What are your "Turn-Offs"?

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  • boomboom011
    boomboom011 Posts: 1,459
    hairy back and hammer toes
  • jeninabilan
    jeninabilan Posts: 369 Member
    A guy who is too serious.. I like to laugh, keep things fun and light hearted :) Make me laugh, I am putty in your hands <3 haha
  • Kimbers70
    Kimbers70 Posts: 102 Member
    *Smokers/dippers
    *Dry sense of humor...You MIUST make me laugh. 3/4 of my day is spent laughing!
    *Public Junk Adjusters... (guys, there are bathroom to adjust your junk in. We dont need to see you grabbing it all the time)
    *Insecure, jealous/possessive behaviour.
    *Body odor, bad breath.
    *NOSE PICKERS! Please, dont act like I can see you slip that finger up your nose while you stand face to face having a conversation with me. GROSS!


    Turn Ons:
    Likes to wear nice cologne and I can smell it...MEEOOOOOOWWW!!!
    Shows respect for people around him.
    Likes to dance, especially slowwwwww. :)
    Has immense confidence in himself.
    If he has kids, they flock to him like he is God.
    Is a good kisser!
    Keeps himself and his home clean. :)
  • ja4bs
    ja4bs Posts: 30
    I have never been attracted to blonde hair or blue eyes. Brown hair, brown eyes HUBBA HUBBA!
  • writtenINthestars
    writtenINthestars Posts: 1,933 Member
    Lack of humor
    Arrogance
    Basic douchebaggery attitude
  • BKR1977
    BKR1977 Posts: 43 Member
    B.O., being rude to people, not letting the "lady" order first, hair growing in places it shouldn't, still living with his mother, unemployed for no good reason, liars...

    What if it's moved in with mother-in-law so she can keep a house?
  • Kimbers70
    Kimbers70 Posts: 102 Member
    B.O., being rude to people, not letting the "lady" order first, hair growing in places it shouldn't, still living with his mother, unemployed for no good reason, liars...

    What if it's moved in with mother-in-law so she can keep a house?

    If he has a mother in law, he is still married. Married men hitting on single women=big turn off.
  • Saruman_w
    Saruman_w Posts: 1,531 Member
    Couple of the main ones that turn me off:

    Smoking
    Tendency to get drunk
    Comes off as unintelligent or uncivilized
    Attitude issues
  • Jellyphant
    Jellyphant Posts: 1,400 Member
    Stench, short hair, acting like a *****, laziness, bad spelling/grammar, not a handy man.

    Yes, for a fat chick I still have standards.
  • TheLongRunner
    TheLongRunner Posts: 688 Member
    People who don't respect my boundaries.
    Liars.
    Smokers.
    Hair growing in strange places.
    Heavy drinkers.
    Pot heads.

    To name a few...
  • BKR1977
    BKR1977 Posts: 43 Member
    B.O., being rude to people, not letting the "lady" order first, hair growing in places it shouldn't, still living with his mother, unemployed for no good reason, liars...

    What if it's moved in with mother-in-law so she can keep a house?

    If he has a mother in law, he is still married. Married men hitting on single women=big turn off.

    Then why do so many women hit on men with wedding rings? Off subject I know. Just saying livin with Mother(-in-law) isn't always a bad thing.
  • MinnesotaManimal
    MinnesotaManimal Posts: 642 Member
    Eating food in bed. Esp if its loud and crunchy and leaves crumbs in the sheets.
  • BKR1977
    BKR1977 Posts: 43 Member
    A Woman who constantly interrupts and changes the subject when I'm talking. Like my 2 cents doesn't matter.
  • ecalonge
    ecalonge Posts: 33
    If I can tell he doesn't really like me that much but doesn't think he can do better, he's gone. If he's lucky, I'll let him go on his way without doing some emotional damage to him first. I'm nobody's better than nothing woman.


    Totally agree!! ESPECIALLY, if he is just hanging around for the sex.
    Gotta know when I look in his eyes that he is into me.

    Along with the long list of basics that make up a decent human being, major turn-offs include:

    being loud and obnoxious for attention
    extreme egotism and self-involvement
    materialism
    lack of any spiritual beliefs or even willingness to discuss the topic (NOT religious necessarily, but philosophical/spiritual)
    inability to connect with anyone
    being a push-over
    a sloppy kisser

    ..... and on and on and on.......

    High standards, I know! Damn, no wonder I'm still single! :laugh:
  • toabetterlifestyle
    toabetterlifestyle Posts: 230
    Cocky.
    People that flirt with EVERYONE.
    Bad language. Using a curse word 10+ times in a sentence.
    Lack of passion in the relationship.
    Bad teeth.
    Bad breath.
    Lack of commitment.
    Laziness.
    Bad skin.
    Lack of humor.
    Shy.. I'm shy enough, two people can't be shy in a relationship!
    People who judge others.
    People who don't care what I have to say. Keep interrupting me like it's not important.
    Heavy drinkers.
    Liars!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
    Cheaters!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
  • ecalonge
    ecalonge Posts: 33
    People who see only black and white and no gray, judgmental people, and people who post that chubby profile pics turn them off. It's all about the journey and progress... Not whether we are fit enough to by considered physically attractive to board readers.


    Madroch:
    you know he was goofin' on himself, right, not making a statement against "chubby" people?

    BTW, LMAO on that particular post- that was really cute!
  • StacySkinny
    StacySkinny Posts: 984 Member
    My turn offs are guys who are "messy". You know, the cute guys who normally look good but when you put food in front of them they SOMEHOW always manage to get some either on their face or on their shirt (often times both). It's like dating a 10 year old. lol

    My other turn offs are shallowness (no explanation needed there) and also guys who are so unsentimental that they don't see beauty and wonder even when it's staring them in the face.
  • ecalonge
    ecalonge Posts: 33
    New turn off- Peaople like me who post before they read...

    LOL! It's totally cool- your heart was definitely in the right place and I respect and really like that! :flowerforyou:
  • Lstrhi
    Lstrhi Posts: 132
    turn offs-
    complainers
    vanilla-ness (if you have to ask, i'm not explaining)
    sh*tty taste in music
    my way or the highway type guys
    strength (emotional and physical)

    turn ons-
    someone who shares my odd sense of humor
    takes an interest in my life
    good with his hands (not just in the bedroom lol, i mean fixing stuff, taking care of problems)
    genuine
    confidence in himself
  • bmqbonnie
    bmqbonnie Posts: 836 Member
    Treating family badly. There are truly crazy families out there, but a lack of respect for parents that gave you their all is a turnoff.

    Lack of ambition, goals, passion, etc.

    Bad spelling or grammar, especially now that internet dating is so common and a written message is your first impression.

    Any hint of clinginess/ possessiveness/ jealousy.

    Doesn't like to read.

    Religious.

    Lacks initiative.

    Gaming. A little here or there is okay but if that's your main/only hobby, then no, just no. Bad past experience...
  • kb455
    kb455 Posts: 679 Member
    Untrimmed nails (fingers and toes)
    Too clingy or jealous
    mean to animals
    Arrogance
  • bmqbonnie
    bmqbonnie Posts: 836 Member
    Oh yeah, not liking animals is a big one. My life revolves around animals, it's my career. And I just can't trust someone that doesn't like dogs.
  • jojoof4
    jojoof4 Posts: 120
    I am completely turned off by chubby people who take shirtless pictures of themselves and make it their profile pic. No one wants to see that.

    I LOL'd

    LOL here too!
  • rayzerwolf
    rayzerwolf Posts: 203 Member
    Men who hate homosexuals(i dont mean it makes them uncomfortable, but gets out right mad about some one elses sexual preferances). Why hate some one who likes to sleep with the same gender, if you like women to be together then why can a man be with another man we all deserve to be happy.

    I must say I do take part in women in the kitchen and sandwitch jokes, those are F'n halarious.
  • Beeazlebub
    Beeazlebub Posts: 38
    Honesty, holy water, angel food cake, virgins, and you know who.
  • MercenaryNoetic26
    MercenaryNoetic26 Posts: 2,747 Member
    if a girl is naked, but wearing socks, just no. no way. you might as well be completely clothed.

    EEEEEEK!!! LMFAO! Haaaaaaaaa!

    What if they're those long soccer socks that go to your knees or thighs? My man likes those.
  • wmlpd6
    wmlpd6 Posts: 135
    Arrogance, dishonesty, smoking
  • DannyMussels
    DannyMussels Posts: 1,842 Member
    Negative people. (complaining a lot, telling unhappy stories, bad things from the past, etc)

    That's really about it.

    Oh, and lazy people.
  • dalgirly
    dalgirly Posts: 280 Member
    Smoking is a turn off for me.

    Also, the way a guy treats a waitress/waiter is a big thing for me. If they treat them poorly or rudely, its a big turn off.

    Also, being overly touchy -- I'm not all that touchy feely, so being overly touchy off the bat --- I'll run in the opposite direction.
  • StacySkinny
    StacySkinny Posts: 984 Member
    Treating family badly. There are truly crazy families out there, but a lack of respect for parents that gave you their all is a turnoff.

    Ohhh This one should be on my list too! It drives me crazy when I date a guy and it turns out he treats his family with disrespect. The WORST is when a man treats his MOM with disrespect. That angers me and makes me sick to see a guy treat the woman who raised him and gave birth to him treat her like poo.
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