Strip clubs for married men?

It really isn't about being worried about them cheating. I just can't imagine why anyone would want their partner choosing to spend an evening looking at random naked women over being at home with the one woman he is supposed to love. I don't want my husband wanting to be anywhere other than with me in the evenings. We get little enough time together as it is. That's why we are together, we are best friends, first and foremost. We WANT to spend all available time together. If we didn't, we wouldn't be married.

The subject has never come up between us, because it would never enter his head to want to go to one. He isn't like that. Thank goodness.

Get what you need from your wife. If she's not into it, then I guess you married the wrong person. Sucks for you.

*snort*
This had me rolling!!!

Me and my husband go together. It doesn't bother me one bit if he gets a lap dance. At the end of the night, he's going home with me. :happy: It's all about how secure you feel about yourself and your relationship. Just because you are married does not mean that you become blind and don't find another person attractive.

I couldn't disagree more. I think strip clubs are exploitative. That has nothing to do with how I feel about myself or my relationship. I disapprove of them on principle.

What happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas!!!

I wouldn't have a problem with my bf (or as a husband even) visiting a strip club with mates, like a blokes night out thing/stag night etc etc if that's what he wants to do. I trust him, and I don't see the harm.

Hotel rooms or personal lap dances would be taking it a bit too far for me though. That's just me - if other's feel OK with that in their relationship I'm not going to say it's wrong, but it's the sort of thing you need to be clear about with your partner first and respect their feelings on.

strip clubs? sure. as long as i was able to have my share of time there. hotel rooms? absolutely not.

It really isn't about being worried about them cheating. I just can't imagine why anyone would want their partner choosing to spend an evening looking at random naked women over being at home with the one woman he is supposed to love. I don't want my husband wanting to be anywhere other than with me in the evenings. We get little enough time together as it is. That's why we are together, we are best friends, first and foremost. We WANT to spend all available time together. If we didn't, we wouldn't be married.

The subject has never come up between us, because it would never enter his head to want to go to one. He isn't like that. Thank goodness.

All guys like to look at naked women, its science. There is a billion dollar porn industry to prove it. And i believe its when people stop acting like they are the two most beautiful and handsome people on the planet, and embrace that there are better looking people out there that you truly respect one another more. Also you mentioned exploited..........I girl i used to work with stripped, and she made almost $200k/year. She took a 150,000 pay cut to get a "real job." If anyone is being exploited its the customers.
I work with all males and have for a long long time, and there is not one of them that wouldn't like to go to a strip joint, but there are many that would definitely not tell their wives about it..............food for thought.

I don't like going on a regular basis. I love women and sex but random chicks giving lap dances to total strangers isn't a turn on. Also I wouldn't want my girl grinding on some male stripper.

It really isn't about being worried about them cheating. I just can't imagine why anyone would want their partner choosing to spend an evening looking at random naked women over being at home with the one woman he is supposed to love. I don't want my husband wanting to be anywhere other than with me in the evenings. We get little enough time together as it is. That's why we are together, we are best friends, first and foremost. We WANT to spend all available time together. If we didn't, we wouldn't be married.

The subject has never come up between us, because it would never enter his head to want to go to one. He isn't like that. Thank goodness.

All guys like to look at naked women, its science. There is a billion dollar porn industry to prove it. And i believe its when people stop acting like they are the two most beautiful and handsome people on the planet, and embrace that there are better looking people out there that you truly respect one another more. Also you mentioned exploited..........I girl i used to work with stripped, and she made almost $200k/year. She took a 150,000 pay cut to get a "real job." If anyone is being exploited its the customers.
I work with all males and have for a long long time, and there is not one of them that wouldn't like to go to a strip joint, but there are many that would definitely not tell their wives about it..............food for thought.

I don't like going on a regular basis. I love women and sex but random chicks giving lap dances to total strangers isn't a turn on. Also I wouldn't want my girl grinding on some male stripper.

I have only been once in about 5 years myself, and it was a bachelor party. But that doesn't change the fact that guys like looking at naked women. And every guy i know who's wife has forbidden him to do something like that...............has cheated on her. So I think women need to pick their battles. And remember you are dealing with a bunch of animals (us) that are genetically predisposed to find many woman attractive in order to further the human race. Its science. Google how many species in the world are monogamous..............If i guy wants to look at some strange boobies and come home to you, dont fight him. If it gets out of hand, leave. But we men are like children in that regard, if you forbid us to do something, we will only want it more.

I've only been to a strip club once in my life. It wasn't the most pleasent experience. Just nasty and dirty, and not in a sexy way. I would also point out that although some strippers make big bucks; they do it only for a short amount of time and it is only a small minority that get to that point. For every dancer at Scores there are hundreds of dancers who work at the Foxy Ladys of the world (nasty hole in the wall place in a local small town with a cheap "by the hour" motel behind it). Almost every woman arrested for Craigslist prostitution used to be a "dancer", but aged out while still hooked on the drugs and excitement that were free flowing in the previous career.

I also put myself in my wife's shoes. I would not be happy with her putting money I earned into the g-string of some 20 year old dude. So no, neither of us go to the strip clubs.

Also, as a parent. Would you be happy or proud that your daughter makes a living by grinding her butt on random guys? If not then remember that each of those girls has a mom and dad. If you wouldn't want that for your 4 year old, why support it for somebody else's?

Ummm yeah I should stay out of this. My ex husband went with friends once or twice, I even went with. I have friends who are dancers. I'm not saying there are not good men who just want to see half naked women, I'm saying the number of "bad" honest hard working men out weigh the decent by FAR. I don't enjoy the idea of my current husband looking at any women that naked but me. . . If we have fun together at home (face it a lot can be done), I am much more comfortable with that. BUT without the previous BAD experience I'd probably had said it was fine . . . .

well, you never listed a bad experience, you just said you went, and you are now saying that you are punishing your next husband for the sins of the last..........that doesn't make much sense

I don't think saying "sweatheart, don't go to strip clubs" is punishment... I mean really? You're missing out on expensive drinks and lust...