I think I'm bisexual, but not sure. Please help.

Nothing to add... just wanted to give a "bump" so I can check out later! :bigsmile:

I think Paul Walker and George Clooney are good looking Men, but noooooooooooooo way their gonna tap my *kitten*! I can say those Men are some good lookin dudes!

LMAO

Easy. Play the field!

And post pictures!

oink oink!

You want her to post pictures of pigs?? Ummm....that's weird.

Oink oink

I already knew YOU were weird.

That's how I roll

Go to bed.

I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.

This is something that I have struggled with my entire life. My first sexual exsperience was with a girl. I married my husband in 2003, but never lost the desire to be with women. Listen to your heart, and you'll find your answer.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kinsey_scale

I suspect most folks end up at one end of the scale or the other by default rather than by choice.

Very well said! It's nobody's business what we do in the privacy of our own bedroom.

I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.

I want to ask a question, and I'm not trying to put you on the spot or anything, or say you're wrong, bu I'm not understanding something.

What is it about a woman being attracted to both men and women that you personally would have a problem with? I mean, the playing field is the same. I guess one could call it larger, but so what? It would be like being attracted to just white men, or men of all races. Technically I suppose the playing field is filled with more people, but that doesn't make their choice of you any less than it would be if they liked men only.

So I'm wondering, is it a preconceived societal notion that a person has to be one or the other (gay or straight) that would have you feeling like you couldn't trust them? Because a lack of trust based on gender preference alone seems like an awful big leap from nowhere.

I'm wondering if it isn't more about egos getting hurt than actual trust? I can say, I'm just as much of a trustworthy person in a relationship regardless of who the person or what gender the person is I'm in it with.

So. I'm thinking maybe this has more do with feeling "not good enough" because you don't understand their lack of gender preference?

Why must we label? Bisexual, gay, lesbian, straight....isn't it just about love in general. Why does the public feel the need to fit everyone in a neat little package?

Love whomever you want because it feels good, not because it's what is accepted.

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This. People would get along much better without these simplistic labels that allow the simple-minded to generalize their hatred based on a word rather than getting to know a person and THEN deciding that you want to bash them about the head and neck with a blunt object.

I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.

I think that's great, because it lets people know right off the bat that you're an ignorant bigot they shouldn't waste their time on.

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LOL! And this!

I'm lesbian, so there ya go.

I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.

I think that's great, because it lets people know right off the bat that you're an ignorant bigot they shouldn't waste their time on.

Lmao.

I'm bisexual. For me, I've just always known. I've always been attracted to men and women and I have had relationships with both. Personally, I'd rather date men, because there is less drama, but honestly, I'm a tad more attracted to women.

As to the OP, no one can really just tell you if you are or aren't. It's something you have to figure out on your own, maybe experiment with, or talk to someone else who is and see how much your feelings are in line with that.

this ^^^^ But this time I happened to find a drama ridden man but it's cool he is a sweetheart!

I'm lesbian, so there ya go.

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I think in all fairness the label is kind of important... I know, as a personal choice, I wouldn't want to date someone or be in a relationship with someone who is "bi" because there's double the competition for your affection. It's just MY choice... you can agree with it or choose otherwise... but I know I'd never fully trust the person. Therefore, I would choose to not get involved.

I think that's great, because it lets people know right off the bat that you're an ignorant bigot they shouldn't waste their time on.

Lmao.

So because he wont date someone who is" bi" he is an ignorant bigot?? Wow!!

No because he said "there's double the competition for your affection" which he is basically saying your more likely to cheat just because you're bi sexual...