Do you think you're attractive?

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  • Fat_2_Fit_Mommy
    Fat_2_Fit_Mommy Posts: 569 Member
    No I don't think I am.. I always been like this for a long time. I guess cause of in the past, and weight I don't find my self good looking so I am trying to change that issue I have a low self esteem and no confidence.
  • loseweightjames
    loseweightjames Posts: 360 Member
    Do you think you're attractive? How do you feel about the way you look?

    I like to think so
  • GuerrillaHermit
    GuerrillaHermit Posts: 79
    That would be a negative...
  • dida0721
    dida0721 Posts: 107 Member
    I'm happy about who I am and the potential I have!
  • auticus
    auticus Posts: 1,051 Member
    I'm a solid "5".
  • Fat_2_Fit_Mommy
    Fat_2_Fit_Mommy Posts: 569 Member
    Nope not in the least.. All the years of kids making fun of me in school has taken its toll..... Its hard to erase 13 years of feeling like I was the ugliest thing on earth.

    I had the same problem is why I am like this today.
  • momof8munchkins
    momof8munchkins Posts: 1,167 Member
    In general.. No!
    I am overweight and not attractive at all.. though my husband thinks I 'm hot and says all the time that I am too critical of myself..but fat ain't pretty no matter how you look at it.. I Think I have a pretty face and beautiful eyes.. but from the neck down.. nope not pretty at all
  • bethmags
    bethmags Posts: 2
    I truly don't. I think parts of me are attractive but the unattractive parts detract from the overall. It's something I've been fighting for my entire life but has become even harder after having kids. It's also the main reason why I want to get in shape.
  • bmkx0
    bmkx0 Posts: 308
    honestly most days..nope .
  • nursestewart
    nursestewart Posts: 229 Member
    Not really. I feel fat......but not attractive. I am trying to change that.
  • CoryIda
    CoryIda Posts: 7,870 Member
    I usually don't at all, but I'm having a good self-esteem day. It doesn't happen very often, but I'll take it when it does!
  • YouAreTheShit
    YouAreTheShit Posts: 510 Member
    Outer Appearance: I'm okay for what I have to work with.

    Inner Appearance: I'm a Rock Star!
  • harley0269
    harley0269 Posts: 384 Member
    no, i always thought i was on the plain jane side & a bit frumpy.
    i hate when i smile becuase the facial muscles under my nose (above my top lip) cast shadows & makes it look like i have a snidely whiplash mustache. even tho i have no facial hair.
    ...that & i dont have a strong jaw line. i think it makes me look like a spoon head.
    i could go on.....
  • brenteesha
    brenteesha Posts: 49
    Do you think you're attractive? How do you feel about the way you look?

    I like to think so

    I'd def agree with you there.
  • candykay0605
    candykay0605 Posts: 1,019 Member
    nope not really thats why im here
  • Chrissieneave
    Chrissieneave Posts: 99 Member
    I think that i'm very pretty ;) - LOL - but seriously, I dont' think i'm too bad looking a chick, but I get days where I feel fatter than others & less attractive :/

    I wil have more confidence with my looks when i have lost all the weight i want too :)
  • tonihayden
    tonihayden Posts: 67
    once in awhile i do....but for the most part i do not. i also am told regulary that i am fat, old , wrinkled, not good enuf and when u r beat into the ground by these words you begin to beleive it and soon that's all u see in the mirror. i am trying to climb out of this dark place and hope that losing some weight will help me. Was 141 pounds now 138...goal is 120.............
  • MaximalLife
    MaximalLife Posts: 2,447 Member
    It's mostly a lady thing, because I thought as most guys do, that I was God's gift to women -

    And then my wife disclosed that I was unattractive fat.
    Who was I kidding anyway?

    Ever since then it was an issue, and even though started losing the weight, I'd stand in the mirror, zero in on my worse area and just obsess over it.

    If we were intimate, and she touched me there, I lose my - er..."focus" -
    So, yes, it's not just a lady thing. Men feel that way as well.

    If more men were honest, maybe they'd fess up too.
    The solution is to be your own personal best, and learn to love yourself and not compare yourself to others.
    I reached my weight goals, and all is well today, and no, I am far from perfect, but I love myself and feel good fit, muscular and in peak condition.

    Not bad to a guy pushing 50!
  • ElleOQuent
    ElleOQuent Posts: 429 Member
    The sun even shines on a dog's *kitten* occasionally.
  • brenteesha
    brenteesha Posts: 49
    I consider myself between average and above average when I'm thinner... I used to have good days and bad days like everyone else. Since I've gone from a few extra lbs to chubby, coupled with no flirting or interest from anyone, I feel like I have little to no appeal at all. I'm ok with it though, because I have a great personality -- as cliche as that sounds. I'm also confident I will feel better about myself once I lose some of this weight! Just trying to be patient...
  • newlaura30
    newlaura30 Posts: 82
    mmm hard one am i happy with the way i look?...no. but i think i have a nice face and smile and eyes...but from there down definetly not. i don't mind my boobs when i'm dressed but i wonder sometimes if thats cause if people are looking at my cleavage they're not looking anywhere else. lol
  • speedycakes
    speedycakes Posts: 152 Member
    No, I wish I felt attractive. My hubby says i am and random guys hit on me. So i guess i am some what attractive but I just don't see or feel it. I'm my little media altered head if I dont look like this....http://www.google.com/imgres?um=1&hl=en&sa=N&rlz=1G1GGLQ_ENUS370&biw=1366&bih=667&tbm=isch&tbnid=6uZ3FKHQ5UrYaM:&imgrefurl=http://sensationcelebrity.blogspot.com/2011/10/megan-fox-hot.html&docid=u06RfGbiGllXiM&imgurl=http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-YsRDL1wr6I8/Th2-bIK_MbI/AAAAAAAAH8A/JZyGFeEjwho/s1600/megan%2Bfox%2Bhot%2Bin%2Bbikini.jpg&w=514&h=799&ei=Y4QhT6KKGIXi0QGV2uCFCg&zoom=1&iact=hc&vpx=427&vpy=151&dur=15&hovh=280&hovw=180&tx=124&ty=154&sig=110463216381102884619&page=1&tbnh=151&tbnw=111&start=0&ndsp=25&ved=1t:429,r:2,s:0
    Then i'm not attractive.

    I wish it wasn't like this.
  • Kryontz
    Kryontz Posts: 72 Member
    A solid 7
  • Bronx_Montgomery
    Bronx_Montgomery Posts: 2,284 Member
    Yuckers....I try to avoid any mirrors or reflective services as much as possible......just the thought of looking at myself makes me gag..
  • mickipedia
    mickipedia Posts: 889 Member
    The sun even shines on a dog's *kitten* occasionally.

    Love it!
  • CAKEDOC
    CAKEDOC Posts: 110 Member
    ALL DAY EVERYDAY! I'M THE HOT, FIT CAKEDOC!
  • skittybang
    skittybang Posts: 1,525 Member
    Only in the nude
  • La_Amazona
    La_Amazona Posts: 4,855 Member
    there are days when i feel like the hottest girl in town... seriously (I'm not but i feel too damn good sometimes!). other days i feel meh.

    today, i feel HOT!!! :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile: :bigsmile:
  • brittaney10811
    brittaney10811 Posts: 588 Member
    No. I'm good at faking it though .... but most of the humor comes from insecurity.... I'd rather make fun of my 'bubble butt' and 'spare tire' before someone else does :frown:
  • clarkey16876
    clarkey16876 Posts: 13
    Deffo not !
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