Rude people
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Seriously I would have told her to F&^$ OFF! But just think that something in her life must make her so miserable inside to say that to someone else. Misery loves company! You're the better person.0
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Oh my goodness. I don't even know what to say - I'm completely dumb-founded that someone could be so ignorant.0
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i wouldve told her well kill urself because people have to eat everyday maybe you should stop judging people and if she would have gotten smart i wouldve punched her0
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Oh my god!! The ordasity of some people! How can someone be so blatantly rude!! Please ignore her!! I know it's easier said than done but someone like that is just a BULLY and should be ashamed of themselves!!0
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Just remember ~~ and I firmly believe this~~WHAT GOES AROUND- COMES AROUND! She will get her's someday. hopelfuly she will gain 200 lbs just to know how it feels. (Is that wrong of me to hope someone GAINS weight???)0
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Hi, I'm sorry you had that happen to you. She is just unhappy by the way she is. I haven't been on mfp very long maybe a few months and I have gotten those same looks and comments all my life. My weight loss is so I can concieve another baby. I even had a kid tell me I shouldn't eat bc I was too fat. My aunt died bc of being anorexic (sp?) for 15 years. My uncle and her were trying to concieve for a year before she passed away. Keep your head up. People are just ignorant on what they don't know. Oh, btw I am looking for friends on here I do not have any yet and I could use the support. I hope everyone has a great day!0
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Whats her name and address? We'll finish her off for you!0
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I got very upset reading that. I am still upset! Who does that?!! That woman has the devil inside of her and she will reap what she sows
Same here. Some people are so unhappy with themselves that they have to put down others in order to feel good. That is my personal opinion. Just keep at your new healthy lifestyle and ignore the terrible words. You are doing something to better yourself and deserve to be congratulated. Good luck!!!0 -
WHAT A COMPLETE COWBAG!!!!
Thats sooo harsh =( and i understand how you feeel, i used to get comments like that alot when i was in high school! I was bullied near enough everyday because of my weight!
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Jeez.... that is so awful. Remember that was nothing about you, that was about her own hateful self. Karma really is the biggest bit%@!!!0
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My response would have been, "Well, at least I can lose weight. You are stuck being an *kitten* forever."
Yeah, that, followed by 'I could poke your eyes out so you don't have to watch if that would help any (big friendly smile).'
And look at the support on here - you just posted today and already have 7 pages of support messages!0 -
Are you in MA, by any chance? As a PA girl who lived in MA (land of ubiquitous DD's, which is why I ask) for three years, I was most astonished by how directly confrontational many folks were there*--particularly about weight (!) I cried MANY times for related confrontations--on the T, at the grocery store, etc.
As so many other posters have said: Rah, Rah! You went to a DD and got TEA!!! That's a huge NSV in my book!
*disclaimer--please know that I still have friends from MA and met some wonderful people there, but regions have a general character that outsiders notice when they move to said region. this was one of Boston, MA-area that was reinforced again and again for me.0 -
I haven't been on MFP for very long and have not posted anything yet. I feel the need to post this because I cannot believe how rude some people can be!! Not people on here, people in public...
I took my three year old to Dunkin Donuts this AM because I promised him a hot chocolate... I was good, I got a small tea with skim milk and splenda... No donut, muffin or greasy sandwiches... Some lady was staring at me making the strangest face...
So I said to her, "do we know eachother?" I was very friendly... She said "No I just really hate watching fat people eat!"
I was devastated!! I wasn't even eating, I had a tea... I must admit, I cried on the way home:(
That's not rude. That's mean-spirited and hateful.
Personally, I'd have dumped the tea on her....and then some.
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Some people are just plain rude. iam so sorry for that persons ignorance.0
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This website (and all social networks) are full of RUDE people and people that think they are better than every one else. Add in the element of fitness, nutrition, and weight loss and you have a fire storm.
Just stand your ground and ignore anyone (or block them) that you don't like on here or anyone that is mean. You're here for you and you alone.
Maybe try reading the post.
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That lady would have been eating my cup, and trying to pull my foot out of her A** in the same second. Bullys are the reason so many people kill themselves today. It has to do with everything from being overweight, underweight, and gay. It's really sad. But I would have felt better after I got done mopping the floor with her for sure.:drinker:0
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This website (and all social networks) are full of RUDE people and people that think they are better than every one else. Add in the element of fitness, nutrition, and weight loss and you have a fire storm.
Just stand your ground and ignore anyone (or block them) that you don't like on here or anyone that is mean. You're here for you and you alone.
Didn't even read the OP did ya?0 -
:laugh:This website (and all social networks) are full of RUDE people and people that think they are better than every one else. Add in the element of fitness, nutrition, and weight loss and you have a fire storm.
Just stand your ground and ignore anyone (or block them) that you don't like on here or anyone that is mean. You're here for you and you alone.
Maybe try reading the post.
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WTF, that's terrible! "I really hate watching fat people eat."?! I might have ***** slapped her.0
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That lady would have been eating my cup, and trying to pull my foot out of her A** in the same second. Bullys are the reason so many people kill themselves today. It has to do with everything from being overweight, underweight, and gay. It's really sad. But I would have felt better after I got done mopping the floor with her for sure.:drinker:
You got that, right-- she'd have been picking herself up off the floor...0 -
She's just jelly because she can see that you made a health conscious decision and she'll have to compete with you soon for the fine men you'll be attracting. Pay no mind.
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Yeah, I would have dumped that tea over her head.
People like that disgust me. I don't have a problem with people who don't like the fact that people are overweight, since I think that "non-acceptance" helps those of us that are get healthy, but there's that, and then there's just being plain rude for no legitimate reason.
Don't worry about it, and just press on. :flowerforyou:0 -
WTF??? I suspect she has Asperger's Syndrome or some other brain affliction.I haven't been on MFP for very long and have not posted anything yet. I feel the need to post this because I cannot believe how rude some people can be!! Not people on here, people in public...
I took my three year old to Dunkin Donuts this AM because I promised him a hot chocolate... I was good, I got a small tea with skim milk and splenda... No donut, muffin or greasy sandwiches... Some lady was staring at me making the strangest face...
So I said to her, "do we know eachother?" I was very friendly... She said "No I just really hate watching fat people eat!"
I was devastated!! I wasn't even eating, I had a tea... I must admit, I cried on the way home:(
My brother has Aspergers Syndrome and he would never be that rude to anyone.0 -
All I have to say is KARMA. She will get hers!0
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I just want to give you a hug. That was completely horrible and I'm so very sorry you had that happen to you at all.
And then I want to high 5 you for your restraint - for sticking to your eating plan in what amounts to a sugar-crack den!
Chin up, be proud of yourself for your success! There's no crying over some idiot who doesn't deserve your attention. (easier said than done, but don't dwell, or you'll get down on yourself and you shouldn't. don't let her win.)0 -
Neck? Snapped. By the time sheto got to the word "fat". I am sorry.0
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I might have said, "I can change my weight, but there is no fix for your ugly."0
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I don't know why I am so surprised about how ugly some people could be, I am sorry you had to hear this.0
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I have elaborate tattoos on my hips and butt. They are there for personal reasons known to me. Some do show when I am wearing my swimsuit. I was at the pool a few years ago and had a woman call me out by telling me I was going to hell. I told her that I had already been there and was sent back for being in her place. She was astonished and yelled "How dare you!". I told her, "how dare you. You don't even know me and have no right to make any kind of judgement". She just huffed away while I jumped in the pool and swam my laps.
As far as the rude, hateful person who made that comment, You should have told him to shut his eyes or look the other way. I am so sorry you had that happen. And how totally thoughtless to say that in front of your child.0 -
Face it, some people are just so insecure about themselves they have to put others down. Should have asked if she ever eats in rooms with mirrors Don't let people like that get to you - they have a lot more problems than you do. 0
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