girls ... do you mind if your men go to strip clubs?
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Why do people even bother with these posts? Those who are adamantly opposed have their reasons, and they are not going to change their minds no matter what. And those that are all for it are not going to change their minds either.
And somebody is going to say something mean about a stripper, and then somebody who actually is a stripper is gonna be all "Hey! I'm a good person working my way through college!" or whatever, and then somebody's gonna quote the Bible, then somebody's gonna be all "I'm an atheist, your Bible means nothing to me" and then somebody is gonna be told they're going to Hell and so on and so forth.
So how about everybody just go eat a cookie or something because your blood sugar is low, go for a jog to boost those endorphins, then go get it on with your partner, and have a good day.
You are my hero!!!!!!!!!0 -
Why do people even bother with these posts? Those who are adamantly opposed have their reasons, and they are not going to change their minds no matter what. And those that are all for it are not going to change their minds either.
I hope people don't stop answering these kinds of thread because watching "arguments" on the internet is super funny.And somebody is going to say something mean about a stripper, and then somebody who actually is a stripper is gonna be all "Hey! I'm a good person working my way through college!" or whatever, and then somebody's gonna quote the Bible, then somebody's gonna be all "I'm an atheist, your Bible means nothing to me" and then somebody is gonna be told they're going to Hell and so on and so forth.
and what kind of discussion doesn't turn to this? (and thank goodness they do, because again ... i enjoy to be entertained by it all.0 -
Why do people even bother with these posts? Those who are adamantly opposed have their reasons, and they are not going to change their minds no matter what. And those that are all for it are not going to change their minds either.
And somebody is going to say something mean about a stripper, and then somebody who actually is a stripper is gonna be all "Hey! I'm a good person working my way through college!" or whatever, and then somebody's gonna quote the Bible, then somebody's gonna be all "I'm an atheist, your Bible means nothing to me" and then somebody is gonna be told they're going to Hell and so on and so forth.
So how about everybody just go eat a cookie or something because your blood sugar is low, go for a jog to boost those endorphins, then go get it on with your partner, and have a good day.
Because your suggestion makes too much sense. And I am amongst the dumb, grasping at a chance to respond to an opposing view. But tonight because of stress or hunger, or something, I keep going.
Great post though, and true, but0 -
The way I see it, let him go. They can't do anything with the strippers anyway...
And he'll come home to me all hot and bothered, maybe even slightly inebriated...more fun for us!
Noooo!!! He should be hot for you in bed, not need a "stimulus package". You are a beautiful woman! Just own it and tell him0 -
i do, but mostly because i know he can check out a much finer piece of *kitten* at home... so theres no need to waste OUR hard earned cash :happy:
id also like to point out that my husband and i agree that he shouldnt be looking at anything he wouldnt want me to do. for instance, he shouldnt look at women taking off their clothes in front of a bunch of people unless he wouldnt care if i did it. to me, they lie on the same moral line. as for the appetite thing, my goods are the best and i know it, so i refuse to be the hubby's second choice...
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I'm curious as to why all the religious "crazies" feel the need to come into this thread and preach?
No need to harsh my mellow...
I have not seen any "religious crazies", quite the opposite. There have been a few references to religion, and this thread has more than 500 posts.0 -
We made a little vow that included the words "forsaking all others" and "love, HONOR, and respect". . .walking into that sort of establishment would certainly NOT be upholding his end of the deal.
So, yah. . .I'd have a big problem with it. '
My 2 cents.
"forsaking all others" - so that means you no longer speak to your family, you have no friends? If you want to get literal it means your spouse is the ONLY one in your life, that you don't just give up "lusting" after someone else but you give up every person in your life with the exception of him.
Why do you care so much if people don't like strip clubs or their significant other going to strip clubs? :ohwell:
Don't know about her, but I do not care if YOU or your WOMAN go to strip clubs alone or together. We would kick our azzes if we EVER did that, He or Me. Love that about us.0 -
I have a couple different points of view for this. I've been married for 3 years and with my husband for 8 years. If the guys were going out on a random night (totally not a typical thing) I don't think I would be furious about him going. I mean, I don't personally like strip clubs (I'm not judging the women there, more power to them for being able to be so exposed and confident). I think I would be upset, because for me, intentionally going to a strip club to receive some type of sexual gratification from another woman (mainly because it's so physical and the woman is literally right infront of you and the potential for any part of her touching my husband) I really do see that as a form of cheating. But if the guys randomly wanted to go, I would never want him to be the outsider of the guys so I would just suck it up for one night and say whatever to it. Now if it became a usual routine, I would ask, why is there a need to go, and then we might have issues.
I'm not against porn though. For me with my husband, the actual subject where he is receiving the gratification from isn't "real", meaning that it's not possible to touch them or they touch you, the person was shot on a video and who knows where they are or what they look like now.
Believe me, I am no prude when it comes to sex with my husband. We have plenty of it, at least 4-5 times a week, and I love experimenting with ideas, toys, and I love to dress up for him. I consider myself moderately adventerous with him and I go above and beyond to make him happy. Even with my views stated above, we have no issues what so ever in that department.
My BF and I do lots of things together too, but not strip clubs, even with me there. Even if I had not lost these 15lbs and toned up, he had better love it or leave it. And when I was 90 lbs heaver, same thing, dangummit.
I did not, and will not settle. I love to have sex with this man. But, the MOMENT he disrespects me in any way, shape or form, he is history. I know I AM history if I do the same. And this is called mutual respect and love.0 -
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I just thought I'd point out that from the looks of it, about 25% of them are yours...0 -
The way I see it, let him go. They can't do anything with the strippers anyway...
Strippers earn a few extra bucks doing some favors...not all, but a good amount. Also, if your husband is all hot and bothered there and meets another girl there who is the same, could be trouble. I work with this one guy at work who tells me all kinds of stories of how he goes there and cheats on his wife. He is a scum bag.0 -
the man I marry would not be in a place of temptation. I'm not prude, I understand that men have their needs, but my husband should come to me to have his needs met and same with/for me. If you lust in your heart, you have already committed adultery.
So the man you marry wouldn't be allowed to go the beach because the girls running around in skimpy bikini's showing off their assets might be tempting.
He wouldn't be able to walk down the street because there might be an extremely attractive girl in a short skirt that he might be tempted to look at.
There are a lot of situations outside of a strip club that could be considered tempting.0 -
the man I marry would not be in a place of temptation. I'm not prude, I understand that men have their needs, but my husband should come to me to have his needs met and same with/for me. If you lust in your heart, you have already committed adultery.
So the man you marry wouldn't be allowed to go the beach because the girls running around in skimpy bikini's showing off their assets might be tempting.
He wouldn't be able to walk down the street because there might be an extremely attractive girl in a short skirt that he might be tempted to look at.
There are a lot of situations outside of a strip club that could be considered tempting.
There is a complete difference between being in a public place like a beach where anyone including children can be, and SPECIFICALLY going to a place thats MEANT for men to be turned on by women taking their clothes off for them. At a beach, or any public place, you have no control over what you see, but men who go to strip clubs are going there purposely to get turned on by these women. They have a CHOICE. In my opinion, any married man or one in a committed relationship who goes to these clubs is cheating on their partner.0 -
and this thread has more than 500 posts.
I just thought I'd point out that from the looks of it, about 25% of them are yours...
Check your math.0 -
and this thread has more than 500 posts.
I just thought I'd point out that from the looks of it, about 25% of them are yours...
And I suppose your man is watching a naked woman right now. Smile! For the camera!! Catch the goods that have NOTHING to do with YOU!0 -
I don't mind at all. My husband and I have been to many stripclubs, together and apart. However I won't judge another person and their relationship. Do what is right for you. The idea of my husband going to a strip club and even getting his face rubbed in some booby really does not worry me. That's just me though, if it did worry me I would expect him to respect that and not go. I expect honesty from him and I've always gotten it. I trust him implicitly.
My main cocern these days is that I wonder the indirect damage I do by fostering an industry which doesn't seem very women friendly. My understanding is the OH&S and working conditions generally are pretty poor. That concerns me.0 -
Mutual respect and love takes all forms though. It is about coming to a mutual agreement about what is and isn't acceptable and putting that agreement and the health of your relationship above everything else. That may or may not include strip clubs, infedelity, swinging or whatever...I have a couple different points of view for this. I've been married for 3 years and with my husband for 8 years. If the guys were going out on a random night (totally not a typical thing) I don't think I would be furious about him going. I mean, I don't personally like strip clubs (I'm not judging the women there, more power to them for being able to be so exposed and confident). I think I would be upset, because for me, intentionally going to a strip club to receive some type of sexual gratification from another woman (mainly because it's so physical and the woman is literally right infront of you and the potential for any part of her touching my husband) I really do see that as a form of cheating. But if the guys randomly wanted to go, I would never want him to be the outsider of the guys so I would just suck it up for one night and say whatever to it. Now if it became a usual routine, I would ask, why is there a need to go, and then we might have issues.
I'm not against porn though. For me with my husband, the actual subject where he is receiving the gratification from isn't "real", meaning that it's not possible to touch them or they touch you, the person was shot on a video and who knows where they are or what they look like now.
Believe me, I am no prude when it comes to sex with my husband. We have plenty of it, at least 4-5 times a week, and I love experimenting with ideas, toys, and I love to dress up for him. I consider myself moderately adventerous with him and I go above and beyond to make him happy. Even with my views stated above, we have no issues what so ever in that department.
My BF and I do lots of things together too, but not strip clubs, even with me there. Even if I had not lost these 15lbs and toned up, he had better love it or leave it. And when I was 90 lbs heaver, same thing, dangummit.
I did not, and will not settle. I love to have sex with this man. But, the MOMENT he disrespects me in any way, shape or form, he is history. I know I AM history if I do the same. And this is called mutual respect and love.0 -
you're such a classy guy!0
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Ive gone to two strip clubs and could honestly say I dont care for them. I just felt trashy going to them and it does nothing for me. Watching a girl cook in the kitchen is much sexier than throwing dirty rolled up dollar bills at her snatch. I like women with class.
Edited by Fieldsy on Wed 04/11/12 02:55 PM
I will also add this is how I felt whether I was single or involved with someone...
you're such a classy guy!0 -
that is true, there is a difference between going to the beach and girls getting money thrown at them. But most that go to the strip club go with the intention of having sex with some female. I SAID MOST MEN, NOT ALL MEN!0
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I guess no one cares about my "men do do you mind if your woman goes to strip clubs" thread. We had a few responses, but not 700, I'll tell you that!!!
Why didn't the men say "YES!!! I want to go too!! ???" Just curious, it's just naked men swinging their junk in front of your women. Yes????0 -
Ive gone to two strip clubs and could honestly say I dont care for them. I just felt trashy going to them and it does nothing for me. Watching a girl cook in the kitchen is much sexier than throwing dirty rolled up dollar bills at her snatch. I like women with class.
Edited by Fieldsy on Wed 04/11/12 02:55 PM
I will also add this is how I felt whether I was single or involved with someone...
you're such a classy guy!
thanks, just how I feel.0 -
I have my own pole & there's nothing like home service with a happy ending lol! He goes to the strip clubs with his friends sometimes. As long as he's not spending our money we need for bills, I don't care as much. We have yet to go together. Can't wait to watch him get that lap dance.0
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When I was in MA school, my instructor told us a story about a patient who went to a strip club. She had a front row seat, and the stripper's g-string landed right on her face. If that isn't gross enough, she contracted gonorrhea in her eye. I'll pass.I guess no one cares about my "men do do you mind if your woman goes to strip clubs" thread. We had a few responses, but not 700, I'll tell you that!!!
Why didn't the men say "YES!!! I want to go too!! ???" Just curious, it's just naked men swinging their junk in front of your women. Yes????0 -
^^"One in a million Shot Doc! One in a Million!"0
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personally I believe in a dont ask, dont tell.....i want to go, she deosnt want to know and I would never want to go with her.0
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Yeah the one time I went I seen someones face inside the strippers a-hole
This was at a "classy" club too. If you have money, those girls do the do.0 -
Yeah the one time I went I seen someones face inside the strippers a-hole
This was at a "classy" club too. If you have money, those girls do the do.
Wow. She must have a very loose butt hole for someone to put their entire face in there.0 -
Nope. But to be honest people exaggerate the amount of guys who go to them regularly. I date a lot and only a small percentage of those men have gone to them. Of that small amout, only 1 liked to go regularly.
But yeah, doesn't bother me in the least. He can go with me or with his buddies; doesn't matter to me.0 -
Yes, I would mind!!!
Really. What is the purpose of going for these men? Duh, do you like him getting, ahem, aroused looking at other women? May I suggest "Learn to dance at home" ;-)0 -
He can only go if I can come too!!!0
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