worst comment ever made about your weight

That's disgusting! How horrible

When I was 18 I was at a night club and - actually - was not even "big" in my eyes back then. A size 16 (Aus). Anyways, this guy came up to me, drunk and charming as he was, and signalled out his hands to show a great width and was going on about me needing a sign that said WIDE LOAD. I was so embarrassed and upset. Jerk!!!

Some of these remarks are just "Nut Crunchers" Like you would do to the guy!! Insensitive jerks.

I had a bitter sweet comment of "you could be a wonderful plus size model" at Sephora one time. I didn't know what to think about that.

Considering how many plus size models are average weight or even a little under but with some curves, I'd take it as a straight up compliment.

I was standing at a bus stop one day, a young guy walked passed me and said "frigging hippo !"

What a *kitten* he was saying that! Karma will get him for saying that to you!

After my third child I was at the bank and the worst comment ever was (from the bank teller) "so when is your baby due?" I just had the baby last week! LOL I laugh about it now but at the time I felt gutted! However, the comment stuck and I did something about it. I lost over 20kg and still trying to lose the last 10kg now

There are so many cruel people in this world. Thank you everyone for being brave enough to share here.

I've gotten my share of them, including a classmate in high school writing a short story about how I was a cow- and the teacher thought it was a really creative story- ugh!

As an adult, it has mainly been the insensitive things that people say, like a previous example- giving back clothes to a dressing room attendant that doesn't ask if you disliked them, but says, "Oh, didn't they fit?"

Also, going out with groups of my gorgeous, naturally-thin size 4 friends and having guys point at me (a size 12) and call me their designated fat friend. That sucks.

@ work...OMG! I didn't know you were expecting! She was totally serious and hadn't seen me in awhile. Sigh...My response was, "no, I'm just fat" - - -

In high school one guy called me the fat lady from the circus....I actually don't think he ever looked in the mirror cause he was also very overweight.....

About 20 odd years ago, one of my brothers got caught for DUI.....I think it was mum who suggested that I be his chauffeur until he got his license back.....His response was no because I would break the seat......

I was standing at a bus stop one day, a young guy walked passed me and said "frigging hippo !"

See, that's when you follow at a safe distance shrieking, "The paternity test says it's yours! Stop walking away from me! And when are you going to pay the hospital bill from breaking my jaw?"

He will never say anything rude to anyone in public again.

ROFLMAO

I got called a ``fatass```the other day.

Cut me deep.

Then again, it was an ugly old man in and escalade who said it.

"You have such a pretty face."

If i had a dollar for every time i've heard that...

*you're

As a bit of background... I am 5'5. I was a normal sized (though never skinny and knobby kneed) child, got chubby (ok, fat -- size 16) in pre-puberty. Then I dieted down to a healthier size (8s were loose) (on a very unhealthy diet), eventually got pretty disordered with it. Then I gained some back (size 10). College came, bad break-up ... skinny again (I worked in the college fitness center), but basically didn't eat and ran on a treadmill like a hamster on a wheel.
Adulthood/happiness/grad school/ nearing 30... size 14, sometimes 16.

So, I have been fat, chubby and relatively skinny multiple times in my life.

I will NEVER forget shopping for school clothes (in the 'pretty plus' section), about middle school age. A woman and her daughter were shopping too. The daughter picked up a shirt and her mothers said, " Oh, no, honey, that's pretty plus." She basically said it like "that's a rotting corpse."

Same day, I try on the clothes I take home. My dad says, "Wouldn't it be better if those stripes were vertical?" (In his defense, I don't think he knew I would know what that meant -- little did he know, Big Bopper Magazine covers horizontal and vertical stripes). My Dad has always told me I was beautiful, and was very concerned when I was not eating enough.

As my mother and I embarked on a diet "You would be perfect if you lost 10 lbs." Perfect is a very dangerous word to a people pleaser.

In college... an ex-boyfriend would so "You are SO attractive right now," (sarcastically) right as I bit into food (mind you, I was at a healthy BMI).

Countless iterations of "You would be hot/beautiful/pretty IF... "

The night of my bachelorette party, a drunk guy made a comment about my fiance "likeing them with some meat on their bones." I was a size 12 at the time.

There are others. Having only barely come over the "obese" line and BRIEFLY, at age 14 and when I started MFP, that I experienced this so often. Many of the comments occurred when I was very near or at a healthy BMI.

At this point I hope to be a size 10 when I hit my goal weight (in jeans, I'm wide-hipped... so a S/M top). I am interested to see how I feel about MYSELF as an adult at this size.

As a size 8 (and very fit -- I worked out ALL THE TIME), I thought I was horribly fat, both as a young teenager and in college. I have never worn a bikini, even though in retrospect, I COULD have at times.

I am more confident in my appearance as a size 14 at the age of 29 than I was at 15 or 23 and a size 8 or 10.

If (when!) I get thin, I may be obnoxiously self confident... I sort of hope so. It would be nice to actually feel beautiful instead of faking that feeling.

This comment did not phase me but I think it is the WORST comment ever because of his ignorance.

3 months post partum & my friend's boyfriend told me that I USED to look GOOD. He further added this question, "Is that what happens when you become a mom, you get bulges all over your stomach when you sit?" then looked at my friend & said, "babe don't get pregnant!"

WOW.

He sounded worse than an idiot that his idiocy got me all tongue tied. Lol.

When I was 5 years old, about to hop in the tub for my night time bath, my mom pointed at my thighs and told me that they shouldn't be touching.

When I was a teenager, weighing around 175lbs (I'm 5'7''), I went shopping for jeans with her, and when I told her my size (15-16) while browsing the racks, she asked ''What? Jeans actually come in that size?''

I am still scarred by those remarks today.

FAT @SS..... enough said

...Sorry went to delete post and can't -_-