girls ... do you mind if your men go to strip clubs?

_snw_
_snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member
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i personally don't mind at all. One rule though - he doesn't get to come home and get ~me~. "Bubbles" doesn't get to be in his mind while he's with me (not that my awesome body wouldn't override that fact...)

but really - srip clubs, lap dances bother me not in the least. Unless, of course, he was blowing his paycheck everweek, then there would be a problem.

You? How do you feel about it?
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  • BeautifulArtemis
    BeautifulArtemis Posts: 641 Member
    I love to go with :)
  • tig_ol_bitties
    tig_ol_bitties Posts: 561 Member
    My man had never been to one, so I'm the one that took him!
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    I could care less, as long as he takes me sometimes!
  • Pocket_Pixi
    Pocket_Pixi Posts: 1,167 Member
    Not that i have a man or anything at the moment but no it doesn't bother me at all.

    If he is spending every paycheck there it would become a problem but once and a while isn't a big deal.
  • LuckyAng
    LuckyAng Posts: 1,173 Member
    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    If a women can indulge in her fantasies (mental & emotional creatures) through romance novels, then a guy should be allowed to do the same (visual creatures), assuming it has no negative bearing on the marital aspects (cheating, spending too much money, touching the girls).
  • Tanya_IP
    Tanya_IP Posts: 62 Member
    It doesnt bother me at all. What bothers me is how expensive it is there lol
  • Trail_Addict
    Trail_Addict Posts: 1,340 Member
    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:

    Awesome answer!
  • tig_ol_bitties
    tig_ol_bitties Posts: 561 Member
    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:

    LOVE this!
  • Microfiber_wechange
    Microfiber_wechange Posts: 640
    My husband is a pastor. Say no more. Say no more.
  • rammsteinsoldier
    rammsteinsoldier Posts: 1,552 Member
    I don't care. He can take me and then we can both take out our frustration on each other.
  • tig_ol_bitties
    tig_ol_bitties Posts: 561 Member
    My husband is a pastor. Say no more. Say no more.

    My condolences.
  • ThePhoenixRose
    ThePhoenixRose Posts: 1,978 Member
    I encourage him to go. He gets all riled up and i reap the benefits. I don't care if he's thinking about Bubbles, his business is in me, not her.
  • cgrout78
    cgrout78 Posts: 1,628 Member
    Only when I don't get to go along :(
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member
    I wouldn't mind a bit, but,

    I've never dated the kind of men who go to strip clubs.

    I did, however, date a stripper for a little wihle.

    True story.

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    come to think of it, between my boyfriend and I, I am WAY more likely to go to a strip club anytime soon than he is.
  • _GingerSnap_
    _GingerSnap_ Posts: 339 Member
    I've been a couple of times with my husband and it's not a big deal. But i feel the same way, if you come home covered n glitter and shame don't even think about nakey time with me! Shower or not. :wink:
  • infamousmk
    infamousmk Posts: 6,033 Member
    I love for him to come home from the strip club and think about *whoever* he wants... as long as I'm reaping the rewards, I'm all about it.

    That being said, I'd much rather go along. Girls get away with a lot of *kitten* in strip clubs that men do not.
  • MacInCali
    MacInCali Posts: 1,012 Member
    I'm fairly certain that I enjoy them more than my husband does. LOL
  • Sugarchef
    Sugarchef Posts: 319 Member
    I like your policy on how he doesn't get you after drooling after other chicks. Why have him thinking about them when he's with you? Good point. Let him take care of himself!
  • ryall70
    ryall70 Posts: 519 Member
    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:
    Great answer :)
  • _snw_
    _snw_ Posts: 1,298 Member

    I've never dated the kind of men who go to strip clubs.


    please explain.
  • morgansmom02
    morgansmom02 Posts: 1,131 Member
    I don't mind! I am usually the one who suggests it! Not that we go all the time, maybe once every few years
  • MissO﹠A
    MissO﹠A Posts: 906 Member
    Our first date was at a strip club. :drinker:
  • _SusieQ_
    _SusieQ_ Posts: 2,964 Member
    Our first date was at a strip club. :drinker:

    As if I needed a reason to love you more...
  • kb455
    kb455 Posts: 679 Member
    I wouldn't care if he went to a strip club. Its no different than watching porn really. But, I live in a small town... the strippers around here all look like crazy crack *kitten*.
  • SimplyShanRunning
    SimplyShanRunning Posts: 885 Member
    Nope and I love to go with......Not sure who enjoys the lapdances more :wink:
  • Bentley2718
    Bentley2718 Posts: 1,689 Member
    I'm fairly certain that I enjoy them more than my husband does. LOL

    This. Except that he hates that I tend to critique their pole work. But then the boobies come back into view and I stop thinking about poles.
  • AmberJslimsAWAY
    AmberJslimsAWAY Posts: 2,339 Member
    My husband is a pastor. Say no more. Say no more.

    My condolences.

    :heart:
  • kali2785
    kali2785 Posts: 42 Member
    I'm fairly certain that I enjoy them more than my husband does. LOL

    This. Except that he hates that I tend to critique their pole work. But then the boobies come back into view and I stop thinking about poles.

    ^^^^^ HAHAHAHA, alllllll of this.. I'm not married but I've always enjoyed them more than my man did.
  • PapaverSomniferum
    PapaverSomniferum Posts: 2,670 Member

    I've never dated the kind of men who go to strip clubs.


    please explain.

    I'm attracted to shy, intellectual types. No guy I've ever dated has been "into" girlie shows. I've also never seen a man at the club that I would be interested in in any way. It's just my type.

    Most of the guys I date blush at the thought of porn. :ohwell:

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