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girls ... do you mind if your men go to strip clubs?

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Posts: 1,298 Member
edited December 2024 in Chit-Chat
i personally don't mind at all. One rule though - he doesn't get to come home and get ~me~. "Bubbles" doesn't get to be in his mind while he's with me (not that my awesome body wouldn't override that fact...)

but really - srip clubs, lap dances bother me not in the least. Unless, of course, he was blowing his paycheck everweek, then there would be a problem.

You? How do you feel about it?

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  • Posts: 641 Member
    I love to go with :)
  • Posts: 561 Member
    My man had never been to one, so I'm the one that took him!
  • Posts: 2,336 Member
    I could care less, as long as he takes me sometimes!
  • Posts: 1,167 Member
    Not that i have a man or anything at the moment but no it doesn't bother me at all.

    If he is spending every paycheck there it would become a problem but once and a while isn't a big deal.
  • Posts: 1,173 Member
    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:
  • Posts: 1,340 Member
    If a women can indulge in her fantasies (mental & emotional creatures) through romance novels, then a guy should be allowed to do the same (visual creatures), assuming it has no negative bearing on the marital aspects (cheating, spending too much money, touching the girls).
  • Posts: 62 Member
    It doesnt bother me at all. What bothers me is how expensive it is there lol
  • Posts: 1,340 Member
    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:

    Awesome answer!
  • Posts: 561 Member
    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:

    LOVE this!
  • My husband is a pastor. Say no more. Say no more.
  • Posts: 1,535 Member
    I don't care. He can take me and then we can both take out our frustration on each other.
  • Posts: 561 Member
    My husband is a pastor. Say no more. Say no more.

    My condolences.
  • Posts: 1,978 Member
    I encourage him to go. He gets all riled up and i reap the benefits. I don't care if he's thinking about Bubbles, his business is in me, not her.
  • Posts: 1,628 Member
    Only when I don't get to go along :(
  • Posts: 2,670 Member
    I wouldn't mind a bit, but,

    I've never dated the kind of men who go to strip clubs.

    I did, however, date a stripper for a little wihle.

    True story.

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    come to think of it, between my boyfriend and I, I am WAY more likely to go to a strip club anytime soon than he is.
  • Posts: 339 Member
    I've been a couple of times with my husband and it's not a big deal. But i feel the same way, if you come home covered n glitter and shame don't even think about nakey time with me! Shower or not. :wink:
  • Posts: 6,025 Member
    I love for him to come home from the strip club and think about *whoever* he wants... as long as I'm reaping the rewards, I'm all about it.

    That being said, I'd much rather go along. Girls get away with a lot of *kitten* in strip clubs that men do not.
  • Posts: 1,012 Member
    I'm fairly certain that I enjoy them more than my husband does. LOL
  • Posts: 319 Member
    I like your policy on how he doesn't get you after drooling after other chicks. Why have him thinking about them when he's with you? Good point. Let him take care of himself!
  • Posts: 519 Member
    I don't care where he gets his appetite, as long as he comes home for dinner :wink:
    Great answer :)
  • Posts: 1,298 Member

    I've never dated the kind of men who go to strip clubs.


    please explain.
  • Posts: 1,131 Member
    I don't mind! I am usually the one who suggests it! Not that we go all the time, maybe once every few years
  • Posts: 906 Member
    Our first date was at a strip club. :drinker:
  • Posts: 2,964 Member
    Our first date was at a strip club. :drinker:

    As if I needed a reason to love you more...
  • Posts: 679 Member
    I wouldn't care if he went to a strip club. Its no different than watching porn really. But, I live in a small town... the strippers around here all look like crazy crack *kitten*.
  • Posts: 884 Member
    Nope and I love to go with......Not sure who enjoys the lapdances more :wink:
  • Posts: 1,689 Member
    I'm fairly certain that I enjoy them more than my husband does. LOL

    This. Except that he hates that I tend to critique their pole work. But then the boobies come back into view and I stop thinking about poles.
  • Posts: 2,336 Member

    My condolences.

    :heart:
  • Posts: 42 Member

    This. Except that he hates that I tend to critique their pole work. But then the boobies come back into view and I stop thinking about poles.

    ^^^^^ HAHAHAHA, alllllll of this.. I'm not married but I've always enjoyed them more than my man did.
  • Posts: 2,670 Member


    please explain.

    I'm attracted to shy, intellectual types. No guy I've ever dated has been "into" girlie shows. I've also never seen a man at the club that I would be interested in in any way. It's just my type.

    Most of the guys I date blush at the thought of porn. :ohwell:
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