Mean women at the gym

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  • Inacay
    Inacay Posts: 47 Member
    I'm not sure where to post this so. Yesterday at the gym these two girls were working out on the aerobic steps. one girl says to another while explaining a step "you can do it this way, or you can do it the p*ssy way like that" and then points at me. It took everything in my body not to walk over and deck her. How do I handle a situation like that?

    Tell them you can do the ***** way and ask them if they know any good lesbians? LOL
  • JennW130
    JennW130 Posts: 460 Member
    REPORTED!!! sorry, I couldn't help it. That word's been thrown around so much today I just had to.
  • beerbomber
    beerbomber Posts: 184 Member
    stop doing it the pu**y way lol
  • Happyhealthyliz90
    Happyhealthyliz90 Posts: 63 Member
    "But doing it that way (point to the other girl) obviously makes you a raging b*tch."

    Haha YES!
  • JennW130
    JennW130 Posts: 460 Member
    I would walk over there and say the pu**y way is about to stomp on your head.... thats how i roll.....
    that's how I roll too.
  • dbutorac
    dbutorac Posts: 120
    what a b****, she must have issues, be above it.
  • Apazman
    Apazman Posts: 494 Member
    Punch her in the Va-Jay-Jay!
  • danizaga
    danizaga Posts: 293 Member
    dude that sucks. i'm a bigger girl and i never had any comments like that directed at me at the gym.
  • stwalsh226
    stwalsh226 Posts: 38
    "But doing it that way (point to the other girl) obviously makes you a raging b*tch."

    Bahahahahaha definitely this!!!
  • momtimesone
    momtimesone Posts: 85 Member
    I would of said the only way I could possibly do it like you is if I had a stick shoved up my butt and then continued on with your workout because nothing should ruin your day like a rude person
  • auntienay
    auntienay Posts: 2
    Someone who would point to you and make a comment like that is mean-spirited. Here's what I would do. I would stop get off and in the best sincere voice I could muster up ask her "I'm sorry, I believe I heard you refer to the way I was working out as the ***** way. So the way, you're doing it is better?" Then look at her for a few seconds...no, really look and pay attention. Then, smile say "thanks" and walk away. Here's the thing...other people heard her and you'll give them something to smile about. Without angry confrontation she'll look like an *kitten*. Here's the other thing....and this one is hard. Maybe her delivery sucked, but maybe she was right. I used to think I worked out really hard until I started working with a trainer. Take it for what it's worth and then move on.
  • kvreeken
    kvreeken Posts: 137 Member
    I'm not sure where to post this so. Yesterday at the gym these two girls were working out on the aerobic steps. one girl says to another while explaining a step "you can do it this way, or you can do it the p*ssy way like that" and then points at me. It took everything in my body not to walk over and deck her. How do I handle a situation like that?


    I would look her in the eye and say in a disgusted voice.... "Wow. Seriously?." Loud enough so everyone could hear. My guess it would embarrass the crap out of her and she would start back pedalling.
  • Jferg69
    Jferg69 Posts: 241 Member
    this is copied and pasted from your own post.......

    walk over and deck her
  • lakersfan4life
    lakersfan4life Posts: 322 Member
    she's in such a bitc#y mood, perhaps her GYNECOLOGIST PULLED THE WRONG TOOTH!!!!

    ok, maybe im just tired. But im definitely scratching my head on this one...........
  • rubygarcia86
    rubygarcia86 Posts: 73 Member
    tell that girl to not be worried about how you do it and if she's got a problem with that you can go to the manager. Im pretty sure they dont want to lose your money lol
  • bloodguilt
    bloodguilt Posts: 126
    Its simple... you walk up and knock the b*tch on her *kitten* and tell her "thats how p*ssies do it"

    Agree to this idea but I would love to knock her @$$ with a 5 pound dumbbell.
  • dmpizza
    dmpizza Posts: 3,321 Member
    She was crazy rude, but did she have a point?
  • Matt_Wild
    Matt_Wild Posts: 2,673 Member
    Look over to acknowledge you heard what they said, smile and nod.

    At the end of the day, you retort, you are going down to their level and do you want to be as pathetic as them? I don't.

    I'm fairly well built, 19 stone but never ever fight simply because its not worth my time. I could, by why stress yourself in that kinda way? Life is too short.

    Forget it and get on with enjoying your day.
  • mctiernan
    mctiernan Posts: 51 Member
    THIS!!!
  • JulsDiane
    JulsDiane Posts: 349 Member
    Personally, I would have said in the most kind and polite manner "excuse me, but do you have a problem?" normally they trip over themselves in embarrassment when confronted. Kill them with kindness in the end kiddo ;)
  • horndave
    horndave Posts: 565
    It is best not to argue with idiots, first they drag you down to their level and proceed to beat you with experience.
  • jenny95662
    jenny95662 Posts: 997 Member
    "But doing it that way (point to the other girl) obviously makes you a raging b*tch."

    love this...me i would not let it go i cant so i would be like excuse me????? u have a issue with the way i do it????? then look at the other girl and say something to the effect of what u said


    usually when i say excuse me to some one in a way they know i heard them they back off cause none of those type of people can stand up to someone, they just are so use to people ignoring or letting them walk all over them and then when someone says something they fumble to have something to say lol
  • sarahp86
    sarahp86 Posts: 692 Member
    Kick her in the fandango!! Hate rudeness!!
  • aunienue
    aunienue Posts: 416
    "But doing it that way (point to the other girl) obviously makes you a raging b*tch."

    Love it....a lot!
  • jenilla1
    jenilla1 Posts: 11,118 Member
    2011 me would have thrown down, allowing that type of stupid comment to affect me.

    2012 me would brush it off and keep on moving. It's not worth the time or frustration.

    I've spent a lot of my life being angry about overheard comments, or arguments with ignorant people over opinions they felt they needed to share. Then I realized that by doing so, I was letting them win. I no longer care what they think. I'm in this for me.

    ^^^ I'm so proud of you! Feels great to have the self-control and peace of mind to just let the stupid stuff roll off your back. Keep it up! :flowerforyou:
  • _VoV
    _VoV Posts: 1,494 Member
    I would walk over and say in an extremely assertive way, "You were pointing at me. Is there a PROBLEM?" If she backs down, and says 'Nothing,' I would respond with an extremely assertive, 'GOOD.' Then walk away.

    If she attempts to explain, especially if it's mean, I would say, " You bore me with your drivel" while walking away.

    Bet she never does this again, especially if your body language and tone of voice conveys confidence.
  • lovinbeinold
    lovinbeinold Posts: 116
    I haven't read the replies, but can tell you that I'd laugh and wink at them, or wink at the one getting the instruction. Then I'd let it go. Stuff happens. Do what you need to do for yourself while working out. Why increase the negativity in the room? Infuse some positive attitude.

    I know someone who was hollered at from a car of guys going by, something about "look at her fat a**." Ordinarily that would hurt deeply, any of us. But for some reason she was full of spirit that day. Instead of letting it depress her, she turned toward them, waved real big and yelled, "HEY! THANKS!" while smiling real big at them. Instead of going home depressed about it, she went home laughing.

    The thing is, if you react negatively, it will set a mood, including within yourself. If you react with a smile or grin and a wink, they'll most likely lighten up.

    You are there to get healthy and to enjoy your life. Enjoy every moment that there's a way to, somehow. In uncomfortable situations, you can salvage the moment, at least for yourself.
  • YukonJoy
    YukonJoy Posts: 1,279 Member
    That was unnecessary


    but


    were you leaning on the handle bars?

    Because then really she had a point. Although she didn't have to be a prick about it.
  • YukonJoy
    YukonJoy Posts: 1,279 Member
    2011 me would have thrown down, allowing that type of stupid comment to affect me.

    2012 me would brush it off and keep on moving. It's not worth the time or frustration.

    I've spent a lot of my life being angry about overheard comments, or arguments with ignorant people over opinions they felt they needed to share. Then I realized that by doing so, I was letting them win. I no longer care what they think. I'm in this for me.

    ^^^ I'm so proud of you! Feels great to have the self-control and peace of mind to just let the stupid stuff roll off your back. Keep it up! :flowerforyou:

    Good for you honey!! My 2012 resolution was to try to be a more tolerant, less angry person. I have picked up some books and I think I am making progress. Although in my case it is medical.

    Hope I can be as awesome as you soon! :flowerforyou:
  • FearAnLoathing
    FearAnLoathing Posts: 4,852 Member
    Start talking to them about road kill,and how you think blood and maggots crawling on dead things is really really hot. Then tell them they would look beautifull with blood and maggots follow that with a manical laugh and you will be lucky if they look at you again
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