Whats your least favorite thing someone has said to you abou

Said to me while dishing up at a BBQ by my EX-bf in 2007/2008:
"Are you sure you wanna be eating that? You can't really afford to and summer is coming up"

At the time we were dating for about 2 weeks... Needless to say, it ended very, very shortly after that (2 or 3 days).
Kept making comments about my weight and telling me "I'm telling you this for your own sake cos I'd think you wanna look good for summer."

Oh pahleez! #GoodbyeAsshole!

Way to go!!! You didn't need him or his negativity.

Someone told me that since I was post 40, that I better not lose weight too fast because I'll look all wrinkled and saggy.

they were obviously wrong

"Oh, I went through a exercise phase when I was your age too, but it never lasts."

"Hmm. Well I can see it didn't for you , lady!" I really don't understand people that think they can just say anything they want to people.

Sure didn't. It was my mother who said it, who ended up having a gastric bypass and still struggles with weight issues. It's more eating habits than exercise.
"It's just so cute that you eat so many vegetables." Also her :grumble:

Strangely enough the worst things I hear are from my "non thin" friends who have watched me change my life/weight/eating habits/exercise etc. They have ALL asked for my advice, even so far as having me write out my meal plans and workout routines for them to only do NOTHING at all with it!! Thanks for wasting MY time!!
But, the thing that sticks in my mind the most....... which I found pretty hurtful really was said by a friend who asked for my help/advice and then did nothing with it...... I saw her at a funeral for a mutual friend recently.... I tried to approach her 3 times to say hello and give her a hug and each time she directly walked away! I was confused by this....so on approach attempt #4, I snuck up on her and asked her what the bleep was the matter?

She said "I don't want to stand next to you, you make me look terrible!"

Now I know this SHOULD be taken as complimentary right? Well, it didnt' feel that way..... it hurt me to hear my success and hard work created those feelings in her toward me .............

"wow, keep doing what you"re doing. If you get a little bit more muscle, you can get into MENS pro wrestling." awh, snap.

I hate when I go out with friends or family & they try to shove food in my face, saying "You've lost enough weight. You're so skinny now, so eat!" I DO EAT. I just don't eat **** like you do. I LIKE eating healthy & knowing how many calories i'm putting into my body, thank you very much.

Also "Hey are you taking drugs? Because you're starting to look like a drug addict" LOL

I agree - Nothing! Almost 3 months in, down 30-35 pounds... it's noticeable, people. Say something.

I love when people ask how I did it, and I answer "Counting calories and exercising" and their face falls. It's funny that once you start exercising daily and getting off your butt, it's not really THAT difficult to do. You just need the motivation to get the ball rolling!

I would love for people to say something about my weight loss....reading all of the posts here, I think I know why they won't. We all take these types of comments differently. Someone could say "Wow, you've lost a tonne of weight, you look great!" to me and I would gush and be so pleased whereas I've read here that another poster here felt that same comment was rude because it made it seem like she was a monster prior to the loss.

*****please read my post again. You quoted me as saying "you look great" and i never wrote that because that was not what was said to me! As I was saying, it was hard to describe. This was a very rude and hateful comment. I found back then, and even now that I have lost almost all of the baby weight, that people are jerks because they are jealous. This was not a nice comment like "you look great." It was just a "you've lost a ton......", "what did you do with the rest of you", and other stupid smart you know what comments. Yes, we all like compliments and appreciate them after hard work, but sarcastic comments that make you feel bad about the way you looked before the loss do NOT make you feel pleased. Instead, they take away from your pride. It's still a put down, just in a creative way.

I agree - Nothing! Almost 3 months in, down 30-35 pounds... it's noticeable, people. Say something.

I love when people ask how I did it, and I answer "Counting calories and exercising" and their face falls. It's funny that once you start exercising daily and getting off your butt, it's not really THAT difficult to do. You just need the motivation to get the ball rolling!

I would love for people to say something about my weight loss....reading all of the posts here, I think I know why they won't. We all take these types of comments differently. Someone could say "Wow, you've lost a tonne of weight, you look great!" to me and I would gush and be so pleased whereas I've read here that another poster here felt that same comment was rude because it made it seem like she was a monster prior to the loss.

*****please read my post again. You quoted me as saying "you look great" and i never wrote that because that was not what was said to me! As I was saying, it was hard to describe. This was a very rude and hateful comment. I found back then, and even now that I have lost almost all of the baby weight, that people are jerks because they are jealous. This was not a nice comment like "you look great." It was just a "you've lost a ton......", "what did you do with the rest of you", and other stupid smart you know what comments. Yes, we all like compliments and appreciate them after hard work, but sarcastic comments that make you feel bad about the way you looked before the loss do NOT make you feel pleased. Instead, they take away from your pride. It's still a put down, just in a creative way.

I think I get what you mean. It like they are saying "Your still the fat person except now, your the fat person who lost all that weight. You know because you were SO FAT."

Can't beat a good old grandparent confidence shaker - " eeee our Sarah, you used to be so thin"


And the old out for a meal " look at the size of that, you won't eat all that". How do you know?! Actually I was going to and now I feel like I have to leave half of my food to be socially acceptable!!

Discussing with my now ex step mother about what I'd really like to do as a job

Me " I like Mathis, and pretty sociable. I'd like to be a croupier in a casino"
Her, looks me up and down "well you'll need to lose weight first"

I was 12!!!!

Her comment still haunts me to this day!

many years ago when i was in high school i was friends with this very spiteful girl, one minute she could be your best friend, and with a click of the fingers, she will turn into a right monster. anyway myself and her, and a few other friends were all the canteen at break time, and we used to have like a cheese burger at break time, and one day i sat down with them all and i said to them 'im not having a cheeseburger today as i want to try and cut down on them and loose a stone' and then this so called 'friend' turned around and said 'sophia, you'll never be able to loose weight, you are going to be big all your life no matter what!!'

that was it for me! i broke down into tears infront of everyone (i probably looked like a right weirdo), i walked out the canteen grabbed my bag and caught the bus home. i still havent forgiven her to this day! stupid cow! grrrr.. but if i ever see her again, least ill be able to turn around and be like yeah ive dropped 3 dress sizes .. i bet she is well fat today actually! she used to eat like a horse in school and was a little chubby herself. soo i bet she's the sie of a house today! :laugh:

My least favourite thing,that I'm repulsive and ugly.. :-(

There was this guy I liked, I gave him a rose on Valentines day (FIRST time I ever made a move) You know what he did the rest of that year? Laugh at me with the girls in our class, get his friend to tell me I'm fat, And tell every he doesn't like me BECAUSE I'm fat.

Also, whenever I talk about getting healthier or doing something like that, my "bestfriend" says "You won't do it, you never do, just get used to it.. you're fat!"

Yup THOSE are my reasons for getting healthy, skinny, fit. I want them to eat their words

You SO don't need people like that in your life hun!