Mean women at the gym

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  • sylvuz323
    sylvuz323 Posts: 468 Member
    It's a word that begins with C and it was made just for situations like this.

    and most of us women do not like that word.
  • koosdel
    koosdel Posts: 3,317 Member
    I'm not sure where to post this so. Yesterday at the gym these two girls were working out on the aerobic steps. one girl says to another while explaining a step "you can do it this way, or you can do it the p*ssy way like that" and then points at me. It took everything in my body not to walk over and deck her. How do I handle a situation like that?
    For ladies, I can't say.
    If a guy ever singles me out like that, I hope pain is something he enjoys.
    I hate bullies!

    You serve like an old woman.
  • candicebauer
    candicebauer Posts: 7
    I'm not sure where to post this so. Yesterday at the gym these two girls were working out on the aerobic steps. one girl says to another while explaining a step "you can do it this way, or you can do it the p*ssy way like that" and then points at me. It took everything in my body not to walk over and deck her. How do I handle a situation like that?


    Walk over and deck her.
    hahaha yup thats what i would WANT to do but honestly i probably think of a comeback with a lot of profanity cuz when i get angry i sware like a truck driver
  • beckamelia1
    beckamelia1 Posts: 93
    I would ov just laughed at her and then said meet me out side!!lol
  • jessicaann05
    jessicaann05 Posts: 67
    maybe i'm not calling the exercise we were doing the right thing. it's the step on the floor like this...

    step6.jpg

    Trip her!
  • Kenzietea2
    Kenzietea2 Posts: 1,132 Member
    Haha! How rude of her! Let's face it- girls are not usually mean to each other unless we are jealous- so clearly something about you threatened her and she was too insecure to admit you might actually have something she does not. Good for you not to retaliate, it probably made her even more jealous :)

    Handle it by ignoring it, continue to become the sexy girl you already are. There will be more women like her, there always will, but even more so when you get even hotter.

    As women, why can't we embrace each other's beauty and raise each other up instead of cutting each other down? I get jealous, like everyone, but I admire and compliment and it sure as hell makes me feel a lot better about myself at the end of the day.
  • Melroxsox
    Melroxsox Posts: 1,040 Member
    "But doing it that way (point to the other girl) obviously makes you a raging b*tch."

    LOVE this ^^ bahahah xD
    What a rude thing to say! >.> Come to my gym. We will be buddies xD haha

    This! ^^^ Hahahahaha
  • KellyKAG
    KellyKAG Posts: 418
    I've noticed that if you call somone out on their BS behavior 9 out of 10 times they back down. The problem is when nobody calls them out on it because they dont like confrontation or whatever the bully thinks that gives them license to continue being a jerk. Good luck to you
  • JeanetteDee
    JeanetteDee Posts: 53 Member
    maybe i'm not calling the exercise we were doing the right thing. it's the step on the floor like this...

    step6.jpg

    Trip her!

    bahaha im tellin ya if i hear anymore remarks from her, i will!
  • rpantusa
    rpantusa Posts: 267 Member
    I would walk over there and say the pu**y way is about to stomp on your head.... thats how i roll.....
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    :laugh: LMAO, thats how I would want to react too......LOL
  • rydanip
    rydanip Posts: 62 Member
    I would walk over there and say the pu**y way is about to stomp on your head.... thats how i roll.....

    I am crying from laughter...YES...
  • Jessicaruby
    Jessicaruby Posts: 881 Member
    im sorry. some people are so rude. i have a mouth when i get mad....... i would have said, "im doing what i can to workout and get healthy, what are you doing about being a rude bi*ch?
  • ShellyKay67
    ShellyKay67 Posts: 489 Member
    2011 me would have thrown down, allowing that type of stupid comment to affect me.

    2012 me would brush it off and keep on moving. It's not worth the time or frustration.

    I've spent a lot of my life being angry about overheard comments, or arguments with ignorant people over opinions they felt they needed to share. Then I realized that by doing so, I was letting them win. I no longer care what they think. I'm in this for me.

    AWESOME!
  • busymom74
    busymom74 Posts: 3,341 Member
    I'd use it as motivation. Every time you're on the stepper remember what she said and step it up a notch. She was WAY out of line and I'd want to kill her but if you use her negativity to better yourself it works out in your favor!
  • ShellyKay67
    ShellyKay67 Posts: 489 Member
    I pretty much don't waste a minute of my time on mean people, especially those showing their stupidity, in such a manner.

    Lifes to short to bother even addressing a person that would make such a comment. Its not like anything you could say here is a "win", and certainly will not "teach" her anything. If she would make the statement you said - she is certainly not in the mode to receive an education from anyone, no matter how it is presented. :) And likely bucking to start a fight.

    SHE obviously has issues, why let her negativity and horrid attitude pollute your life. Not worth playing into her drama lama game.

    I can't choose what other people say or do - but I can choose whether I want to allow it to effect me, my day, my mood, my life. I choose not to let it do so.

    In that situation, I would roll my eyes, ignore her, and keep doing what I am there to do. I am working out for me - no one else.

    great attitude....love it!
  • LHSweeney
    LHSweeney Posts: 87 Member
    I liked the old me and new me responses.... Old me would have walked over and asked her if she would like to learn the PXssy way of getting her *kitten* beat for talking ShXX....and I would have been praying for her to make a move so I could make good on it...... New me probably would say something like "Wow! Really? That's how you talk about people?" ....and then just stare at her until she turns away HAHAHA I love to do that ... watching someone submit to the stare is almost as much fun as beating their *kitten* ...No matter how you responded, YOU WON she is still the wrong one and still the low life B*tch who says mean stuff to people to try to make herself look good ........ What a sad cliche' she is ...classic stupid bully ....
  • kylee_marie
    kylee_marie Posts: 299 Member
    "But doing it that way (point to the other girl) obviously makes you a raging b*tch."

    This!!!
  • moejo3
    moejo3 Posts: 224 Member
    I believe in Karma she will get what is coming to her. Anyone that puts other people down to make themselves appear superior aren't worth your time..however, if you find her being rude again towards you speak up nothing wrong with standing up for yourself either!
  • dshalbert
    dshalbert Posts: 677 Member
    Thanks for all the replies! I ignored her, but the steps are right next to a weight circuit i do so I was on her tail the whole time around the circuit. it made me feel good that every time i sat down on a machine after her I saw she was at least 10lbs+ under what I can lift. WHO'S THE P*SSY NOW! :)

    Well there's your satifisfaction!
  • psmd
    psmd Posts: 764 Member
    I would have gone with a "Uh I can hear you!" and see what happened. Then depending on response either smile or throw in an expletive. Don't let it get to you! ;)
  • whencynstops
    whencynstops Posts: 109 Member
    GUTTER STOMP - American History X style.....

    Honestly though, Ive dealt with mean girls all my life.... I would just make a point of starting a conversation with someone else, and demeaning something they did and point to them. An eye for an eye. Make sure they can hear you!

    Although being the bigger person and letting it go probably is the mature thing to do, I love being a B*tch and I love the satisfaction I get when Im mean back. I used to lie down and bottle it up inside... NO MORE. These girls are mean and they deserve to see how it feels. Enjoy some revenge...

    AND... when youre skinny and HAWT , theyll still be moles.

    Ah did you have to bring out the gutter stomp? I hurt just thinking about it!

    I'm passive aggressive... “accidently” spill my entire bottle of water on her. Or get a resistance band and “accidently” smack her in face with it. I’m “clumsy” like that. My bad.
  • challengeaccepted
    challengeaccepted Posts: 66
    Turn and stare her right in the eyes (in a creep sort of way if you can*) while continuing to do the said exercise and flip her off with both middle fingers. Bonus points of you are smiling while doing this.
  • allibrie29
    allibrie29 Posts: 10 Member
    I liked the old me and new me responses.... Old me would have walked over and asked her if she would like to learn the PXssy way of getting her *kitten* beat for talking ShXX....and I would have been praying for her to make a move so I could make good on it...... New me probably would say something like "Wow! Really? That's how you talk about people?" ....and then just stare at her until she turns away HAHAHA I love to do that ... watching someone submit to the stare is almost as much fun as beating their *kitten* ...No matter how you responded, YOU WON she is still the wrong one and still the low life B*tch who says mean stuff to people to try to make herself look good ........ What a sad cliche' she is ...classic stupid bully ....





    AWESOME!!! That is EXACTLY what I would do!!
  • espence30
    espence30 Posts: 116 Member
    "But doing it that way (point to the other girl) obviously makes you a raging b*tch."
    *Like*

    I would have totally lost my cool...
  • G30Grrl
    G30Grrl Posts: 377 Member
    "But doing it that way (point to the other girl) obviously makes you a raging b*tch."

    This!
  • Tuffjourney
    Tuffjourney Posts: 971
    Ignoring, or a simple "**** you" may do the trick.

    Yep this ^
  • Mkaser8
    Mkaser8 Posts: 1
    Be happy with yourself and your accomplishments, keep moving. Let them keep their negativity and rudeness to themself. You are better then they are keep up the good work!
  • DeeJayTJ
    DeeJayTJ Posts: 355 Member
    wow!! i would have wanted to choke her.
  • dragginfli
    dragginfli Posts: 17 Member
    Next time you see her Wave at her, Smile big, she probably knew you heard her and was trying to bring someone else down to make her pittyful soul feel better, Kill her with kindness. It will drive her nuts that she didn't get to you. start chatting up her friends and make her feel like the *kitten* she was being.
  • TGSgirl2017
    TGSgirl2017 Posts: 32 Member
    Wow. That is horrible :(
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