Do you think you're attractive?

I don't think I EVER have. I have confidence in my abilities, of course....I'm a great friend, I give my hundred and ten percent at work, i train hard and harder every day. But I can't accept how I look, even when I was sick and skin and bones. *shrugs* It's just not something I'm willing to accept, I guess.

I don't think I'm super hot or anything (especially compared to my friends), but I don't think that I'm terrible looking either. One thing that gets me down about that is that I know virtually nothing about makeup and hair, so I can't really change my hair or makeup and look better. I always feel better about myself when I get compliments (lol this sounds terrible).

I'll do your make up
In my opinion, Im ok I have good days and bad! Dont we all!

Yes and no. Recently, I have been late to work because I star at my own reflection. I get confused by who the person looking back at me is. But I still have days where I go, ew fat. Then I remember that I was 280+ earlier this year until I joined MFP in March...

I am tryng to reteach myself that I am attractive

Yes -and No
I think >most< people are the same - we have good days and bad.
And like many - I think my good days are increasing with my weightloss - feeling a lot better about myself inside and out

no im fat n ugly x

nope... Its hard to forget everything and think otherwise.

I think you're a total cutie! Just sayin'. . .

I'm attractive enough to get around without always feeling like people are whispering about how ugly I am.
Sometimes I feel really pretty, and sometimes I feel like staying inside all day so no one sees me.
It totally depends on the day, my productivity level, the time of day, my skin, my exercise, and what I've eaten.

I don't know if I would call myself attractive, but I am definitely more confident in my skin than I was in recent years. I've been feeling much better about it lately since I started to do my hair and makeup for my new job, but it's not as terrible as it used to be to go out without makeup and my hair naturally fluffed into a huge 'fro. My fiance thinks I'm attractive, so that's enough for me

yeah, im happy the way i look.. i know i'm bigger and i have been told by my mother that i would look beautiful if i lost weight.. and i never get hit on in the clubs... but when i look at my self.. im happy with who i am and what i look like.. we all should be

i wish MFP had "like" buttons... there is so many posts here that i wanna click the like button!!!! we are all different and all beautiful

I attract men and women haha

So yes, I do feel I'm attractive. But I feel attractive with no makeup, with makeup, no matter the hairstyle (and I've has super short to super long which can poof up and get frizzy and never straight) 20 lbs ago, and when I was pregnant and as big as a house. It's all about confidence. In high school the popular girls would call me ugly or weird (which I was weird I was in the freak group, it was a small school so they didn't know what to call us) but I know it was because they were insecure, not me. I have plenty of flaws, frizzy hair, scars, stretch marks, not so perfect skin, big feet, squishy belly. But I still love who i am and how I make people feel.


I do feel it has a lot to do when you were a child, growing up I was always told i was pretty,and my mom is just drop dead gorgeous which always made me jealous since I look like my dad. She took care of herself, so I did the same. I now have two baby girls and everyday I tell them they are beautiful and loved.

I think I have a really pretty face. The rest of me...I'm gaining more and more confidence. There are more days when I say "wow, I look adorable today!" and it feels sincere.

My roommates keep trying to convince me that I'm not fat, just crazy... haha.

Nope!!!! But luckily people laugh at some of my jokes - makes my looks not an issue

Depends on the day.