hooking up on first date??
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In total disclosure...if I had dated more ladies that gave it up on the first date, i would have have had nearly as many 2nd dates as I did.0
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Do THEY wait till the third date?Where does everyone stand on handjobs?
Totally not sex. Neither is oral. Unless it involves salad tossing. Actually according to most junior high and high school girls nowadays, anal is not sex either. So...there seems to be a good deal of leeway here.
The term date has been deemed antiquated by today's youth and the term of favor is "non-specific shared activity." And no, those dirty little minxes are like bunnies. Bunnies, I tell you!0 -
Had sex on the first date, was never that great to be honest but the following times were! I don't think It's ever turned out to be just a one night stand after that first night but that might just be me
I did the whole waiting thing, really bad idea. I waited over a year, we did it a couple of times and I realised there and then it just wouldn't work.. I'd rather have the chemistry all there from day 1 where you can't stay apart from each other.0 -
I don't think it says anything. I have been with people for a while without having sex at all. I had sex with my husband on our first date. I think it depends a lot on the connection to be honest with you.0
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I had sex with my ex wife on our first date and we stayed together 10 years. Remember there are really only two men : the one who takes you seriously and wants to sleep with you and the one who doesn't take you seriously and wants to sleep with you. Do what makes you comfortable but remember everyone passes judgment0
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Sometimes you are so attracted to the other person that you have to your freak on during the first date......of course that has always involved Jaeger Bombs prior to the fun!!!0
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What I usually like to do is date someone for at least 90 days, build an intense emotional connection and then find out the sex is horrible and then kick them to the curb.
Bwahahaahaha....yeah...i just love it when this happens...0 -
So what y'all are saying is that I should try to sack the chick on the first date? I don't think I could do that! Feels so cheap.
Maybe it feels cheap because you're using the words (and mentality of) "sack the chick." No?0 -
I actually might have attended high school back in the day if that opinion was prevalent.<snip>
Actually according to most junior high and high school girls nowadays, anal is not sex either. So...there seems to be a good deal of leeway here.
Maybe you missed the memo?0 -
Where does everyone stand on handjobs?
Totally not sex. Neither is oral. Unless it involves salad tossing. Actually according to most junior high and high school girls nowadays, anal is not sex either. So...there seems to be a good deal of leeway here.
OH, yes! We should all take sex advice from 14 year olds.... ummm how dumb is that?
Because that was a totally serious post and stuff.0 -
Who knew at the time the wonders of literacy would lead to?
I actually might have attended high school back in the day if that opinion was prevalent.<snip>
Actually according to most junior high and high school girls nowadays, anal is not sex either. So...there seems to be a good deal of leeway here.
Maybe you missed the memo?0 -
Where does everyone stand on handjobs?
Totally not sex. Neither is oral. Unless it involves salad tossing. Actually according to most junior high and high school girls nowadays, anal is not sex either. So...there seems to be a good deal of leeway here.
OH, yes! We should all take sex advice from 14 year olds.... ummm how dumb is that?
Because that was a totally serious post and stuff.
Wait'll he figures out that salad tossing doesn't involve croutons (oh God I hope it doesn't!).0 -
Where does everyone stand on handjobs?
Totally not sex. Neither is oral. Unless it involves salad tossing. Actually according to most junior high and high school girls nowadays, anal is not sex either. So...there seems to be a good deal of leeway here.
OH, yes! We should all take sex advice from 14 year olds.... ummm how dumb is that?
Because that was a totally serious post and stuff.
Wait'll he figures out that salad tossing doesn't involve croutons (oh God I hope it doesn't!).
Ouch!0 -
Talk about the wrong trail of breadcrumbsWhere does everyone stand on handjobs?
Totally not sex. Neither is oral. Unless it involves salad tossing. Actually according to most junior high and high school girls nowadays, anal is not sex either. So...there seems to be a good deal of leeway here.
OH, yes! We should all take sex advice from 14 year olds.... ummm how dumb is that?
Because that was a totally serious post and stuff.
Wait'll he figures out that salad tossing doesn't involve croutons (oh God I hope it doesn't!).0 -
So what y'all are saying is that I should try to sack the chick on the first date? I don't think I could do that! Feels so cheap.
Maybe it feels cheap because you're using the words (and mentality of) "sack the chick." No?
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well thats a hard 1 to say .. i met my hubby online .. we talking on the phone/net for 6 months
then met in person 1 day and he put the moves on ( trying to get his way)
we didn't do anything , but the next day he asked me to move to Fl to live with him and a week later i did ( a week after living with him, then , i let him have his way)
we have been together 12 years 5 months (married 10 years next month)
obv. our story is unique .. i say go for what feels right for you in that situation
btw i didn't read all the replies, just adding my 2 cents in the mix..lol
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As long as it's not your default MO it doesn't really matter, there's no rule book. That said if you put out first time every time you're either a slapper or a former Nun.Where does everyone stand on handjobs?
I don't stand for them, sitting is far more comfortable. Also, it gives your partner unnaturally developed wrist muscles - who wants a lover with Popeye arms?0 -
So what y'all are saying is that I should try to sack the chick on the first date? I don't think I could do that! Feels so cheap.
Maybe it feels cheap because you're using the words (and mentality of) "sack the chick." No?
Would you rather me call it F****ing, cuz that's exactly what it is. Just a ****.0 -
So what y'all are saying is that I should try to sack the chick on the first date? I don't think I could do that! Feels so cheap.
Maybe it feels cheap because you're using the words (and mentality of) "sack the chick." No?
Would you rather me call it F****ing, cuz that's exactly what it is. Just a ****.
Wow... defensive much?0 -
hey all, just needed some advice from males and females about the above topic! if a guy try's to have sex on the first date what does it tell about him? is it that bad? and oh say the guy and the girl don't really know each-other, they just met online 4 weeks ago!
I'm going to let you in on a little secret. If he's trying to have sex on the first date................ That means he's a guy.
He'll try to have sex without a date, on the first date, on the second date, third date, etc etc etc.
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Not at all. the poster made it sound bad that I used sack the chick, but in reality, I could have just used F***. I find the F-word more offensive, don't you?0
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Nothing wrong with sex on the first date, it should be a mutual thing.
My ex and I did but were together for 11+ years and split due to other issues.
My ex-husband and I did and were together for 7 yrs and two kids.
It’s up to both people, time is nothing but a number..0 -
Wrist strength is important.Where does everyone stand on handjobs?
Do people still even do these...I thought that was for when you were 12!0 -
Why do multiple people keep saying that, "there's nothing wrong with it if the feeling is mutual". Yeah, we know that, if it's mutual, it's sex. If it's not, it's date rape.0
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Not at all. the poster made it sound bad that I used sack the chick, but in reality, I could have just used F***. I find the F-word more offensive, don't you?
I think it's more the terminology - ie to sack someone is like YOU did something to them.
Where as to say WE had sex is a different thing.0 -
Wrist strength is important.Where does everyone stand on handjobs?
Do people still even do these...I thought that was for when you were 12!
Depends on how tired you are.0 -
Wrist strength is important.Where does everyone stand on handjobs?
Do people still even do these...I thought that was for when you were 12!
Apparently you've never been in a relationship with a person on her period and with a sore throat.0 -
I would say he's in it for the sex. But it depends on how long they have known each other. I mean, if they talk quite frequently before they met, and they were getting to know each other a lot, then yeah, the sex might be alright as long as the relationship wasn't based uprmarily on sex.0
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Wrist strength is important.Where does everyone stand on handjobs?
Do people still even do these...I thought that was for when you were 12!
Apparently you've never been in a relationship with a person on her period and with a sore throat.
Now that's funny...I don't care who you are!0 -
He is waiting till the first date? Damn, that is a man with self control.
Let's get real people... most men meet you and think about sex. They are wired that way (and some of us women are too HAHHA). It is up to you on what you are comfortable with. Old school people will claim that he is a pig and you need to wait. It is your life and your body - do what is right for you!
i agree lol with my ex we did the 2nd date with my husband i waited a little longer but he tried i just was not wanting to where we were lmfao0
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