SEXUAL PREFERENCES SINCE LOSING WEIGHT?

BUTT SEX

LMFAO! Holy *kitten* I think I just peed on myself! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

It's all about the women having confidence.. Its always been a preference of mine.

I have to agree...confidence is the most SEXY thing a man (or woman) can have. There is just something about a man who is confident in himself without being cocky. He doesnt need to be because he knows he has what it takes.

your profile pic is amazing total transformation! you look incredible!

I AM ACTUALLY GOING TO POST A TOPIC BECAUSE I HAVEN'T SEEN IT YET. (AND YES, I KNOW MY POST IS IN CAPS)

SINCE LOSING WEIGHT HAVE YOU NOTICED A CHANGE IN YOUR PREFERENCE FOR MATES?

WHEN I WAS 400+ I LIKED MY BOYS TALL AND SKINNY.
NOW AT MY CURRENT WEIGHT I LIKE THEM IN LOTS OF SHAPES AND SIZES
A LITTLE TUMMY IS CUTE, LOVE A BOY WHO IS BULKING, AND WHO DOESN'T APPRECIATE A RUNNERS BODY?
IT'S ALSO WEIRD TO BE SMALLER THAN A GUY BUT I REALLY LOVE IT NOW.

ANYONE ELSE NOTICE THIS?

LETS KEEP THIS THREAD NICE

I have not lost any real weight like the rest of you. However, Smaller men have always been attracted to me. I have always dated athletic men. I guess when I lose all this weight I will have to return to see if I will change.

Everyone always says this but I don't have a "body type" type. It's really about the personality, make me laugh and I'm in lol.

Looks wise well, there was this one guy on my running trail the other day, OMG yum he was not small, not super muscly but pretty cut. I swooned

BUTT SEX

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I always tended to go with short and chubby guys (I'm 5'10").

As I got fit, I guess I did change to preferring men who at least take care of their bodies, whether they're in perfect shape or not.

I had my first ever really tall guy (6'2") recently and I think I might be ruined for short men now.
Height really does help with some things. Plus, he was quite fit, which meant plenty of strength and endurance (major points awarded for both).

I always have had a thing for a nice *kitten*, chest hair, dark hair, and facial scruff, though - that hasn't changed and likely never will.

As a tall guy I hear this so much! I am 6'4" and used to date women that were around 5'2" then a few years ago I dated a lady that was 5'10" and I got spoiled for life! Since then I've dated a bunch of ladies who because they can't find a man tall enough just settle for someone shorter...then they date me and say they will never date anyone shorter!

And to think I used to be self-concious about my height!

Really, of all the things to be self conscious about! Tall dark and handsome, it's a phrase, man, look it up! Me, I've always liked tall guys, to the point where I sometimes look ridiculous going out with them (I'm under 5'5!) and wonder if people ask themselves if the guy is out with his baby sister!

no. ive always liked fit guys but i guess now i feel like the more fit and toned and muscular a guy is the more attracted i am to him. Taking care of my body is my number one priority now so i feel like id need someone who has that same mentality.

Just kidding. But yea...I liked women with hair and teeth before and I still like women with hair and teeth!

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I find I still like the ones that show up.

My choice in women has always been based on their level of confidence. I have dated all shapes, colors and sizes. Dated a girl with health issues, one with skin issues, and one missing her legs. As long as the female does not spend all day or most of her life complaining about herself or self hating, then I am good to go.

This is interesting. No my preferences haven't changed but then I haven't ever lost (or gained) a ton of weight. I still love my man he's ridiculously hot. By that I mean in shape, great hair, the most perfect light brown skin, fantastic sense of humor, and infinitely hug-able. He's only a few inches taller than me and I really love that about him too. I don't generally feel attracted to tall guys because I'm not into hugging someone's waist--that just seems like a bad fit to me (I'm 5'4"). He's seriously the perfect man physically, but I still think I like his mind best because he's also a genius (seriously he is and I find our intellectual back and forth irresistible). So yeah it hasn't changed that's been my preference for 15 years =him.

My libido has always been high, but I act more on it now that I feel better about the way that I look naked. I have never really had a type but usually go for someone the same height (I'm 5'8") or taller, but always felt insecure about the fact that we weighed the same or not far from it. I am SOOOO happy with my boyfriend now and he constantly tells me I'm wasting away and he has been with me since I had only lost 30 lbs and now I'm down 80. I constantly tell him, "I don't know what you saw in me 50 lbs ago" His reply, "the weight didn't change who you are". Awwwwww, I know, too cute, he is the best. He makes me feel better than anyone I have ever been with 6'3", 250 lbs, built, dark hair, scruffy beard, and year round tan skin. Not at anything like anyone else I have ever been with and I am liking that choice

i have always been attracted to all shapes and sizes of men. the only thing that has changed since i have started working on my fitness is that i want my partner to work on his too. i would really like for us both to be fit and sexy.

I agree... but for me, I've always wanted my husband to care about his appearance a little more. Scruffy is fine, but he sometimes he's too comfortable in his own skin. His insecurity with my new image helped in this department. And since we are married, it is nice that he's started coming to the gym and I can check him out instead of nameless strangers...

...not that I mind doing that too... gotta keep yourself motivated at the gym, right? As far as prefrences, muscles have always been attractive, but a paunchy guy who is trying is attractive too. I was always more of a Doug Penhall played by Peter DeLuise kinda girl (21 Jump Street) versus Tom Hanson played by Johnny Depp. And any person who is confident and friendly is hot in my book!

Thanks for the interesting topic

I still prefer women. Just how much weight will I have to lose to prefer men?

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My sexual preferences? I still LOVE women...and ONLY women.