Ladies, would you date someone shorter than you?

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  • redwan2001
    redwan2001 Posts: 286 Member
    I would there is nothing more sexy then a confident man, I am 5'6 height has never been a issue, there are probably other great qualities that he has that over powers all that.
  • Kellylovesricky
    Kellylovesricky Posts: 47 Member
    I'm almost 5'9 and my husband is 5'6. Never bothered me, he hates when I wear heels though lol!
  • kymillion
    kymillion Posts: 791 Member
    I am into awesome people. I am 5'6" .. I have dated people that were 6'4" that carried themselves short and 5'9" and he was king **** where ever he walked.. and I loved it ... I felt equal in size to the tall guy and felt safe and secure by the "shorter one"..

    If you are all man .. I think that's all that matters..
  • cschu544
    cschu544 Posts: 320 Member
    Nope, never. Sorry :(
  • PunkyRachel
    PunkyRachel Posts: 1,959 Member
    Yes! I like short men, actually. I am 5'5 and my husband is 5'4. If I wear heels I tower over him, but he thinks its "hot" and "sexy" when I do wear heels. So it doesn't bother me at all. Oh, and Seth green is one of my celebrity crushes, so yea...he's short and I love him to pieces.
  • Connie_Cupcake
    Connie_Cupcake Posts: 62
    I am not really into short guys, BUT I met my now husband online (so I didn't know how tall he was), but when we met in person, he was so incredible that the height isn't even an issue! Unless I want to wear heels. I feel like an amazon woman when I am with him in heels, so flats it is! :)
  • csummer8882
    csummer8882 Posts: 34 Member
    Since I am barely 5 feet tall....um...no I would not date someone shorter than me. LOL
  • stupidloser
    stupidloser Posts: 300 Member
    I've seen short guy/tall girl couples. It looks a bit funny to me but I also see their reasoning. The world is not perfect and why deprive yourself of happiness in pursuit of something that does not exist, which is perfection.
  • small_ninja
    small_ninja Posts: 365 Member
    No, I probably wouldn't date someone shorter than me, but I'm 5'0"; it'd be pretty hard to find a man that's shorter than me :tongue:
  • KRFinLeth
    KRFinLeth Posts: 22
    Absolutely.
  • Tashmayes
    Tashmayes Posts: 244 Member
    My hubby is two inches shorter then me and I wouldn't change him for the world!
  • gumigal82
    gumigal82 Posts: 350
    Are you attracted to women taller than you?

    ETA: And no, I don't typically go for shorter guys, but I wouldn't rule it out completely.

    this...but it would be very very tough for a guy to be shorter than my 5'2 self! ;) even so, I tend to only be attracted to taller men. But if a shorter guy had an awesome personality, and I was attracted to him...well, who cares!
  • Celeigh12
    Celeigh12 Posts: 763 Member
    6 foot here - if the perfect man for me happened to be shorter than I am (which is entirely possible considering my height), I wouldn't mind.
  • sweetbaker77
    sweetbaker77 Posts: 28 Member
    That would be scary since I'm about 5' 0"
  • annabellj
    annabellj Posts: 1,337 Member
    My husband is same height as me, 5 8, he loves when I wear heels! we have been married 21 yrs august and all the guys I dated that were really tall before him were tools. height has nothing to do with it, if your an *kitten*, your an *kitten*.
  • HealthierAndFitterMe
    HealthierAndFitterMe Posts: 52 Member
    i'm 5'10 . so i usually date someone taller . same height as me , or a bit , bit shorter .
  • ShannRenae
    ShannRenae Posts: 54
    Ok, so my height has worked against me on several occasions. I never pursue a woman taller than 5'6" because of my height. I assume shorter guys are not on their radar, plus short girls make me feel taller.

    So i ask, am I wrong to assume that, would you date someone shorter than you?

    Ur assumption maybe correct....Im 5,7 & I just can't date a person shorter than me...I need sum1 thats at least 6ft or ova....when I put on 5 in heels I am 6ft myself
  • indescribablesin
    indescribablesin Posts: 57
    I'd like to answer 'yes I would,' but honestly the concept of a guy shorter than me when I'm not even five feet tall is so outrageous that I can't even imagine it.
  • cloud2011
    cloud2011 Posts: 898 Member
    If I were single, I would definitely date someone my height (5'7") or a little shorter.
  • shirayne
    shirayne Posts: 263 Member
    I am right now. I'm 5'4 he's 5'1... :)
  • robot_potato
    robot_potato Posts: 1,535 Member
    I am 5'7", my husband is 5'4.5". When people ask i just say he's big where it counts ;)
  • crisanderson27
    crisanderson27 Posts: 5,343 Member
    Ok, so my height has worked against me on several occasions. I never pursue a woman taller than 5'6" because of my height. I assume shorter guys are not on their radar, plus short girls make me feel taller.

    So i ask, am I wrong to assume that, would you date someone shorter than you?

    I'm with this guy. I'm only 5'7"...and my glass ceiling seems to be 5'5" lol.
  • Skinny_Bella
    Skinny_Bella Posts: 43 Member
    I'm 5'3(maybe 5'4? Haven't been measured in YEARS), so I am pretty short. But I'd have to say, I don't think I could date a guy shorter than 5'9. I do like my men on the taller side...
  • TriThreat
    TriThreat Posts: 313
    Ok, so my height has worked against me on several occasions. I never pursue a woman taller than 5'6" because of my height. I assume shorter guys are not on their radar, plus short girls make me feel taller.

    So i ask, am I wrong to assume that, would you date someone shorter than you?

    It completely depends on the man/woman. I've dated guys that were shorter than I am (and I am 6' tall btw) and it never bothered me as long as I knew THEY weren't bothered by it. I actually found their confidence quite attractive Lol the fact that they weren't afraid to pursue me got them points. but I've dated taller men too because some guys who were shorter than I am wouldn't go out with me because THEY didn't like the height difference.
  • auntiebabs
    auntiebabs Posts: 1,754 Member
    I have dated shorter men. Once I dated a guy and didn't notice he was short than me until he got distressed one night when I accidentally wore heels.
  • bonjourdiva
    bonjourdiva Posts: 26
    At 4'11" everyone is taller than me. LOL. My husband is 6'0" and I love that.
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  • jackiechafe
    jackiechafe Posts: 18 Member
    It really depends on the guy. I'm pretty short as is (5'4") but if it's the right guy then it's fine. All have my boyfriends have been about the same height as me and I don't mind.

    I have a friend who is 5'11" and won't date anyone shorter than her. She feels awkward leaning down to kiss a guy.

    It's really just preference I believe.
  • Silverkittycat
    Silverkittycat Posts: 1,997 Member
    Probably not, but I'm barely 5'2. As the friend of the above poster said, I would feel awkward leaning down to kiss a guy. Leaning down to place my head on his shoulder or chest, same thing.

    I know it's shallow, but even a few inches looks odd to me. There's only a 6" difference here but I just couldn't do it -

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  • sophia5_k
    sophia5_k Posts: 20 Member
    Honeslty no....I'm 5'8 and I don't want short children. Plus if I wear heels I will look like a giant next to a short man.
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