SEXUAL PREFERENCES SINCE LOSING WEIGHT?

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  • mon696
    mon696 Posts: 64 Member
    I think I've kept the same basic likes and dislikes but like you said, it's really strange to be smaller than my S.O. I guess the only change then is that I want a guy that is bigger than me, before that would have been REALLY hard to find.
  • SmartAlec03211988
    SmartAlec03211988 Posts: 1,896 Member
    My preferences haven't changed, but I don't 'settle for less' anymore. I felt inadequate next to more fit and healthy men who clearly thought I was worth a shot, and rejected them because I didn't feel, as a fat and unhealthy person, I deserved them.
  • thebaconbeast
    thebaconbeast Posts: 560 Member
    I liked long legs before; I still like them now.
  • mrmarius
    mrmarius Posts: 1,802 Member
    I've always liked my women thick and curvy, but now I have a great apprecation for toned athletic women
  • Shelbert79
    Shelbert79 Posts: 510 Member
    I am and have always been equal opportunity :wink:
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    Since losing weight, I cannot get enough Dungeons & Dragons.

    ooo ooo do you wear chain mail or full plate?
  • Jules2Be
    Jules2Be Posts: 2,238 Member
    oops
  • VorJoshigan
    VorJoshigan Posts: 1,106 Member
    Before this whole life change, I thought nobody decent would ever want me.

    This, even though I'm still on my journey.
  • GasMasterFlash
    GasMasterFlash Posts: 2,206 Member
    Since losing weight, I cannot get enough Dungeons & Dragons.
    ooo ooo do you wear chain mail or full plate?
    I am a rogue halfling. My scout troop and I play for hours in the basement. Granted, it does take away from intimate time with my wife, but she understands the outlet that playing D&D with the scouts provides. She passes the time chatting on the phone with her friend the whole time anyway.
  • GabrielleZelda
    GabrielleZelda Posts: 190 Member
    How funny! When I was much heavier I went for tall and skinny, just like you. Now I prefer men with some meat on their bones... Love the broad shoulders and nice big arms :). Never cared about the six pack but it is nice. Something about a little belly is sorta sexy though
  • mikeyboy
    mikeyboy Posts: 1,057 Member
    I like women who have no morals... that will never change!
  • softballsharie
    softballsharie Posts: 154 Member
    I love a guy that can wrap around me and I can feel completely enclosed in his arms. That is my preference. So... I suppose he has to be taller and larger than me, so I don't think my preferences have changed, but now that I'm a size 4 instead of a size 12, I guess the range of men that can enclose me in their arms has broadened. haha :]

    The tall, dark, and handsome type will always be my type. (See profile picture for perfect example)
  • Beastette
    Beastette Posts: 1,497 Member
    Since I've joined MFP, I see some ladies tonight that should be havin' mah baby...baby.

    Is that what you mean? If not, can't lose with a B.I.G. quote.
  • mudar146
    mudar146 Posts: 146 Member
    I've always been attracted to guys that are tall, strong and scruffy (all of my past boyfriends/crushes have been bigger than me)... that hasn't changed as my husband is still all of those things lol but know we are working on getting healthier together and we're changing together which I like <3
  • deniseearheart
    deniseearheart Posts: 919 Member
    Maybe it's bad to say but...... I married a handsome guy who had dark hair brown eyes and was nice and tall and VERY charming.... Sooo many women were interested in him and eventually he started cheating on me until it got to the point he had cheated with so many women I gave up on the relationship and left him.... Now I tend to go for less handsome men...
  • Dawna954
    Dawna954 Posts: 183 Member
    I loved my man before I started this journey and I love him even more now for supporting me along the way.
    We are connected on every level fat or thin...... Very happy he chose me!
  • DeepAsAPlate
    DeepAsAPlate Posts: 121 Member
    For some reason, I now prefer men with deep, throaty mating calls. Before, it was all about the dance. Don't get me wrong, I like a man who can dance. But a deep warble? HOTT.

    (Yeah. I don't even know, either.)
  • Funsoaps
    Funsoaps Posts: 514 Member
    I like taller men, usually slender and fit with muscletone. My husband is that, maybe getting a little too much on the thin side, though and hoping he'll do an Insanity workout for a couple months. I'd love to see his results.
  • feltlikesound
    feltlikesound Posts: 326 Member
    Personally, no, but my wife often (jokingly) warns me not to lose too much weight because she will miss my generous curves. It's funny to think of what I saw as "fat" and unattractive, my partner absolutely loves. Luckily I keep my hourglass when I lose, it just becomes a smaller size -- same proportions.
  • ckerrcanchaser
    ckerrcanchaser Posts: 34
    It hasn't changed yet, I still prefer the mountain men type :bigsmile: Or if they look like Thor :wink:

    Mmmmmmm, Thor lol.
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    I love women who are confident in themselves and feel comfortable with their figure

    swoon!!!!!
  • mikeyboy
    mikeyboy Posts: 1,057 Member
    Maybe it's bad to say but...... I married a handsome guy who had dark hair brown eyes and was nice and tall and VERY charming.... Sooo many women were interested in him and eventually he started cheating on me until it got to the point he had cheated with so many women I gave up on the relationship and left him.... Now I tend to go for less handsome men...

    Maybe you should go for old. fat, and ugly!! So.... how you doin'??? :laugh: :laugh:
  • Sarah_Wins
    Sarah_Wins Posts: 936 Member
    I've always loved muscular men, and that hasn't changed. However, now I could never date someon that's not committed to fitness on some level, whether he's cut or not.
  • scs143
    scs143 Posts: 2,190 Member
    I am married so I am generally trying not to date. But, I do notice that I notice or am drawn to different men than when I was heavier. It's definitely a different type.
  • Audrey403
    Audrey403 Posts: 50 Member
    I liked women before and I still like women.

    I wish there was a "like" button.
  • Lift_This_
    Lift_This_ Posts: 2,756 Member
    have always been an equal opprotunity dater when it comes to men....tall, short, fit, a lil pudge...i don't discriminate!!!
  • swedishwillow
    swedishwillow Posts: 88 Member
    yeup love that if they look like THOR - Im all for it
  • gwduker
    gwduker Posts: 293
    Still want sex, still not getting any!! Nothings changed...... so far.....:laugh:
  • amazing_shrinking_woman
    amazing_shrinking_woman Posts: 66 Member
    bump
  • Namaste1983
    Namaste1983 Posts: 603 Member
    For some reason, I now prefer men with deep, throaty mating calls. Before, it was all about the dance. Don't get me wrong, I like a man who can dance. But a deep warble? HOTT.

    (Yeah. I don't even know, either.)

    I'VE ALWAYS BEEN A SUCKER FOR THAT WHOLE PUSH UPS AGAINST A TREE MOVE THEY DO.... THE THROAT BLOAT TO ATTRACT MY ATTENTION? WELL PLAYED FROG.... WELL PLAYED ;)

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