Ladies - Would you date someone who is divorced?
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Getting a divorce doesn't mean that there is anything wrong with you. It just means that as a couple you were not compatible. There could be underlying issues etc. My ex2be and I just never talked. When I did tell him my feelings he completely either blew them off or ignored me. I just stopped telling him because he was a douche. We have a good relationship..called..only talk when we need to. I have to be the grown up all the time with him.
The guy that I WAS dating and I think we are finally done once and for all. Was seperated but hasn't moved on. He kept going back and forth with his ex. She is a %^7^ and he knows it but because she plays the victim he gives in.0 -
No.
Because I date to get married, and I am not promising "till death" to someone who has already illustrated that marraige doesn't mean that.
I have to disagree, I was in love with my ex however he was in love with an underage employee and I have been told that her child was his, when I said something to him about it he beat the crap put of me. He also told me that he was thinking about just how the best way to kill me was. By your thinking I should have stayed with him or be happy never getting married again. My Fiancée and I are both very happy and I am very happy that he loves my son and I and has never treated me the way my ex did. I don't see why I should be "damaged goods" because I got out of an unsafe situation.0 -
why not? I'm divorced too so it doesn't really matter0
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I think this is an odd question. Divorced people aren't diseased or malformed because they had a marriage that was unsuccessful...
If a woman took the position that she would never date a divorced man, she would be missing out on some great men. Men who have wisdom, maturity, patience, understanding, and other desirable character traits.
Sure... not all divorced men have those qualities. But I sure do... :drinker:0 -
Yes.. but I'm divorced as well (no kids).
I do wonder if someone who's never been married starts dating me feels as though he's settling... maybe he'd prefer someone who's never been there. Almost like I prefer someone with no children because 1) I'm not sure if I want any just yet 2) because if I ever did want to have kids, I'd want to have them with 1 person only and he only have kids with me. That would be ideal although I'd make exceptions for a great guy.
So far most guys haven't said much about my divorce except for the fact that I didn't have kids (like it's a good thing- which it completly was).0 -
Of Course! I'm marrying a divorcee, and I've also been divorced myself. More of us out there than not I think.0
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Yes I sure would if I were single, my bf gave me a chance, I was divorced and had two kids when I met my bf, he has never been married or even had kids, so just because you have been divorced, it just means you and the ex just could not make it work for what ever reason,if every one thought like that there would be alot of single people, there are probably more divorced people out there than unmarried, If my bf thought like that we would have never had our daughter and have been happy for the past 3 years and talking about getting married.0
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Yeah. I am now. As long as the ex wife isnt some heinous B!tch, its all good!0
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huh?
I guess it depends on your situation
what am I missing...lol.I prefer to date someone with kids/divorced
My kids come first and the person I date needs to understand that0 -
Yes, I have been for almost 3 years.0
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I always said that I never would - especially if said divorcee was a dad. There is too much baggage and too much drama.
Then I met my soul mate. And now I deal with his ex-wife on an almost daily basis. I am a step- mom to TWO beautiful kids that I love like they were my own. If you really care for the person, their past doesn't matter. The past is what makes us who we are today - and I love him for the man that he is.0 -
I hope to never find out unless my hubby dies. Divorce makes me sad. :frown:0
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In my dating age range...it seems the only available men are Divorced men.
And I'm not interested in raising any more teenagers...
So yeah...I date divorced men.0 -
I would prefer not to because I have never been married, but if it were the right person, I'd say yes.0
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Yes - I would date someone that is divorced.
I think it is crazy to say "till death do us part" because you cannot hold someone in a bad marriage. If they want out, they will leave. Easy enough. Plus, people make mistakes. People change. Marriage is not as secure as it used to be. We have choices, options and more sexual freedoms.
Life happens. Get over it.0 -
divorced men are the best kept secrets0
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No.
Because I date to get married, and I am not promising "till death" to someone who has already illustrated that marraige doesn't mean that.
I'm starting to think this way also0 -
I married a man who was married before me and our relationship -- the time we've been together plus the time we've been married -- has lasted much longer than his previous marriage.0
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I'm divorced with two daughters so I would date someone who is divorced.0
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My BF used to be married. He was already seperated and going through the divorce before we met though. Love is Love, why should a previous marriage change it? right?0
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