 ***

    Good morning all~

    Well the gloom and rain seem to be coming. Curses!

    Sandy - so glad that the thing on your hand is gone, along with whatever was on your back. Good riddance!

    Maureen - can you drink milk? How about lentils and chickpeas? Fish or shrimp maybe?

    I feel like going back to bed 😵

    Lana